If you’ve been single for some time, you are probably familiar with all of those questions about your single status and people pushing you to start dating again because “no one should be alone”. But, these people don’t understand that being alone doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re lonely or that you should be.
Sadly, there are thousands of toxic relationships in which people pretend to be happy with their partners and for some reason are not able to move on. The most frequent reason is being afraid of being alone.
But, being alone is better than being in a relationship with just anyone. Being alone is better than being in a relationship with someone whose heart doesn’t match yours. Being alone is actually beautiful!
Here’s the thing with love. When you love someone with all of your body and heart, no one can guarantee you that they will love you back. The amount of your love for another human being is always at risk of not being reciprocated, and not matter what you did and how hard you pushed, you will never succeed in making them fall in love with you if their heart doesn’t match yours.
Ignoring their unwillingness to answer your calls or text you back, ignoring their unwillingness to be there for you when you need them and to reciprocate means directing yourself toward self-destruction and wasting your precious time.
Choosing anyone’s heart just because of loneliness means choosing unhappiness only because you’re afraid to wait for the one who will be right for you.
You shouldn’t be afraid of being alone. You shouldn’t be afraid of waiting for love because love is the most powerful force in the universe. It can lift your spirits up within seconds and change the way your heart beats into a more beautiful rhythm.
Love will heal your spirit and bring a smile to your face. It will not make you wait or force you to dance to its tunes. Love will not play games with you, and that is how you know that it is real. But, to experience ultimate love, there is one thing required of you, and that is patience.
If you’ve been patient, love will come to you, and you will recognize its shape and spirit. Your heart and soul will finally be reciprocated with the amount of love that you’ve been giving all this time and barely receiving anything in return.
Being alone is better than giving your pure love to someone who is not worthy of it.
It is better to be alone than to force your heart to give its pure love to just anyone. Your heart is fragile and sensitive, and if you keep giving love to those who doesn’t deserve it, you heart will become tired and worn out.
If you keep waiting for your heart to be reciprocated by those who are not capable of it, you will just waste your time and prolong the period of uniting with the real one. That is why being alone is better than being willing to do anything for a fake love.
Being alone is better than being in a mediocre love with someone whose heart doesn’t match yours.
Love is moving. Love is uplifting. Love is inspiring. It is anything but mediocre or selfish. And being alone is better than being in a one-sided relationship with someone who is incapable of loving you the way you deserve.
You shouldn’t settle for just anything, and you shouldn’t be afraid of waiting on what you really deserve. You don’t deserve tears, a broken heart or selfishness, and that is why it is better to be alone and in a genuine relationship with yourself than with someone whose heart is incapable of treating you the way you deserve.
Being alone doesn’t mean being unhappy. Being unhappy means being with someone you weren’t meant to be with and ignoring all of the red flags which show you that you are not in a relationship which is right for you. Being alone means celebrating and enjoying your time until you find the right one.
And when you do, you will realize the true power of love. You will feel blessed, and you will have the strength to do just anything. Everything will start making sense to you, and you will be grateful for choosing to wait for it to find you.
You will be grateful for every second spent alone because it is better to be single and love yourself than be in a relationship with someone who loves only themself. When you realize that you’ve found the heart that matches yours, you will be free and not trapped next to your cell phone waiting for their call!
Instead of counting how many times you said something bad to each other, you will count how many times you did something nice for each other. The heart that matches yours will always be there for you and with you. It will love you unconditionally and selflessly, and all you need to do is just wait.