No girl wants her guy to make a fool out of her but, unfortunately, that is something that happens pretty often nowadays.
Some guys do it just because they are bored and others do it because it is written in their DNA and because they are real fuckboys. So, how to see if your man really loves you and respects you or if he is making a fool out of you?
No worries because there are some things that prove that they are mistreating you and here they are.
1. He doesn’t want to put a label on your relationship
A guy like this will probably tell you that he doesn’t feel like dating but he thinks you are an amazing lady and that he wants to see where things will go. Don’t think that you can change his mind.
He has already made a decision to screw over every girl he goes on a date with and he doesn’t want anything more than casual sex. So, the sooner you leave him, the better it will be for you.
2. He says he will invite you to go out but he never does
He is always telling you that he really likes your texts and that he can’t wait to go on a real date with you.
Don’t trust him, especially if he only texts you between 2 and 5 a.m. as this is a big, red flag that you are just a booty call for him and that he wants to get some pleasure and then leave.
He will use you in this way as far as he can and he will never respect you as a woman.
3. He says that he is suffering after a break-up
All (and I mean all) girls fall for vulnerable guys. They somehow feel the need to help them cope with the pain that is inside them and in that way to help them feel better.
That’s why your guy will tell you that he is in pain and that he wants to take it slow. And the second you get near him to comfort him, he will tear your clothes off you and have wild sex on the kitchen counter.
Suffering, my ass!
4. The two of you somehow always end up at your place
Why do you think this happens? I will tell you—he doesn’t want to meet you in public places because if he did, he would be risking that another girl could see him with you and she won’t want to be his booty call anymore.
He knows that he would be risking too much and that meeting you at your place or his place is the best option.
5. He says he is sorry but continues hurting you
With a guy like this, you will cry a lot. You will have the constant feeling that you are missing out on something but you don’t know what that is.
You are probably suffering because of a lack of love and, my dear, he is not the type of a man who can provide you with the love you crave so much.
So, give him a one-way ticket and be happy because you saved yourself from a man like this.
6. He is convincing you that he didn’t check out that hot waitress
Yeah, my ass. Guys will always check out a good-looking woman, no matter how much they are in love.
It is simply something in their genes that makes them do that. So if you catch your man doing it in front of you, not even thinking what you might think about it, it is a sign he is making a fool out of you.
So, in the end it is up to you if you will close your eyes to that or if you will dump him.
7. He never plans anything for you
If you are the only one making plans for both of you, it is a sign that he doesn’t respect you and that he doesn’t care about your feelings.
It seems that you are the only one trying and that he just wants to get what he wants and get the hell out of your life.
So, if you cherish yourself and if you want to have a bright future, you need to get rid of him.