Wondering how to be a freak in the sheets and drive your man wild? Today you’ll learn the art of freakiness that will make you a true goddess in his eyes, so stay tuned.
When you hear the word “freak,” what’s the first thing that goes through your head?
I bet nothing boring crosses your mind – you don’t wonder how to become a neat freak or think about Superfreakonomics, an award-winning podcast, and a new book co-authored by Stephen Dubner and Steven Levitt, a University of Chicago professor.
As a matter of fact, the thing you connect the word “freak” with is always sex, right?
So, what does it mean to be a freak in the sheets? Do guys like a girl who’s a little freaky when it comes to the bedroom or are they intimidated by this type of woman? How to be a freak in bed as a woman?
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What Does It Mean To Be Freaky Sexually?
Being freaky sexually means feeling free to express yourself and experiment in the bedroom (even if others perceive your choices as unconventional).
If we look back at the past, we can notice a big change regarding women and their sexuality.
You see, before, a girl was expected to mostly “obey” her man’s preferences in bed and any kind of misbehavior or contradiction was considered inappropriate.
A woman who wanted to find her pleasure in sex had to figure out how to “manipulate” her husband and find a subtle way to satisfy her desires without saying them out loud.
Back then, women didn’t have that much of a choice when it came to spicing up their sex life and introducing some new things to their partner, but today, the situation has radically changed!
In these modern times, the roles have drastically switched and women are actually encouraged to show their wild side because being a freak in the sheets is definitely the new HOT!
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Do Guys Like A Freak In The Sheets?
Men simply love seeing you being in control and an incredible freak in bed! Also, they love bragging to their friends about what a hot, inspiring, and confident woman you are.
Men want “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets”.
Yup, believe it or not, they’re simply mesmerized by your freak side, so you shouldn’t wait for a second longer to show your full potential and drive him wild!
Now you’re probably wondering how to be a freak for your man and how to think like a freak.
Don’t worry, that’s why I’m here today – to teach you the charms of being an ultimate freak in the sheets that will drive your guy crazy!
The only thing you need to do is relax and try to remember as many as you can of the following tips below. So, let’s get started!
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How To Be A Freak In The Sheets And Drive Him Wild
Be confident
When it comes to making your sex more exciting, the first question that comes to mind is: How to not freak out while trying out something new?
Well, let me tell you that confidence is the main key!
It doesn’t matter if you’re doing something for the first time, you always have to be confident and comfortable with everything you say and do, without the fear of being seen as a weirdo.
The truth is that a man loves being able to understand his woman, so make sure you always tell him what you want and how you want it.
He wants to know that he can bring you the ultimate satisfaction in all the freaky ways possible, so be honest with what you need in order for him to know how to please you.
If you want him to touch you in the weirdest of places, don’t be ashamed to tell him so. A guy wants to see that you have no shame or hangups about sexual experience and experimenting.
Your man will be thrilled to see your wild soul because that’s something that makes you different from the rest.
Never be ashamed of your strange wishes and desires or wanting to do things your own way – that’s exactly what he expects from you.
Trust me, for guys, there’s nothing hotter than seeing their woman enjoying every single second of it, and seeing that you know what you want and are not ashamed to ask for it!
Take control
Most men love it when women initiate sex, suggest new ideas, and start doing things in their own way.
However, if your partner is different, help him learn how to relax and accept new ideas instead of solely relying on those that are outdated or old-fashioned.
How to be a freak in bed for your man?
For the first time taking charge, you can start out with a simple, sexy text or sexy things to say to your boyfriend in the middle of his workday to get him started. Show him that you have the ability to think like a freak, even if that’s the last thing he might be expecting:
“Thinking about what I’m going to do to you tonight…”
“I love getting on my knees for you.”
“I can’t wait to have you inside me.”
A freaky text similar to these will immediately set him on fire. He’ll be unable to think of anything other than you for the rest of the day. The more detailed the texts, the better.
You see, men love to imagine things, so make sure you describe exactly what you want to do to him and what you’ll be wearing. (Trust me, he won’t be able to focus on anything else and your love life will reach its pinnacle.)
Suggest new, kinky ideas
If you’re wondering how to be a freak in the sheets for your boyfriend, one of the first things you have to do is let your imagination go wild.
Whether you’re aware of it or not, the truth is that most men are incredible freaks and won’t perceive you as a weirdo, no matter how crazy your suggested new sex position may sound to you.
Take the initiative and propose new ideas. Try out new sex positions or bring some sex toys into the bedroom.
The key is to change your mindset before making any moves. Think like a freak and realize that nothing is too unusual or weird.
After all, you’re not in high school anymore and there’s no need for you to be ashamed of your own sexuality.
Men don’t always like being the ones in control; sometimes they enjoy when their lover takes over so they don’t have to think about it.
Here are a few things you can do to drive him wild:
- You can try out the power of the blindfold.
- Tease him with some hot and cold sensations like an ice cube, warm chocolate, champagne, or whatever suits you! (These will make your foreplay ten times more intense.)
- You can also show him what a freak in the sheets you are by playing a game of dirty ‘Would you rather’ questions and answers, where you punish him or reward him in accordance with his answer.
- Become the BDSM queen. Experiment with handcuffs, bondage, your nails, whips, and whatever else comes to mind.
- There’s nothing wrong with even introducing food in your sex life (sometimes it’s enough to eat ice cream, cucumber, or hot dog in front of your partner in a seductive way to turn him on).
The one thing to remember is that no matter what you do, even if you think it’s too naughty or he won’t be into it, do it anyway.
They’ll never know until they try it and when they’re in the mood, they’re usually up for almost anything (including the freakiest kinks).
Mix things up
If you’re wondering how to be a freak in the sheets, one thing to be careful about is not to stick to the same sex routine because if you do, chances are you’ll both get bored soon.
Always be in pursuit of new freaky ways to spice up your sex and do some kinky stuff to mix it up! You can be sure that every relationship expert agrees with me on this one.
Try things like giving him a blowjob when he’s sleeping or surprising him with some unusual role-playing games. Experiment with oral sex and anal sex (if you’re into it).
Try meeting him to have sex in your car. Send him some naughty pictures while he’s at work or give him an erection in a public place.
If you do this, you’ll get him excited about what’s next and he’ll see you as a sex goddess. I assure you that these little things will make him go crazy for you.
It doesn’t always have to be about sex positions and how great you are in bed. Men love the build-up, so don’t wait a second longer to show him what a pro you are!
Tease him all the time
How to be a freak for your man? Remember to tease your guy all the time, when he’s at work, when he’s next to you, or wherever he is at any given moment.
You can do it via text messages, by sending pictures or whispering in his ear some kinky stuff that you want to do to him later.
Let it become your daily routine to do these little freaky things (e.g. going commando) that will make him think of you all the time.
Teasing works on the principle: “Here’s what I’ve got but I won’t give it to you until I decide to.” Also, if you add your dirty imagination to it, congratulations! You’ve just become one hot freak in the sheets.
You see, domination and teasing go hand in hand, and to make him go wild for you, you have to master combining the two.
Once you do, I assure you that you’ll then be unstoppable. He’ll be unable to stop bragging to his friends about what a sexy freak bomb you are.
Wear crazy, sexy outfits
I’m sure you already know the sheer power of a girl‘s appearance when it comes to men.
To be an absolute freak in the sheets, you have to make sure to always wear some crazy, sexy outfits that’ll leave him speechless. Trust me, your man wants you to leave him speechless, and here’s how you’ll do it:
- Pay attention to the material of your sexy outfits (always wear silk over something else if you can).
- Choose dominant colors like red, black, or deep purple.
- Find the most atypical designs of panties, lingerie, and other sexy outfits.
The key message that you want to send him by doing all of this is that you’re bold, confident, and not ashamed to wear the craziest outfits in the world.
You want to show your guy how comfortable you are in your skin and that you’re a woman who’s not afraid to push boundaries, play against the rules, and think like a freak.
You can dress up as a high school girl, his favorite superhero, a nurse, or a strict teacher who’ll punish him for being naughty – it all depends on his preferences.
For example, if he likes to be dominant, the best thing is to start a role-playing game in which you become a high school girl for the night.
If he enjoys assuming the submissive role, be the teacher; and if he’s into some fantasy games, choose the costume of his favorite character.
Make naughty coupons
I did this one for my boyfriend as a gift for his birthday and there are no words to express how delighted he was with my ingenuity (and performance as well).
So, if you’re a girl who hasn’t tried the beauty of naughty coupons and you want to learn how to be a freak in bed with your man, now is the time to roll up your sleeves and do it!
Basically, what you need to do is make little coupons on a piece of paper where you write something that you’ll do for him when he chooses that particular coupon.
Write some risqué things like a lap dance, sexual fantasy, roleplay, and so on.
To spice things up even more, you can decide to have a no-panties day or offer him a wild card where you’ll do anything, anytime that day.
The freakier, the more it will make him go crazily, irreversibly wild!
Talk dirty
Some women aren’t comfortable with dirty talking because it makes them feel anxious. I know that because I was one of those women.
Whenever I thought of throwing a dirty phrase during an action (or before it), I would overthink everything. I always had this feeling that I would make a fool out of myself or overdid it and scare him off.
Oh, how wrong I was about it!
There’s nothing wrong with simply telling your man what feels good in a creative way. Or telling him what’s been on your mind and what you’d like him to do to you.
It’s perfectly okay to spice things up with dirty talk and reveal your freaky side.
Phone/cyber sex
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, phone/cyber sex is your best friend. Well, even if you’re not in such a relationship, this type of sex can still help you add some freakiness to your sex life.
You can send him a dirty text when you’re in the other room or you can leave him a sexy voicemail when he’s in the shower (or somewhere else).
You can tease each other via phone call or webcam. Seeing each other burning with passion while being unable to touch one another will feel incredibly freaky and intimate.
If you need more convincing, I can confirm that this is one of the steamiest things you can do with your partner. It will boost your intimacy and freakiness and once you try it, it will become a part of your routine.
Enjoy sex with all of your body and mind
How to be a freak in the sheets? They say that your brain is your most important sexual organ, so if you don’t think like a freak in a given moment, you won’t be able to behave like one either.
If you’re not that into having sex that day, it’s always better to do nothing than something you don’t want to, because if you do, he’ll know it too.
However, there are some things that might help you feel sexy and get you in the mood. Put on some sexy lingerie, turn on some good music, or pull up some sexy pics of your man to get you ready for him.
Show him you’re so into him by whispering in his ear and telling him how much you want him. Take off his clothes slowly and kiss every single part of his body in the process.
Worship every single part of him and make him feel like he is your king. Be loud, but not obnoxious or fake.
Be loud enough for him to feel like he’s giving you the ultimate pleasure. Show the beast inside you and you will drive him wild in no time!
Freaky Is The New Hot
Are you still wondering how to be a freak in the sheets or you feel that you’re ready to show him your freaky side? I bet you are!
Even if you’re not, don’t force yourself until you’re ready. You can start with something light like the blindfold and then add some more complex and freakier elements into the bedroom.
Remember, freaky is the new hot because there’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it (whatever it be).
