“In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take, relationships we’re afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.” – Lewis Carroll
Will you regret not taking your chance with her?
How can you not see you’re the one she wants? How can you not see, all this time she’s been waiting for you? How can you fail to realize she’s worth your time and she’s worth the risk of a broken heart?
Not a manly thing to admit and you don’t have to say it out loud, but I know you’re terrified of commitment.
Actually, you’re so scared of commitment that you haven’t let anybody come within a mile of your heart for a while.
And it might have been a fun thing to have so many different women waking up next to you, but it’s a lonely thing to constantly wake up next to a stranger, isn’t it?
I know you’ve been hurt before, but who hasn’t?
We’ve all cried ourselves to sleep and sworn we’d never fall in love again—just like we swear each and every time we’ll never take another sip of alcohol after we wake up still drunk from the last night out—and yet we do it anyway.
Why can’t it be that easy with love as well?
Taking chances is all about overcoming your fear and no matter how your story ends, you’ll be more than glad you took the chance.
Does a day pass that you don’t think of her? Who’s the first person you want to tell how your day was? You get moody when you don’t see her or talk to her for a while.
You have the urge to vomit when you think of her being with somebody else. You get a rush when you spot a female look-alike, but she none has anything in common with her .
She has no intention of breaking your heart because she knows what you’ve been through.
She gets you.
She knows you.
She makes you laugh.
She makes you forget the bad day you just had.
She makes it feel like there isn’t a thing you can’t overcome just by having her by your side.
You can see yourself with her five years from now, but you won’t unless you do something about it.
Whether she’s worth the risk of being hurt again is not even a question here. She’s either going to be a blessing or a lesson to you.
Yes, it might be scary and you might feel unsafe once you let your walls down, but don’t run away. The time to show how brave you are is only at the time of your biggest fears.
I don’t think anyone is ever ready, but when someone makes you feel alive again, it’s kind of worth the risk. – Nikki Rowe
If you keep waiting to be ready, you might miss your chance. Love doesn’t wait for anybody forever and she has been waiting for you for far too long to make that decision.
Nobody can tell you for a fact it will work out, but seeing if it does will be the best adventure ever.
Let go of your past. I know it’s hard and I know you think life has shown you everything it has for you, but what if it isn’t like that?
What if being hurt before was supposed to make you ready for the things that are yet to come?
What if the pain you went through before was only there to make you value the happiness she is about to bring in your life?
You never thought you would risk the chance of getting hurt again, but for some reason, when you’re with her, it all seems worth it.
Instead of guarding your heart, tell her you want her in your life. There is a girl out there that’s waiting for you to take that damn chance. Take it. I promise you, it will be worth it.
See also: This Is Why She Is A Keeper