Throughout your life, you will meet people who will add to your life, enrich it and make you feel happy and calm just knowing that they exist. Those are your forever people.
But sometimes, you meet people who are only meant to stay in your life for a short period of time, in order to teach you something.
Perhaps what not to settle for . Sometimes how to react in certain situations. And sometimes, what type of people to avoid at all costs.
The point is, not everybody is meant to stay in your life and that is more than okay. You grow each and every day and with that, you learn what you deserve and what you won’t take anymore.
This is when you learn to appreciate yourself and put your self-growth first, which is the ultimate sign of a mature, badass woman who values herself too much to keep toxic people around her.
When it comes to relationships, it’s hard to find a man who won’t be intimidated by a successful, ambitious woman who goes after what she wants, boldly and bravely.
It’s hard to find a man who will hold your hand and show you off when he’s not at that level yet.
It can make him feel insecure and like less of a man and it only shows you his real face, therefore making it easy for you to make the best decision regarding your future with him.
When you find a man who doesn’t support your dreams and doesn’t believe in you, you need to cut him out of your life.
Sometimes, you will move forward in life more quickly than other people and those who are insecure in themselves will resent you for it.
They will project their shortcomings on to you and make you feel bad for simply being amazing.
Don’t take it for one second. You deserve every bit of happiness and success that you achieve in this life.
Don’t let insecure jerks take that away from you. Let them loose and enjoy being the amazing and talented woman that you are.
If you feel like you can’t trust him any longer, don’t think twice. Cut him loose and never look back.
Once he breaks your trust, it’s hard to go to back. Trust takes a long time to build and it takes just a second to be broken beyond repair.
Don’t feel guilty for breaking it off due to lack of trust. This is the most important part of a relationship and without it, you don’t really have a whole lot.
Follow your gut at all times. You’ll always feel when it’s right and when it’s time to call it quits.
If your man takes much more than he gives, put him in his place.
Never let a man have so much power over you that he feels like you are there only to serve him and his selfish needs.
You have needs, too. You have every right to have a problem with a guy who only knows how to enjoy the physical perks of a relationship and put no effort whatsoever into all the other aspects of it.
Don’t be the only one trying to make it work. Don’t be the only one putting the effort into something that he takes for granted.
If he cares enough, he will show it. Otherwise, all he is showing is what a lazy, ignorant fool he is and you need to cut him out of your life.
You deserve to feel like a priority. You deserve to feel like you are enough . You definitely don’t need to beg for anyone’s attention.
If he can’t appreciate that, show him the door and never open it again.
Leave room for good people with kind intentions and never feel bad about walking away. It will do more good than harm.
Be strong enough to know what to accept into your life and what to permanently leave behind and never look back.