Has your Capricorn guy become a little distant and cold lately? Are you afraid you’ll lose your Capricorn lover? Don’t worry.
I’m here for you. Keep reading to see what to do when a Capricorn man ignores you and how to keep him in your life.
Men born under the Capricorn Zodiac sign are very intriguing.
They’re ambitious, loving, and committed, but at the same time, they’re afraid of opening up to someone and showing them their weak side because (like all of us) they don’t want to get hurt.
They’ll be your knight in shining armor, but they can also become so distant and cold that you won’t be able to get through to them anymore.
Sometimes pulling away is their coping mechanism against getting hurt.
They’re too careful when it comes to their love life, and you should just accept it and be very patient if you really want to keep a Capricorn guy in your life.
Once you succeed in getting through to them and capturing their heart, they’ll be committed and loyal to you forever.
So, keep reading to see what to do when a Capricorn man ignores you and learn some great techniques to draw him back in.
What should you do when a Capricorn man ignores you?
Let’s get to the case: what should you do when your Capricorn man is ignoring you? Here are some very efficient tips to regain his attention.
It may take a while to do it and show him that you honestly care for him, but trust me, it’s worth it because once you succeed, he’ll likely stay committed to you forever.
Treat him the same way
This may sound a little bit confusing to you. Above I said that you should be patient and accept that he needs time, and now I’m telling you to ignore him back. That’s confusing, right?
Well, when you think about it, you’ll see that it’s pretty logical. You should ignore him back to show him how much it hurts to be ignored and treated the way he treats you.
Maybe that will make him understand and change his behavior towards you. Ignoring him back could help you regain his full attention.
Direct and honest communication solves it all
Talk about it. Don’t be afraid to speak up about things that are bothering you in your relationship.
If you think that you’ve been neglected for too long, you should confront him about it and ask him to explain why he is treating you this way.
If he isn’t interested in you, that can be solved too. You should make him understand that you don’t want to force anything; you’re just looking for an explanation.
Don’t obsess about it too much
If you know you did nothing wrong, then stop obsessing about it because the problem obviously isn’t you.
Sometimes, it’s just what a Capricorn man does when he starts catching feelings for someone. He begins to ignore you because he wants to put you through some kind of test.
He wants to check whether your feelings are honest and if you’ll wait for him or just move on like he means nothing to you.
The other reason why a Cap guy starts pulling away is that he needs some time for himself.
It’s a little bit difficult for him to give up on his solo life, and he wants to be sure that you’re the one before he starts a serious relationship with you.
Shift the focus back to yourself
You must be aware that a Capricorn man likes independent women who take care of themselves and invest in their own life. Your Cap man will never appreciate you enough if you don’t appreciate yourself first.
That’s why it’s essential to shift the focus back to yourself. Maybe he’s giving you the silent treatment because he wants you to think about your life and your relationship too.
Take care of yourself. Even if your Cap man is done with you for good, you must find the strength to continue with your life.
No man should ever take first place on your priority list because that place belongs to you and only you.
Spend time with your friends and family
You need to keep yourself busy. Don’t lie in bed all day waiting for him to reach out or answer your texts.
Of course, don’t keep texting him if he continues ignoring your texts too, because that will only make you seem desperate.
Whatever happens, whether you succeed in regaining his attention or not, you must be aware that there are other people in your life who honestly care for you and love you.
Those people count the most after all, and you should be spending time with them. Call your friends, invite them over or go out with them and have fun. It’ll also help you to stop thinking about him.
Indulge in an interesting hobby
The point here is to keep yourself busy, so you stop obsessing about your relationship. The best way to do that is to find an interesting hobby and indulge in that.
Do whatever relaxes you and makes you happy. You can also use this quiet time to work on your goals and dreams for the future.
Flirt with him like when you first met
You know how you got his attention at the beginning and made him want you, right? Then, do it all over again as though you’ve just met. Try to seduce your Capricorn man again.
Give him some subtle signs that you’re still into him. You should smile gently every time you notice that he’s looking in your direction or when he passes you by. You can also pay him compliments and tease him.
Always try to look your best when he’s around
If you’re going out with some friends you have in common, and you think he’ll be there too, you should try to look your absolute best.
Don’t let him see that you’re suffering because he’s ignoring you. You’re a strong and independent woman, and the only way you’ll regain the attention of a Cappy man is by showing him that. Those are the qualities
Capricorns appreciate the most, trust me.
Make him jealous
Sometimes you need to make a guy jealous to make him miss you. In a way, that’s how you’ll make your Cap guy realize what he is losing.
Of course, don’t overdo it because that may only change his opinion about you completely. The point here is to make him miss you, not to make him think you’re a promiscuous woman.
This will be an easy job for a Capricorn woman, especially because she knows the best way to make him jealous in just the right way.
I want to warn you to be very careful because if you don’t do this step right, you may lose your Capricorn lover forever.
You should flirt with other guys a little bit when he’s around just to get them to approach you and make him feel jealous.
However, jumping into a new relationship or anything like that could drive your Capricorn guy away forever.
If you know you did something wrong – apologize
You must know that one of the negative Cappy personality traits is that they’re as stubborn as goats. Well, that’s one of the reasons their symbol is a sea goat.
They hate dishonest people. If you’ve lied about something to them, they will ignore you until they decide whether they can forgive you or not.
It’s challenging for a Cappy guy to forgive someone. However, if you work hard to earn his forgiveness and he sees that you’re remorseful for your mistake, they’ll find a way to forgive you.
So, try to think about this: Think about the past several weeks, and consider whether you did something that hurt him or if you lied to him about something that he could find out.
If you realize that you’ve done something wrong, be ready to apologize immediately and show how truly sorry you are before it costs you your Cap man.
Just because he’s giving you the silent treatment doesn’t mean that he’s done with you forever. Look at all of this as a relationship break during which you have to stay loyal if you want to get him back.
If you really care about him and honestly love him, you’ll give him time. You’ll wait for him. I’m not saying that you should be sitting home all day until he decides whether he wants to be with you or not.
You should go out and hang out with people you love. Again, if you honestly care for him, you won’t think about other men, and you’ll stay loyal until you have the talk that will define or end your relationship.
Trust me when I say this, every Capricorn’s life motto is ‘Stay real, stay loyal, or stay away from me.’
Don’t be afraid to reach out
If your Capricorn man has been ignoring you for too long and you feel the need to talk to him about it, don’t be afraid to call him and reach out.
I’m not saying that you should be too persistent and send him dozens of texts because that will only drive him away even more. But, it’s perfectly okay to ask him to talk about the future of your relationship.
If you’re too afraid of sending him a text or calling him first, you can send him signals over social media that you’re still into him and that his silent treatment is bothering you.
You can share a song or a quote that will make him realize that it hurts you when he ignores you.
But also, give him the time he needs
If you really want to get your Cap man back, you must first give him time to process things on his own.
Catching feelings and falling in love with someone isn’t their deal, and when that happens to them, they need to process it slowly.
Maybe he isn’t ignoring you at all; maybe he just needs some alone time to think about you and your relationship.
You should let him do that and show him that you’re a patient woman and that you’re ready to wait for him to clear up his thoughts and feelings.
Remember, he’s missing out
If your Cap man doesn’t want you back and if he’s decided that he’s done with you for good, the only thing you can do is accept it, give yourself time to heal, and move on.
Don’t be desperate because no matter what happens, life moves on with or without some people, whether we like it or not.
After all, if you’re aware of your self-worth, you’ll know that it’s his loss. He is the one who is losing a woman who just wanted to love him honestly.
7 Possible reasons a Capricorn man ignores you
To understand how to deal with a Capricorn man ignoring you, you should first focus on understanding why he became so cold and distant.
Below are some possible reasons why your Capricorn man is ignoring you, and they’ll be the first step in solving your problem.
It’s important to understand these reasons in time, so you’ll be able to keep your Capricorn man in your life.
Work has always been his priority
This is a typical Earth sign who is interested in material things. Capricorn males are workaholics, ambitious, and very hard-working. They have very clear goals, and they won’t stop until they fulfill them.
One of the most likely reasons your Capricorn guy is ignoring you is because his work obligations have piled up, and he just got stuck into them.
It may seem like he’s ignoring you while he’s just been focused on his work a little bit more.
However, that’s not okay. You should always be his priority, and he should never allow you to feel neglected because of his work or other obligations.
Demanding expectations will drive him away
To be honest, we all have some expectations when we’re in a romantic relationship. However, most women make the mistake of being too demanding and setting unrealistic expectations.
All Earth signs are the most grounded people on the planet. A Cappy guy is also just like that; he always wants to keep things one hundred percent real.
That’s why he’ll lose interest in you if you set unrealistic expectations for him.
He doesn’t like drama
This is something you need to understand; be it a Capricorn, Cancer man, Aquarius, or Aries, it doesn’t matter.
No man likes having too much drama in his life, and let’s be honest; there is a hidden drama queen inside all women.
If he did something wrong, you should confront him and communicate about it but do it in a healthy way. Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill because that’s something a Cap man hates the most.
It’s his way of avoiding arguments
One of the reasons why your Cappy man is ignoring you could also be because he wants to avoid conflict.
Maybe you had a quarrel or disagreement about something, and now he’s ignoring you because he wants to wait until you cool off and avoid getting into an even bigger fight with you.
He’ll become distant if his feelings are hurt
Even though your Cap man seems strong and cold sometimes, Capricorns are actually very sensible and soft men.
His biggest fear is getting hurt by someone he loves and if you did something that hurt his feelings, ignoring you is a way he deals with his sadness and other negative emotions.
Capricorns HATE lies
I’ve already said it, but it’s essential that you understand it. One thing all Capricorns hate the most is dishonest and unfaithful people.
If you weren’t honest with them or if they have any reason to doubt your fidelity, it’s the reason why your Cap guy has become so cold and started to avoid you.
It’s probably because he needs time to process things
Capricorn men are like that; when they start feeling something deeper for someone, they get scared, and they just pull away. You need to understand this and stop blaming yourself.
Your Cap man needs time to clear his head and sort out his feelings. Before he gets into something deeper with you, he’ll want to be sure of his feelings and yours too.
I know that sometimes it just feels impossible to maintain a relationship with a Cap man because after some time, they start to pull away, and they become distant and cold.
Now you know what to do when a Capricorn man ignores you, and you’re ready to regain his attention. Of course, arm yourself with patience because you’ll need it.
When it comes to love compatibility, a Capricorn man is attracted to women who are ambitious and independent, just like him.
That’s why the most compatible zodiac signs for a Capricorn man are hard-working Scorpios, loyal Tauruses, nurturing Virgos, and gentle Pisces.
Even though they’re totally different, a relationship between a Cap man and a Cancer woman can also be successful because opposites do attract sometimes.
Capricorn men are least compatible with Libras, Geminis, and Sagittariuses. However, most astrologers agree that one of the most difficult combinations is between a Capricorn man and a Leo woman.
Those two just don’t get along very well, and it’s hard to maintain a relationship between these two signs.
However, don’t allow this to discourage you. Anything is possible, and all obstacles can be overcome when there is true love.