How to make a guy jealous? How to make him bottle up his emotions until he explodes and make him want you even more?
So, you’ve tried everything, but somehow your guy is not responding to your actions. He doesn’t give you enough attention, thus making you worry whether something’s wrong in your relationship.
Or you’ve just met a guy, and he’s been acting distant all of a sudden. You want to redirect his thoughts to you, make him notice you more, and make him want you more. And now you’re probably wondering how to achieve all of it. Well, the most efficient way would be making your man jealous.
How to make a guy jealous?
You see, jealousy works like dynamite. The intense emotions of jealousy have the power of making the person literally explode and start looking at things differently.
Summarized, if you make your guy jealous, he will start noticing and appreciating you more because you’ll let him know that if he doesn’t, somebody else will, and he will lose you. Now, making your man jealous is a science in itself. It is not so easy to make your man jealous in ways where he won’t realize you’re doing so.
The most important thing you need to pay attention to is to do it discreetly, so that your guy don’t think you are playing some games with him (even though in a way you are, but psst, we don’t want him to know that). As you can see, making a guy jealous is a delicate matter and to do it properly, you have to be well prepared for it (and that’s why I’m here for).
Especially if you have never done this, don’t worry because I am bringing you some of the most effective tactics to make your man wild with jealousy. And in the end, you will be satisfied by playing your role in the best possible way. After reading these tips, you will be ready to act it so well that you could easily get an Oscar for best actress. So, let’s get to work!
1. Go out with your friends
Guys feel very insecure when girls go out without them. There is that constant feeling another guy will hit on her and that she will be drunk enough to cheat. So, if you want to make your man jealous, put on the sexiest dress that you have, apply some heavy make-up, and create a nice hairstyle.
When he sees that you are dressed to kill, he will lose his mind, and he won’t be able to stand that other guys will have a chance to see you like that. It will turn him into a jealous monster, and he won’t be able to sleep until you come home. You see how a little bit of effort shakes his world, right?
2. Ignore his texts and calls
When he texts you, don’t text him back immediately. The same goes for phone calls. Show him that you won’t be available to him whenever he wants you. Show him that you have your own life and that you enjoy spending time with a small circle of people.
Also, if you really want to piss him off, let him see that you are online and that you are posting stuff on social media sites, but you are not reaching out to him. It will make him think twice about his behavior and acting all distant when he is with you. The bottom line here is that your mission will be completed!
3. ‘Accidentally’ touch another man
If you are sitting with your male friends and your man, try to make him jealous by the way that you touch another man and laugh at his jokes all the time. It will make your man feel possessive, but on the other hand you will get what you want.
Guys are really sensitive when it comes to this. When someone touches their woman or she touches another man, they instantly get overly protective because they have the urge to eliminate all of the “enemies” around them.
Sadly, the majority of them become overly protective only when they are forced to, so ‘accidentally’ touching another man is a great way to get your man to be envious and make him think twice about mistreating you again. If you do that, your guy will feel a little bit insecure, and it will make him think that other guys can get you just like he did.
4. Be mysterious
There is a saying that a woman without secrets is like a sky without stars. So in case you want to make your man jealous, be mysterious for some time, and see what his reaction will be. I am sure that he will bottle up his emotions at first, but then he will explode after some time.
He won’t know why you are acting like that, and he will want to know if you are being mysterious because of another man in your life. Your mysterious aura will make him question your intentions, but he will not ask you anything about it because he doesn’t want to appear jealous. Nice trick, right?
5. Show him that you don’t need him
Guys really like to help their partners because when they do that, it makes them feel masculine and useful. But for a change, don’t ask your guy for any help. Get a male friend to give you a hand instead; let him help you to move from one place to another, for example.
And when you finish with that, tell your man that you had a great time with your male friend in your new apartment. I am sure that he will immediately have an image in his head of a sweaty and muscular guy helping you to move your furniture. That image will make him so jealous, and he will feel sorry for not offering you his help.
6. Tell him that you have to work late
Your guy probably won’t mind if you don’t come home for dinner when you are working late, but he will definitely change his mind after you tell him that only you and a male co-worker were at the office together. It will make him think of all those Hollywood movies where two co-workers stay alone in the office in the evening, and in the middle of the work, they start kissing each other.
After that, he will imagine that you and your co-worker had raw sex in the office and that his ‘enemy’ pleased you better than he does. That feeling will eat him alive, and he won’t calm down until he believes that you were just working.
7. Compliment his best male friend
If you give more attention to his best male friend or your guy best friend than to him, he will get extremely jealous. He will want to know why you are acting like that and why he is not enough for you. But don’t bother trying to understand his feelings because he hasn’t done that for you.
Just continue with your mind games and give him a dose of the pain that he deserves. It will make him think about you more and about what you bring to the table, and he won’t take you for granted anymore.
8. Talk about your ex
One of the most effective ways to make a guy jealous is talking about your ex. But, not just talking. It’s more about speaking highly of your ex, so that your guy gets instantly jealous and sweaty.
You see, guys like to compete. It’s in their blood to constantly keep finding ways to be better than other guys, to win more attention, to be praised for their achievements. And after he hears such good things about your ex, he will see it as a dare to become better than him.
9. Make him compete for your attention
Do not answer his calls immediately. Do not text him back immediately. Do not talk to him immediately. Make him compete for your attention in all the fields possible because that’s the only way to make him feel helpless and wonder what the hell is going on.
By doing that, he will be forced to roll up his sleeves and start winning you because he will not be able to accept the fact that something else or someone else is more important to you than him. He will not be able to accept the fact that he has become an option.
10. Post your pictures on social media
Keep posting pictures of you having fun; going out; doing some crazy, interesting stuff; hanging out with other guys; etc. When he sees it, he will lose his mind because he’s not a part of it.
Him not being a part of your awesome life will make him utterly jealous, and he will instantly focus only on your whereabouts and all the fun things that you’re doing with others when he’s not there. It will make him fight hard to become a part of your exciting life.