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While You Were Too Busy Not Giving A F**k, She Gave Up On You

While You Were Too Busy Not Giving A F**k, She Gave Up On You

Her body and her mind were screaming that she can’t take it anymore, but you didn’t hear it because you simply didn’t give a fuck.

You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn’t care one bit about her and her feelings—what she really needed because ignoring isn’t one of those things.  

You neglected her in every sense possible. You took her for granted and you lost her in the process.

She suffered silently in agony, hoping that you’ll change and really see her, but you didn’t. That’s why she gave up on you.

If you had noticed her and how much she loved you, how much she sacrificed for you and how she went out of her way to please you, she would have stayed.

But instead, you chose to ignore her and do whatever you wanted. You chose to choose yourself before her. That’s why she gave up on you.

She gave up on you because you never had time for her. Even when she needed your help and asked you to be there for her, you would say that you will and you would forget.

You were too busy dealing with your problems, so you ignored her completely. After some time, she gave up.

She stopped asking for your help and frankly, she didn’t expect you would either.

She gave up on you because she couldn’t trust you anymore. She didn’t feel safe in your arms because she knew that if the time comes, you wouldn’t protect her.

You would protect yourself.

She gave up on you because you were not the same person she met and fell in love with. You’ve changed, but for the worse. Or maybe you just showed your true face.

Anyhow, you grew apart from her and she felt like she didn’t know you anymore, like you were a complete stranger.

She gave up on you because she couldn’t handle being alone anymore. She couldn’t handle dealing with all of her shit all by herself.

She couldn’t handle seeing you smiling while she cried her eyes out. She couldn’t handle any more quiet sobbing while you were lying next to her sound asleep.

You had no idea how sad she was. You had no idea she was crying right next to you.

She gave up on you because she was miserable. She forgot what happiness is and you are the one to blame for that.

She gave up on you because you never tried to make her a better person. She was falling apart by your side and you didn’t even notice.

You didn’t challenge her to become the best version of herself but you expected her to do that for you. Well, darling, love is not a one-way street.

She gave up on you because you didn’t love her anymore. Before, she was the only thing you saw. Before, she was the most beautiful girl to you wherever she walked in.

She gave up on you because you didn’t hold her hand anymore, you didn’t kiss her as passionately as before. You discarded her, but there will be the time when you’ll regret every wrong decision you made regarding her.

She gave up on you because you made her give up. You shut her down completely.

When she wanted to save the two of you, when she balanced whether to give all her strength into trying to get your attention or not, you made her decision so much easier.

Actually, your indecision was a decision.

All she ever wanted from you was to be honest. She wanted you to love her the way she loved you.

She wanted you to be there for her as she was there for you. She wanted you to hold her and love her.

Was that too much to ask?  But what you gave her was not love. So she gave up on you because you gave up on the two of you first.

She gave up on you because you didn’t respect her. You treated her like shit and she got used to those negative feelings around her.

She got used to screaming, yelling and neglecting. She got used to being less important. Sadly, she really started believing that.

She really believed she wasn’t worthy of anyone’s love. She thought she was a terrible person and God gave her exactly what she deserved—you.

She gave up on you because after hitting rock bottom, after facing her fears and feeling like total shit, she found the light—she found hope.

She looked deep inside herself and she saw the frightened woman who she used to be, cornered, begging to come out.

So, she let her go. She loved herself again. She became free. She knew she deserved it.

She knew she deserved a man better than you.

While You Were Too Busy Not Giving A F**k, She Gave Up On You