Breaking up is one of the biggest emotional challenges people face. Read our advice on how to handle a breakup, and either get your partner back or move on for good – depending on your desires.
Once you get to a point in your relationship where you have to ask yourself, “Should I break up with my boyfriend?” you will be torn between what you feel and what you know. You will be lost in your thoughts, but you will know deep down that the time has come to do something…
Nobody knows what’s happening on the inside. Nobody knows how devastating the loss of a loved one can be for an individual. What we see is the outside. The facade that everything is great while someone is falling apart or total brokenness everyone can see – these are just the ways to deal with shock,…
You’re broken, and all you can think about is everything you should have done. You’re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side. The truth is, though, he just wanted an excuse to leave. And even though the…
Dear boy, one day you’ll be a man. You’ll know then that whatever you thought you were looking for wasn’t actually in the adventure and thrill you were seeking instead of loving her. Once you realize she had it all, she’ll be long gone. You might be thinking now that she’s too much effort and…
When someone who meant the world to you walks away, everyone thinks that the shattering of your heart is what hurts the most. I won’t lie to you—having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time. At first, you are numbed by the…
He is walking around now with that little voice inside his head telling him that you will send a text, call him any second now or do anything to get him back. He expects you to cry, crawl and beg for him to come back. That’s why you will do the opposite. You will shock…
I know that break-ups are painful because I was subjected to one. I didn’t know how to feel about it and I wasn’t sure of my own thoughts running through my head. All you can do is contemplate your own painful thoughts and his thoughts as well. You start wondering whether he is going to…
We’ve all been there. We know how much it hurts. But please be brave. Life shouldn’t stop just because he left you. Pick up the pieces of your heart. Glue them back together. You will heal. Choose to learn from the past, not to regret it. If you focus too much on it, you’ll miss…
I held onto my foolish hopes about us for as long as I could. Regardless of everything, I’ve always been the perpetual optimist when it comes to romance, and you are no exception. I always expect the best, even when the evidence of it not being the case is staring me right in my disheartened…
The need for revenge in itself is never a good idea. Instead of moving on, you’re not giving yourself a chance to heal and are instead, focused on proving something to the other person. What’s the point of that? It’s understandable to feel a certain way after a messy breakup and to feel the need…