The reasons why guys love girls with big butts are perfectly understandable and more than ordinary. Although I’m not a guy, I decided to dig deeper into this subject because I find it extremely fascinating.
I never quite understood why men love girls with big butts so I started investigating because I genuinely wanted to find out why guys fall for girls with big butts.
I wanted to find out if this statement is worth hitting the gym to enlarge my ‘gluteus maximus’ or if I’m good either way.
So, I’m a heterosexual but even I can’t look away from a nice, big butt—I just can’t help myself but look in its direction. Especially if it’s nicely-shaped and firm.
Unfortunately, I wasn’t blessed with a big butt but that won’t stop me from trying to analyze why men are so turned on by girls who have one. And just to point out, no, I’m not jealous, I admire the beauty of it too.
I decided to do a little survey among my guy friends and some random men in general, to finally reveal the mystery of beautifully big behinds and why they love them so much.
I must admit that there were things that I would never have guessed guys liked but on the other hand, I don’t get a lot of things guys like and when you think about it, it’s supposed to be that way.
Imagine what would happen if we could read each other’s minds. It would be a curse and a blessing, all in one.
So, here goes…
1. Forbidden fruit is the sweetest
Guys are usually aware that the butt is off limits. It’s a place they are usually forbidden to enter, if you know what I mean. And that is why it’s so attractive—because it’s forbidden and they can’t have it which makes them want it even more.
That’s why guys are obsessed with doing it from behind in the bedroom; it makes them feel like they are breaking the rules.
2. They are simply nice to look at
Men are visual creatures, it’s as simple as that. If they see a beautiful woman, they will be instantly attracted to her. They will check out her eyes, her smile, and her hair and last but not least, they will check out her body—including her butt.
They will spend a great amount of time assessing that particular part of the body and if they like what they see, they will prepare to attack.
3. They are nice to feel
A big butt with the perfect amount of fat in the right places can serve as a pillow, hand warmer or just something squishy and fun to play with.
There is nothing more beautiful than a perfectly shaped big butt to make a guy lose his mind.
4. Perfect resting place for their hands
My friends told me that when they hug a girl, the only logical place to put their hands is her butt, and if it’s nice, big and squishy, they’ve hit the jackpot. They like to grab it and play with it, especially in the bedroom.
It seriously turns them on. When a girl is on top, putting their hands on her butt is a must. Grabbing a nice, round butt is much more satisfying than poking a bony one, wouldn’t you agree?
5. They look perfect in jeans
There is a difference between what men like and what women like. Women, on the one hand, like to look lean and long in their jeans, while men like women who look curvy in their jeans.
They like to see that there is something holding those jeans up. In a contest between a flat ass versus a nice, plump, round ass, the flat one doesn’t stand a chance.
6. They are a sign of being in good shape
A nice, perky, big, round butt means that the girl really cares about her body. She is definitely working out to make her bottom appealing and in one word—beautiful.
So, it’s no wonder that guys get turned on by big butts because it tells them that women who have them take care of their bodies.
7. They are a damn sexy feminine trait
Killer female features can sweep many men off their feet, but a nice, perky, big butt is definitely number one—along with boobs… and that depends on whether your guy is a boob guy or a butt guy. Maybe it’s a cliché but most guys are suckers for the hourglass body.
None of them get turned on if a girl doesn’t showcase her characteristics. I’m not saying you should get naked, just dress with taste and dignity and that’s enough to let their imaginations run wild. Give them just enough to make them want for more.
8. They lead to higher fertility
It is scientifically proven that girls with big butts have wider hips. Therefore, it is easier for them to give birth. That is something guys are unconsciously attracted to.
It is written in their genetic code which means they can’t help themselves from looking at their potential mates for procreation. So, it’s not strange that women who are ‘scientifically fit’ for childbirth attract men.
9. They serve as perfect pillows
To be perfectly honest, I would like to sleep on a nice, round, big butt. I bet they would serve better than a pillow and that was the exact answer these men I interviewed gave.
Big butts serve as perfect pillows and they are way softer than the softest pillow.
10. They are ideal cuddle buddies
Whenever you want to snuggle with someone, wouldn’t you think it would be better to snuggle and cuddle with someone who is soft rather than bony?
That’s why men prefer cuddling with girls with big butts. They have a place to rest their heads on and just fall asleep peacefully.
11. They are more intuitive
Some scientists have reason to believe that emotional intelligence and butt size are connected because women develop emotional intelligence around the same time as they gain curves in puberty.
Women who have big butts develop superior social skills in order to select a potential mate.
12. They are like drugs
There was a study that proved that big butts affect the part of the male brain that is triggered by alcohol and drugs. The researchers showed men pictures of women before and after butt enlargement surgery while they monitored their brains.
13. They make your waist look thinner
A big butt makes every waist look thinner. No matter how wide it is, if it’s proportional to a girl’s waist, it’s a win-win situation—for a woman who has it and for men to look at it. Also, it is a perfect place for them to place their hands on their waist.
14. They lower the risk of high cholesterol
Girls who have big butts are not in danger of getting sick by a chronic illness. Why?
Because the fat that is found in the butt is pretty much harmless in comparison with the fat in the stomach, which can be extremely dangerous and can cause heart disease and all kinds of chronic diseases.
15. They are just popular
Big butts are extremely popular in today’s culture. Women with them are seen as sex symbols and are very desirable. So it’s no wonder that men like them because they are surrounded by them. I don’t even have to mention any names of famous big butts because we all know who they are.
Also, they are featured not only in magazines and on TV but big butts have also appeared in songs and movies. Every second song has a big butt in it. It’s like someone is sending men subliminal messages, so they have to love them.
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