Estar con alguien que te haga feliz: 9 rasgos que debes buscar
La gente siempre habla de encontrar la persona adecuada; finding their soulmate. But, the truth is we don’t even know if soulmates really exist. That’s why the most important thing is to find and be with someone who makes you happy.
That’s tu alma gemela: a person who would do everything just to make you happy. That’s amor verdadero and that’s what we all should be striving for.
Love isn’t about finding the person who will complete you because God has made you whole already.
El verdadero sentido del amor is finding the person who’ll laugh with you in good times, and who’ll stick by your side and do their best to make you smile when bad times come. That’s why you should…
Encontrar y estar con alguien que te haga feliz
You’re probably wondering how to recognize that special someone who’ll make you happy, right?
I’ll give you a few tips on how to recognize that person, and if your significant other already does most of these things for you, then it’s a good sign you’ve already found your special someone.
1. Esa persona le proporcionará seguridad emocional.
One thing is for sure; partners who feel emotionally unsafe feel like they’re a burden to their significant other, and they spend most of the time wondering if they aren’t good enough… if they aren’t worthy of love.
If you haven’t experienced it, trust me… it’s the most awful feeling in the world. The first time you sense that you can’t connect with your partner emotionally or that you aren’t able to speak with them about your emotional well-being, you should end that relationship.
Para mantener un relación sanaNecesitas confiar en tu pareja y sentirte seguro con ella.. Tienes que sentirte libre para comunicarte libre y directamente con ellos. Una comunicación sana y abierta es un componente muy importante de una relación de pareja saludable.
Además, un estudio reciente de Match demostró que la madurez emocional y el apoyo es lo que más anhelan todos los solteros a la hora de encontrar la persona adecuada.
2. They’ll inspire your personal growth.
My uncle has been married three times. The first two marriages didn’t last for too long, while he has been married for over ten years with his 3rd wife.
Le pregunté cómo sabía que ella era la elegida, y aún recuerdo perfectamente su respuesta; “Because she was the only one who made me a better person and inspired me to become the person I am today”.
That made me think… and I came to the conclusion that I should never settle for a person who doesn’t let me grow. And, neither should you. ¿Por qué?
Well, the fact is if you don’t grow individually, your relationship won’t grow nor improve either. La mayoría de los expertos en relaciones coinciden en que crecimiento individual refuerza la relación y profundiza el vínculo entre los socios.
3. You’ll share many common values…
You’ll be two like-minded people who will share many common values. That would be one of many reference points in creating a stable, healthy, and relación feliz.
Es un hecho que las parejas que comparten valores comunes llevar una vida feliz, y están contentos y felices con su relación. And, even if you don’t agree about some things, they’ll never judge you, but rather try to understand and accept your perspectives and beliefs.
4. Y, tienen intereses aún más similares.
Every time you start a new relationship, you feel those butterflies in your stomach and everything seems perfect. That feeling stays until you get to know each other better and realize that you don’t have many things in common.
Soon, you become bored and drained by that relationship and both of you agree that breaking up is for the best. Well, that won’t be the case once you encontrar el adecuado.
You’ll have many similar interests, and they’ll even show interest in things you like… all because they’ll want to make you feel happy and pleased in the relationship.
Si El cuaderno is your favorite movie, and they aren’t particularly into those lovey-dovey kinds of movies, they’ll be up even for a chick flick marathon night with you only because they know it’s an enjoyable thing for you. They’ll want to make you happy no matter what.
5. They’ll understand you.
They’ll always be there for you. Whether you need advice or you just need them to be there, to share your silence without asking any questions, they’ll be there for you.
They’ll never try to control you because they’ll know that both of you have lives outside of your relationship. They’ll be there for you whenever you need them, and they’ll only interfere in your decisions and in your life in general when you ask them to.
This person will try to be a better listener for you. They’ll encourage you to share your feelings, and they will work on establecer una conexión emocional profunda contigo.
They’ll never put much pressure on you or your relationship because they know it would negatively affect your happiness. And, that is something they would never do… disturb your peace or happiness.
6. They’ll stick by your side both on good and bad days.
Mi madre siempre decía, you can meet people, a bunch of them, have a lot of money, loads of it, but if you don’t have that one friend, that one person who stays beside you even when all the other ones go, you have absolutely nothing.
The last time I talked with her, I told her that I finally understood what she meant by this. It is because for the first time in my life, I’m completely sure that I have that person by my side. That person is of much value to me because mi propia vida tiene un propósito y un sentido cuando entró en él.
Deberías apreciar de verdad a esas personas que se quedan a tu lado cuando todos los demás se van. Esas personas se preocupan de verdad por ti y quieren hacerte feliz.
7. They’ll accept ALL of you.
Piensa en una persona que te quiere tanto en chándal y con el moño despeinado como arreglada y con el maquillaje más perfecto.
Yes, that person exists, and don’t lose hope because one day, you’ll meet them. Y te querrán de todas las formas y en todas las circunstancias posibles.
They’ll know your virtues and fall in love with each and every one of them. They’ll know your flaws and keep loving you despite all of them.
In great addition to that, they’ll make you sentirte bien y feliz en tu propia piel. Y eso, mi querido amigo, es un beneficio muy importante de salir con una persona así.
8. They’ll never stop putting effort into making your relationship work.
¿Has tenido relaciones difíciles? Creo que todos las tuvimos. Nos quedamos en esos relaciones tóxicas, hoping that our partner would change, and that they’d finally realize our worth and fight for maintaining the relationship. But, of course, that never happened.
Well, it didn’t happen because they obviously didn’t care for us. They were putting their own happiness above ours, and didn’t care about how it would make us feel.
However, once you meet the right person, you’ll never feel unworthy again. You’ll never have to fight for the relationship alone because they’ll gladly do their share of the work. It’ll be a asociación saludable, and they’ll put immense effort into maintaining your relationship that way… healthy and happy.
9. They’ll simply enjoy making you happy.
Esta persona traerá una enorme cantidad de felicidad a tu vida. Hacerte feliz tendrá un efecto positivo también en su felicidad, lo que significa que ambos viviréis una vida mucho más feliz.
Llamadas telefónicas nocturnas, dulces mensajes de texto de buenos días, citas románticas, cute surprises and romantic gestures on a daily basis… all of these will become a part of your relationship routine.
You’ll be on cloud nine every time you two are together. You’ll never get sick of them, neither will they of you. You’ll be each other’s best friend, and they’ll devote their life to making you feel happy and loved.
¿Debe tu pareja hacerte feliz?
Of course, they should. It’s their primary task in the relationship, just as it is yours to make them happy. If you want to be in a relación sana, each other’s happiness should be your main priority.
Fights and disagreements are a part of every normal relationship, but it’s up to you how you’ll deal with them. If you let them stand between you two, if you act on angry impulses… you’ll never feel happy in the relationship, and it will never be a healthy partnership.
When you indulge in a relationship, you accept to share your life with someone. That means sharing both good and bad times. However, you also make a vow that you’ll make that other person feel respected, appreciated, loved, and above everything else, happy.
Estar con alguien que te haga feliz Citas
También he recopilado esta breve lista de las citas más entrañables sobre estar con alguien que te hace feliz. I hope they’ll inspire you to change your perspective of true love and finally appreciate the real values of a healthy and happy relationship.
1. “Surround yourself with the people and things that make you happy, forget the bad, and focus on the good. La vida es demasiado corta to be anything but happy.” – Anurag Prakash Ray
2. “Not everyone makes us happy, but we could choose to just be with the people who make us happy.” – Unknown
3. “Finding that special someone that genuinely cares about you and makes you happy is the most precious gift ever.” – Unknown
4. “Life’s too short to pick fights with people you love; it isn’t worth it. Be happy and be with who makes you happy. You can never know what tomorrow will bring.” – Unknown
5. “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – Marcel Proust
6. “You are my blessing. Not because you make me smile, but because you made my heart happy.” – Gigi Areola
7. “If you are not with someone who makes you happy, you need to work on fixing that.” – Unknown
8. “El verdadero significado del amor is being with someone who makes you happy and loves you for who you are. Someday, you’ll find that someone, just don’t give up.” – Unknown
9. “I don’t care where I came from or who you are. I can make you happy, and you make me happy. We could have a happily ever after.” – Amanda Hocking
10. “Love someone who makes you happy and who can’t be happy without you.” – Unknown
Palabras finales
Para terminar, estate con alguien que te haga FELIZ. ¿Por qué? Simplemente porque te lo mereces. Mereces sentirte queridoTambién mereces que te aprecien y respeten. También mereces que tu amor y tus esfuerzos sean recíprocos.
Te mereces todo o nada, y don’t ever settle for anything in between.
I want to wish you good luck with finding the right person. And, trust me… it won’t be difficult to recognize them once you meet them because that person will do everything just to make and keep you happy.
