Nunca vuelvas con la persona que te rompió

Lo sé, ¿por qué deberías escucharme verdad?

But even if you don’t, you know deep down that your move is one big mistake.

Sabes que las cosas van a cambiar durante unos días o así, y en cuanto bajes la guardia, será el mismo pedazo de shi Siempre lo fue.

People don’t change that easily—especially the ones who think there is nothing wrong with them.

En el fondo sabes que es una persona en la que no puedes confiar. Te falló y te decepcionó.

You’ve cried by his side so many times, begging him to change. You’ve come close to a breakdown because you couldn’t take it anymore, and he swore on his life he would change.

En esos momentos, habría dicho cualquier cosa que quisieras oír. Habría hecho cualquier cosa con tal de calmar la situación, de calmarte, para poder seguir haciendo lo que le diera la gana. ¡Qué cabrón más astuto!

Incluso si vuelves con él, ¿de verdad crees que podrías abrirte tan fácilmente a él?

Puedes forzarte a intentarlo, pero tu subconsciente construirá altos muros a tu alrededor, muros que ni siquiera tú sabrás que están ahí.

Even if you decide to make a huge mistake and let him crawl back to you, you won’t share anything with him.

You won’t tell him your secrets and your deepest emotions. You’ll keep your fears and your happiness to yourself.

Why? You know why. He never listened to you in the first place. He never cared for what you had to say. That’s him, the man of your dreams—a man to whom you so desperately kept dar segundas oportunidades .

Ahora dime, ¿se los merecía?

He is a man you can’t rely on. Every time you needed help, every time you needed support, where was he? I’ll tell you where he was. He went out with friends.

He had more important business to attend to. He was always all over the place but never in the right place – never in your arms.

Cada vez que estabas triste, te quedabas solo para luchar contra tus demonios por tu cuenta. Y tú debe deal with your troubles all by yourself, but you shouldn’t be realmente por tu cuenta.

Debería haber estado ahí para ti. Debería haber estado ahí para secar tus lágrimas y abrazarte cuando llorabas.

Do you remember how it felt to sit by this person, your eyes exploding with tears and your hands shaking in frustration and anger? Do you remember how low you fell, and he wasn’t there to help you get up?

Never go back to the person who wanted you all to himself but at the same time, didn’t care about you.

That’s how possessive and jealous people act. He wanted you all for himself, but he never dealt with you. He never gave you enough attention, and he would be jealous if you looked for it somewhere else.

He forbade you to hang out with your friends because he couldn’t handle the idea of you not being available to him all the time.

¿Y sabes por qué te llamaba todo el tiempo cuando salías sin él? He didn’t trust you at all.

You’ve discarded people who cared about you because of him. Was he really worth it? Was his fake love worth rejecting people who honestly cared about you?

Do you know how many people you’ve unknowingly hurt just to keep the relationship which was on its last breaths alive?

You’ve rejected people who love you because of some self-centered jerk who took your love for granted. An idiot who never appreciated you nor everything you did for him.

Just think about how much energy, time and, love you’ve wasted on someone who didn’t deserve it.

When you let your mind wander again, and when it wanders back to him, just remember that you’ve settled for way less than you deserve. Remember the pain of neglect you faced every day.

Remember every difficult situation you’ve faced alone because he chose not to be there – he chose something else as more important than you. Just remember…

Never go back to the person who swears he’ll change. Never believe his words because words don’t mean anything.

Tú más que nadie deberías saberlo. Tú eres el testigo de que las palabras pueden pronunciarse fácilmente, pero las acciones no se hacen tan fácilmente.

Cree en las acciones. Cree en algo tan extraño para él, algo que nunca ha hecho, y nunca vuelvas a él.

Don’t go back to the person who broke you because he’s the last person who can fix you. You’ll hold a grudge against him for the rest of your life.

Deep down, you’re going to blame him for not trusting anyone, for being extra cautious when it comes to love. Maybe you won’t be aware of it, but you’ll never act the same again.

He broke you. He can’t—and has no right to try to—fix you.

Ahora pertenece a tu pasado. Él es un verdadero ejemplo de todo lo que uno nunca debe hacer. Confía en mí, tienes pruebas contundentes detrás de ti.

You have examples and more importantly, you have unhealed wounds on your heart – wounds he gave you

He is everything you don’t deserve. Please, never go back to him.