15 motivi per cui sei infelice per esserti innamorata del suo potenziale

1. The potential you’re in love with may never come true.

Tutti hanno il potenziale per fare qualcosa. Nessuna vita nata è una vita inutile.

Il fatto è che alcuni realizzano il loro potenziale, ma altri prendono una strada sbagliata e non riescono mai a fare ciò che erano in grado di fare.

Therefore, by falling in love with a guy like this, the only thing you’re left with is misery.

2. Ti piace e lui lo sa.

He will take advantage of the fact you’re in love with him—or better put—con il suo potenziale.

He will smile at you across the room, knowing he’ll sweep you off your feet.

You won’t be able to do anything about it because your love is just too strong. Your love has a mind of its own. Once again…misery, it is.

3. You can’t change him.

You don’t have the power to change anyone. That’s the most common misconception of every relationship.

Le persone pensano di poter cambiare una persona a proprio piacimento.

That’s BS, and it’s better to face that fact now than later.

4. Nel profondo non è sicuro di voi.

That’s the reason why you fell in love with his potential. He is not letting you into his heart.

He is not letting you see him for who he is because he’s not sure you’re the one.

You’re prepared to give your everything to someone who is not sure about you. Think about that once again, will you?

5. When you’re not around, it’s like you don’t exist.

He won’t call you just to see how you are. He won’t show any interest in you unless you’re standing right in front of him.

Let me put this differently—if you’re not physically present, he won’t give you much attention.

This only shows that you’re convenient for him, for now. When he gets a better opportunity, you’re out of the game for good.

6. Is falling in love with someone’s potential enough?

Is it enough to make your lonely nights not so lonely, to hold your hand when you’re scared, or kiss you when you’re broken?

Innamorarsi di un potenziale vale la pena di spezzare il proprio cuore?

7. Quando un uomo vuole qualcosa, la insegue!

A man will never wait to get something he thinks belongs to him—in this case, you.

You’re miserable because he is clearly not showing any interest in you. Better said, it’s the other way around. You’re chasing him!

8. Ti dà solo un pezzo di biscotto.

He is charming. He treats you with care, but only when he feels like it. He flirts with you, and then he stops and turns around like he doesn’t even know you.

The only feeling you can get—and you do get—from situations including him is confusion. Does he like you or doesn’t he?

9. You’re unhappy because he’s immature.

Sure, that relationship you’re trying to pull off looks perfect at moments. You go out on dates and dinners.

You have a lot of fun, but that doesn’t change the fact that he is an immature mama’s boy who non è pronto ad affrontare la realtà e a prendere in mano la situazione.

10. You think—we all think—we are their saviors.

Listen to me, a man like that doesn’t need saving.

Pensiamo di poter aiutare queste grandi qualità nascoste a venire in superficie.

The truth is, they will never come out, as long as he keeps them in. It’s up to him, not you.

11. You can’t ignore the fact that there is still a spark of passion between you.

You can’t ignore the moments when your relationship looked like a real one, a true and everlasting one.

You can’t ignore the good in him, the freakin’ potential. It’s killing you. It’s making you miserable.

12. Accettate solo la somma che vi dà.

Accettate briciole del suo tempo, della sua attenzione e del suo amore.

Siete completamente subordinati alla sua volontà e alla sua misericordia nel darvi o meno attenzione.

13. Parla con altre ragazze.

Since he doesn’t take your relationship seriously, he invests a lot of time in flirting and talking to other girls.

Lo fa di continuo.

It can even happen when he’s with you. After all, to him, it’s all the same.

14. State buttando via il vostro tempo.

The time you’ve spent with him is the time you’re never getting back.

Forse vi rifiutate di rendervene conto ora, ma purtroppo prima o poi ve ne renderete conto.

A quel punto, sarà troppo tardi per riparare il danno che vi ha fatto.

15. You’re tired and miserable because you’re sick of making him see your situation from your point of view.

It’s excruciatingly painful to try to show him how you feel and make him see the two of you with your eyes.

The pain you’re feeling is crippling. It’s destroying you from the inside. Yet…nothing changes.

Per quanto tempo ancora continuerete a fare questa farsa?