Quando ti renderai conto di aver perso la donna della tua vita, ti avrò già dimenticato

È curioso come gli uomini abbiano spesso un periodo di comportamento sconsiderato subito dopo una rottura. Sembra quasi che la stiano festeggiando.

On the other hand, women are almost always curled up in their bed and sobbing every night… Well, until they are not.

It seems strangely coincidental that most of the time, that’s probably the time when the man starts to sob and guess what happens to her? She doesn’t care anymore.

Life sure has a distinct sense of humor and in this case, we’re all for it.

This happened to me. I was the late-night sobbing girl. I guess I cried the pain away because one day I just woke up and said, “That’s enough.”

I didn’t want to do this to myself anymore. I wanted to live my life. I wanted my life to have meaning again.

So what if a man thought I wasn’t good enough for him. That was the same man who couldn’t provide me with the simplest things—for example, attention and care.

So what if he’d moved on with his life?

Buon per lui, perché l'ultima cosa di cui avevo bisogno era sentirlo di nuovo e rimanere bloccata dallo stesso comportamento immaturo che è stato uno dei motivi per cui ci siamo lasciati.

Tuttavia, per la maggior parte delle donne, è probabile che quando la realtà lo colpirà, lui ti vorrà di nuovo.

That’s because you were everything he needed; he just couldn’t see it.

It’s easy to take all the love and care for granted. The problem is when that turns into abuse and abuse is something that’s unacceptable.

Love should be cherished and praised and it should go both ways. But in your case, he couldn’t see it.

He lost the woman of his life—and that’s his fault, not yours.

All the things you gave him will haunt him because love doesn’t go away.

Ogni cosa bella che vedrà e toccherà gli ricorderà di voi e dell'amore che ha perso a causa della sua follia.

Once he gets it, it’s going to be late. By that time, you will know better.

A quel punto, darete tutto l'amore prima a voi stessi.

Loving yourself is absolutely mandatory. By putting yourself first, you’ll not only get over him but learn to recognize true love from others.

You won’t be played again because once you give yourself the love you give to others, that’s when you will realize how little love they were giving you.

You’re over him because he doesn’t match your potential più.

Ha fatto parte del processo di apprendimento che avete dovuto affrontare per arrivare dove siete ora e per questo potete essere grati.

Now you know how to approach life from the right side. You know how to react with power and authenticity, you don’t have to wait for someone else.

Siete sufficienti da soli e lo sapete. Solo questo fa di lei una donna potente.

There’s no force in the universe that can stop a woman who knows herself, who appreciates her own unique beauty, respects her mind and chooses to choose love over anything.

This time it’s the love for herself. If a man can’t recognize those things within her, he’s not the one.

That’s why you don’t settle for someone who is just there. Someone who thinks that their physical presence is enough to make the relationship work.

Pensate e sognate più in grande. Date a voi stessi ciò che desiderate, perché potete farlo.

If that’s a man, believe he exists. If that’s living on your own and feeling happy, that also exists.

Dovete solo accedere al vostro potere e farlo accadere.

E sapete una cosa? Avete quel potere dentro di voi, così come avete avuto il potere di andare avanti anche quando faceva un male cane.

Don’t wait for things to happen—just take your first step and watch things fall into place.

And most importantly—never forget that you’re the woman of your own life.