She was with someone who broke her soul and he didn’t even think twice about it. And it’s no wonder she forgot her worth.
The toxic relationship came with a high price—it took parts of her that she’s never going to find again. She became a mere shadow of the woman she once was.
But in spite of everything, she still gets up in the morning, she still enjoys coffee, she stills gives warmth to people in her life, she still smiles from time to time just to remind herself what happiness should look like.
She is someone to be admired. She is someone anybody would be lucky to have in their life; she’s just not aware of it.
She loved him so much that she forgot how to love herself.
He was the type of man who loved to bring her down so he could lift himself higher. It was his way of boosting his ego.
He was her treasure but he treated her like trash. No matter what she gave or how hard she tried, it was never good enough.
He never made her feel like she was good enough. He filled her heart with self-doubt. Her confidence is at its lowest point and she is working hard to get it back.
She barely has any strength left but she keeps on picking herself up. She is trying to get her life back on track. She is brave in her pain.
All she needs is to be reminded that she deserves to be loved. She is worthy of love just like anybody else and even more so.
She needs to silence his voice inside of her head that’s telling her she isn’t good enough.
She needs to find her own voice again. She needs to slow down and see all the people in her life who are already giving her all their unconditional love. People who stand by her through thick and thin. People who admire her for being herself.
She needs to look in the mirror and see how beautiful she is.
She needs to see past the insecurities and realize that she is breathtaking just the way she is. All the little ‘imperfections’ will actually become her strong points once she starts looking at herself with a new set of eyes. Once she accepts her body just the way it is. Once she realizes that true beauty comes from within.
She needs to peek into herself and see what she is made of.
She is much stronger than she thinks. She has so much power over her life, she just has to take it. She has to find a way to stop his toxicity from influencing her life anymore.
She can do anything she sets her mind to. She can reinvent herself. She can be happy again. All she needs to do is trust in herself. All she needs to do is love herself every day a bit more and there is no stopping her.
She needs to realize that her story is just beginning.
She is creating a new life for herself. She is starting to write a new book of her life and she should seal the chapter about her toxic ex and leave him in the past where he belongs.
All she needs from that chapter are some valuable lessons, red flags to watch out for and a great reminder of what love should never be like.
She will love again one day, in some of her future chapters. Most importantly, she will be loved back, she will be appreciated, she will be someone’s dream come true.
The best thing about it is that even before that day comes along, she will realize that she is worthy of love and she won’t even remember why she ever doubted it.