25 Signs He’s Scared Of How Much He Likes You (Without Realizing It)
Have you ever wondered why he’s acting all distant? You immediately think that he’s not that into you. But believe me, that doesn’t have to be the case.
Guys are not like us. Most of them aren’t used to expressing their feelings, and they are actually scared of these new emotions that are bottling up inside of them. Guys would be all like: “I’m a macho man, love can’t conquer me!” and then BOOM, all of a sudden they find themselves completely and utterly in love with you.
And bear in mind, he’s not being distant—he is just facing new emotions and maybe he doesn’t know how to deal with them. So, with this being said, pay attention to what I’m about to write.
These are the clear signs he likes you, but is scared as hell to just listen to his heart and give in.
1. He’s staring.
You know that feeling when you sense that someone is watching you? That he is watching you? You know that he’s staring at you and that he is thinking about how lucky he is that he scored you. Yeah, you know, and it feels soooo good.
You don’t want to lift your head up because you will ruin the moment. If he realizes that you are onto him, that you know he’s watching you, he will stop because he is afraid of admitting to you and himself that he likes you.
2. He’s been hurt before.
Every now and then he mentions he was hurt once before, and he will do anything in the world to avoid that. That’s the reason he’s not giving himself all the way in to your relationship. He is afraid that you will break his heart as the one before you did.
And that’s completely normal. Put yourself in his shoes. If a guy broke your heart, would you trust someone else right away or would you play it safe until you were positive that scenario is not going to happen again?
3. Should I, or shouldn’t I?
This is an obvious sign that he cares but is scared. One moment he is all loving, kind and caring and the other moment he’s distant and cold. This seems like some endless inside battle of his. Is he going to let you in or not?
He’s sending you mixed signals, and you are not sure how to react. Are you going to leave him because you think he is leading you on, or are you going to stick with him long enough to make him just come out and say – I LIKE YOU! It’s up to you!