So, you’ve just met a guy you’re really into, but you are not sure whether he shares the same feelings as you. You’re looking for clues and signs the man is attracted to you sexually to decipher this whole enigma of him being interested in you or not.
And the truth is that in the majority of cases, the clues have been right in front of you, but you somehow failed to see them because you were paying attention to some other less important details.
You see, guys and girls don’t behave the same when it comes to attraction. As a matter of fact, guys really are from Mars, whereas girls are from Venus! And do you know why?
Because women might try to fake that they like a guy, but guys are simply not concerned with that at all, meaning that their body language and facial expressions give them away every single time. So, the most important thing you need to pay attention to is the signs a man is attracted to you sexually!
Why sexual attraction matters?
Before diving deeper into the signs of a man’s attraction toward you, you might want to know the importance and reason why sexual attraction exists in the first place. So, the main, scientific reason why we’re sexually attracted to someone lies in our biological tendency to find the perfect partner who will help us create strong and healthy offspring.
Yup. The truth is that you don’t even have to be interested in the guy you’ve seen in the bar, mall or anywhere on the street, but you will still be sexually attracted to him because of your genetics and subconscious desire to reproduce with him.
I guess that’s explains a lot about why men tend to lose their minds when they see a girl with wide hips, big breasts, etc. because these are all biological signs that she is capable of bearing children. This evokes in them a strong, sexual attraction. (Okay, enough of science!) But, don’t get me wrong.
Sexual attraction is not all about the physical!
Sexual attraction is definitely not all about the physical. It is a combination of both your physical appearance and your personality. It is a mix of various factors that need to simply click in order to create a strong attraction within someone.
So, don’t think that you need to look like a supermodel in order to attract the certain guy that you might be into. Your vibe, the way you talk, and even the way you walk all play a big part when it comes to attraction.
And if you’re wondering whether that particular guy you like is into you, just pay attention to the following 10 signs a man is attracted to you sexually, and you will solve the mystery! (Also remember that not all men exhibit the same signs. Your man might exhibit only some of them because every guy is wired differently.)
1. He has his eyes all over you
One of the biggest signs a man is attracted to you sexually is when he can’t take his eyes off of you. It is a sign that he really likes what he sees and that he wants to be with you. This is something most men can’t control, so if you see him staring at you all the time, it means that he really likes you and that he craves to touch or kiss you.
I know that it might be awkward for you when someone is constantly gazing at you, but now you know that this is actually a good sign. So, don’t bother will all that overthinking about whether you look weird or have something on your face. The only truth is that he can’t stop looking at you even if he wanted to because the sexual attraction he feels for you is really strong within him.
2. He parts his lips
Yup, that is something you do when you see that gorgeous dress while you are window shopping. You open your mouth, staring at it like you have never seen anything as beautiful as that. Well, welcome to a man’s world because that is how they look when they see a girl they are attracted to.
They just can’t take their eyes off of her and their mouth instantly open. And the worst part is that they are not actually even aware of doing that. So, if you see your guy doing the same thing when looking at you, know that he’s just mesmerized by what’s in front of him (by you), and he’s probably thinking about how would it feel to kiss you and taste your beauty.
3. His eyebrows are all up
This is also one thing that guys do while thinking that they actually aren’t doing anything. When he sees a good-looking girl, he will immediately lift his eyebrows because he thinks that his eyes will be more open and that he will be able to see her better.
But, of course, that doesn’t make any sense because he could have seen her well enough without lifting his eyebrows at all. So, the next time you see a man lifting his eyebrows and looking straight at you, you can be sure that he is sexually attracted to you.
4. He stays really close to you
When a man is sexually attracted to you, he will stay as close to you as he can. That is his way to try to touch you accidentally and to satisfy his desire to be close to you. So, if you see him coming closer and closer, wanting to talk to you while he is checking you out all the time, this is a sign that he is really, but really, sexually attracted to you.
For some girls, this can seem very sweet, while for others it might seem gross. But, all in all, it is a sure sign that he’s lost his mind for you, and he’s desperately trying to get closer to you and feel your body, skin, perhaps sniff your hair, etc.. I know it’s sounds kind of weird, but that’s just how guys are wired and, after all, who would blame them.
5. He blushes when he is next to you
This is one of my personal favorites. Blushing is definitely one of the greatest signs a man is attracted to you sexually, and here’s why.
When a man is sexually attracted to you, he will blush when he is next to you. It will probably be very uncomfortable for him to be next to you when he likes you, and he won’t know what to say or how to act in front of you.
So when you ask him something, he will probably be confused, and he will blush because your presence will make him anxious. This is an obvious sign that he likes you and that he wants to be with you.
6. He makes eye contact
If a guy likes you, he will want to look at you all the time. He will try to make eye contact with you, and he will want to keep it as well. That will be a sign for you that he likes you and that if you continue to look at him, he has the opportunity to approach you.
So, if you like him, you can continue looking at him, giving him a chance to come closer so that the two of you can get to know each other much better.
But, you also need to pay attention to the fact that not all guys are confident enough to maintain eye contact with girls. Shy guys are pretty much an endangered species when it comes to this. No matter how much they like the girl, they will simply be unable to look her in the eye because of their shy natures.
7. He spreads his legs wide
If he sits with his legs wide open while looking at you, there are two reasons for this. First, it means that he finds you sexy. Even if he is not aware he is doing this, deep down he is imagining that he is having sex with you using all the positions that exist. He wants to try to get you in bed, to satisfy his male sex drive.
The second reason is that he’s trying to accentuate his male body parts (if you know what I mean) by spreading his legs wide so that you can notice him. I know it sounds a little bit weird, but you need to know that they are doing all of this subconsciously.
8 . He wants your attention
When a man is sexually attracted to you, he will want to have all your attention. If you talk to another guy, he will probably be really pissed off because he thinks that other guys are not as good as him for you.
And he will want your attention no matter where the two of you are: in a coffee shop, at a restaurant or at a football match. The good thing is that this is a sign he really likes you but the bad thing is that it can make it look like he is a clingy person.
9. He flirts with you
If this is not a sign that he is sexually attracted to you, then I don’t know what is. A man who flirts with a girl always wants something more from her, and he is ready to do all those crazy things to show her that he wants to be with her.
Just think of the little boys in school when they are teasing other girls and doing stupid things just to draw their attention. The same goes with adult men. When they are into you, they never stop trying to win your attention by showing how funny they are, etc.
Now it is up to you if you will accept that flirting and respond in the same way or if you just don’t see yourself with him, so you will just ignore him.
10. He makes plans with you
If a guy makes plans with you, it means that he really cares about you and that he wants to spend more time with you. He isn’t just a fuckboy who wants to have you for a one-night stand and then dump you.
It means he’s so attracted to you that he wants to see you every second of his life because he simply can’t get enough of you. He is not interested in all those mind games and manipulations because he genuinely cares about you and your feelings.
If a guy makes plans with you, it means he really wants to get to know you better and try to form a stable and healthy relationship with you. And if you just give him a shot, you will see that he is worthy of your time and your love.