For months or maybe even years, you’ve been stuck in a lousy relationship.
For a long time, you’ve been stuck in a bad place without knowing how to escape.
Maybe you are involved with a man who isn’t treating you right or doesn’t love you enough.
Maybe you keep on suffering from someone from your past and continue carrying tons of emotional baggage that’s been weighing you down and burdening you.
Or you love someone who clearly doesn’t want a place in your heart.
Maybe you’ve wasted years on some on-and-off almost relationship which clearly doesn’t have a future.
Or you’ve found yourself trapped in an abusive relationship.
Whatever the case, the bottom line is pretty much the same – you aren’t happy with where your life is now.
You want changes, but you don’t know where to start.
How can you make your life different and how can you help yourself to return to the person you were before all of this misery hit you?
Well, I know you want to heal badly. You want to fix your broken heart and put yourself back together.
However, let’s be honest for a second – what are you really doing about this? Have you made the step toward your recovery?
Or you keep on making excuses for yourself and justifying your lack of bravery to change things?
Do you continue lying to yourself that one of these days, you’ll make the right decision and take your life in your own hands, without actually doing anything concrete about it?
Well, if this is something you can relate to, I am here to tell you that enough’s enough.
Enough of you dwelling in pain; enough of you remaining inside this comfort zone that all of this hurt made for you.
Enough of you lamenting over yourself and crying over your sad faith, while sitting around and patiently waiting for some miracle to make things right all of a sudden.
Enough of you being nothing but a silent bystander and observer of your own life.
Enough of you allowing this pain to define you and control your life. Enough of you not making yourself happy.
That is why today is the day all of it changes.
Yes, you’ve heard it right – this very second is the moment you start making some crucial changes in your life.
The day when you start your journey of moving on.
Today is the day you walk away from a relationship that isn’t making you happy, the day you send to hell the man who is hurting you, and the day you cut all ties with your past that’s been putting you down.
The day you get rid of all this emotional baggage that keeps on breaking your heart all over again.
The day you stop waiting for him to change, the day you stop begging for his love and attention.
The day you look harsh reality in the eyes and finally accept the truth, no matter how painful it is.
Today is the day you realize that you are strong enough to survive all of this and the day you start believing that you will make it.
The day you see all of your capacities and potential, and the day you start forcing yourself to become the woman you’ve always wanted to be.
Today is the day you stop holding on and finally let go. The day you stop settling for less and go after much more.
The day you choose yourself over someone who doesn’t deserve you, the day you start loving yourself more than anyone.
The day you choose your bright future over your toxic past or present.
I won’t lie to you – it will be hard and there will be times when you’ll want to back out.
However, no beginning is easy and this is just a start of a long but beneficial journey that will pay off before you know it.
Nevertheless, you have to start somewhere, right? And what better opportunity than this one?
So, if you are looking for a sign, this is it!
