Do men fall in love with a woman’s exterior, interior, or a combination of both? Do they fall for a perfect body, face, outfit, or is it something else?

Given that men are said to be hardcore visual creatures, for many years I’ve been convinced that the biggest factor responsible for a man falling in love is woman’s perfection. I thought that if a woman behaves in a perfect manner, looks perfect, and oozes perfect energy, she’ll be able to attract anyone and make any man fall in love with her with ease.

For years I’ve been trying to be the perfect girlfriend. I would even go out of my way to meet men’s needs and make them happy to convince them how much I care about them.

And what have I gotten in return? Dealing with immature men who still need some growing up to do. Dealing with narcissistic men, men who are emotionally unavailable – you name it.

Back then I didn’t realize that I was attracting such men out of fear of being alone, out of fear of losing them and being single forever. I was trying hard to be the perfect girlfriend and that’s the main reason why I was taken for granted, disrespected, and heartbroken.

Back then I didn’t realize that men don’t fall in love with women with flawless looks and behavior. Instead, they fall in love with women they’re afraid to lose!

If you give a man everything without ever asking for anything in return, he won’t think twice before taking you for granted. If you show a man that you’ve fallen for him hard without giving him a chance to first prove to you that he’s worthy of being with you, he’ll never even think about making an effort.

Why?

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Because men fall in love with women who make them work hard, who make them roll up their sleeves and put in effort to show that they’re capable of winning them. Men fall in love with women who aren’t afraid to disapprove of their actions or acknowledge when they do something wrong.

Men fall for women who push them to become the best version of themselves.

Once a man succeeds in winning a woman’s attention, he feels like a winner – like he’s just conquered the world. And the longer he has to try to achieve it, the harder he’ll fall for her. Men fall in love with women who push them to constantly come up with new ideas and deal with new challenges when pursuing them.

Men appreciate women who push them to become the best version of themselves. Those who won’t back down from saying what they really mean, demanding an apology, and living life as they please.

Men fall in love with women who aren’t afraid to be who they really are.

Men are swept off their feet by women who aren’t scared of telling stupid jokes or behaving childishly in public, because that’s what makes them truly beautiful and unique. Men don’t fall in love with perfect women.

They’re charmed by women who are proud to be who they really are, don’t give a shit about what other people think, and who don’t go out of their way to please everyone. Men lose their heads over women who are bold enough to show their rebelliousness, passion, and free spirit – that’s what makes a woman irresistible.

Men fall for women who want them, but don’t need them.

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Men are turned on by women who are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves and don’t need a man to make them happy. The women who want them in their life, but don’t need them.

Women who thrive to live every day like it’s their last, never miss the opportunity to take a risk, and do stupid things just because they can. They fall for women who are self-sufficient, resilient, and non-fuck-givers.

Men fall in love with women who are in love with themselves.

Men are enchanted by women who are excited about life and who know how to spoil themselves from time to time. They’re spellbound by women who are in love with themselves, nature, people around them, and everything they do.

Men are captivated by women who aren’t afraid to follow their dreams and speak their mind – who can lift their spirits up and bring them down in a second.

Men fall in love with self-respecting women who call them on their bullshit and keep them grounded, because that’s what makes them afraid to lose them!

See also: 20 Little Things He’s Falling For You Hard (And If It Will Last)

Men Fall In Love With Women They’re Afraid To Lose