Ask yourself one simple question: Do you feel really happy and truly loved? Does the man you love make you happy?
Do you sincerely feel that he loves you the same way you love him?
No? Then don’t allow yourself to be with someone who doesn’t make you feel loved and appreciated because you definitely deserve more.
And you do deserve even more than you think.
Think about life in general. It’s the only thing that doesn’t have a general definition because we all write our own definition of it.
Life is what you make out of it and what you choose it to be like.
I can’t define it for you but one thing I can tell for sure is that it’s too short to waste it on people who aren’t aware of your worth.
I know that life is too hard to dedicate it to one energy vampire, to someone who only drains your energy and doesn’t allow you to live your life the way you should, to live your life to the fullest.
Life has so many aspects and love is the most important one. It’s something that motivates you to keep going no matter what.
So how can someone who gives you only small bites of love motivate you?
How can someone who acts like he isn’t afraid of losing you, someone who treats you like you’re just some ordinary girl, inspire you to grab your life by the horns and achieve all your goals and dreams?
My dear, you have to know that you’re not ordinary.
You’re a unique and very special diamond that will never get a chance to shine as long as you’re with the wrong man.
You don’t deserve to be someone’s option when there are so many other guys who would like to make you their main priority.
The hell with it, to make you their only priority in life.
Stop trying to find some excuses in which you yourself can no longer believe.
There is no justification for someone who doesn’t love or treat you the right way.
Now, if you want to ask me what that right way is, just picture me pointing my finger at you. The way you love him is the only right way to do so.
The way you treated and loved him is the only right way.
You deserve to be loved with his whole heart; actually, with every beat of his heart.
Making some stupid excuses for him won’t buy you any time because you’re probably doing so with the hope that he might change one day.
I’m sorry for telling you this but he won’t change. His feelings won’t change and his love will remain so wrong and reckless.
He will never be able to love you the way you love him because his heart isn’t as pure or honest as yours is.
It’s really time for you to move on. You should give yourself that time instead and start loving yourself more.
Start loving your life more.
Put yourself back at the very top of your priorities again. That’s the only place you do belong to.
You know the right way to love already, now you just have to learn to redirect that love toward yourself.
Once you do that, you’ll understand that it was a mistake to put up with a man who never knew how to love you for so long.
It will hurt but you won’t suffer for too long, that I can promise you.
You’ll love and appreciate yourself enough to know that you can’t allow yourself to feel more pain just because one man didn’t know how to love you, just because one man didn’t know how to keep you.
Don’t worry about him because sooner or later, karma will come knocking on his door.
The time will come when he’ll regret being so stupid and letting a woman like you go.
Karma will come to you too. One day, the right one will come and he’ll love you in a way you could never imagine.
He’ll love every part of you to the core.
Yes, being with someone you love is important but remember; being with someone who loves you even more than you love them is far more important.