“The art of seduction is knowing what she really wants and slowly giving it to her in a way that takes her breath away.” – Unknown
I bet there isn’t a single guy out there who hasn’t thought about tips and tricks for seducing girls.
So, given that you’re here reading this article, I assume you’re ready to learn the art of seduction and become the greatest seducer of all time!
After all, seduction is not an easy job. It’s true that some people are born to be able to do it but the majority of us need to make a serious effort in order to absorb and apply the following tips to their dating advice (especially when it comes to the first date) with body language, the first impression, flirtation and sexual attraction.
All these are interconnected and you have to master all of them in order to learn how to seduce a girl like a boss.
But before diving deeper into matters, I will tell you one secret which is the key to mastering the art of seduction. The secret is SELF-CONFIDENCE.
Many guys forget that they don’t have to be perfect in order to succeed in seducing women.
This pressure stems from their appreciation and admiration for beautiful women and the more they like a woman, the more they feel incompetent to win her over.
But this pressure is nothing but an illusion that emerges due to low self-esteem and the secret is in understanding it.
You could be a hardcore alpha male, the most attractive and the richest guy on a planet or the God of the texting game but if you don’t have self-confidence, you will not succeed in seducing her.
Guys often forget that girls don’t fall for the most attractive or the richest ones.
They fall for those guys who know what they want and who know how to get what they want (unless they are gold-diggers).
Remember that one sentence and you’ll thank me later.
So, basically, girls fall for those guys who know how to make them feel special and who know what the hell they are doing and that is how you will succeed to win any girl over!
Now, do yourself a favor and delete that one sentence from your head: “But she’s a hot girl and I’m way out of her league…”
No! She is a hot girl but this doesn’t mean shit. No matter how hot she is, she can still easily fall for any guy who knows what he’s doing and who knows the game and that guy is you!
You are the one who will make her believe that you’re on the same level and she should be happy that you asked her out.
You will make her believe that she’s out of your league and not otherwise and you will do all of this by displaying self-confidence and by following these 10 foolproof tips for seducing girls like a boss and most importantly, with minimum effort!
1. Accentuate your best features
Even though physical appearance is not crucial when it comes to seducing girls, it is still important to pay a certain amount of attention to it because it’s the first thing that a girl notices.
When it comes to dressing your best, the key is in accentuating your best features with the clothes that look good on you.
It can be a certain color that matches your eyes or it can be a certain pattern that makes you look more masculine.
What you want to do is present yourself as a guy who knows how to take care of himself, who looks after his beard (if you have one), takes care of basic hygiene and feels good in his own skin.
The first step is getting her attention which will be the basis of seduction.
2. Be self-confident
As already said, the most important thing that you need to remember is self-confidence.
To show her how confident you are, you need to look her in the eyes when talking, stand up straight, always be straightforward and even if you make a trivial mistake, you should never acknowledge it.
The secret is in always being chill and being in control of the situation.
That way, you will let her know that you know what you’re doing and you have a goal that you want to achieve and that goal is winning her.
When a girl notices that you know how to make her feel special with minimum effort and you always know how to act at a certain moment, she will see that you’re a capable guy who knows his shit and who is not afraid to fight for what he wants.
3. Present your passions in an appealing way
If you want to seduce a girl, you need to present your passions, hobbies and the things you like to do in an appealing way.
You need to show her that you have a life and you’re living it to the fullest because that is sexy as hell and any girl will be amazed to hear that.
It’s basically the same thing as having a profile on Tinder, Instagram or other dating apps and social networks.
In order to attract as many people as possible, you have to show them how exciting your life is so that they desire to be a part of it.
4. Don’t let her know you like her
One of the biggest mistakes that the majority of guys are guilty of is showing her that you like her (especially in the initial phase).
You don’t want to follow her around like a puppy or send text messages repeating how much you like her, how much you want to be with her and that she’s the only woman for you.
If you do that, she will run away from you immediately. I can guarantee you that.
No woman has ever fallen for a guy who puts her on a pedestal every time he sees her or texts her. She wants to know that you have a life and that she’s not the only thing you’re thinking about all the time because that’s not sexy at all. It’s desperate and annoying.
So, to avoid making that mistake, you should always be careful when talking to her or texting her.
Before you say or do something, you should always think about how this will make her feel and how she might interpret it.
5. Be a good listener
Women like guys who don’t only talk about themselves (especially when you’re on the first date).
They want to be listened to and paid attention to. So, if you learn to be a good listener, half of your job will be done.
Listening to your partner is also the first commandment of every long-term relationship because listening equals respect and respect equals making them feel special.
The same thing can be applied to texting as well. You should never bombard her with too many text messages, one after another (especially if she’s not replying).
You want to be a man of virtue, a gentleman who is loaded with patience and class and you want her to recognize this.
6. Show your humorous side
Seducing a girl has never been easier for those who are gifted with a sense of humor.
But even if you’re not a master of it, you can still show your humorous side once in a while and make her smile.
Remember that if a girl smiles, it means she’s happy and when she’s happy, anything is possible, dude.
You can find a couple of jokes online or think about your own or you can make fun of a situation you’re in and go with the flow.
There are numerous ways of how to make a girl smile and all you need to do is find the perfect timing for it.
7. Let her guess who you are
By letting her guess who you are, I mean maintaining a little bit of mystery because girls LOVE mystery.
No, they don’t just love it. They are crazy about it! (I know this because I’m a female species myself.) Now, the question is how to let her guess who you are.
You will certainly not give her riddles to solve, right?
If you want to learn how to seduce a woman, you need to learn how to apply the minimum principle (yes, I just invented the term for this special occasion).
The minimum principle means not talking too much about yourself (this includes texting as well) and not giving her essential information about your personality.
You want her to struggle a little bit to find out who you really are and what your true intentions are.
And since girls like to overthink things, this will be like a vacation for her, trust me.
8. Use the power of flirtation body language
When it comes to seducing girls, flirtation body language becomes your best friend.
If you want to become the boss of the seduction game, you need to maintain eye contact, flirt without being obvious, take her hand and lead her, place your hand on her shoulder and so on.
You don’t want to cross your arms because that means you’re being reserved or anxious about spending time with her.
You want to use your body language to your advantage and that is why you should always be aware of it.
That way, you’ll always be one step ahead of the game and in control of the situation.
9. Build sexual tension
Building sexual tension is another way to say make her horny and I know that this is your number one priority (at least for the majority of guys out there), so I will tell you a little secret about it.
If you want to build sexual tension, you need to remember that more is less.
This means that you need to do it in a subtle way so that she doesn’t feel forced or uncomfortable about it.
The best way to make her horny is to start whispering something into her ear, touch her knees or shoulders, look deeply in her eyes for ten seconds, then retreat and do all of it again.
But you don’t have to do it in a specific order. Mix it and act in accordance with the current situation.
10. Leave her hanging
Remember when I said that you should never let her know that you like her (at least not directly)?
Well, one way to do it (and probably the best way) is to leave her hanging.
This means that you need to pay attention that you always have the last word when you’re parting, so that you always give her hope and let her wait.
When she expects that you will kiss her or do something more, you need to say goodnight and leave, even though it will be hard as fuck to do so.
The first time you do it, it will seem almost impossible but the second and then the next time will be much easier.
Just keep in mind that maintaining some mystery and living her hanging will help you win her over in no time and let that be your inspiration and motivation.
The above tips are more like a guide that will help you master the art of seducing.
However, if you don’t feel comfortable with any of it, feel free to skip it and invent something new as an alternative.
Always try new things and work on your new moves because that is the essence of learning and becoming good at something.
And remember to stay patient because it takes much work to master the seducing game and you should never lose hope even if something goes in the wrong direction.
Be ready to improvise and remember to let your mistakes be your lessons for your future endeavors!