I don’t know if anyone ever told you but if you want to win a girl, compliments for girls are your best friend. Now, I want you to be honest with me.
Do you really like that girl and want to make her yours? Do you want to make her feel good, but you’re not sure how to do it, and you certainly don’t want to scare her?
If you do, the only thing you need is to MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL. And in order to do that, you have to learn how to compliment her properly.
Now you’re probably wondering why you should bother memorizing the list of compliments in order to win her heart.
The thing is, girls like to be complimented—A LOT. And it is not because they are insecure, but because they are simply wired that way. If you know how to compliment her, you’re 100 steps ahead of the game.
If you know how to make her feel appreciated, respected and wanted, dude, you’ve just won the game!
You will make her feel special by complimenting her appearance, skills and talents, personality, fashion, her smile, sense of humor, etc.
Here is the list of the best compliments for girls (with brief explanations beneath them) that will make her heart beat faster, and you’ll win her instantly.
Best Compliments For Girls
The best compliments are the ones that come from the heart. If you want to make her feel truly special, you need to let her know how unique, smart, fun, and inspiring she is. Here’s how you’ll do it!
You’re so smart
Always compliment her on how smart she is because girls want to be praised for both their interior and exterior as well.
You have a great sense of fashion
Girls spend a lot of time contemplating what to wear and how to match the colors of their outfits. By praising her taste in fashion, you’ll win the lottery.
You always make my day!
Just as men, women want to be praised for their humorous side, too. By this, you’ll tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her.
You’re really talented in (something)
If she’s good at drawing, singing or something else, say it to her. Don’t forget to pay attention to her skills and talents—not just her looks.
You’re so caring
When she makes you a coffee, gets up to bring you a glass of water or nurses you when you’re sick, tell her that you’ve noticed how caring she is.
I wish I’d met you earlier
You can use this when you’re talking about your past girlfriends or the past in general. She’ll feel special because you’re happy to have her in your life.
You are the light at the end of my tunnel
If you’re going through hard times and she’s always doing her best to comfort you, you can thank her for that by using this compliment.
I feel so happy to be here with you
This one speaks for itself.
You are so fearless/confident
Whenever she does something incredible, tell her that you like how fearless she is. And when you compliment her on how confident she is, she will be even more confident in the future.
You light up any room you walk into
Her charismatic personality has the power to light up any room she walks into it. She fills every room with positivity and uplifting energy. She steals every person’s heart instantly (and she deserves to know all that).
You inspire me. I learn so much just from being around you
She’s your biggest inspiration and you can’t imagine your life without her. She teaches you powerful life lessons, gives the best advice and she’s always there when you need her.
There’s something about you that is so uplifting
Yup, there’s something about her that makes you think about her 24/7. She’s always on your mind because her personality is so captivating and uplifting. Every girl wants to know that there’s something special about her.
You always look so cool, fresh, and lovely
Girls invest lots of time in self-care and they try their best to always look fresh and lovely. That is why they deserve to be praised for that.
I love how easy it is to be around you
She’s your best friend, your secret crush, and your girlfriend (or future girlfriend). You’re head over heels in love with her simplicity, sense of humor, and unique mindset that make her the most beautiful girl you’ve ever met.
You are breathtaking in so many ways
When you’re running out of words to express how much she means to you and how beautiful she is, this is all you need to say to let her know that. Every time she looks at you, she takes your breath away (without even trying).
How Do You Tell A Girl She’s Beautiful?
You tell a girl she’s beautiful by complimenting both her appearance and personality. Beauty consists of outer and inner beauty. Complimenting both is the way to win her heart and show her how magical she is.
You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met
If you say this to her, she’ll be on cloud nine. The key is in the word beautiful because that single word encompasses all of her internal and external traits.
Beautiful means: pretty, sexy, smart, awesome… I mean, who wouldn’t want to feel like she’s the most beautiful person you’ve ever met?
I can’t stop looking at your eyes, lips…
If you say this, you’ll subtly tell her that you’re mesmerized by her eyes, lips…
The eyes are known to be the mirror of our souls, and if you compliment her eyes, she will see how thoughtful and profound you are. Women love deep stuff because it shows them that you care.
I love how your smile brightens up my day
Every girl wants to be praised for her smile. You’ll make her feel appreciated, and that way she’ll smile more often because she will know that you notice it.
Your hair looks great today!
A girl’s hair is a sacred place, and if you compliment her hair, you’ll make her the happiest girl in the entire world. That way you’ll show her that you notice her efforts to look best.
Wow! You look even more beautiful without makeup
Yup. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she really is with makeup or without it. Girls want to make sure you love them both ways.
I’m mesmerized by your beauty
Her eyes shine bright like diamonds, her hair is gorgeous and her smile is breathtaking. Her ability to make you laugh without even trying is impressive. You’re mesmerized by her beauty inside out.
I’m truly blessed to have you in my life
You could spend every second of your life with her and you wouldn’t get bored of her presence. You’re truly blessed to have such a fun, inspiring, empowering, and beautiful woman in your life and she deserves to know all that.
You bring out the best in me
She motivates you to become the best version of yourself. She brings out the best in you, she keeps you grounded and she lifts your spirits up when you’re feeling sad. She’s a magical person who stole your heart the moment you saw her.
I love every inch of you
You love the way she sometimes smiles for no reason, the way she eats her favorite meal, her cute gestures, intense eye contact, her warm hug. You love every inch of her because she is your life.
You are always the most beautiful woman in the room
No matter where you are, she is always the most beautiful woman in the room. She doesn’t even have to try to be the most beautiful because it comes naturally to her.
How Do You Praise A Cute Girl?
If you want to praise a cute girl, accentuate the things that make her so damn cute. Focus on her cute appearance and her sweet personality that is driving you crazy.
Praising a cute girl is not an easy task because words are often not enough. However, here are the best ways to show appreciation for a cute girl!
You’re so cute!
When she makes some cute gestures, facial expressions or wears a cute outfit, don’t forget to tell her that you’ve noticed how adorably cute she is.
I’ve never met someone like you
This one is similar to the first one, but it has a slightly different connotation. Always use this one in combination with others. E.g. I’ve never met someone like you. You always make my day.
I could just look at you for hours without ever getting bored
This one means you like what you see, and if you like what you see, she will like you as well. You can also try, I could look at you sleeping for hours and would never get bored.
Every time I’m with you, I lose track of time
You can’t lose track of time when you’re bored with someone. By this, you’re telling her that you have an amazing time with her, and you’re looking forward to seeing her again.
You look so wonderful in your dress/sweater…
Most of the time, girls are indecisive when choosing what to wear. By telling her that she looks beautiful in what she’s wearing, half of your job will be done.
You are perfect the way you are. Don’t ever change
This one is especially important because everyone wants to be liked and loved for who they are and not for who you want them to be.
I cannot keep my eyes off of you
You cannot stop observing her big, innocent eyes and her cute smile. She reminds you of a teddy bear and all you want to do is cuddle with her forever.
You are the sweetest
She’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever seen. From surprising you with unique romantic gestures to expressing her love for you with words, she does everything in a cute manner that instantly melts your heart.
You look prettier than a picture
There is no picture in the world that is cuter or prettier than her. The fact that she’s not even aware of it makes her even more special in your eyes.
Could you be any cuter?
If you want to make a cute girl blush, then ask her that cute question. She will be unable to look you in the eyes for the next five minutes of so much blushing but once she does, she will be even cuter than before.
More Compliments For Girls…
1. I could listen to you talk for hours and never get tired of it.
2. You are my dream come true.
3. You are everything to me.
4. Any person would be lucky to have you, but God chose me to be the luckiest.
5. Good friends are hard to find, so I am especially grateful that we found each other.
6. Even after all these years, I still fall in love with you over and over again.
7. You have the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen.
8. You are inspiring me to become a better person every day.
9. You are my best friend, my partner in crime.
10. Your lips always look kissable.
11. You are the first thing that I want to wake up to every morning and the last thing I want to see before I fall asleep. I want my days to begin and end with you.
12. I love how you appreciate all the little things in life.
13. I do not know how you do everything that you do. You are a superwoman.
14. I like how you know exactly who you are and what you want from life.
15. You have such great communication skills.
16. You look the cutest when you laugh.
17. When I want to be with someone or share something, you’re my favorite person.
18. I love you the most when you’re not afraid to be yourself.19. When I think of strong women, I think of you.
20. Your presence is so refreshing.
21. I associate you with the word “fun.”
22. You are such a gentle soul.
23. On a scale from 1 to 10, you’re an 11.
24. You’re one of a kind.
25. There’s ordinary, and then there’s you.
26. Somehow you make time stop and fly all at the same time.
27. You always know just what to say.
28. You’re a great example to others.
29. The people you love are lucky to have you in their lives.
30. Everyone gets knocked down sometimes; only people like you get back up again and keep going.
31. You’re a great listener.
32. You’re a strong woman.
33. You are so brave.
34. Your optimism and positivity are contagious.
35. Your determination is truly respectable.
How To Compliment A Girl
When it comes to compliments for girls, KNOWING HOW TO DO IT is your secret ingredient.
The key is to implement a compliment naturally within a conversation and to do it as directly as possible (no hesitation or stuttering).
The best compliments for girls are the ones that are UNIQUE. Period. Imagine saying to a girl you really dig something like this: You’re pretty. I mean, what exactly is pretty on her? What makes her different from all the other girls?
Think about that. If any guy told me something like that, I wouldn’t take him seriously and I wouldn’t be flattered. If you ask me, giving compliments that consist of one or two words max is considered low effort.
The same thing applies to social media. When you’re about to compliment a beautiful girl’s picture, you should never write something like Beautiful. Of course, you have every right to write that but if you want to impress her, I suggest that you don’t do it.
Be unique. Tell her that her eyes remind you of something special. Tell her that her smile is so powerful that it brightens every room. Tell her that she’s magical and you have never met anyone like her.
Don’t be generic, boring, or a low-effort guy. Show her that you notice every single thing about her (even something that she herself is not aware of).
Say it like you really mean it!
Imagine that the two of you are walking and talking about some random stuff, and all of a sudden you tell her: I think your hair looks awesome today! Imagine the amount of catastrophe you’ve just done by saying it.
If you use indecisive verbs like ‘think, seem’ etc. it will not make her feel special. It will only confuse her, and she will start thinking that her hair doesn’t look good at all.
The only reason she will think that is because you were indecisive, and that is why she didn’t believe you in the first place.
Instead, you should say: Your hair looks awesome today! In order to make her believe what you say, you have to say it like you really mean it.
So, stay away from the words like ‘think, seem’ because it will only confuse her, and instead of making her like you, you’ll do the opposite—and you certainly don’t want that to happen.
Don’t just compliment her physical appearance
Seriously, if you want to impress and win a girl, don’t just focus on her appearance. Anyone can tell any girl things like Your hair looks awesome. Your lips look so soft. I love your legs.
Don’t get me wrong. We love when someone compliments our appearance but we also love when someone compliments our personality. I personally appreciate more personality compliments than anything else.
Is she always cheerful when she’s with you? Does she have a great sense of humor? Is she caring or inspiring? Is she a creative soul?
Don’t just compliment her appearance but let her know that she’s beautiful inside out. Meaningful compliments have the power to boost every girl’s self-esteem.
If you’re on a first date, make sure to give her a variety of compliments instead of only complimenting her looks. If you do that and you act like a true gentleman, I can guarantee you that you’ll win her heart instantly.
Be creative (play with words)
If you think that the only way to give great compliments is by learning all of them by heart, then I have to tell you that you’re wrong about it. When giving compliments, remember to be creative.
Play with words, invent new words, connect things, and express yourself in unique ways. So, instead of telling her I like your new hairstyle, try something like this: I like your new hairstyle. It accentuates your dark/emerald green eyes.
This is a perfect example of a good compliment because it’s thoughtful, creative, and, therefore, special. I understand that some men have difficulties expressing themselves with words, but practice makes perfect.
Here’s a piece of worthy advice: Think twice before complimenting a girl. Think about new ways in which you can make a compliment sound more unique. Don’t just say the first thing that comes to your mind because chances are that it won’t be as creative as it should be.
Be careful about how and when you approach her
Apart from choosing the right compliment, it’s also important to approach a girl in an appropriate setting. Imagine that she’s sitting alone and wearing headphones when you approach her with a compliment or one of those funny pick-up lines.
That would be a little bit invasive, right? Also, if it’s nighttime and a girl is walking alone, your approach could frighten her. Lord knows that there are lots of creeps around us, so you never know whom you’re going to meet next.
That’s why you need to be careful about how and when you approach her. Make sure that it’s an appropriate setting and don’t overdo it. Otherwise, you might scare her.
When it comes to dating apps like Tinder, thoughtful questions to ask a girl are your best bet, so keep that one in mind as well.
Pay attention to her mood!
This is the most important aspect when it comes to complimenting. Choosing the right time to compliment her is of utmost importance.
If you say it too early or too late, chances are you’ve just ruined your opportunity to make her feel good and appreciated.
Always pay attention to her words, her body language signs and all of the other details that will tell you a lot about her current mood.
If she seems distressed, there’s no point in complimenting her appearance because it will only make her even more distressed.
In those situations, the best bet is not to compliment her. Better to give her a hug and say something soothing to her.
But, if you feel like it’s the right moment to compliment her, you should do it immediately without hesitation. Just follow your intuition, and you’ll do it just fine.
Don’t try too hard
I know you’re really nervous and want everything to be the way you imagined it, but please try not to try too hard and don’t be too flirty.
Trying too hard will only make things worse because when giving compliments you have to be casual and not pushy or robot-like.
If you sound like you’re constantly repeating the same script in your mind, she will notice it. When it comes to complimenting, you have to remember one thing, and that is: Less is more.
Always be modest when you’re trying to compliment her because that way you’ll not give her too much or too little.
It will be the perfect measure of respect, appreciation and admiration. Try to memorize all of this, and you’ll make her feel special and yours in no time.
How Do You Compliment A Girl On Her Looks?
The best way to compliment a girl on her looks is by being thoughtful, genuine, and creative. Here are a few rules to keep in mind when complimenting a girl on her looks:
Don’t start the conversation with compliments (if you haven’t met before)
Hey, girl, your legs look amazing! If you said this to any girl on a street, I bet they wouldn’t be so impressed by it. Why? Because when you say something like that, the first thing that comes to our mind is: He’s a legit creep and all he wants to do is get into our pants.
Even if you’re a totally normal and caring guy, she will not know it because you’ll be instantly categorized as a creep. So, please, don’t start the conversation with compliments if you haven’t met before.
Instead, you can always tell her your name and a few random things before giving her a compliment. This is the safest option so I cordially recommend doing it.
Put yourself in her shoes
When complimenting a girl on her looks, you need to think about what type of compliment would a girl enjoy receiving? Put yourself in her shoes.
What are the compliments that you would like to receive from others? When complimenting a girl, don’t just say the first thing that comes to your mind. Think about what she would like to hear and what would make her feel noticed and appreciated.
Compliments are not just saying something nice to someone for the sake of doing it. They should be meaningful, thoughtful, and special.
Every girl has some unique features regarding both her appearance and personality. So, your job here is to look for those things that make her different from the rest. Your job here is to accentuate the things that make her beautiful inside out.
Do you think you can do that? I’m sure you can.
Pay attention to your tone and choice of words
You shouldn’t sound too creepy, flirty, or aggressive. You shouldn’t sound like you only care about her body and nothing else.
Pay attention to your tone of voice and, more importantly, choice of words. Always be gentlemanly polite because that’s the least you can do. You don’t need to be a pro at complimenting, but you can always be decent at it.
If you’re feeling anxious about complimenting a girl you like, take a deep breath before approaching her. Also, keep in mind that nothing bad will happen.
She will be more than happy to hear something nice about herself so you cannot go wrong with it (unless you overdo it or say something inappropriate but I’m sure that won’t happen).
Always give genuine compliments
Do you really like her new hairstyle or nail polish? Do you really like her choice of outfit or the color of her lipstick?
If you don’t, then there’s no point in giving her fake compliments. Be a real man and always give genuine compliments. After all, every girl knows when a guy is being sincere. It can be seen in your eyes.
So, always give genuine compliments because if you don’t, she will know it and you will ruin your chance to win her. Don’t give sweet compliments because you feel like you HAVE TO. Give them because you WANT TO.
- You have beautiful eyes. They sparkle like jewels.
- How is it that you always look so great, even if you’re in pajamas?
- You look so irresistible when you blush.
- That lipstick shade matches your angelic/bright eyes perfectly.
- I like how silky your hair looks.
- You smell really good.
- That color you are wearing looks really good on you.
- Truth be told, you could be a fashion model.
- You have such a well-toned body.
- You have gorgeous cheekbones.
- Your skin is so soft and mellow.
- Pictures don’t do justice to your beauty.
- Your curves are so defined.
- What’s the secret to your extraordinary beauty?
- I love your perky lips.
Never Underestimate The Power Of A Random Compliment
I hope these compliments for girls and a guide on how to compliment a girl helped you boost your complimenting game.
You don’t need to overthink things when it comes to complimenting a girl. You don’t need to wait for an eternity to let her know how special she is to you.
The power of a random compliment is just priceless. Creative, unique, and thoughtful compliments at the right time and place are always welcome and they are a surefire way to win a girl’s heart.