Do you really like that girl and want to make her yours? Do you want to make her feel good, but you’re not sure how to do it, and you certainly don’t want to scare her?
If you do, the only thing you need is to MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL. And in order to do that, you have to learn how to compliment her properly. Now you’re probably wondering why you should bother memorizing the list of compliments in order to win her heart.
The thing is, girls like to be complimented—A LOT. And it is not because they are insecure, but because they are simply wired that way. If you know how to compliment her, you’re 100 steps ahead of the game. If you know how to make her feel appreciated, respected and wanted, dude, you’ve just won the game!
You will make her feel special by complimenting her appearance, skills and talents, personality, fashion, her smile, sense of humor, etc.
Here is the list of 20 compliments (with brief explanations beneath them) that will make her heart beat faster, and you’ll win her instantly.
TOP 20 COMPLIMENTS FOR GIRLS
1. You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met.
If you say this to her, she’ll be on cloud nine. The key is in the word beautiful because that single word encompasses all of her internal and external traits. Beautiful means: pretty, sexy, smart, awesome… I mean, who wouldn’t want to feel like she’s the most beautiful person you’ve ever met?
2. I can’t stop looking at your eyes, lips…
If you say this, you’ll subtly tell her that you’re mesmerized by her eyes, lips… The eyes are known to be the mirror of our souls, and if you compliment her eyes, she will see how thoughtful and profound you are. Women love deep stuff because it shows them that you care.
3. You always make my day!
Just as men, women want to be praised for their humorous side, too. By this, you’ll tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her.
4. I love how your smile brightens up my day.
Every girl wants to be praised for her smile. You’ll make her feel appreciated, and that way she’ll smile more often because she will know that you notice it.
5. Your hair looks great today!
A girl’s hair is a sacred place, and if you compliment her hair, you’ll make her the happiest girl in the entire world. That way you’ll show her that you notice her efforts to look best.
6. Wow! You look even more beautiful without makeup.
Yup. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she really is with makeup or without it. Girls want to make sure you love them both ways.
7. You’re so cute!
When she makes some cute gestures, facial expressions or wears a cute outfit, don’t forget to tell her that you’ve noticed how adorably cute she is.
8. I’ve never met someone like you.
This one is similar to the first one, but it has a slightly different connotation. Always use this one in combination with others. E.g. I’ve never met someone like you. You always make my day.
9. You have great taste in fashion.
Girls spend a lot of time contemplating what to wear and how to match the colors of their outfits. By praising her taste in fashion, you’ll win the lottery.
10. You’re so smart.
Always compliment her on how smart she is because girls want to be praised for both their interior and exterior as well.
11. Every time I’m with you, I lose track of time.
You can’t lose track of time when you’re bored with someone. By this, you’re telling her that you have an amazing time with her, and you’re looking forward to seeing her again.
12. I could just look at you for hours without ever getting bored.
This one means you like what you see, and if you like what you see, she will like you as well. You can also try, I could look at you sleeping for hours and would never get bored.
13. You’re really talented in (something).
If she’s good at drawing, singing or something else, say it to her. Don’t forget to pay attention to her skills and talents—not just her looks.
14. You’re so caring.
When she makes you a coffee, gets up to bring you a glass of water or nurses you when you’re sick, tell her that you’ve noticed how caring she is.
15. I wish I’ve met you earlier.
You can use this when you’re talking about your past girlfriends or the past in general. She’ll feel special because you’re happy to have her in your life.
16. You are the light at the end of my tunnel.
If you’re going through hard times and she’s always doing her best to comfort you, you can thank her for that by using this compliment.
17. You look so wonderful in your dress/sweater…
Most of the time, girls are indecisive when choosing what to wear. By telling her that she looks beautiful in what she’s wearing, half of your job will be done.
18. I feel so happy to be here with you.
This one speaks for itself.
19. You are so fearless/confident.
Whenever she does something incredible, tell her that you like how fearless she is. And when you compliment her on how confident she is, she will be even more confident in the future.
20. You are perfect the way you are. Don’t ever change.
This one is especially important because everyone wants to be liked and loved for who they are and not for who you want them to be.
When it comes to complimenting, KNOWING HOW TO DO IT is your secret ingredient.
HOW TO COMPLIMENT A GIRL
The key is to implement a compliment naturally within a conversation and to do it as directly as possible (no hesitation or stuttering).
1. Say it like you really mean it!
Imagine that the two of you are walking and talking about some random stuff, and all of a sudden you tell her: I think your hair looks awesome today! Imagine the amount of catastrophe you’ve just done by saying it.
If you use indecisive verbs like ‘think, seem’ etc. it will not make her feel special. It will only confuse her, and she will start thinking that her hair doesn’t look good at all. The only reason she will think that is because you were indecisive, and that is why she didn’t believe you in the first place.
Instead, you should say: Your hair looks awesome today! In order to make her believe what you say, you have to say it like you really mean it. So, stay away from the words like ‘think, seem’ because it will only confuse her, and instead of making her like you, you’ll do the opposite—and you certainly don’t want that to happen.
2. Pay attention to her mood!
This is the most important aspect when it comes to complimenting. Choosing the right time to compliment her is of utmost importance. If you say it too early or too late, chances are you’ve just ruined your opportunity to make her feel good and appreciated.
Always pay attention to her words, gesticulations and all of the other details that will tell you a lot about her current mood. If she seems distressed, there’s no point in complimenting her appearance because it will only make her even more distressed.
In those situations, the best bet is not to compliment her. Better to give her a hug and say something soothing to her. But, if you feel like it’s the right moment to compliment her, you should do it immediately without hesitation. Just follow your intuition, and you’ll do it just fine.
3. Don’t try too hard.
I know you’re really nervous and want everything to be the way you imagined it, but please try not to try too hard. Trying too hard will only make things worse because when giving compliments you have to be casual and not pushy or robot-like.
If you sound like you’re constantly repeating the same script in your mind, she will notice it. When it comes to complimenting, you have to remember one thing, and that is: Less is more.
Always be modest when you’re trying to compliment her because that way you’ll not give her too much or too little. It will be the perfect measure of respect, appreciation and admiration.
Try to memorize all of this, and you’ll make her feel special and yours in no time.