Every guy’s wish is to know how to approach a girl successfully.
Some of them go so far as to actually watch some YouTube tutorials on how to make a girl yours or how to behave on a first date.
But I would say that the most important thing you need to do is to actually just relax and don’t sweat the small stuff.
If you over-analyze every single detail of a date you will have, you’ll just end up being nervous.
But, on the other hand, if you just relax and behave naturally, nothing bad can happen.
You will just have a quality date with your crush and you will get to know her better.
I know it is not an easy thing to be totally relaxed on a first date and to avoid being anxious, but worry no more.
I am bringing you some of the best tips to approach a girl and talk to her like a man whom she won’t be able to resist.
No problem, you can thank me later!
1. Relax before you even say anything
The worst thing that can happen to you is being overwhelmed by the fear of rejection when you want to approach a girl.
That’s why you need to relax and be totally okay with the fact that she may ignore you.
You need to know that some girls don’t like when guys approach them,they do it instead.
On the other hand, there are girls who simply don’t like when you hit on them while they are talking to their friends.
So, you need to be very careful about the timing.
If you see that she is having a good time with her friends, don’t come near because she will cut you off like you never existed.
Instead, wait until she is alone and then use the moment to approach her and introduce yourself.
Be relaxed and don’t tell her a lot of information because she won’t be able to catch everything.
Just let her know that you think she is charming and that you had to introduce yourself.
After that, leave her and don’t be pushy. I am sure she will go crazy about you and that she will be the one who will seek you next time.
2. Be polite
You can’t act like a jerk and expect to make a girl yours. If you really care about approaching a girl in the right way, you need to be polite.
Also, you should take care of your body language because it can sometimes be more important than the words that come out of your mouth.
Make sure that she is not occupied with anything and then approach her just to introduce yourself.
I suggest making strong eye contact with her while you are introducing yourself and shaking her hand.
That will be a crucial moment and you will immediately know if she likes you or not.
You will know if you have a chance with her and if she would be interested in going out on a date with you.
That’s why you need to play this well so that everything that comes afterward will be much easier.
It is all about that first impression, so make sure that you act nice because you want her to like you, right?
3. Catch her eye
But don’t look at her all the time because you can come off as creepy.
Just look at her from time to time and keep your gaze on her while she is watching you.
Adding some genuine smiles will definitely help you so make sure you don’t forget to smile.
Also, by looking at her from time to time, you will let her know that you are interested in her and that you think she is charming and beautiful.
If you just look at her like she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, you will definitely melt her heart.
Every woman will get interested in a man who pays attention to her.
And that is a fact. So, do it, but don’t overdo it and don’t be pushy. Give her time to react and to decide what she really wants.
She will feel much more comfortable if she has a choice, instead of you bringing her in front of a brick wall.
4. Charm her
I am not saying that you should use some cheesy pickup lines or something like that to approach a girl.
Instead, be someone who will compliment her, but who will do it in a charming and delicate way.
Don’t tell all the best about her, don’t idolize her, but highlight one of her traits that you find extremely irresistible.
In that way she will know that you are not overreacting just to get into her panties.
She will know that you really made some effort to get to know her. And trust me, that will be the most important thing for her.
Having someone who is willing to get to know the real you is what is essential for every woman.
Your curiosity mixed with your charm will definitely make her fall head over heels for you.
She won’t know what hit her, but she will finally be happy in love.
5. Buy her a drink
If you see a beautiful girl at the bar and you don’t know how to approach her, buying her a drink is always a good option.
You won’t offend her in that way, but you will just let her know you like her.
If you see that her reaction is good, you can come near and start talking to her.
You can tell her that you think she is the most beautiful woman in the room and that she has some positive vibes you could feel from the moment you saw her.
In the middle of your conversation, you can ask her if she would like to go for a drink with you sometime.
If she says that she would, you can ask her number and text her good night. It will definitely make her feel special.
She will think you are such a nice guy who thinks about her feelings and her wellbeing. And trust me, she will give you shot; it’s just a matter of time.
6. “Accidentally” touch her
A good way to approach a girl you like is to come near her and bump into her “accidentally.”
When you do that, you will have a good reason to start a conversation with her. If she is in a good mood, she will probably continue talking to you.
In that way you two can get to know each other much better and spend some time alone.
If you are going to do this, make sure not to hit her in a rough way, but just slightly brush against her body.
You don’t want to hurt her, you just want to get her attention. It is a good way to make sure a girl notices you and it always looks innocent and sweet.
Maybe you two have so much in common and maybe you are a perfect match, but you just don’t know it yet.
And just one “accidental” touch can bring you closer than you ever thought you could.
7. Compliment her
Complimenting a girl is always a good way to make her like you.
If you are trying to find a nice way to approach her, but don’t know how, you can just compliment the way she looks or thinks.
Some girls like it if you tell them they are smart and some prefer it if you tell them they look good.
But whatever you choose, you won’t make a mistake because, with a little bit of your charm, everything will be flawless.
Also, when you start talking to her, make sure that your body language is good and that you don’t look like a wounded possum while talking to her.
If you manage to impress her during your first contact, I am sure it will be even better the second time around.
You will get to know each other better and you will be able to open up more. And one beautiful love story can actually start.
8. Develop a friendly atmosphere
If you want to approach a girl but you don’t know how, the best way is to develop a friendly atmosphere.
If she is engaged in a conversation with you and if she feels a friendly atmosphere, she will not want to leave you.
She will gladly stay and talk to you because you will seem like a nice guy to her.
You will be more than happy to have such a pretty girl next to you.
You won’t be able to believe it how compatible you two are and that all your effort to make her yours weren’t in vain.
If you want her to feel more comfortable, especially if it is your first contact, you can ask her friends to join you.
In that way, she won’t talk to you only and she won’t feel anxious.
Instead, she will feel good in her own skin and she won’t feel like she has to talk to you only.
Since it is your first contact, you shouldn’t be pushy. Let her decide how far she wants to go in a conversation with you.
9. Be a real gentleman
Girls love gentlemen. Period.
If you want to approach a girl the right way, being positive that you will win her over, you need to act like a real gentleman.
And you shouldn’t do that only at the beginning, but also during your whole relationship.
Don’t pretend that you are someone you are not just so you can seduce her.
Treat her well, even if you are together after so many years, because that is the right way of treating your romantic partner.
Always show love, mutual respect, and affection to your loved one because they chose you to be theirs forever.
And that is something that actually matters the most.