La verdad honesta es que he terminado de intentarlo contigo

This is it… mi último adiós. A partir de este momento, he terminado. Odio ser quien lo diga, pero... I’m done trying contigo.

I never was a quitter, and you know that giving up is something I hate the most, but this time, I’m left with no other option. Actually, you left me no other option.

Odio cortar todos los lazos de cuando era feliz (me FUE FELIZ siendo el palabras clave aquí). But, it’s been a while since I last felt verdadera felicidado desde que sentí que mi amor era correspondido.

I’ve come to the point where I’ve realized that I’ve caught myself holding onto something that maybe was never even there.

Odio tener esta sensación y esta necesidad de darle otra oportunidad. Something (it’s probably my naive and weak heart) keeps telling me that just maybe if I gave it one more chance, we could make it work.

Que tal vez si me esfuerzo más esta vez, las cosas serán diferentes.

El único problema es que nunca fui yo quien necesitaba darnos otra oportunidad. Nunca fui yo quien tuvo que esforzarse más y poner más empeño en todo esto.

I keep repeating to myself that I am not the one that’s leaving this relationship in debt. And, I’ll make sure I keep reminding myself about this. It truly does help me ease the pain.

I’m Officially Done Trying To Stay In Your Life

You were always telling me that I’m the toughest, bravest, and strongest woman you have ever met in your life. I don’t know if this is true or not, but the truth is that I feel tired to the bone right now.

I’m tired of constant overthinking. I’m tired of my heart aching for so long. My soul is beyond tired of segundas oportunidades. I’m tired of trying.

I’m done putting all of my efforts en alguien que lleva mucho tiempo viviendo en la gloria de la vieja fama.

I am done questioning whether I am worth enough just because someone I’m with doesn’t care to make an effort.

I hate being the one to reach out on social media and call you first all the time. I hate being the one that always needs to insist on spending time with you—don’t I deserve to get some attention as well?

You were polite towards me, but that’s not what I needed. The truth is all I needed was love, honest efforts, and for you to make me feel like you are my home.

You said I made you feel like I am your safe haven. I was your calm in your own chaos while you, on the other hand, were my… Well, you were the chaos in my calm.

Necesitaba saber que puedo contar contigo tanto como tú mismo.

The ugly truth is you were never insecure about me; you were insecure about yourself. The only problem is—you’ve projected it onto our relationship.

I’ve done everything to prove to you that you have me and you’ve done nothing but fail me over and over again.

I accepted and fell in love with you the way you were and I would have lasted like that for a thousand years more, but the feeling wasn’t mutual.

Me has hecho cuestionarme todo lo que soy, y siempre me he preguntado qué es lo que tengo que cambiar para que te fijes en mí.

La verdad es que mis propias expectativas me perjudican

I’ve tried to meet your expectations; I tried to be likable by you the way I’ve never tried with anybody else in my life.

I have no idea what more there is to be done. So I’m finished. I’m out of ideas to make you love me again or make you love me at all.

Now, I am left insecure about everything we had before. You’ve made me question everything we lived together and everything I felt.

I’m wondering what the hell made you want to be with me in the first place. You were aware from the very beginning that I’m not la persona adecuada para ustedEntonces, ¿por qué te quedaste y continuaste engañándome?

Quería que esto valiera la pena. De verdad que sí. Pero odiaba ser el único que lo intenta y deseándolo.

I’d hate to look back on a few previous months and see them as a complete waste, but that feeling is getting under my skin slowly.

I’d hate to see I’ve wasted my time and all my love on someone who took it for granted.

I’m done trying to make you bigger in the eyes of my friends. I hated them for saying I was wasting my time with you.

Intenté demostrar que estaban equivocados, pero fuiste tú quien demostró que en realidad tenían razón.

Siento que no hay futuro para nosotros. Así que.., Yo soy he terminado de intentarlo contigo. Me cansé de tratar de encontrar nuevas maneras de hacerte feliz y salvar nuestra relación (obviamente equivocada).

Me cansé de esperar for you to wake up. You’ve been asleep for too long. And I’ve moved far away while you were sleeping.

He terminado de hacerte mi prioridad cuando en realidad, Yo sólo era una opción para ti.

Lo triste es que la lo último Siempre quise dejar de creer en ti. En nosotros. I never gave anybody’s negative talk about you the benefit of the doubt because I was sure you were born to do extraordinary things. Perhaps you were, but only without me by your side.

I am done cheering for you. I don’t want to continue disregarding my life for someone I’m completely sure doesn’t even give a damn about me.

Sincerely, I don’t blame only you

You didn’t ask for any of this. It’s just when I love, I love with my entire heart. I give everything.

Me entrego por completo porque espero todo a cambio. I don’t do half-assed love. I either do it right or don’t do it at all.

I guess that’s how it goes in relationships—you never know if somebody is worthy or not. You have to let them show it to you until you’re already in it too deep.

Me cansé de intentar ser el brillo de tu vida. He terminado de tratar de hacerte feliz y orgulloso de mí.

Because I just can’t meet the expectations you have of me. I just can’t be that girl you want me to be.

Obviamente, nada de lo que hacía era suficiente para ti, y nunca estabas plenamente satisfecha. Así que I’m done.

To fill the void you have left, I would have needed to be somebody else and that would kill me. I’d hate to see myself change for you just so you could set a new milestone again.

¿Terminaría alguna vez? ¿Estaría alguna vez completamente satisfecho de cómo soy o de cómo sería? Lo dudo.

I’ve given my best, and the saddest thing of them all is the fact that my best wasn’t enough.

I never noticed my flaws until I met you. Then, upon looking at myself in the mirror, I kept wondering if I’d changed some things, would you have wanted me more?

But there would always be something you’d like to change about me, so what’s the point? It’s easier to let you find someone else than it is to completely change myself.

I’d just like you to know that I am not the first one to give up on us. You are the one that walked away a long time ago; you just stayed physically present.

Sólo estoy haciendo lo que tú me hiciste hace mucho tiempo, pero tengo las pelotas de hacerlo bien.

I’m walking away

Dejar ir y alejarse from something that’s hurting me now is less painful than staying. Because for me, to stay would mean to die. Die inside.

By walking away, even if that walk is painful, I’m giving us the chance to meet the persona adecuada who’ll love us the way we deserve. I am sorry I couldn’t be that person for you.

Sé que los primeros días oficialmente sin ti me matarán. Porque pasara lo que pasara, tú eras mi parte favorita del día.

Eras mi santuario y me encantaba acurrucarme a tu lado. Me encantaba la ilusión de tenerte, aunque fuera un poco.

In the first few days, you won’t even notice I am not there. Even if you notice my absence, you’ll thank God for the space you’ve got.

Pero, al final, todo te golpeará. Y I promise you’ll miss me.

You’ll miss the person who took care of you. You’ll miss the person that loved you unconditionally.

You’ll miss the person that did everything to make you happy. And you’ll think of me as the person who doesn’t care about you anymore.

I know our roads are going to cross again and you’ll meet me holding another man’s hand and greeting you with a smile.

You’ll see I’m steady and I might secretly want that guy to be you. I might find in that guy everything I was waiting for from you.

I won’t ever be steady upon meeting you. You’ll always be my ‘¿Y si’ porque odio vernos fracasar.

I will find somebody who’ll care for me as I cared for you. I will find somebody who’s gonna respect me as I respected you.

I will find somebody who knows I’m worthy just as I once saw you like that. I will find somebody I’ll mean the whole world to, just like you did once to me.

And that’s when it will hit you. That’s when you’ll realize what I’ve known from the beginning.

We could’ve had it all, if only you had cared enough.

You’ll see me with the person who had no need to see me with somebody else to know my value.

I’m Done Trying Quotes

​​​​Do you know what helped me come to the final decision about walking away from you? These quotes below. I empathize with each and every one of these ‘I’m done trying’ quotes below.

Los dejé aquí para que entiendan todo lo que pasé y sigo pasando y para todas las personas que están en el mismo lugar que yo hace un tiempo.

Espero que estas citas hagan magia contigo como lo hicieron conmigo. También espero que te ayuden a ordenar tus pensamientos y sentimientos para que puedas tomar la mejor decisión posible. La mejor para ti, por supuesto.

1. “I get a little tired of people telling me what might have been. I think I’ve done OK. I don’t dwell on what might have been.” – Ken Griffey Jr.

2. “Every time I say I’m done, I find myself trying again.” – Kaye Gurrea

3. “Sometimes it’s just done… Just marcharse and move on… No ugly words… No formal goodbyes… Just no more.” – Unknown

4. “Perfection to me is, I walk away from a situation and say, ‘I did everything I could do right there. There was nothing more that I could do.’ I was a hundred percent, like the meter was at the top. There was nothing else I could have done. You know? Like, I worked as hard as I possibly could have. That’s perfection.” – Drake

5. “When a thing is done, it’s done. Don’t look back. Look forward to your next objective.” – George C. Marshall

6. “I’m done with those; regrets are an excuse for people who have failed.” – Ned Vizzini

7. “I’m done with trying to keep people in my life.” – Jeetu Pal

8. “Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” – Unknown

9. “It always seems impossible until it’s done.” – Nelson Mandela

10. “I’m done trying with you. If you really want me to stay in your life, do something to make me stay.” – Unknown

11. “I’m officially done trying. If you want me in your life, you can come find me. Until then, continue treating me like I don’t exist.” – Quinton Riley

12. “I’m guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve, but when I’m done, I’m done.” – Turcois Ominek

13. “I’m done with trying to seek other people’s approval. From here on out, it’s just me approving of myself. I’m done.” – Unknown

14. “Emotionally, I’m done; mentally, I’m drained; spiritually, I’m dead; physically, I smile.” – Unknown

15. “Have a buena vida. I’m done trying to be in it.” – Unknown

16. “I look back on my life like a good day’s work, it was done, and I am satisfied with it.” – Grandma Moses

17. “Once you give up, you know you’re done.” – Gerald Green

18. “It’s sad to know I’m done. But looking back, I’ve got a lot of great memories.” – Bonnie Blair

19. “I’m done chasing people. If they want to be in my life, they will be – if not, then that’s their loss.” – Unknown

20. “I won’t cry anymore, I’m done with the heartbreak and all the tears that come with it.” – Unknown

Just so you don’t lose faith in true love, remind yourself of the true power of love with these conmovedoras frases de amor.

Además, si necesitas ánimos para seguir caminando hacia adelante en la vida, sobre todo una vez que decidas seguir adelante, sigue a estos inspiradores frases de la vida y llénate de un ánimo extra para seguir adelante.

All In All, I’m Letting You Go…

Dejar ir is heartbreaking, but sometimes, it’s our only option. Mi única opción en este momento es marcharse de ti sin siquiera mirar atrás.

Todas esas peleas y maquillajes me drenó emocionalmente. Me siento como Me perdí because I don’t recognize myself at all anymore.

I’m done trying to stay in your life when it’s obvious I’m not welcome there anymore. Or maybe, I never was. Maybe all this time, I was living a delusion that the only person I love loves me back.

It all doesn’t matter right now because, for the first time, I’m choosing myself over youy, extrañamente, se siente bastante bien. This time, I’ll be the one who is alejándome de ti, from us… forever.