A verdade sincera é que já não tento mais contigo

This is it… o meu último adeus. A partir deste momento, estou farto. Detesto ser eu a dizê-lo, mas I’m done trying convosco.

I never was a quitter, and you know that giving up is something I hate the most, but this time, I’m left with no other option. Actually, you left me no other option.

Detesto cortar todos os laços de quando eu era feliz (eu FOI FELIZ sendo o palavras-chave aqui). But, it’s been a while since I last felt verdadeira felicidadeou desde que senti que o meu amor era correspondido.

I’ve come to the point where I’ve realized that I’ve caught myself holding onto something that maybe was never even there.

Detesto ter esta sensação e esta necessidade de tentar de novo. Something (it’s probably my naive and weak heart) keeps telling me that just maybe if I gave it one more chance, we could make it work.

Que talvez se eu me esforçar mais desta vez, as coisas sejam diferentes.

O único problema é que nunca fui eu que precisei de nos dar outra oportunidade. Nunca fui eu que precisei de me esforçar mais e colocar mais esforço em tudo isto.

I keep repeating to myself that I am not the one that’s leaving this relationship in debt. And, I’ll make sure I keep reminding myself about this. It truly does help me ease the pain.

I’m Officially Done Trying To Stay In Your Life

You were always telling me that I’m the toughest, bravest, and strongest woman you have ever met in your life. I don’t know if this is true or not, but the truth is that I feel tired to the bone right now.

I’m tired of constant overthinking. I’m tired of my heart aching for so long. My soul is beyond tired of segundas oportunidades. I’m tired of trying.

I’m done putting all of my efforts em alguém que vive há muito tempo na glória da velha fama.

I am done questioning whether I am worth enough just because someone I’m with doesn’t care to make an effort.

I hate being the one to reach out on social media and call you first all the time. I hate being the one that always needs to insist on spending time with you—don’t I deserve to get some attention as well?

You were polite towards me, but that’s not what I needed. The truth is all I needed was love, honest efforts, and for you to make me feel like you are my home.

You said I made you feel like I am your safe haven. I was your calm in your own chaos while you, on the other hand, were my… Well, you were the chaos in my calm.

Eu precisava de saber que posso contar contigo tanto quanto tu podes contar contigo próprio.

The ugly truth is you were never insecure about me; you were insecure about yourself. The only problem is—you’ve projected it onto our relationship.

I’ve done everything to prove to you that you have me and you’ve done nothing but fail me over and over again.

I accepted and fell in love with you the way you were and I would have lasted like that for a thousand years more, but the feeling wasn’t mutual.

Fizeste-me questionar tudo o que sou, e sempre me perguntei o que é que eu preciso de mudar para que repares em mim.

A verdade é que as minhas próprias expectativas me prejudicam

I’ve tried to meet your expectations; I tried to be likable by you the way I’ve never tried with anybody else in my life.

I have no idea what more there is to be done. So I’m finished. I’m out of ideas to make you love me again or make you love me at all.

Now, I am left insecure about everything we had before. You’ve made me question everything we lived together and everything I felt.

I’m wondering what the hell made you want to be with me in the first place. You were aware from the very beginning that I’m not a pessoa certa para siEntão porque é que ficaste e continuaste a enganar-me?

Eu queria que isto valesse a pena. Queria mesmo. Mas eu odiava ser o único a tentar e a desejá-lo.

I’d hate to look back on a few previous months and see them as a complete waste, but that feeling is getting under my skin slowly.

I’d hate to see I’ve wasted my time and all my love on someone who took it for granted.

I’m done trying to make you bigger in the eyes of my friends. I hated them for saying I was wasting my time with you.

Tentei provar que eles estavam errados, mas foi o senhor que provou que eles tinham razão.

Sinto que não há futuro para nós. Então, Eu sou já não tento mais contigo. Estou farto de tentar encontrar novas formas de te fazer feliz e de salvar a nossa relação (obviamente errada).

Estou farto de esperar for you to wake up. You’ve been asleep for too long. And I’ve moved far away while you were sleeping.

Já não faço de ti a minha prioridade, quando na verdade, Eu era apenas uma opção para ti.

A parte triste é que o última coisa que eu sempre quis foi deixar de acreditar em ti. Em nós. I never gave anybody’s negative talk about you the benefit of the doubt because I was sure you were born to do extraordinary things. Perhaps you were, but only without me by your side.

I am done cheering for you. I don’t want to continue disregarding my life for someone I’m completely sure doesn’t even give a damn about me.

Sincerely, I don’t blame only you

You didn’t ask for any of this. It’s just when I love, I love with my entire heart. I give everything.

Dou tudo de mim porque espero tudo em troca. I don’t do half-assed love. I either do it right or don’t do it at all.

I guess that’s how it goes in relationships—you never know if somebody is worthy or not. You have to let them show it to you until you’re already in it too deep.

Estou farto de tentar ser o brilho da tua vida. Estou farto de tentar fazer-te feliz e orgulhoso de mim.

Because I just can’t meet the expectations you have of me. I just can’t be that girl you want me to be.

Obviamente, nada do que fiz foi suficiente para ti e nunca ficaste totalmente satisfeito. E assim I’m done.

To fill the void you have left, I would have needed to be somebody else and that would kill me. I’d hate to see myself change for you just so you could set a new milestone again.

Será que alguma vez vai acabar? Alguma vez ficarias completamente satisfeito com a minha maneira de ser ou com a maneira como eu seria? Duvido.

I’ve given my best, and the saddest thing of them all is the fact that my best wasn’t enough.

I never noticed my flaws until I met you. Then, upon looking at myself in the mirror, I kept wondering if I’d changed some things, would you have wanted me more?

But there would always be something you’d like to change about me, so what’s the point? It’s easier to let you find someone else than it is to completely change myself.

I’d just like you to know that I am not the first one to give up on us. You are the one that walked away a long time ago; you just stayed physically present.

Estou apenas a fazer o que me fez há muito tempo, mas tenho coragem de o fazer bem.

I’m walking away

Deixar ir e afastar-se from something that’s hurting me now is less painful than staying. Because for me, to stay would mean to die. Die inside.

By walking away, even if that walk is painful, I’m giving us the chance to meet the pessoa certa who’ll love us the way we deserve. I am sorry I couldn’t be that person for you.

Sei que os primeiros dias oficialmente sem ti me vão matar. Porque independentemente do que acontecesse, eras a minha parte preferida do dia.

Eras o meu santuário e eu adorava enroscar-me ao teu lado. Adorava a ilusão de que te tinha, mesmo que fosse só por um bocadinho.

In the first few days, you won’t even notice I am not there. Even if you notice my absence, you’ll thank God for the space you’ve got.

Mas, eventualmente, tudo isso vai atingir-nos. E I promise you’ll miss me.

You’ll miss the person who took care of you. You’ll miss the person that loved you unconditionally.

You’ll miss the person that did everything to make you happy. And you’ll think of me as the person who doesn’t care about you anymore.

I know our roads are going to cross again and you’ll meet me holding another man’s hand and greeting you with a smile.

You’ll see I’m steady and I might secretly want that guy to be you. I might find in that guy everything I was waiting for from you.

I won’t ever be steady upon meeting you. You’ll always be my ‘e se’ porque detesto ver-nos falhar.

I will find somebody who’ll care for me as I cared for you. I will find somebody who’s gonna respect me as I respected you.

I will find somebody who knows I’m worthy just as I once saw you like that. I will find somebody I’ll mean the whole world to, just like you did once to me.

And that’s when it will hit you. That’s when you’ll realize what I’ve known from the beginning.

We could’ve had it all, if only you had cared enough.

You’ll see me with the person who had no need to see me with somebody else to know my value.

I’m Done Trying Quotes

​​​​Do you know what helped me come to the final decision about walking away from you? These quotes below. I empathize with each and every one of these ‘I’m done trying’ quotes below.

Deixei-as aqui para que compreendam tudo o que eu estava e ainda estou a passar e para todas as pessoas que estão no mesmo sítio onde eu estava há algum tempo.

Espero que estas citações façam a sua magia para si, tal como fizeram para mim. Espero também que o ajudem a organizar os seus pensamentos e sentimentos para que possa tomar a melhor decisão possível. A melhor para si, claro.

1. “I get a little tired of people telling me what might have been. I think I’ve done OK. I don’t dwell on what might have been.” – Ken Griffey Jr.

2. “Every time I say I’m done, I find myself trying again.” – Kaye Gurrea

3. “Sometimes it’s just done… Just afastar-se and move on… No ugly words… No formal goodbyes… Just no more.” – Unknown

4. “Perfection to me is, I walk away from a situation and say, ‘I did everything I could do right there. There was nothing more that I could do.’ I was a hundred percent, like the meter was at the top. There was nothing else I could have done. You know? Like, I worked as hard as I possibly could have. That’s perfection.” – Drake

5. “When a thing is done, it’s done. Don’t look back. Look forward to your next objective.” – George C. Marshall

6. “I’m done with those; regrets are an excuse for people who have failed.” – Ned Vizzini

7. “I’m done with trying to keep people in my life.” – Jeetu Pal

8. “Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” – Unknown

9. “It always seems impossible until it’s done.” – Nelson Mandela

10. “I’m done trying with you. If you really want me to stay in your life, do something to make me stay.” – Unknown

11. “I’m officially done trying. If you want me in your life, you can come find me. Until then, continue treating me like I don’t exist.” – Quinton Riley

12. “I’m guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve, but when I’m done, I’m done.” – Turcois Ominek

13. “I’m done with trying to seek other people’s approval. From here on out, it’s just me approving of myself. I’m done.” – Unknown

14. “Emotionally, I’m done; mentally, I’m drained; spiritually, I’m dead; physically, I smile.” – Unknown

15. “Have a vida agradável. I’m done trying to be in it.” – Unknown

16. “I look back on my life like a good day’s work, it was done, and I am satisfied with it.” – Grandma Moses

17. “Once you give up, you know you’re done.” – Gerald Green

18. “It’s sad to know I’m done. But looking back, I’ve got a lot of great memories.” – Bonnie Blair

19. “I’m done chasing people. If they want to be in my life, they will be – if not, then that’s their loss.” – Unknown

20. “I won’t cry anymore, I’m done with the heartbreak and all the tears that come with it.” – Unknown

Just so you don’t lose faith in true love, remind yourself of the true power of love with these citações de amor comoventes.

Além disso, se precisar de incentivo para continuar a caminhar em frente na vida, especialmente depois de decidir seguir em frente, continue a ler estes textos inspiradores citações da vida e encher-se de um ânimo extra para continuar a avançar.

All In All, I’m Letting You Go…

Deixar ir is heartbreaking, but sometimes, it’s our only option. A minha única opção neste momento é afastar-se de si sem sequer olhar para trás.

Todas aquelas lutas e maquilhagem esgotou-me emocionalmente. Sinto-me como se Perdi-me because I don’t recognize myself at all anymore.

I’m done trying to stay in your life when it’s obvious I’m not welcome there anymore. Or maybe, I never was. Maybe all this time, I was living a delusion that the only person I love loves me back.

It all doesn’t matter right now because, for the first time, I’m choosing myself over youe, estranhamente, sabe muito bem. This time, I’ll be the one who is afastar-me de ti, from us… forever.