People’s vibrations speak volumes even before you start talking to them. Everyone has a certain vibration they’re not even aware of. Even relationships between people have certain levels of vibrations and tensions. The vibration you have might be something that connected you to your boyfriend, but the vibration you have together might be bad for the both of you.
No matter how much you love this person or how much you try to make your life together perfect, if you keep getting bad vibes, then you’re definitely not for each other. Trust those vibes. If something feels bad, then it probably is. In case the only thing that feels bad in your life is your relationship, maybe it’s time to let go of it. It’s not worth spending your time and energy on something that makes you feel bad. Whatever is bringing you negative energy is something you need to get rid of for your own good.
But, don’t rush. Don’t take this advice if you don’t have any problems in your relationship and if everything seems to be working out really well between you two. In that case, take your time to reflect on everything. It doesn’t have to be that your whole relationship gives you bad vibes. Maybe it’s only some part of it that is doing so. And maybe that part can be easily fixed. You can also get bad vibes from other people that keep meddling in your relationship. Be careful there. It could be that your friends are filling your head with bad things about your boyfriend, and that could be the root of the negative energy in your life. Sit down with your boyfriend and discuss this topic with him. It’s important to see how he feels about your whole relationship. If he’s getting some bad vibes out of it, then you know what you should do. If he’s not, then be really careful about what you’re going to do next. Energy doesn’t lie, but sometimes the root of it can be deceiving. Don’t mistake a slight problem with something worth breaking up over. Maybe it’s not your boyfriend who doesn’t belong in your life. It could be your friends or even your own thoughts.
The point is that you should get rid of everything that brings negativity to your days in any way. It’s not something that you should take for granted. Energy is what drives us through life, and it can’t be neglected. If you welcome positive energy into your life, then you’ll be unstoppable. You will feel like the happiest person in the universe. But, with the negative energy you’ll feel like you have some baggage to hold on your shoulders all day long. It’s up to you if you’re going to be happy or not. Because you are the one who chooses what’s going to stay in your life and what’s not.
If you truly love the man you’re in a relationship with, then reconsider everything. Think about it deeply. Try to understand his vibes and the vibes you have together. And, most importantly, try to understand your own vibes and appreciate them. If they need to be worked on, then you have nothing to wait for to start implementing happiness into your life.
In case you realized that your relationship and your boyfriend are those things that are giving you bad vibes, then you know it’s time to break up. No matter how much you love each other, if you feel like he’s not the right guy for you, then he isn’t. And if you try to change him you will fail, miserably. Changing him is not going to solve anything. People can’t change that easily and no matter how hard you try to do so, you’ll end up getting hurt. Sometimes it’s better to accept the things the way they are and say goodbye to someone. That is the only way you can protect your energy.
If you need some time to think about all this, then be open to your partner. Don’t lie to him and don’t make him feel neglected. Explain to him that being in a relationship is much more than loving one person. Of course, love has to be present, but only love isn’t enough. Your relationship should radiate positivity in a way that the whole universe knows you’re perfect for each other. If that’s not the case, sorry to break it to you, but he’s not the guy you should settle down with.