Meeting your soulmate is one of the most profoundly fulfilling feelings one can experience in a lifetime.
This person is more than just your partner, they are your missing half.
The part that feels so rightfully yours that you just can’t imagine your life without them anymore.
With this person by your side, you feel like you can do anything you set your mind to.
You feel better about yourself and whatever problem you may face, it doesn’t feel that big anymore.
You two just click on every single level. And it’s so much more than infatuation or lust. It’s being deeply connected and understanding each other better than anyone else can, without having to utter a single word.
Finding your soulmate is a blessing like no other and being able to preserve and nurture that love has become the most important thing in your life.
After all, there is no you without them… not anymore.
You have this feeling like this person is your ‘one’ and your search is finally over.
And then sometimes, life gets in the way and you end up parting ways from the one you thought you’d be spending your forever with.
Sometimes… destiny has other plans for you. This person has abandoned you for whatever heartbreaking reason and the pain is just too excruciating to bear.
You believed you had found your missing puzzle piece and the reality has turned out much differently.
For many people, it’s very difficult coming to terms with this and you are probably no exception.
Try and see this from a more positive spin. If you were truly meant to be, you’d find your way back to each other.
As inexplicable as it is right now, try to let go, for the sake of your sanity and stop trying to find a reason why and start focus on healing from this.
Here are 4 painful things you go through after parting ways with your soulmate.
1. A part of you is changed forever
After losing your soulmate, you no longer feel like yourself. There’s a part of you that is changed forever.
Your outlook on life is different, you approach things much more carefully and you realize that you are so much tougher than you believed.
You find strength somewhere within yourself that you never knew you had.
You realize that you are capable of enduring this enormous pain and finding your light again.
It hurts like hell… but you know you will make it out of this stronger than ever.
2. You see love much differently now
After experiencing this painful ordeal, your views on love have taken a huge blow.
You are now aware that you have had your once in a lifetime type of love and that it might never happen again.
You haven’t lost all hope but you are more grounded now. You don’t let your head get lost in the clouds anymore.
You’re realistic and if you don’t get another all-encompassing kind of love again, you’re okay with that.
3. You’ve experienced pain you never knew existed
You’ve had your heart broken before and you’ve been through some bad shit… but nothing compares to this.
Having your heart shattered into pieces by the one you believed was your soulmate is on a whole other spectrum of emotions.
This pain is almost physically overpowering you… and you’re lost.
But the good thing is, after this dark cloud disappears from over your head, you will feel like a brand new woman.
You will have experienced the deepest pain of them all and you’ll have made it through. And that is something to be proud of.
4. You’ll never have that connection with anyone again
Sure, you’ll fall in love again. You’ll find your happiness again one day, there is no doubt about that.
But one thing’s for sure—nothing will ever compare to the connection you had with your soulmate.
You won’t let this discourage you from finding love again. You’ll simply be aware that this time, it won’t be as grandiose as it was with him.
But that’s okay. Love is love and you’ll find your peace again.
Let yourself be loved the way you deserve and you’ll feel your happiness again.
All love is different and even though you may never experience that exact type of emotion again, it will still be special in its own way and that is something that you can find solace in.
Hello everybody! I’m Tara. I have a major in English language and literature, and in my free time i love to sing and write. Kindness is my favorite quality in people. I am all about female empowerment and I’m inspired by all the strong women who have had it rough but managed to stick up for themselves. I love my family and friends, and value them above anyone else. I hope you will enjoy my work, as I hope to inspire all the women out there, with my stories that mostly come from personal experience and of those close to me.