20 Sinais físicos de que ele está a dormir com outra pessoa
Alguns homens são melhores do que outros a mentir e a fazer batota. Mas acreditem em mim, não existe tal coisa como um traidor profissional.
Todos os homens que fazem batota will display similar physical signs he is sleeping with someone else. Well, luckily, we’ve cracked their code and figured out their secrets.
Sinais físicos de que ele está a dormir com outra pessoa
If your partner displays most or all of these signs, it’s pretty clear.
1. Evitar a intimidade física
Here’s one of the first and most obvious physical signs ele anda a dormir com outra pessoa: he’s no longer sleeping with you!
Look, don’t get me wrong: I’m not saying that men must be in the mood at all times. Every relationship expert will tell you that it’s perfectly normal for a guy not to be turned on 24/7. After all, they’re not sex machines either – they’re human beings with emotions.
No entanto, if your sex life has drastically changed recently, and it’s all because your o parceiro continua a evitar a intimidade física – something is off.
I’m not saying that infidelity is the only reason behind this, but it sure is a possibility you should look into.
Look at it this way: if this is the only warning sign you’re faced with, try searching for other causes of him avoiding intimacy. Maybe work’s stressing him out, he or has been having trouble with his mental health.
On the other hand, if you can relate to some of the other physical signs he is sleeping with someone else, you’ve got yourself a problem.
2. Estar no seu melhor
Having a man who takes care of his appearance is not a sign of infidelity. However, being in a committed relationship with a man who couldn’t care less about his looks and then noticing a sudden change in his appearance is a clear sinal de batota!
E ninguém me pode provar que estou errado!
Lembra-se do aspeto dele no início da vossa relação? Estava sempre vestido para impressionar, cheirava bem e prestava muita atenção à sua aparência.
Mas passado algum tempo, tudo isso mudou. A vossa relação saudável tornou-se a zona de conforto dele.
He realized that you’d love him at his worst, so he stopped trying to look his best. But suddenly, all of that has changed. Why?
Well, isn’t it obvious? He’s apaixonado por outra pessoa, and he’s going out of his way to impress this new woman in his life.
He’s got a new cologne, wears fancy shirts, goes to the barbershop regularly, and most importantly, he’s started investing in new underwear. Isn’t that a bit fishy?
3. O telemóvel dele é a tua maior pista
Snooping in other people’s belongings, even if we’re talking about your significant other, is plain wrong. But hey, there is an exception to every rule. Besides, you know what they say: desperate times call for desperate measures.
A cheater will always hide his phone at all costs. He’ll carry it with him to the bathroom, place it upside down when you’re out so you don’t see his notifications, change his password, or even turn on airplane mode whenever he’s with you.
Porque é que ele estaria a fazer isto se não houvesse nada a esconder?
Of course, this fact alone doesn’t have to mean that he’s actually sleeping with another woman, but it’s definitely an obvious sign he’s fooling around behind your back.
If nothing else, he’s exchanging conversas secretas no messenger, chamadas telefónicas e mensagens de texto com outra pessoa. Ou talvez o seu A pontuação do Snapchat continua a subir, and he’s flirting online and has different dating apps.
Anyway, if he hasn’t already cheated on you physically, he’s definitely about to do it soon. Besides, don’t forget that an caso emocional é continua a fazer batota!
4. Comunicação deficiente
When you come to think about it, the truth is that you and your other half no longer talk. No, I’m not talking about the fact that you literally don’t say anything to each other because you’re mad.
But there is no trace of real, deep conversations in your romance anymore. All you do is small talk – you talk about the weather, groceries, bills, errands, and the kids, if you have any.
Já não existe uma verdadeira comunicação. Não há mais questões profundas, no more asking for each other’s advice, and no checking the other person’s opinion.
Why do you think this is so? Well, first of all, he’s the one avoiding it – there is no doubt about that.
One of the reasons he’s doing it is because he is not interested in what you have to say. I know this sounds harsh, but it’s true. Communication is one form of intimacy, and that’s not what this man wants with your right now.
But there is also a more obvious reason for this change in behavior: He’s reduced your conversations to the bare minimum because it’s easier for him to lie that way. If he doesn’t talk that much, there is less possibility of him saying something he shouldn’t.
5. He’s busy all the time
One of the physical signs he is sleeping with someone else is strongly connected to this man’s sudden change in schedule. You are not a namorada carente who breathes down his neck, but you’re used to knowing everything about his whereabouts.
Agora, isso também mudou. De repente, ele tem alguns hábitos novos que desconheces.
Ele chega sempre tarde a casa, nunca inicia encontros e está sempre demasiado ocupado para responder ao seu telefonema, quanto mais para a ver. É claro que fica com a impressão de que he’s been avoiding you.
Bem, deixem-me revelar uma verdade de partir o coração: ele é mesmo.
After all, he still has the same 24 hours a day, and now he has to fit this other person into his schedule. And as painful as this might sound, the truth is that he’d rather spend time with her than you!
6. Padrões de comportamento estranhos e novos hábitos
You can’t really explain it, but you see that something is off. He’s different, and nobody can tell you otherwise.
Even when he kisses you, he does it in a weird way. It’s like you’re looking at another man compared to the guy he was a few weeks ago.
He’s changed his habits and is engaging in unusual behavioral patterns. Maybe he’s hit the gym or started going to bed earlier than before.
Mudou o seu café habitual, o seu gosto musical é agora diferente e até as suas atitudes e opiniões sobre as coisas não são as mesmas.
This is a good sign that something is going on with your partner. He’s obviously spending a lot of time with someone new, and this person has a huge influence on him.
But hey, if he wasn’t um batoteiro, you’d know if he had a new friend or a coworker he looks up to, wouldn’t you? Nevertheless, according to your findings, there is no one who could inspire him to change this much.
7. Outro telefone e perfis de redes sociais
We’ve already talked about how your partner’s phone is your biggest clue if you want to find sinais de infidelidade. But what if he doesn’t hide his phone and you don’t find anything strange in it when you snoop around?
At the same time, he’s displaying all the telltale signs he’s been sleeping around. Does that mean that you should give up on your search? Definitely not.
Here’s a pro tip from a relationship expert: a maioria dos batoteiros have backup phones. Not only that – they also have backup social media profiles, where they’re free to do whatever they want.
In many cases, they even use a false name and other personal information for their infidelity. They catfish other women who are, in most cases, completely unaware of this man’s love life.
No entanto, se utilizarem um perfil com o seu nome verdadeiro, bloqueiam-no a si e a todos os que conhece. Por isso, recomendo que o procure no Google em modo incógnito e que tente encontrar outro telemóvel no carro dele ou nas gavetas.
8. Dormir noutro quarto
We’ve already established that A sua vida sexual is non-existent. But what if he doesn’t want to sleep with you either? Yes, I mean literally sleeping next to you.
I know all the excuses by heart. He doesn’t want to bother you with his snoring. Or you two fall asleep and wake up at different times, so it’s more convenient like this.
E a minha favorita: deve dormir com o bebé, pois ele precisa de descansar porque se levanta cedo para ir trabalhar.
E, para ser sincero, cada uma destas razões é uma desculpa perfeitamente válida. Mas verdade seja dita, dormir juntos is extremely important for bonding, especially for those couples who aren’t spending time together during the day.
It’s the time when you have a chance to talk, cuddle, and be intimate (and I’m not only talking about having sex).
Also, it’s completely different if you both agree not to sleep in the same room. But if he’s the one insisting on it, it’s one of the physical signs he is sleeping with someone else.
9. Invulgarmente romântico e carinhoso
This one will probably come as a shock, but some men actually become the best husbands or boyfriends in the world when they’re having an affair. If he slept with another woman last night, he’d probably show up with flowers or an expensive gift the next morning.
Why? Well, isn’t it actually obvious?
First of all, he’s trying to blind you. He is better than ever, and you enjoy his attention, so you have no time and energy left to spy on him or even doubt his fidelity.
That’s not the only hidden reason behind his behavior. Ele também é sentimento de culpa por ser um batoteiro. Por isso, para ele, esta é uma forma de limpar a sua consciência. De acordo com esta lógica, ele ainda lhe está a prestar atenção, pelo que as suas acções são desculpáveis.
Mas o que é que isto quer dizer? Que cada vez que um rapaz te traz flores do nada, deves ver isso como um grande sinal de que ele está a fazer batota e acabar logo com o namoro?
De modo algum! No entanto, se ele mostrar outros sinais físicos de que anda a dormir com outra pessoa, veja isso como uma bandeira vermelha!
10. Mudança de linguagem corporal
This is real life, not a movie, and your significant other is not a paid actor but a human being. Therefore, even if he doesn’t confess his infidelity, his body language will tell you the truth.
Como é que ele reage quando o confrontamos about being a cheater? I’m sure he gets all nervous and diz todo o tipo de coisas estúpidas.
He avoids eye contact, his palms get sweaty, his voice trembles, and his hands start to shake. Isn’t it obvious that he is hiding something? The fact that your man acts like a little child caught doing something he shouldn’t tells you more than enough.
11. Mentir literalmente sobre tudo
Here’s a psychological fact: lying is fun. Until it’s not, of course, but in the beginning, it really does make one’s life easier.
Então, your partner has been lying to you about how he’s spending time and got away with it. That is, for now.
But the biggest problem with lying is that you can’t stop whenever you feel like it. It’s never enough to tell just one lie. Instead, you always have to back it up with at least another one, so your story adds up.
Before you know it, you’re trapped in a web of lies without a way out. And that’s exactly what’s happened with your significant other.
He’s started lying sobre literalmente tudo. And even though you haven’t caught him lying about his infidelity, you keep on catching him out when he doesn’t tell you the truth about other things.
12. Aproximar-se de uma mulher específica
Infelizmente, a outra mulher nem sempre é uma qualquer miúda do lado o seu parceiro conheceu online ou numa discoteca. Muitas vezes não vê o sinais de batota because it’s happening right under your nose. That’s right – you can’t see the wood for the trees.
Se o seu parceiro se aproximou inesperadamente de uma mulher específica, ela é a primeira a que deve prestar atenção. This can be a female friend or a coworker he’s started spending a lot more time with than usual.
Ele retomar o contacto com uma ex-namorada? Se o fez, veja isso como um sinal de aviso.
Don’t get me wrong – I’m not saying that you should be an overly jealous girlfriend who doesn’t let her man hang out with other women. However, there must be a reason he’s suddenly gotten so close with someone.
13. Uma crise financeira apesar de trabalhar fora de horas
Is there any lamer excuse for cheating than telling your SO that you have to work late? I don’t think so. Well, your parceiro infiel thinks it’s the best lie anyone could come up with.
I know what you must be thinking: he’s working late because he wants to provide more. He is thinking about your future together, and who are you to call him out on that? You’ll endure his absence because it’s for a good cause.
But do you actually see all of that money? If he’s working long hours, he should get paid for it or get a raise.
Nevertheless, the man has never been poorer. Something clearly doesn’t add up here.
Será possível que ele esteja realmente a gastar todo o seu dinheiro com esta nova rapariga?
14. Tudo em ti o irrita
Se o teu homem está a ter um caso, ele está interessado na rapariga he’s been seeing. At the same time, he’s been losing interest in you more and more.
A dura verdade é que o irrita. Tudo o que diz ou faz incomoda-o e ele está constantemente a arranjar discussões sem razão aparente.
Antes de mais, tu enervas-o. Na sua realidade distorcida, ele vê-a como um obstáculo ao seu "felizes para sempre" com a mulher ele está loucamente apaixonado por. It doesn’t make any sense, I know, but that’s why your presence annoys him.
Also, it’s easier for him to get into a fight with you than to look you in the eyes and pretend as if everything is perfectly normal.
15. He’s glowing
You know how you see when someone is in love? They get this special glow that you can’t fake.
Well, your partner has been glowing recently. He’s singing through the house, has a wide smile on his face when he stares at his phone, is clumsy, and is in a good mood. Of course, it all stops the moment he sees you.
Detesto dizer-lhe isto, mas este é um dos maiores sinais físicos de que ele anda a dormir com outra pessoa. As painful as it is to hear this, the truth is that he’s happy.
He doesn’t think about the consequences of his actions, nor is he concerned about your well-being. Este homem está a viver o momento e está a divertir-se.
16. Pistas de outra mulher
Chupões, nódoas negras, arranhões? O cheiro de a outra mulher’s perfume when you hug him? Traces of makeup? Yes, I’m talking about that lipstick shade you never use.
A lista é interminável. Continuas a encontrar ganchos debaixo da cama, um champô novo na casa de banho ou fios de cabelo espalhados pelo carro dele. E sempre que o confrontas com isso, ele dá-te uma desculpa parva que ninguém acredita.
Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe uma coisa: este não é apenas um dos sinais físicos de que ele anda a dormir com outra pessoa. Tudo isto diz-lhe que a outra mulher sabe de si!
She is probably leaving these clues on purpose so you figure out what’s going on!
17. Acções inovadoras
How do you know your man is sleeping around? His bedroom skills change for the better. He’s been spending a lot of time with outra mulher who has taught him a thing or two about satisfying a woman, and sadly, he’s putting these innovative moves to use on you now.
Actually, it doesn’t have to be closely connected to the bedroom. Ele pode começar a beijá-la de forma diferente ou mudar a sua estilo de acariciar.
This is a red flag if we’re talking about a long-term relationship. This man hasn’t brought anything new to the bedroom in ages, and now, all of a sudden, you feel like you’re sleeping with a completely new person. Well, indirectly, you are!
18. Os seus amigos e familiares agem de forma diferente
Frequently, the cheated woman is the last one to find out about being cheated on. Maybe your partner’s friends and family know what’s going on, and that’s why they keep avoiding you.
They don’t do it because they want to cut ties with you. These people are probably just embarrassed about what he’s doing and that they know.
They hate lying to you, but at the same time, they don’t want to interfere and be the ones to tell you the truth.
However, you notice the change in their behavior and wonder what’s caused it. Well, here’s the answer!
19. He’s completely indifferent
I’ll be honest with you: there is nothing worse than indifference. And that’s exactly what your partner feels for you – nothing.
All of his emotions are somewhere else, and it’s like you don’t even exist to him.
Tenta seduzi-lo mas não o excita. Mesmo quando ele dorme consigo, fá-lo sem qualquer paixão.
He is no longer jealous of other men in your surroundings. It’s like he’s patiently waiting for you to leave him so he doesn’t have to be the dumper!
20. A tua intuição sussurra-to
Finalmente, your gut feeling tells you that something is going on. You’re a woman, and your intuition is incredibly strong.
O batoteiro in question can be the best liar in the world, and you don’t have to apanhá-lo em flagrante, mas no fundo, sabes a terrível verdade!
How Do You Know If He’s Into Someone Else?
Se o teu homem gosta de outra pessoa, he’ll do his best to become a better man for this woman to like him more. He’ll gain new habits and change his appearance for no logical reason!
Also, you’ll notice that he’s not interested in you the way he used to. There is nothing you can do to intrigue him anymore.
Como é que se pode saber se um homem tem outra mulher?
Se um homem estiver com outra mulher, he’ll stop giving you his undivided attention. All of a sudden, you’ll no longer ser a sua prioridade número um.
Além disso, o seu instinto dir-lhe-á que algo de estranho se passa.
Para terminar:
Accepting that you’re ser enganado é uma das coisas mais difíceis numa relação. No entanto, não tem outra alternativa senão admiti-lo quando vir todos os sinais físicos de que ele anda a dormir com outra pessoa.
Please, don’t blame yourself for this, and don’t let this situation desencadear as suas inseguranças. Em vez disso, esforce-se por se apaixonar por ele e dê-lhe um pontapé no rabo!
