Time is pretty relative. Sometimes, a day flies by you like a minute and there are some minutes which seem like an eternity. You get what I’m saying in the case of if a guy doesn’t text you for a week.

In normal circumstances, seven days pass in the blink of an eye. You’re busy most of the time and you aren’t even aware that another week is behind you.

Nevertheless, when you’re waiting for that one beep sound from your phone, one week equals forever.

You keep on checking your inbox and your social media profiles and you expect to get a sound from him but nothing is happening. Sounds familiar, right?

I guess we’ve all been in this kind of situation at least once in our life.

However, despite all of that experience, nobody can usually actually tell you what it means if a guy doesn’t text you for a week and, more importantly, how you should behave in this case.

Well, luckily for you, we’re different because we’re bringing you all the answers you might need and are presenting you with all the relationship advice you need in this scenario. 

Realize what you want from him

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Before anything else and before making any concrete moves, every piece of dating advice will tell you that you have to be honest and clear with yourself.

For starters, it would be amazing if you could identify or, if necessary, analyze your own feelings and thoughts on this guy.

You need to know what you want from him. You two are probably just at the beginning of your relationship so you can’t tell for sure where it is headed. 

You still don’t know the core of his personality but you should make a decision based on what you have seen up until now.

What I’m trying to tell you is to figure out where this man stands in your heart and life. How seriously do you take your (potential) relationship with him?

Don’t worry, I’m not asking you to make a decision on whether you want to spend the rest of your life next to this guy or not; you just need to understand a little bit more about your future plans regarding him.

You see, there is a huge difference between all kinds of relationships. Therefore, if you consider this guy to be nothing but your fling, he is completely allowed not to text you for a week

It’s clear that neither of you wants a committed relationship, so there is absolutely no point in making a big deal out of these few days where you don’t hear from him.

If this is so, there is also no need for you to create different scenarios in your head. After all, you only see this guy as temporary so why would you care whether he texted you or not? 

On the other hand, if you plan on having something more serious with this guy, sadly, your problem is greater.

This especially goes for couples who are allegedly in a committed, serious relationship, in which this type of behavior isn’t accepted. 

Try not to panic

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When something like this happens, the first impulse all of us women have is to panic.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re one of those girls who shuts herself off and suffers in silence or belongs to the group of those who are open about her worries. 

Either way, in both cases, the bottom line is that as a woman, you’ll probably have a similar first reaction once you notice that a guy hasn’t been texting you lately. The truth is that you’ll probably start thinking the worst.

In your head, there doesn’t exist another possibility besides him playing you for a fool or not being interested.

There is no such thing as this guy really being busy or going through something that has nothing to do with you.

Basically, before even giving him a chance to explain himself, you’ll already label this man as guilty.

You’ll declare him the biggest jerk you’ve ever met before you even ask him anything about his sudden disappearance. 

Well, what every piece of dating advice will tell you is to give your best to stop doing this. After all, it won’t bring you any good.

I know that telling yourself, “Don’t worry,” is much easier than actually doing it. However, you’re a big girl and it’s time to learn how to control your emotions, at least to a certain extent. 

The last thing you need is to wrack your brains and endanger your mental health by obsessing over this guy.

Besides, you get what you attract so if you keep on sending out this pessimistic vibe, negative things are more likely to happen. 

Therefore, instead of beating yourself up, do your best to relax. At the end of the day, you worrying is completely pointless.

Also, I want you to remember one thing; if this is this man’s way of ghosting you, don’t see it as the end of the world.

Don’t blame yourself; even if you did something he didn’t like, he should have been a man about it and told you everything to your face.

You won’t accomplish anything by beating yourself up and wasting weeks of your life dissecting his every move and trying to come up with an answer. 

Give him a deadline

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If a guy doesn’t text you for a week, the best piece of advice I can give you is to give him or yourself a deadline.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should contact this guy and tell him that he has a certain amount of time to initiate conversations before you cross him off for good.

What I’m talking about here is a mental deadline. Set up the amount of time in your head by which it’s acceptable for you to wait for him. 

I won’t tell you how many days this should be because we’re all different. Follow your gut on this one and let your heart give you the answer.

However, the most important part is not to put your life on hold until this deadline comes because he is really not worth it

No, you don’t have to necessarily go and find yourself a rebound the very next day but you shouldn’t stay in bed for weeks, patiently and desperately waiting for his phone call or a text message either. 

You two are probably not exclusive since you haven’t heard from him in a week. Therefore, it doesn’t mean that you’ll be unfaithful if you put yourself out there in the dating pool.

Don’t push yourself too hard and don’t do anything you are not comfortable with. Nevertheless, there is absolutely nothing wrong with texting other men or even going on a few dates.

Every dating coach will tell you to do whatever will keep your mind away off this situation. Live your life to the fullest and don’t waste your life on some random guy. 

Another significant thing is to respect the mental deadline you’ve given him. If the date you set up comes but you don’t hear from him, fulfill the promise you’ve given to yourself.

Don’t use this date as a chance to postpone the inevitable. Don’t keep on making excuses for his behavior and don’t continue justifying his actions, just so you can give yourself a chance to wait for him some more. 

Basically, don’t care what happens after this deadline. You might get a phone call from him the day after the deadline or he may send you a text message but that doesn’t mean you should run after him. 

Instead, be loyal to yourself and keep your own promise. You’ve given him more than enough time to get back to you and he blew all of his opportunities. 

Don’t get all clingy

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There is this strange thing in human nature; we have a habit of chasing the things and people who are running away from us. 

Whether you like it or not, you have this urge as well; you get intrigued by a guy who doesn’t show you enough interest and subconsciously, you try to catch him when you see that he’s trying to escape. 

Therefore, the first impulse you have in this kind of situation is to get all over this man. If it were for your true wishes, you’d have been calling and texting him all the time, trying to find an answer to his behavior. 

After all, you like him and you like him a lot. You wouldn’t mind texting and talking to him all day and night. 

Nevertheless, I have to disappoint you and tell you that this kind of behavior will probably be counterproductive and if you start acting this way, it’s likely that you’ll chase this man away from you.

Let’s be honest here; nobody likes a clingy girlfriend. Men don’t like girls who give themselves away too easily, without expecting them to put up a fight and to win them over. 

The saddest part is that men and women have a different perspective on what clingy behavior means. Sometimes a guy can consider you needy while you’re just caring.

Therefore, you should definitely be careful about the amount of attention you give to a man at the beginning of your relationship and this is especially true when it comes to situations like these.

Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not saying that you should engage in this guy’s mind games (if you determine that he is playing with you) or that you should play hard to get if that is not how you feel, just to gain his interest. 

However, I’m just begging you not to exaggerate. Don’t be the one who always initiates contact if you see that you’re not getting any special feedback. 

Try your best to control your urges and the need you have for this man. Don’t double or triple text him if you haven’t got a text back the first time you reached out. 

The last thing you want is for him to perceive you as a possessive lunatic who doesn’t give him any space.

Whether you like to admit it or not, you two went out on a first date or you had a few great dates, which means you’re still not in a committed relationship and you have very little right in his life. 

Remember your worth

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If a guy doesn’t text you for a day, let alone for an entire week, the first thought that runs through your head is that you caused his behavior.

You can be the most confident woman in the world but you’ll probably dissect your behavior in an attempt to find your mistakes. 

Let’s be real here; a man not texting you is not such a big deal. It happens all the time and it is not something that will affect the course of your entire life.

However, let’s be honest; what seems foolish to an outsider can be huge for you, who is going through this.

It’s not uncommon for girls to be strongly impacted by something like this and if you’re one of them, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

You are probably wondering why you can’t be enough for this man. Is this a good sign that you should give up on dating since you’re clearly not meant to be loved?

Why doesn’t he like you? Are you not smart enough, not attractive enough? Are you boring? Did you show him too much interest? Or did you actually give him too little attention?

Was it something you said or did? Why don’t you deserve him telling you the truth right to your face?

Should you expect the same behavior from every other man in the future? Will this help you develop relationship anxiety? 

These are all the questions that keep on running through your head and you simply can’t chase them away, as much as you try.

I don’t expect you to turn off a switch in your brain which will make everything better.

I get it; you’re not just disappointed in this guy, you’re worried about your future in the dating world and you have even started questioning your value as a woman.

Well, this is something you should never allow to happen. I’m begging you, remember who you are and never forget that you’re worthy, regardless of what any guy might say or do. 

You might not believe me now but love will come to you when you least expect it.

So, even if this guy never contacts you again, understand that he wasn’t meant to be and move on like he was never around in the first place. 

Don’t you ever forget how much you deserve. Most importantly, don’t even think of settling for crumbs of someone’s love and attention

Reach out to him

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Another thing you can do in this situation is be the one to text him. You’ve tried everything from above and you just can’t stop thinking about him. If that is the case, be the one to reach out to this guy you like so much. 

However, don’t be too pushy or clingy while doing so. The best thing is to send him a casual text message, asking him what he’s been up to or whether he wants to grab a cup of coffee. 

Don’t scare him off by making a scene right away. Don’t write him essay-long paragraphs in which you demand an explanation and which describe in detail the heartbreak he’s been putting you through. 

I know that you probably feel awful and want to share your emotions with him but if you do this, it’s likely that he’ll see you as some weirdo whose life revolves around him.

In that case, you’ll just boost his ego and give him the green light to continue playing like this since you clearly dig it. 

Instead of appreciating the fact that you were strong enough to expose your vulnerabilities, he’ll probably see them as weaknesses and use them against you. 

On the other hand, don’t see this final attempt as some kind of humiliation.

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You’re not begging him to come back or telling him that you love him like you’ve never loved anyone before; you’re only initiating a text conversation with him and he can’t possibly know how important this text is to you. 

However, this is where you’ll have to be especially wise. Try disregarding your emotions when it comes to analyzing his reaction and do your best to be as objective as possible.

For example, if he replies with a one-word answer or a simple emoji and if the convo would end if you didn’t continue it, I hate to break it to you but he’s probably not interested.

In fact, he is making that very clear and doesn’t want to be completely impolite and leave you on read.

Does he look like he was waiting for you to start the convo all along? Did he initiate conversation or are you the one doing all the work?

Give honest answers to these questions and that will help you act further in the right way. 

After all, even if he doesn’t reply to your texts, don’t see it as your defeat. This might sound like a cliché but you were strong enough to take this important step and brave enough to take matters into your own hands.

Most importantly, you’ll always know that you tried your best. You gave it a shot, it didn’t work out the way you expected but now you know where you stand. 

3 Real Reasons Why He Hasn’t Texted You For A Week

The biggest problem with a guy who suddenly becomes silent is you not knowing what happened.

The last time you two had a text conversation, everything went awesome and everything was going smoothly ever since you had your first date.  

However, all of a sudden, things started changing so you can’t help but ask yourself where things went wrong, what happened and most importantly, why he is doing it. 

Basically, what you’re looking for is closure and him telling you everything face-to-face. You think that it would be a lot easier if you got a decent explanation instead of having to come up with one by yourself. 

Even though we can’t read any man’s mind, here are some real reasons why he hasn’t texted you for a week. 

He’s been genuinely busy

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This probably sounds too good to be true but let’s be real; we all have some unplanned events popping up in our lives. Therefore, your man might be genuinely busy.

Yes, he should find time to send you at least one text, telling you that he’s going through something right now.

Nevertheless, you don’t know what’s happening with him. He might be having a family emergency, a work crisis or some other issue.

After all, you’re still not that important to him and it’s his right if he refuses to share some personal details with you. 

You see, the problem with us women is that we always think everything is about us.

Whenever your guy is not in a good mood or when you see him nervous, you automatically assume that it has to do with your relationship.

You must be boring him or he is looking for ways to dump you. When he is not texting you, he is clearly not interested. However, this doesn’t have to be true.

He might have a million other problems on his mind which have nothing to do with you or your romance. 

He’s playing games

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In modern dating, everything is about some immature mind games. Basically, the loser of all of these games is the person who shows feelings first. 

Once you expose yourself and show that you have a heart, you put yourself out there and you give the other party the chance to break it.

So, there is a huge possibility that this guy just doesn’t want to be the one and expects you to put yourself on the line before he does. 

Of course, every dating coach will tell you that it doesn’t have to mean that he is playing games because he is scared of getting hurt.

Maybe he is a player who enjoys making girls fall for him just so he can vanish and hurt them. 

Maybe he plays hard to get because he needs an ego boost.

You might not see him as a type with low self-esteem since he is great at hiding his insecurities but it’s quite possible that he needs a push in the right direction.

Naturally, there is also a possibility that we’re talking about a toxic man who planned to ghost you all along.

If this is the case, he’ll definitely try reappearing in your life the moment he thinks that you’ve finally forgotten about him, just to shake you up once more. 

Also, there is a chance that he doesn’t want a serious relationship and is using this method to make it clear to you.

On the other hand, he might be thinking things through. Maybe he needs some time to sort everything out and be clear about his emotions before proceeding with your relationship.

In this case, everything is up to you. Are you ready to play these games or do you want a more mature man who will stand behind his feelings?

Are you willing to wait for this guy to get his act together and have the decency to choose you? Or is it that you don’t need a man who can’t make up his mind about you?

He is not interested

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Finally, if a guy doesn’t text you for a week, it can be one of the good signs that he is just not that into you

I know that this is a hard pill to swallow but nobody has a duty to reciprocate your emotions.

Maybe he is actually a great guy who liked you and with whom you had some great dates but later on, realized that it’s not the real deal. 

It doesn’t have to mean that you did something wrong. You two just didn’t click and there is not much philosophy about that. 

Another possibility is that he found someone else, a girl he liked more than you and someone he wants a serious relationship with. Maybe he got back with his ex or was never even single in the first place. 

Basically, the possibilities here are endless. However, you shouldn’t wrack your brains about it because the bottom line is the same; this man is not interested in you to the extent you’re interested in him.

Nevertheless, instead of hating him for it, consider yourself lucky. Yes, he should have acted like a grown-up and told you all of this face-to-face instead of escaping like a chicken and ghosting you.

However, anything is better than being led on. At least now, you know where you stand and you can move on without any doubts.

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