Dale 3 días - La magia detrás de este poderoso consejo para citas
Okay, I’m sure that almost each and every one of us has heard of the famous relationship advice ‘give him 3 days’ at least once. On the other hand, I am also sure that many of us aren’t sure what it means or how it can affect our relationships.
Lo entiendo porque la primera vez que lo oí, yo también pensé que era una tontería. Except it wasn’t nonsense but the best decision I’ve ever made because thanks to this piece of consejos sobre citas, I’m still with my man, and we’ve never been happier.
And that’s why my mission today is to help you understand and embrace this 3-day rule. So, let’s get down to business and help you save yourself or your relationship.
¿Qué es la regla de los tres días sin contacto?
La regla de los 3 días es un simple consejo para las citas que ha ayudado a muchas mujeres salvar sus relaciones. Básicamente significa que debe dale espacio a tu hombre and time… that you should déjalo en paz durante 3 días.
And ‘ningún contacto’ means exactly that: NO phone calls and NO text messages. It’s as simple as that.
Yes, I know that you’ll all say now that it’s easier said than done, but believe me, it’s not as heartbreaking as you think. If you use those 3 days wisely, it’ll help your relationship flourish again.
3 razones para darle 3 días
If you still aren’t convinced that you should give him 3 days, here are 3 reasons that will definitely change your mind.
1. He’ll enjoy having his own space
¿Qué le parece? ¿Por qué necesita espacio en primer lugar? Of course, it’s because he wants to do things he likes and spend time with his best friends.
It’s not like he’ll create a Tinder profile and start seeing/chatting with other girls. He’ll just dedicate that time to his interests in life, and maybe he’ll even find a new hobby.
He’ll enjoy that sense of freedom and individuality, and he’ll only appreciate you even more for it. En otras palabras, dándole el espacio mejorará su relación de todas las formas posibles.
2. It’ll give him time to sort out his thoughts and emotions
A veces, un hombre sólo necesita espacio para ponerse en contacto con sus emociones. If he isn’t completely sure how he feels about you, this alone time will help him put his emotions in order.
Also, if he’s been struggling with personal issues, spending some time alone may help him find a way to solve those. In both cases, he and your relationship may benefit from the 3-day ningún contacto período.
3. He’ll have time to figure out which way he wants your relationship to go
If you’ve had disagreements, if your man has started distancing himself, this alone time will also give him the opportunity to finally decide whether he wants you to be a part of his life or not.
Tal vez él te ama pero es miedo al compromiso and doesn’t want to engage in a relación seria demasiado pronto. En pocas palabras, el futuro de su relación reside en la regla de los 3 días.
5 ventajas de la regla de los 3 días sin contacto
Hay muchos beneficios de este asombroso consejo sobre citas, and you’ll find the most important ones below.
1. You’ll know for sure how he feels about you
Si al cuarto día te tiende la mano y te desea buenos días o simplemente te dice que te echa mucho de menos, entonces las cosas están bastante claras: te quiere de verdad and doesn’t want to lose you.
On the other hand, if he doesn’t reach out and decides to prolong the no contact period, it’ll be a clear sign of how much (actually, little) he cares for you.
2. It may make him understand that he can’t live without you (or it may not)
Just last night, my boyfriend said that he’ll always be thankful for those 3 days we were ‘separated’ because it was during that time that he understood that he can’t and doesn’t want to live without me.
La verdad es que la regla de los 3 días es una de esas relación de éxito o fracaso momentos.
If your man understands that you’re the only woman he loves and wants in his life after those 3 days, it’ll make you the happiest woman alive.
On the other hand, if your man decides to give up on you, it’s still a good thing because you’ll finally know the truth. It’ll accelerate your process of accepting the truth and seguir adelante.
3. Evita que parezcas desesperado
We’re all different human beings, and we all struggle with inseguridades. They’re simply a part of us, and no matter how confident someone is, there will always be something about them they won’t be confident about.
Unfortunately, sometimes those insecurities make us believe that we’re indigno de amor, and we simply aren’t able to shake them off even when we’re in a relación sana con otra persona.
That’s why we become pegajoso, dependent, and desperate. To avoid that, give him 3 days and show him that you’re perfectly aware of your worth and aren’t afraid to give both him and yourself some space.
4. La oportunidad de redefinir su relación
Pasar esos días separados os dará tiempo a los dos para reflexionar sobre vuestros sentimientos y tomar una decisión sobre el futuro de vuestra relación.
Maybe you’ll both want to slow things down or, on the contrary, maybe you’ll want to take your relationship to the next level. That’s actually irrelevant, but the important thing is that you find a common language and agree on a decision that will really be the best for you and your relationship.
5. It’ll help you understand that some things are or are not meant to be
If you believe in destiny, then you already know that some things are meant to happen… that some people are meant to be together.
If your man comes back after the no contact period, it’ll be a sign that he’s your soulmate and the right one for you. On the flip side, if he doesn’t come back, you’ll know that he wasn’t your destiny and that there is still someone out there, a man who is meant to stay in your life forever.
5 maneras de sobrellevar el periodo de 3 días sin contacto
Now, the question that probably intrigues you the most is ‘how to deal with the 3-day no contact rule,’ right? Well, don’t worry because I’ve got you covered here too.
1. Céntrate en tu propia vida
Aprovecha este momento para reflexionar sobre tu propia vida. ¿Estás contento y satisfecho con el aspecto actual de tu vida?
Si no es así, haz algo para cambiarlo. The fact is, you’ll never truly be happy with another human being as long as you aren’t happy and satisfied with yourself.
2. Pasa tiempo con tus amigos
Don’t wait for a phone call or text back. Sitting at home and waiting for him to reach out to you won’t bring you any good. It won’t change anything, but it may harm your mental health.
Así que levántate de la cama, ponte ropa bonita y sal con tus amigos. You’re in a situation where you desperately need the so-called ‘chilling with besties’ therapy.
Your best friends won’t allow you to keep worrying about whether he’ll come back or not. They’ll do everything they can to make you smile, and that’s something you need most right now: a reason to smile and be happy.
3. Date un capricho
Guarda tu teléfono. Deja de comprobar su Puntuación de Snapchat and stop stalking him on social media in general. Don’t think about what the next day will bring, and just try to focus on yourself for a change.
Spoil yourself. Treat yourself to a relaxing wellness day at the spa. Go shopping. Do something you’ve wanted to do for a long time but were never able to find time to do. Just do something nice for yourself… Keep your mind occupied and your soul happy.
4. Reconsidere su relación
This is especially important if you’re in una relación a distancia. If you see that your man has been distancing himself for a lot of time and can’t even remember the last time he said that he loves you, this is a good time to reassess your relationship.
If you’re aware that it’s not going anywhere, that tu relación es profundamente insana, you should finish it before it’s too late. Ahórrate disgustos innecesarios, concéntrate en tu curación y sigue adelante.
5. Ponerse en contacto con sus propios sentimientos
Giving your man space doesn’t mean that he’s the only one who should think about his emotions. También es el momento de que te controles y te concentres en tus propios sentimientos.
Dig deep and try to understand everything that’s going on in your heart. Be honest with yourself… Are you still as in love with your man as you were on your very primera cita? ¿Realmente te hace feliz? ¿Es realmente el chico con el que te imaginas en el futuro?
La verdad es que nuestros sentimientos pueden cambiar, y puede que no seamos conscientes de ello durante mucho tiempo. Seguimos viviendo una mentira y fingimos que todo va bien.
¿La falta de contacto hará que siga adelante?
Realmente depende. Si tu hombre te ama de verdad, then this no contact period won’t make him give up on you. He’ll fight and keep fighting for you, no matter how much you persist with sin contacto.
On the flip side, if he doesn’t love you enough, the fact is that he won’t wait for you for too long. Así que, sí, en este caso, la regla de no contacto puede hacer que rompa contigo definitivamente y siga adelante.
Otra posibilidad es que su hombre empiece a pensar que usted ha seguido adelante con su propia vida debido a la falta de contacto, lo que puede hacer que él mismo considere seguir adelante.
However, the bottom line is that he won’t give up on you easily if his feelings for you are strong and honest.
Reflexiones finales
So, what are your thoughts about the ‘give him 3 days’ relationship advice? I honestly believe that it can only positively impact you and your relationship.
After all, you know what they say… Si amas a alguien, déjalo ir. If they love you, they’ll come back, and if they don’t… Well, you’ll finally be free to shift the love you feel for them towards yourself.
En resumidas cuentas, estos consejos sobre citas sólo pueden beneficiarte a ti. With it, you’ll finally know exactly where you stand with your guy.
