Since you’re here reading this article, you’ve probably spent lots of time wondering how to impress a girl and make her yours.
Every time you see a girl who makes your heart beat faster, your hormones are pushing you harder to find the right way to impress her and show her your qualities.
You start thinking: “Maybe if I do this or that, she will fall for me…” and this kind of overthinking leads you in the wrong direction most of the time and you end up doing things that accentuate your insecurities instead of qualities.
But I can wholeheartedly promise you that today is the day when you’ll learn everything you need to know about impressing a girl in the right way to win her over in no time, so let’s get started!
How to impress a girl
The first thing you need to remember is: Impressing women is not as complicated as it seems!
Many men think that in order to impress a girl they need to drive a Lamborghini, have a six-pack, have a swimming pool in their backyard for long summer night parties and a six-figure salary.
But all of these are the things that you’ve been taught by the media, which have nothing to do with what women really want.
If you want to learn how to really impress a girl and show off your boyfriend material traits, then forget about everything you’ve learned so far because the only thing you need is the right approach (and that’s why I’m here today).
Now, what does it mean to have the right approach? It means knowing the perfect formula that works perfectly with any girl!
And the perfect formula would sound exactly like this: The smallest gestures make the greatest impressions!
So, forget about expensive cars, perfect looks and perfect jobs because here is the only guide you’ll ever need!
HOW TO IMPRESS A GIRL: THE 15 BEST WAYS TO WIN HER OVER
1. Take good care of yourself
If you want to impress a girl, you need to take good care of yourself. Summarized, you need to dress to impress.
And how do you do so? You do so by always making sure that you’ve washed your hair, brushed your teeth, that you shave daily, wear deodorant, wear clean clothes and don’t suffocate her with too much cologne.
Consider hitting the gym at least two to three times a week, drink plenty of water, listen to music to cleanse your soul, meditate and do whatever it needs to make yourself feel good in your skin.
If you do all of this, you will look attractive and you will let her know that you’re a grown-ass man who knows how to take care of himself!
2. Have good manners
Many guys underestimate the importance of being a gentleman. Please, don’t be one of them.
Avoid cursing or acting like a savage when you’re around the girl you want to impress.
Remember that she will not fall for the number of beers that you’re capable of drinking within ten minutes or bragging about your masculinity one way or another.
Always have good manners, which will tell her a lot about your personality.
Always make sure that you open doors for her, treat her with respect, know when to say please and thank you and by doing all of that, you will make her feel special.
3. Keep your intentions clear
When talking to a girl, always remember to keep your intentions clear. Now, what does this mean?
It means to avoid acting like you’re only interested in jumping into her pants or a one-night stand.
If you do this, trust me, she will know it and she will run away from you at the speed of light (unless she’s interested in the same thing as you).
Keep your intentions clear by treating her with respect, not rushing her into anything and convincing her with your actions of pure intentions because you don’t want her to start overthinking everything and suspect that you’re just an immature jerk.
4. Compliment her
One of the best ways to impress a girl and make her feel special is by giving her a sincere compliment and, lucky you, there are thousands of things a girl can be complimented on.
You can compliment her outfit, hair, hobbies, achievements, personality, taste in music and so on.
Remember that the broader the compliment, the greater the effect, meaning that you should describe the compliment in detail, like the following: “I love the way the green color accentuates your eyes, it looks magnificent on you!” instead of just, “Your eyes look beautiful.”
5. Surprise her
Every girl wants to be surprised by a guy because surprising means making an effort and making an effort means impressing her, right?
What you need to do is pay attention to her preferences, her passions and her personality, which will help you devise perfect surprises with minimal effort.
However, if you’re not that creative when it comes to these things, you can always surprise her by buying tickets to a movie or a concert she’s excited about, give her a DIY gift, buy her favorite chocolate, bring her a coffee, send her flowers, take her on a mini road trip, hug her when she least expects it—you name it. And yes, you can always send her one of those sweet good night paragraphs for her.
6. Make her laugh
Most of the time, many guys are afraid of making a girl laugh because they are afraid that she will not understand their sense of humor and they will appear totally weird.
Also, there are some guys who tend to overdo it when it comes to making her laugh, which is also not a good characteristic.
Understand that to make a girl laugh doesn’t mean you need to be a stand-up comedian.
Saying something funny here and there will suffice and you should never try too hard.
The best jokes are the ones that come to you casually (in the moment) and not the ones that you’ve been thinking of the whole day, trying hard to find the perfect way to retell them.
7. Be confident
If you’re wondering how to impress the girl you like, one of the most important things to remember is to be confident.
Always know what you want, stick to your decisions, stand up straight and tall and be simple.
And even if you have no idea what you’re doing, pretend that you do because it is the only way to show her how confident you are.
Confidence is all about how you feel inside and what you think about yourself.
You don’t have to look like a model on a runway but if you feel like one, you will ooze like one. Always remember that.
8. Support your words with actions
Don’t be a guy who will only be strong when it comes to his words. Be a guy who will prove his words with his actions and you will impress her.
If you tell her how much you like her, don’t stop there. Think of new ideas of how to make her feel special and how to prove it to her.
Think of it like selling something.
If you tell a girl how much you like her, convince her to believe it by showing your qualities to her and your willingness to prove it.
You’ll impress her by showing her that you’re a man of his word, you know what you want and you are ready to fight for it.
9. Be positive
There’s nothing more powerful than a guy who oozes positivity and who never fails at making a girl feel good after spending time with him.
Girls love to feel safe in a positive environment and that is why you should work on creating one.
Always keep your cool. If something bad happens, don’t act like it’s a big deal in front of her because you don’t want her to think that you’re incapable of dealing with difficult situations.
Thrive to exhibit positive vibes and she will be drawn to you. She will want to be a part of your life because it feels good to be around you.
10. Be on time
And please, just don’t be late!
If it happens once, it is okay but constantly being late is a sign of ultimate disrespect toward her and you don’t want that to happen.
You don’t want her to think that you’re taking her for granted.
Always make sure that you’re on time when you go out with her because this is one of the greatest indicators that you actually care about how she feels and what she will think of you.
But if you’re really prevented from getting there on time, make sure that you explain to her and apologize as well.
11. Make eye contact
If you want to win her over, don’t forget to use the most powerful weapon in your possession and that is your eyes.
There’s not a single girl who didn’t fall for a guy who looked her deeply in the eyes because eye contact indicates confidence and if you want to impress the girl you like, you will have to work on this one.
When she’s talking to you, look her in the eye and listen to her carefully.
When you’re talking to her, also look her in the eye and don’t let your eyes wander (even if a hot chick happens to pass by).
12. Put your phone aside
When you’re together, always make sure to put your phone aside.
Just imagine how would you feel if she was talking more on her phone instead of to you or constantly texting with someone else instead of talking to you.
It would be extremely rude, so don’t do it.
Listen to her every word carefully and even if someone calls you or texts you, answer only if it is urgent and don’t forget to apologize to her for doing so.
That way she will know that your whole focus is on her and not your phone or something else and this determination to be there in the moment with her no matter what will impress her.
13. Do things that you love to do
Do you have specific hobbies or passions?
What is it that you really like to do? Impressing her is all about treating her right and carefully exhibiting your qualities (but not in a boastful way).
So, you should always do things that you love to do and talk to her about them.
When she hears how passionate you are about something, she will know that you’re not a couch potato whose biggest achievement of the day is watching his favorite TV shows.
You need to let her know that you’re determined to do something with your life and find time to do the things you like.
14. Have goals
Similar to the previous point, if you want to make her yours, you need to show her that you have goals in your life and you’re trying hard to make your dreams come true.
And this doesn’t have to be anything big. You can start with the small things and aim toward big ones.
One of your goals could be living healthy and exercising regularly, finding a better job or helping homeless people.
Talk to her about your future goals and she will be impressed by your determination to work on yourself and become a better person.
It really doesn’t matter which goal it is as long as it has a positive intention and outcome.
15. Relax and be yourself
Don’t perceive dating or impressing her as a job. Always be relaxed and most importantly, be yourself.
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not just to amaze her because you’ll give her a false picture which will create false hopes that you’re not capable of fulfilling.
Enjoy everything you do for her and show her that you’re having a great time. Remember that you will win her over only once she sees that you’re being genuine about your intentions and when you let her know that she is your priority.
HOW TO IMPRESS A GIRL OVER TEXT MESSAGES: 7 STEPS
Since most conversations today revolve around texting, here are some of the most important things to pay attention to when it comes to impressing a girl over text messages as well!
1. Pick interesting questions
Don’t ask her standard, boring questions like, “How are you?” I mean, it is okay to ask her that from time to time but do not let your conversations revolve around that one question.
Instead, pick interesting questions that will make her think about them and that will let her know you’re really interested in knowing her better.
You can ask her about her childhood, future plans, fears, cravings and similar.
Just avoid asking only yes/no questions because they will show your lack of interest in her and you want to avoid that at all costs.
2. Tell her about your daily life/yourself
I understand that you guys are not that into texting and some of you avoid it like the plague but girls are pretty much different and if you want to impress them, you will have to ‘make sacrifices’.
Don’t only call her or text her when you’re about to invite her out for a drink or similar.
Make sure to text her on a daily basis by telling her about your life, funny situations that happened to you at work or something that reminds you of her.
By doing that, she will know that you’re thinking about her and you will succeed in making her feel special.
3. Send stickers or emojis
I know that it’s a pain in the ass to constantly send thousands of stickers and emojis but girls love this!
If you keep sending plain texts, she will start asking herself if something’s wrong with you because girls use stickers and emojis to express their emotions, make you sympathize with them and understand their feelings.
And if you don’t do the same for them, they will feel neglected, thinking that you’re not making enough effort when it comes to texting.
But don’t think that you need to send tons of stickers within a single text. Be moderate!
4. Don’t repeat yourself
The worst thing you could do when it comes to texting is repeating yourself.
Repeating means not being creative enough or not being interested in having meaningful conversations.
When it comes to conversation starters, don’t repeat the same phrases like, “Hi, what u doin’?” over and over again, and don’t send the same romantic bedtime stories.
Instead, thrive to always look for new ways of greeting her and starting a conversation and she will see that you’re really trying to win her over and that you care about whether she’s bored or entertained.
5. Ask her for her opinions
No matter how confident you are, there must be something that you’re not quite sure about and for that, you need the opinions of other people.
The best way to a girl’s heart is by asking her for her opinions on something. It can be about your outfit, your job, friends, anything.
By doing this, you will let her know that you validate her thinking and that you need her in your life.
You will win her over by making her an active part of your life and making her feel important. And who doesn’t want to feel this way?
6. Send a good morning and a goodnight text to her
When you go to sleep at night, send her a goodnight text and when you wake up, remember to send her a good morning text to remind her that you’re thinking about her.
When a girl knows that she’s on your mind, she will feel special and she will be impressed by your efforts to never miss letting her know that.
If you want to spice it up a little bit, there are tons of articles on the Internet regarding these types of texts, so the only thing you need to do is choose the best one that will suit your purposes.
7. Don’t push it
Since text messages are easily misinterpreted, you need to be careful with what you are sending her.
Especially if you see that she’s not comfortable regarding something you’ve asked her, do not push her to answer you.
Always make sure to create a chill environment where she will not feel under pressure to talk about something she’s not comfortable with.
Pushing things will only result in confusion and disappointment and you don’t want to push her away.
You want to impress her by letting her know that she can trust you and you’re the one for her.
And if you stick to all of the above ways and steps, you will definitely succeed with this in no time!