La sincera verità è che ho finito di provarci con te

This is it… il mio ultimo addio. Da questo momento, ho chiuso. Odio dover essere io a dirlo, ma I’m done trying con voi.

I never was a quitter, and you know that giving up is something I hate the most, but this time, I’m left with no other option. Actually, you left me no other option.

Odio tagliare tutti i legami di quando ero felice (io ERA FELICE essendo il parole chiave qui). But, it’s been a while since I last felt la vera felicitào da quando ho sentito che il mio amore era ricambiato.

I’ve come to the point where I’ve realized that I’ve caught myself holding onto something that maybe was never even there.

Odio avere questa sensazione e questo bisogno di fare un'altra prova. Something (it’s probably my naive and weak heart) keeps telling me that just maybe if I gave it one more chance, we could make it work.

Che forse, se mi impegnerò di più questa volta, le cose andranno diversamente.

L'unico problema è che non sono mai stato io a doverci dare un'altra possibilità. Non sono mai stato io a dovermi impegnare di più e a mettere più impegno in tutto questo.

I keep repeating to myself that I am not the one that’s leaving this relationship in debt. And, I’ll make sure I keep reminding myself about this. It truly does help me ease the pain.

I’m Officially Done Trying To Stay In Your Life

You were always telling me that I’m the toughest, bravest, and strongest woman you have ever met in your life. I don’t know if this is true or not, but the truth is that I feel tired to the bone right now.

I’m tired of constant overthinking. I’m tired of my heart aching for so long. My soul is beyond tired of seconde opportunità. I’m tired of trying.

I’m done putting all of my efforts in qualcuno che vive da tempo nella gloria della vecchia fama.

I am done questioning whether I am worth enough just because someone I’m with doesn’t care to make an effort.

I hate being the one to reach out on social media and call you first all the time. I hate being the one that always needs to insist on spending time with you—don’t I deserve to get some attention as well?

You were polite towards me, but that’s not what I needed. The truth is all I needed was love, honest efforts, and for you to make me feel like you are my home.

You said I made you feel like I am your safe haven. I was your calm in your own chaos while you, on the other hand, were my… Well, you were the chaos in my calm.

Avevo bisogno di sapere che posso contare su di te tanto quanto tu puoi contare su te stesso.

The ugly truth is you were never insecure about me; you were insecure about yourself. The only problem is—you’ve projected it onto our relationship.

I’ve done everything to prove to you that you have me and you’ve done nothing but fail me over and over again.

I accepted and fell in love with you the way you were and I would have lasted like that for a thousand years more, but the feeling wasn’t mutual.

Mi hai fatto mettere in discussione tutto ciò che sono, e mi sono sempre chiesta cosa devo cambiare perché tu mi noti.

La verità è che le mie stesse aspettative mi hanno danneggiato

I’ve tried to meet your expectations; I tried to be likable by you the way I’ve never tried with anybody else in my life.

I have no idea what more there is to be done. So I’m finished. I’m out of ideas to make you love me again or make you love me at all.

Now, I am left insecure about everything we had before. You’ve made me question everything we lived together and everything I felt.

I’m wondering what the hell made you want to be with me in the first place. You were aware from the very beginning that I’m not la persona giusta per voiAllora perché sei rimasto e hai continuato a illudermi?

Volevo che ne valesse la pena. Lo volevo davvero. Ma odiavo essere l'unico a provarci e di volerlo.

I’d hate to look back on a few previous months and see them as a complete waste, but that feeling is getting under my skin slowly.

I’d hate to see I’ve wasted my time and all my love on someone who took it for granted.

I’m done trying to make you bigger in the eyes of my friends. I hated them for saying I was wasting my time with you.

Ho cercato di dimostrare che si sbagliavano, ma sei stato tu a dimostrare che avevano effettivamente ragione.

Sento che non c'è futuro per noi. Quindi, Io sono ho finito di provarci con te. Ho smesso di cercare nuovi modi per renderti felice e salvare la nostra relazione (ovviamente sbagliata).

Ho smesso di aspettare for you to wake up. You’ve been asleep for too long. And I’ve moved far away while you were sleeping.

Ho smesso di fare di te la mia priorità quando in realtà, Per te ero solo un'opzione.

La parte triste è che il ultima cosa Non ho mai voluto smettere di credere in te. In noi. I never gave anybody’s negative talk about you the benefit of the doubt because I was sure you were born to do extraordinary things. Perhaps you were, but only without me by your side.

I am done cheering for you. I don’t want to continue disregarding my life for someone I’m completely sure doesn’t even give a damn about me.

Sincerely, I don’t blame only you

You didn’t ask for any of this. It’s just when I love, I love with my entire heart. I give everything.

Do tutto me stesso perché mi aspetto tutto in cambio. I don’t do half-assed love. I either do it right or don’t do it at all.

I guess that’s how it goes in relationships—you never know if somebody is worthy or not. You have to let them show it to you until you’re already in it too deep.

Ho smesso di cercare di essere il fulcro della tua vita. Ho smesso di cercare di renderti felice e orgoglioso di me.

Because I just can’t meet the expectations you have of me. I just can’t be that girl you want me to be.

Ovviamente, nulla di ciò che facevo era mai abbastanza per te, e non eri mai pienamente soddisfatto. Quindi I’m done.

To fill the void you have left, I would have needed to be somebody else and that would kill me. I’d hate to see myself change for you just so you could set a new milestone again.

Finirà mai? Saresti mai completamente soddisfatto di come sono o di come sarei? Ne dubito.

I’ve given my best, and the saddest thing of them all is the fact that my best wasn’t enough.

I never noticed my flaws until I met you. Then, upon looking at myself in the mirror, I kept wondering if I’d changed some things, would you have wanted me more?

But there would always be something you’d like to change about me, so what’s the point? It’s easier to let you find someone else than it is to completely change myself.

I’d just like you to know that I am not the first one to give up on us. You are the one that walked away a long time ago; you just stayed physically present.

Sto solo facendo quello che tu hai fatto a me tanto tempo fa, ma ho le palle per farlo bene.

I’m walking away

Lasciarsi andare e allontanarsi from something that’s hurting me now is less painful than staying. Because for me, to stay would mean to die. Die inside.

By walking away, even if that walk is painful, I’m giving us the chance to meet the persona giusta who’ll love us the way we deserve. I am sorry I couldn’t be that person for you.

So che i primi giorni ufficiali senza di te mi uccideranno. Perché, qualunque cosa sia successa, tu eri la mia parte preferita della giornata.

Eri il mio rifugio e amavo raggomitolarmi accanto a te. Mi piaceva l'illusione di averti, anche solo per un po'.

In the first few days, you won’t even notice I am not there. Even if you notice my absence, you’ll thank God for the space you’ve got.

Ma, alla fine, tutto questo vi colpirà. E I promise you’ll miss me.

You’ll miss the person who took care of you. You’ll miss the person that loved you unconditionally.

You’ll miss the person that did everything to make you happy. And you’ll think of me as the person who doesn’t care about you anymore.

I know our roads are going to cross again and you’ll meet me holding another man’s hand and greeting you with a smile.

You’ll see I’m steady and I might secretly want that guy to be you. I might find in that guy everything I was waiting for from you.

I won’t ever be steady upon meeting you. You’ll always be my ‘e se’ perché odio vederci fallire.

I will find somebody who’ll care for me as I cared for you. I will find somebody who’s gonna respect me as I respected you.

I will find somebody who knows I’m worthy just as I once saw you like that. I will find somebody I’ll mean the whole world to, just like you did once to me.

And that’s when it will hit you. That’s when you’ll realize what I’ve known from the beginning.

We could’ve had it all, if only you had cared enough.

You’ll see me with the person who had no need to see me with somebody else to know my value.

I’m Done Trying Quotes

​​​​Do you know what helped me come to the final decision about walking away from you? These quotes below. I empathize with each and every one of these ‘I’m done trying’ quotes below.

Le ho lasciate qui perché possiate capire tutto quello che ho passato e sto ancora passando e per tutte le persone che si trovano nello stesso posto in cui mi trovavo io qualche tempo fa.

Spero che queste citazioni facciano la magia che hanno fatto a me. Spero anche che vi aiutino a riordinare i vostri pensieri e sentimenti in modo da poter prendere la migliore decisione possibile. La migliore per voi, naturalmente.

1. “I get a little tired of people telling me what might have been. I think I’ve done OK. I don’t dwell on what might have been.” – Ken Griffey Jr.

2. “Every time I say I’m done, I find myself trying again.” – Kaye Gurrea

3. “Sometimes it’s just done… Just allontanarsi and move on… No ugly words… No formal goodbyes… Just no more.” – Unknown

4. “Perfection to me is, I walk away from a situation and say, ‘I did everything I could do right there. There was nothing more that I could do.’ I was a hundred percent, like the meter was at the top. There was nothing else I could have done. You know? Like, I worked as hard as I possibly could have. That’s perfection.” – Drake

5. “When a thing is done, it’s done. Don’t look back. Look forward to your next objective.” – George C. Marshall

6. “I’m done with those; regrets are an excuse for people who have failed.” – Ned Vizzini

7. “I’m done with trying to keep people in my life.” – Jeetu Pal

8. “Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” – Unknown

9. “It always seems impossible until it’s done.” – Nelson Mandela

10. “I’m done trying with you. If you really want me to stay in your life, do something to make me stay.” – Unknown

11. “I’m officially done trying. If you want me in your life, you can come find me. Until then, continue treating me like I don’t exist.” – Quinton Riley

12. “I’m guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve, but when I’m done, I’m done.” – Turcois Ominek

13. “I’m done with trying to seek other people’s approval. From here on out, it’s just me approving of myself. I’m done.” – Unknown

14. “Emotionally, I’m done; mentally, I’m drained; spiritually, I’m dead; physically, I smile.” – Unknown

15. “Have a bella vita. I’m done trying to be in it.” – Unknown

16. “I look back on my life like a good day’s work, it was done, and I am satisfied with it.” – Grandma Moses

17. “Once you give up, you know you’re done.” – Gerald Green

18. “It’s sad to know I’m done. But looking back, I’ve got a lot of great memories.” – Bonnie Blair

19. “I’m done chasing people. If they want to be in my life, they will be – if not, then that’s their loss.” – Unknown

20. “I won’t cry anymore, I’m done with the heartbreak and all the tears that come with it.” – Unknown

Just so you don’t lose faith in true love, remind yourself of the true power of love with these citazioni d'amore toccanti.

Inoltre, se avete bisogno di incoraggiamento per continuare a camminare nella vita, soprattutto una volta che avete deciso di andare avanti, continuate a leggere queste ispirazioni. citazioni sulla vita e di essere riempiti di uno slancio in più per continuare ad andare avanti.

All In All, I’m Letting You Go…

Lasciarsi andare is heartbreaking, but sometimes, it’s our only option. La mia unica opzione al momento è allontanarsi da voi senza nemmeno voltarsi indietro.

Tutti quei combattimenti e trucchi mi ha prosciugato emotivamente. Mi sento come Ho perso me stesso because I don’t recognize myself at all anymore.

I’m done trying to stay in your life when it’s obvious I’m not welcome there anymore. Or maybe, I never was. Maybe all this time, I was living a delusion that the only person I love loves me back.

It all doesn’t matter right now because, for the first time, I’m choosing myself over youe, stranamente, è una bella sensazione. This time, I’ll be the one who is allontanarsi da te, from us… forever.