15 razões principais pelas quais Deus remove pessoas da sua vida
Sempre que alguém novo entra na nossa vida, isso acontece por uma razão. Mas será que as partidas também têm uma causa mais profunda?
Sem dúvida que sim. Deus envia pessoas para a nossa vida por uma razão, e Deus afasta as pessoas da sua vida por uma razão também.
No entanto, na maioria dos casos, temos dificuldade em perceber esse objetivo. Temos dificuldade em compreender essas razões.
What you don’t see is that God isn’t punishing you when someone walks away from your life. In fact, He’s probably sending you the biggest reward you could ever get.
If you read on, you’ll realize exactly what I’m talking about. You’ll realize why you had to be separated from some people, and everything will start to make sense!
É por isso que Deus tira as pessoas da sua vida
Veja estas 15 razões não tão óbvias para perder algumas pessoas explicadas!
1. He heard conversations you didn’t
People betrayed Jesus Christ, so why wouldn’t they do the same to you?
Por vezes, pensamos que todos à nossa volta nos querem bem. Pensamos que nos amam da mesma forma que nós os amamos.
You’re convinced that they’re trustworthy and that they have your back.
People aren’t always as they appear
You could bet your life that your best friend isn’t jealous of you. You are sure that none of your family members would ever stab you in the back.
But hey, I’m here to tell you not to be so sure. You have no idea what’s really going on in these people’s heads.
You don’t know who is a amigo falso pretending to care for you and acting as if they love you when they actually despise you. Sadly, you can never be sure whether those closest to you will betray you. That’s called real life!
But guess what? God knows. He’s heard conversations you didn’t.
Ele leu os seus pensamentos invejosos e percebeu as suas intenções manipuladoras.
Por favor, lembrem-se disto da próxima vez que se perguntarem porque é que Deus retira pessoas da vossa vida! E agradeça-Lhe por isso!
2. He always has a plan…
You can’t always understand God’s plan. Actually, most of the time, you don’t even see it.
Porque é que alguns dos seus orações que ficaram sem resposta? You don’t see the point or the purpose of the things that are happening to you. Yes, I’m talking about bad things especially.
However, just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean that God’s plan doesn’t exist. Sometimes, you just have to mature and grow before truly understanding it.
Nada na sua vida é acidental. If something was God’s will, it was also a part of His master plan.
But please, don’t rack your brain trying to figure out the background. If He doesn’t want you to know why things went the way they did, it’s because you’re probably still not ready to see the truth.
However, one of these days, everything will become crystal clear. All the events from your past will build a perfect puzzle, and you’ll understand it all happened for your own good.
So please, trust God’s plan even when you have trouble figuring it out.
3. …and perfect timing
Eclesiastes 3:1
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens”
I’m sure you’ve heard the line: “Right person, wrong timing.” Well, guess what? There is no such thing as bad timing. It’s just a line we say to comfort ourselves and give us hope.
Acreditem em mim quando vos digo que Deus tem sempre um timing perfeito, even though you don’t see it. What does that mean?
Bem, se perdemos alguém, significa que chegou a sua hora de partir. Even though some things don’t make sense now, you’ll understand what I’m talking about in time.
It’s all part of His bigger plan, and this person’s departure happened at the exact momento certo it should – not a second too early or a second too late.
4. Ele dá-te quem tu precisas, não quem tu queres
One of the reasons God removes people from your life is that you don’t always know what you want – you just think you do. After all, you’re just a human being, and you can’t know what’s best for you, despite your intelligence or intuition.
On the other hand, He does. That’s exactly why He dá-lhe as pessoas de que precisa em vez de os que quiser. That’s why He doesn’t always give you what you’re asking for.
That’s God’s way of saving you from a lot of trouble – without you realizing it. But later in the future, I promise you one thing: you’ll thank Him for removing someone from your life.
Lembras-te daquele ex-namorado ou namorada por quem eras tão louco? Lembras-te de como choraste quando ele te deixou?
Pensavas que Deus te odiava e perguntavas-te porque tinhas de os perder se os amavas tanto.
Looking at things from this point of view, you see that you could never be happy with them. They were never cut out for you – you just thought you wanted them.
Well, I guess God knew it all along. That’s exactly why He took them away from you.
5. A dependência emocional destrói-nos
What happens when you start loving another person too much? Yes, that’s also a thing.
But I’m not talking about a healthy kind of love. I’m talking about toxic obsession and addiction that brings you both harm. I’m talking about codependência emocional.
You’re probably unaware of it, but when you idolize someone that much, you’re, in a way, putting him in God’s place in your life. And that is something you should never do.
You think you can’t live without your boyfriend or girlfriend? You’re certain you need them like you need air to breathe?
Bem, Deus está aqui para vos mostrar como estão enganados. Deus retira as pessoas da nossa vida, mas lá estamos nós, bem vivos sem a presença delas.
What does this teach you? That’s right: you don’t need anyone besides God to survive because Ele é realmente suficiente.
Most importantly, it helps you realize how emotional dependency destroys you. This experience teaches you never to worship a human being – you can only worship God.
Por isso, em vez de amar essa pessoa, ame-O a Ele.
6. Para te dar uma lição
É possível que Deus retire pessoas da sua vida para dar-vos uma lição? You’re clearly not listening to God’s words, so He had no other choice but to make you learn things the hard way.
I don’t know what this lesson might be. Maybe He made you lose someone to help you realize that you’re the only person you need in life.
Talvez Ele o tenha feito para abrir os teus olhos e fazer-te compreender que ninguém neste mundo é digno das tuas lágrimas.
Talvez toda esta terrível experiência o tenha ensinado a elevar os seus padrões e a aprender finalmente a valorizar-se.
Maybe it all happened so you’d open your eyes and see who is worthy of being in your life and who you should have never let in.
De qualquer forma, às vezes as suas maldições são realmente bênçãos disfarçadas. Há alturas em que acabamos por agradecer a Deus quando nos apercebemos que algo que chorámos foi, na verdade, a melhor coisa que nos podia acontecer.
At the end of the day, you’re getting an entire master’s degree in life for free!
7. Para dar lugar a alguém melhor
Let’s put it this way: you’re trapped in a toxic relationship with someone who doesn’t treat you well. You probably don’t see it now, but they don’t love you, maybe they’re even unfaithful, and they certainly don’t see your worth.
Will all this in mind, it’s more than obvious that this person doesn’t deserve you. Well, it’s clearly not obvious to you, but it’s the truth.
Objectively, you can do much better. I’m not talking about finding a more attractive or wealthier partner.
I’m talking about the fact that you deserve to be with someone who matches your qualities. With someone who will love you, take care of you, and put much more effort into your relationship.
Mas como é que esta pessoa pode entrar na sua vida se you’re not ready to let them in? How can you meet them and let them into your heart when you’re so preoccupied with your current partner?
A arte de deixar ir
Sim, acertou em cheio. Deus retira a primeira pessoa da tua vida porque tu deixá-los ir é a única forma de Ele poder dar lugar a alguém melhor.
Por isso, em vez de chorares por alguém te deixar, alegra-te. Prometo-te que a tua alma gémea está a chegar. Em vez de te agarrares a eles, deixá-los ir.
One of these days, you’ll realize that this was exactly what had to happen for everything in your life to fall into place.
8. They’ve completed their task in your life
Já ouviste falar de relações cármicas? Basicamente, eles aparecem na sua vida para o ajudar a crescer.
Mas qual é a relevância disso para a nossa história? Bem, o seu ciclo cármico quebra quando a pessoa que tem um contrato cármico com sucesso cumprem o seu objetivo na sua vida.
Por vezes, Deus retira pessoas da nossa vida pela mesma razão.
Remember that good friend from your past? You two got along great, but they suddenly disappeared. Obviously, you’re wondering why it happened.
I’ve got the answer. Their presence in your life wasn’t accidental. There was a deeper cause behind it.
Acredita em mim, aprendeste algo importante com eles. Mesmo que tenha sido uma má experiência, ensinou-lhe alguma coisa.
E o que é que aconteceu quando essa pessoa terminou a sua tarefa? Foi-se embora para a sua próxima missão.
9. …or you’ve done the same for them
But let’s turn the tables for a while. What if it was actually the other way around? What if they were your mission? Maybe God removes people from your life when you complete the task you had with them.
Pode ser o seu ex-namorado, namorada, um bom amigo ou um membro da família. Seja como for, foste-lhes dado por uma razão.
Maybe you were their guardian angel for some time. You don’t have to be aware of it, but it’s possible that God sent you to save them from themselves.
And that’s exactly what you did. You gave them comfort or support. You healed them, and once you were done, you were out.
Look at things from this perspective: God didn’t remove them from your life. On the contrary, Deus retirou-te da sua vida.
Tough break, I know, but I guess you aren’t always playing the main role!
10. Para proteger o teu coração de ser partido
You don’t know what will happen over the next hour, let alone in the distant future. After all, how could you know? You can be the most intuitive person in the world, but there are some things you simply can’t predict.
Mas parece que se esqueceu de uma coisa: o seu toda a vida está predestinada.
Isso significa que Deus sabe exatamente o que pode acontecer. E não é só isso: Ele conhece todos os cenários potenciais e os resultados possíveis.
Therefore, He knows this person will break your heart sometime in the future, even though they don’t display any red flags now.
Portanto, basicamente, quando Ele os remove da sua vida, está a salvá-lo de um desgosto. Ele está a salvá-lo de noites sem dormir, litros de lágrimas e anos de desilusão.
You don’t see it, but you were about to fall, and He caught you. Once again, a uma bênção disfarçada!
11. Plano divino
You’re the center of your own universe, and there is nothing wrong with that. But just for a second, look at yourself as a piece of a bigger puzzle.
Remember how I told you that God has a plan for you? Well, you’re just a part of this huge, divine plan.
O que é um plano divino? Well, it’s God’s will for the entire humanity. It is a plan that not many understand but makes perfect sense.
I’m sure you’ve heard about the butterfly effect. Well, when God removes someone from your life, maybe He does it for the sake of His divine plan.
Maybe this person’s absence from your life is for the greater good. Maybe your ex had to break up with you just so they could leave town and get a new job in another city, where they’ll meet a troubled coworker whose life they’ll change in a couple of years from now.
In this imaginary scenario, this imaginary coworker is the center of the plan. The possibilities are endless, but I’m sure you get the point.
12. They’re not right for you
Sometimes, it’s necessary for you to cut ties with good quality people. It doesn’t mean that your ex teve de sair because they would break your heart or because they don’t deserve you.
Maybe you’re both nice people with loving and caring hearts. So, why did you have to part ways?
Bem, só porque ambos têm almas puras doesn’t mean you’re compatible. It’s no one’s fault: you two are just not certo um para o outro.
You’ll both find your happiness elsewhere, and that’s why God separated you: to give you that chance. So please, stop agarrados a eles!
13. Ele tem um plano para eles
The same way God has a plan for you, He also has a plan for this person He removed from your life. I hate to break it to you, but you’re likely not part of that plan.
Don’t get me wrong: this doesn’t have to be anything negative. It doesn’t mean that you’re toxic or bad for them. You just don’t fit into His vision for this person.
Talvez o seu ex esteja destinado a voltar para a namorada do liceu. Tu só estavas lá para o lembrar do seu primeiro amor. Ajudaste-o a perceber quem ele realmente quer.
Don’t be disappointed if something like this happened to you. Even though things didn’t end up the way you expected them to, you should be proud of yourself.
You had a purpose in someone’s life. Trust me, you left a mark on this person!
14. Para te trazer de volta a Ele
Sabes o que se diz: Toda a gente se torna crente no momento em que o seu avião começa a despenhar-se.
It’s actually like this in everyday, real life. When do you pray to God the most? That’s right, when you’re in some kind of trouble.
You ask him to heal your broken heart and to ease your suffering. On the other hand, I bet you don’t remember Him as often when everything in life is going smoothly.
Well, that’s exactly why God makes you lose someone you love: to bring you back to Him. When this happens, you remember the power of prayer, and you give all of your preocupações com Ele.
Compreende que ter fé inabalável pode curar-nos e ficamos mais gratos por todas as outras bênçãos da nossa vida.
15. They weren’t meant to be
Quando Ele retirar alguém da tua vida, vê isso como um dos sinais que Deus te envia para que te apercebas de que vocês dois eram não era para ser.
I hate to break it to you, but some people are simply not destined to be yours. Or you’re not destined to be theirs.
Pode tentar e agarrar-se a eles for as long as you want, but sooner or later, you’ll have to accept how things are.
But you know what the best part is? It’s that you can’t lose those who are destinado a ser!
The entire world can join forces to break you apart, and you two can run into hundreds of obstacles, but in the end, you’ll always reunite!
Versículos bíblicos sobre Deus removendo pessoas da sua vida
Isaías 57:14
And it will be said, “Build up, build up, prepare the way, Remove every obstacle out of the way of My people.”
Isaías 62:10
Passai, passai pelas portas, Abri caminho ao povo; Edificai, edificai a estrada, Tirai as pedras, levantai um estandarte sobre os povos.
Salmo 81:6
Aliviei o seu ombro do fardo, as suas mãos foram libertadas do cesto.
Provérbios 2:22
Mas os ímpios serão exterminados da terra, e os traidores serão arrancados dela.
Ezequiel 24:16
Filho do homem, eis que vou tirar-te com um golpe o desejo dos teus olhos, mas não te lamentarás, não chorarás, e as tuas lágrimas não virão.
Citações incríveis sobre Deus removendo alguém da sua vida
Now that you’ve learned what the Bible says about God removing people from your life, let’s check out these amazing quotes!
“Disappointments are just God’s way of saying ‘I’ve got algo melhor.’ Be patient, live life, have faith.” – Unknown
“God puts people in your life for a reason, but God removes people from your life for a better one.” – Unknown
“God sometimes removes people from your life to protect them. Don’t run after them.” – Unknown
“Sometimes, the plans in your heart aren’t God’s plan.” – Katie Taylor
“Remember, when God is executing His plan in our lives, He also designs and arranges events which continue to unfold until His purpose is revealed.” – T. B. Joshua
Para terminar:
Quando Deus retira pessoas da sua vida, all you have to do is trust Him. Don’t overthink it and try to come up with an explanation of what happened.
Maybe they’re a bad influence on you, without you knowing it, maybe they’ll hurt you in the future, and maybe you two are simply not meant to be.
Either way, God always knows what He’s doing. Please, never lose faith that He’s doing what’s best for you. Trust the Holy Spirit’s guidance, and you’re good to go.
Deus vos abençoe!
