15 razones clave por las que Dios aparta a las personas de tu vida
Siempre que llega alguien nuevo a tu vida, ocurre por alguna razón. Pero, ¿las salidas también tienen una causa más profunda?
Desde luego que sí. Dios envía personas a tu vida por una razón, y Dios quita a la gente de tu vida por una razón también.
Sin embargo, en la mayoría de los casos, nos cuesta entender ese propósito. Te cuesta entender esas razones.
What you don’t see is that God isn’t punishing you when someone walks away from your life. In fact, He’s probably sending you the biggest reward you could ever get.
If you read on, you’ll realize exactly what I’m talking about. You’ll realize why you had to be separated from some people, and everything will start to make sense!
Esta es la razón por la que Dios elimina personas de tu vida
Echa un vistazo a estas 15 razones no tan obvias por las que se pierde a algunas personas ¡explicadas!
1. He heard conversations you didn’t
People betrayed Jesus Christ, so why wouldn’t they do the same to you?
A veces, crees que todo el mundo a tu alrededor te desea lo mejor. Crees que te quieren igual que tú a ellos.
You’re convinced that they’re trustworthy and that they have your back.
People aren’t always as they appear
You could bet your life that your best friend isn’t jealous of you. You are sure that none of your family members would ever stab you in the back.
But hey, I’m here to tell you not to be so sure. You have no idea what’s really going on in these people’s heads.
You don’t know who is a falso amigo pretending to care for you and acting as if they love you when they actually despise you. Sadly, you can never be sure whether those closest to you will betray you. That’s called real life!
But guess what? God knows. He’s heard conversations you didn’t.
Leyó sus pensamientos envidiosos y vio a través de sus intenciones manipuladoras.
Por favor, ¡recuerda esto la próxima vez que te preguntes por qué Dios aparta a la gente de tu vida! ¡Y dale gracias por ello!
2. He always has a plan…
You can’t always understand God’s plan. Actually, most of the time, you don’t even see it.
¿Por qué algunos de sus oraciones sin respuesta? You don’t see the point or the purpose of the things that are happening to you. Yes, I’m talking about bad things especially.
However, just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean that God’s plan doesn’t exist. Sometimes, you just have to mature and grow before truly understanding it.
Nada en tu vida es accidental. If something was God’s will, it was also a part of His master plan.
But please, don’t rack your brain trying to figure out the background. If He doesn’t want you to know why things went the way they did, it’s because you’re probably still not ready to see the truth.
However, one of these days, everything will become crystal clear. All the events from your past will build a perfect puzzle, and you’ll understand it all happened for your own good.
So please, trust God’s plan even when you have trouble figuring it out.
3. …and perfect timing
Eclesiastés 3:1
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens”
I’m sure you’ve heard the line: “Right person, wrong timing.” Well, guess what? There is no such thing as bad timing. It’s just a line we say to comfort ourselves and give us hope.
Créame cuando le digo que Dios siempre tiene el tiempo perfecto, even though you don’t see it. What does that mean?
Bien, si pierdes a alguien, significa que era su hora de irse. Even though some things don’t make sense now, you’ll understand what I’m talking about in time.
It’s all part of His bigger plan, and this person’s departure happened at the exact momento oportuno it should – not a second too early or a second too late.
4. Él te da a quien necesitas, no a quien quieres
One of the reasons God removes people from your life is that you don’t always know what you want – you just think you do. After all, you’re just a human being, and you can’t know what’s best for you, despite your intelligence or intuition.
On the other hand, He does. That’s exactly why He le ofrece las personas que necesita en lugar de los que quieras. That’s why He doesn’t always give you what you’re asking for.
That’s God’s way of saving you from a lot of trouble – without you realizing it. But later in the future, I promise you one thing: you’ll thank Him for removing someone from your life.
¿Recuerdas a ese ex novio o ex novia por el que estabas tan loco? ¿Recuerdas cómo lloraste cuando te dejó?
Pensabas que Dios te odiaba y te preguntabas por qué tenías que perderlos cuando los querías tanto.
Looking at things from this point of view, you see that you could never be happy with them. They were never cut out for you – you just thought you wanted them.
Well, I guess God knew it all along. That’s exactly why He took them away from you.
5. La dependencia emocional te destruye
What happens when you start loving another person too much? Yes, that’s also a thing.
But I’m not talking about a healthy kind of love. I’m talking about toxic obsession and addiction that brings you both harm. I’m talking about codependencia emocional.
You’re probably unaware of it, but when you idolize someone that much, you’re, in a way, putting him in God’s place in your life. And that is something you should never do.
You think you can’t live without your boyfriend or girlfriend? You’re certain you need them like you need air to breathe?
Pues bien, Dios está aquí para demostrarte lo equivocado que estás. Dios aparta a la gente de tu vida, pero ahí estás, bastante vivo sin su presencia.
What does this teach you? That’s right: you don’t need anyone besides God to survive because Él es realmente suficiente.
Most importantly, it helps you realize how emotional dependency destroys you. This experience teaches you never to worship a human being – you can only worship God.
Así que en lugar de amar a esta persona, ámalo a Él.
6. Para darte una lección
¿Es posible que Dios quite personas de tu vida para darte una lección? You’re clearly not listening to God’s words, so He had no other choice but to make you learn things the hard way.
I don’t know what this lesson might be. Maybe He made you lose someone to help you realize that you’re the only person you need in life.
Tal vez lo hizo para abrirte los ojos y hacerte comprender que nadie en este mundo es digno de tus lágrimas.
Tal vez toda esta horrible experiencia te haya enseñado a elevar tu nivel de exigencia y a aprender por fin a valorarte.
Maybe it all happened so you’d open your eyes and see who is worthy of being in your life and who you should have never let in.
De cualquier manera, a veces tus maldiciones son en realidad bendiciones disfrazadas. Hay veces que acabas dando gracias a Dios cuando te das cuenta de que algo por lo que llorabas era en realidad lo mejor que te podía pasar.
At the end of the day, you’re getting an entire master’s degree in life for free!
7. Para dejar sitio a alguien mejor
Let’s put it this way: you’re trapped in a toxic relationship with someone who doesn’t treat you well. You probably don’t see it now, but they don’t love you, maybe they’re even unfaithful, and they certainly don’t see your worth.
Will all this in mind, it’s more than obvious that this person doesn’t deserve you. Well, it’s clearly not obvious to you, but it’s the truth.
Objectively, you can do much better. I’m not talking about finding a more attractive or wealthier partner.
I’m talking about the fact that you deserve to be with someone who matches your qualities. With someone who will love you, take care of you, and put much more effort into your relationship.
Pero ¿cómo puede esta persona entrar en tu vida si you’re not ready to let them in? How can you meet them and let them into your heart when you’re so preoccupied with your current partner?
El arte de dejarse llevar
Sí, lo has entendido bien. Dios elimina a la primera persona de tu vida porque tú dejándolos ir es la única manera en que Él puede hacer espacio para alguien mejor.
Así que en vez de llorar porque alguien te deja, alégrate. Te prometo que tu alma gemela está por llegar. En lugar de aferrarte a ellos, déjalos ir.
One of these days, you’ll realize that this was exactly what had to happen for everything in your life to fall into place.
8. They’ve completed their task in your life
¿Ha oído hablar alguna vez de relaciones kármicas? Básicamente, aparecen en tu vida para ayudarte a crecer.
Pero, ¿qué importancia tiene eso para nuestra historia? Bueno, tu ciclo kármico se rompe cuando la persona a la que contrato kármico con cumple con éxito su propósito en tu vida.
A veces Dios aparta a la gente de tu vida por la misma razón.
Remember that good friend from your past? You two got along great, but they suddenly disappeared. Obviously, you’re wondering why it happened.
I’ve got the answer. Their presence in your life wasn’t accidental. There was a deeper cause behind it.
Créeme, aprendiste algo importante de ellos. Aunque haya sido una mala experiencia, te ha enseñado algo.
¿Y qué ocurría cuando esta persona completaba su tarea? Se marchó a su siguiente misión.
9. …or you’ve done the same for them
But let’s turn the tables for a while. What if it was actually the other way around? What if they were your mission? Maybe God removes people from your life when you complete the task you had with them.
Puede ser tu ex novio, tu novia, un buen amigo o un familiar. En cualquier caso, se te ha dado por una razón.
Maybe you were their guardian angel for some time. You don’t have to be aware of it, but it’s possible that God sent you to save them from themselves.
And that’s exactly what you did. You gave them comfort or support. You healed them, and once you were done, you were out.
Look at things from this perspective: God didn’t remove them from your life. On the contrary, Dios te quitó de su vida.
Tough break, I know, but I guess you aren’t always playing the main role!
10. Para evitar que te rompan el corazón
You don’t know what will happen over the next hour, let alone in the distant future. After all, how could you know? You can be the most intuitive person in the world, but there are some things you simply can’t predict.
Pero oye, parece que te has olvidado de una cosa: tu toda la vida está predestinada.
Significa que Dios sabe exactamente lo que puede ocurrir. Y no sólo eso: Conoce todos los escenarios potenciales y los posibles resultados.
Therefore, He knows this person will break your heart sometime in the future, even though they don’t display any red flags now.
Así que básicamente, cuando Él los quita de tu vida, te está salvando de la angustia. Te está salvando de noches sin dormir, litros de lágrimas y años de decepción.
You don’t see it, but you were about to fall, and He caught you. Once again, a ¡una bendición disfrazada!
11. Plan divino
You’re the center of your own universe, and there is nothing wrong with that. But just for a second, look at yourself as a piece of a bigger puzzle.
Remember how I told you that God has a plan for you? Well, you’re just a part of this huge, divine plan.
¿Qué es un plan divino? Well, it’s God’s will for the entire humanity. It is a plan that not many understand but makes perfect sense.
I’m sure you’ve heard about the butterfly effect. Well, when God removes someone from your life, maybe He does it for the sake of His divine plan.
Maybe this person’s absence from your life is for the greater good. Maybe your ex had to break up with you just so they could leave town and get a new job in another city, where they’ll meet a troubled coworker whose life they’ll change in a couple of years from now.
In this imaginary scenario, this imaginary coworker is the center of the plan. The possibilities are endless, but I’m sure you get the point.
12. They’re not right for you
Sometimes, it’s necessary for you to cut ties with good quality people. It doesn’t mean that your ex tuvo que marcharse because they would break your heart or because they don’t deserve you.
Maybe you’re both nice people with loving and caring hearts. So, why did you have to part ways?
Bueno, sólo porque ambos tienen almas puras doesn’t mean you’re compatible. It’s no one’s fault: you two are just not el uno para el otro.
You’ll both find your happiness elsewhere, and that’s why God separated you: to give you that chance. So please, stop ¡Aferrándose a ellos!
13. Tiene un plan para ellos
The same way God has a plan for you, He also has a plan for this person He removed from your life. I hate to break it to you, but you’re likely not part of that plan.
Don’t get me wrong: this doesn’t have to be anything negative. It doesn’t mean that you’re toxic or bad for them. You just don’t fit into His vision for this person.
Puede que tu ex esté destinado a volver con su amor del instituto. Tú sólo estabas ahí para recordarles su primer amor. Les ayudaste a darse cuenta de a quién quieren de verdad.
Don’t be disappointed if something like this happened to you. Even though things didn’t end up the way you expected them to, you should be proud of yourself.
You had a purpose in someone’s life. Trust me, you left a mark on this person!
14. Para que vuelvas a Él
Ya sabes lo que dicen: Todo el mundo se convierte de repente en creyente en el momento en que su avión empieza a estrellarse.
It’s actually like this in everyday, real life. When do you pray to God the most? That’s right, when you’re in some kind of trouble.
You ask him to heal your broken heart and to ease your suffering. On the other hand, I bet you don’t remember Him as often when everything in life is going smoothly.
Well, that’s exactly why God makes you lose someone you love: to bring you back to Him. When this happens, you remember the power of prayer, and you give all of your preocupaciones a Él.
Comprende que tener fe inquebrantable puede curarte, y te vuelves más agradecido por todas las demás bendiciones de tu vida.
15. They weren’t meant to be
Cuando Él remueva a alguien de tu vida, míralo como una de las Señales que Dios te envía para que te des cuenta de que ustedes dos estaban no estaba destinado a serlo.
I hate to break it to you, but some people are simply not destined to be yours. Or you’re not destined to be theirs.
Podrías probar y aferrarse a ellos for as long as you want, but sooner or later, you’ll have to accept how things are.
But you know what the best part is? It’s that you can’t lose those who are destinado a ser!
The entire world can join forces to break you apart, and you two can run into hundreds of obstacles, but in the end, you’ll always reunite!
Versículos Bíblicos Sobre Dios Quitando Gente De Tu Vida
Isaías 57:14
And it will be said, “Build up, build up, prepare the way, Remove every obstacle out of the way of My people.”
Isaías 62:10
Pasad, pasad por las puertas, Despejad el camino al pueblo; Edificad, edificad la calzada, Quitad las piedras, levantad un estandarte sobre los pueblos.
Salmo 81:6
Alivié su hombro de la carga, Sus manos se liberaron de la cesta.
Proverbios 2:22
Pero los malvados serán cortados de la tierra, y los traidores serán desarraigados de ella.
Ezequiel 24:16
Hijo de hombre, he aquí que voy a quitarte de golpe el deseo de tus ojos, pero no llorarás, ni llorarás, ni te brotarán las lágrimas.
Citas asombrosas sobre Dios quitando a alguien de tu vida
Now that you’ve learned what the Bible says about God removing people from your life, let’s check out these amazing quotes!
“Disappointments are just God’s way of saying ‘I’ve got algo mejor.’ Be patient, live life, have faith.” – Unknown
“God puts people in your life for a reason, but God removes people from your life for a better one.” – Unknown
“God sometimes removes people from your life to protect them. Don’t run after them.” – Unknown
“Sometimes, the plans in your heart aren’t God’s plan.” – Katie Taylor
“Remember, when God is executing His plan in our lives, He also designs and arranges events which continue to unfold until His purpose is revealed.” – T. B. Joshua
Para terminar:
Cuando Dios aparta a la gente de tu vida, all you have to do is trust Him. Don’t overthink it and try to come up with an explanation of what happened.
Maybe they’re a bad influence on you, without you knowing it, maybe they’ll hurt you in the future, and maybe you two are simply not meant to be.
Either way, God always knows what He’s doing. Please, never lose faith that He’s doing what’s best for you. Trust the Holy Spirit’s guidance, and you’re good to go.
¡Que Dios te bendiga!
