Most women at some point get to the stage where they sick of dating and relationships. Even if you’re in a relationship, you are ready to get out of it and just be single.
There is a moment in which you are sufficient for yourself and you don’t need a guy to make you happy.
If you are upset about it and tired of it, you have to learn to be yourself, to love yourself, and to realize that your life cannot depend on anyone, except yourself.
Take a break from your thoughts and your life, and love will come along.
Love will strike you when you least expect it. Then, you won’t be sick of it. Then, you’ll be ready for it. Then, the timing will be perfect.
But for now, if you notice some of these signs, you can be sure that you definitely need a break from dating and relationships altogether.
You have a panic attack whenever a happy couple comes along.
This happens because you are so tired of trying to find a normal guy who will be nice, you are tired of thinking about another person’s feelings.
You need to take time for yourself and be your number one.
The moment when you see a couple, you just remember those moments in your relationship when you felt that you were not good enough and you just wanted to be alone.
You avoid seeing images of young couples on social networks.
You feel like all of those happy couples are fake. Your experience is telling you that 90% of those couples are lying to each other.
People on social networks are only showing the things they want you to see. On images, everything is perfect; in reality, not so much.
You are thinking of talking to your ex-boyfriend, with whom you ended things badly.
You are not thinking clearly. Talking to him won’t change anything, it will not make you feel better.
You are confused and you feel that something or someone who is familiar will help you. You should just focus on yourself.
You are looking for a quick replacement of your ex-boyfriend.
If you want to have a one-night stand , thinking that it will resolve your problems, you are so wrong.
You need to get to know yourself and decide exactly what you want.
Being with some random guys will make you feel more miserable.
You do not want to hear about your friends’ happiness in their relationships.
First of all, you don’t want to be that kind of a friend.
You know you can be better. But being in a bad relationship turned you into this jealous person who is not happy for her friends.
If this is happening to you, you should really take a break from guys and relationships.
Even thinking about dating makes you want to throw up.
This is a serious sign. If you can’t even imagine going out with someone, then don’t push yourself.
Be more committed to yourself, your interests and the people you love.
When you become ready for a date, you will so happy and satisfied with yourself that you will think you don’t even need a date ever again.
Going out does not interest you.
We have all had those days or weeks when we don’t feel like going out and pretending to have fun.
Why would you do that when you can be so happy and cozy in your home, doing stuff just for yourself.
People become so unhappy because they don’t know how to say, “No,” so learn how to say it, for your own good.
You are convinced that there is no person who is right for you.
This is a huge mistake. You should not even think about this. Why don’t you try to be the one for yourself, to be your own hero.
Don’t wait for someone to make you happy, do it for yourself. When you learn how to do it, when you the least expect it, love will come into your life.
You forget all the good things that have happened to you and you feel like life will just stop because you do not have a boyfriend.
You need to embrace your freedom and realize what the good sides of being single are because there are many.
For example, you will have more time for yourself and more energy, you will not have to agree to some compromise or you can dedicate yourself to building your self-confidence .
You are convinced that everything will be okay when you find a new boyfriend.
A new boyfriend is not a solution for anything. If you are not happy by yourself, then no one can truly make you happy.
The only moment when everything will be all right is when you accept yourself and realize that no man is the key to your happiness.
So take a break and learn how to be happy.
