Getting kissed for the first time by a person you’re head over heels for is such an intoxicating and thrilling experience.
But when that first kiss is on the neck… all common sense is out the door.
The neck is an extremely sensitive area on your body, and getting kissed there is a very intimate experience that most people simply cannot resist.
Let’s be real. How many times have you tried to stay mad at bae for doing something annoying, but then they proceeded to kiss you on the neck, of all places, and as much as you wanted to stay mad, you just couldn’t?
I don’t know what it is, but damn, it sure does get you weak in your knees and makes it impossible to resist, so you just let go and get lost in all of its magical beauty…
What do neck kisses mean?
The neck is one of the most sensitive parts of your body and getting kissed there evokes the type of feeling that is so hard to describe, yet so electrifying to experience.
Could it be a hidden fantasy on your partner’s part or do they think that’s the spot you love the most?
Every kiss has a different meaning behind it, and sometimes it’s difficult to decipher what means what, so here are some potential hidden meanings behind the neck kiss:
• Your partner is very sexually attracted to you and is trying to show you just how badly they want you.
• They are trying to arouse you, knowing that you can never resist it when you get kissed on the neck.
• It could be a sign that you’re well past the point of friendship and that you’re ready for a more intimate relationship.
It really depends on the person doing the kissing. Is it your partner who knows your entire body by heart?
Or is it a virtual stranger who is trying to get you excited and aroused? Whoever it is, it will sure as hell get the job done.
Why does a neck kiss feel so damn good?
There are many different types of kisses. There are those that are platonic and kind of uninspiring, that just don’t make anything inside you tingle.
But there are also those salacious ones that exceed any platonic aspect and go much further than a kiss from a friend. One of those kisses are most definitely neck kisses.
The neck is a fundamental part of your body, and it contains some of the most vital arteries under its skin. But when you get kissed there, no feeling can quite measure.
Goose bumps run all over your excited body, and the hairs on your arms stand up from the sensationally exciting feeling that takes over.
But why is that? What is it about the neck that provides such intense pleasure that almost exceeds words in trying to explain it?
How come it manages to drive both men and women crazy in the same way?
• This is due to the fact that the neck is an erogenous zone, and it is extremely sensitive to touch. This is also why it can drive both men and women equally wild when touched.
• Now you know why your partner is always kissing you on the neck. It’s because they know it’s the best way to arouse you. They know that their subtle, gentle brush of their lips on your sensitive neck can turn you on faster than you can take their shirt off.
• Getting kissed on the neck also stimulates the nerve endings in it that cause you to develop goose bumps all over your body.
How can you make the most of a simple neck kiss?
1. Gently touch your partner as you’re caressing their neck
As you’re getting closer to bae, move your fingers around their body, and slowly stop at their neck.
Move your lips closer so that they can feel your breath on their skin, and start stroking that area.
• Make the anticipation that much hotter by kissing every part of their body but the neck.
• Once you finally get to the neck, take your time and move slowly from one side of the neck to the other.
• Once you’re done teasing, go all in and show your wild side by going faster and slightly more aggressive.
2. Use open mouth for maximum pleasure
If you want to give your partner the perfect kiss, use your mouth to provide them with more than just a simple kiss. Here’s what you can do:
• Breathe on their neck slowly and seductively.
• You can playfully nibble them on the neck and then suck on their skin (if that’s what they’re into).
• Lick them all over with your tongue.
You’ll never know what will do the trick until you try some new things!
My advice is to ask your partner what they’re comfortable with and go for it. Who knows, you may be setting yourself off on a sexy adventure you never knew you needed!
3. Use your entire body to make the experience unforgettable
Remember, you’re not limited just to your lips. You can use your whole body to make your partner feel things they’ve never felt before! Here are some ideas that might come in handy:
• Use your hands by placing them on bae’s shoulders all while you’re kissing them. Then proceed to move to their head where you can slowly run your hands through their hair.
• Press your body against your partner’s and let them feel the pressure. If you’re standing against the wall, it’s going to be so hot that you’ll almost have to call the fire department… just saying.
• Place your hands on their waist and and firmly hold them there, building anticipation before you decide to move a bit south of the border.
4. Nibble on their neck
Last, but not least, there’s nibbling. When your partner nibbles your neck, what they’re really doing is gently biting it, but without digging in with their teeth, so there’s no worries about leaving a mark or anything.
It’s just a very playful way of expressing their passion, and it can be a real turn on, too.
Pay attention to your partner’s verbal cues and make sure to do what makes them feel good. Don’t go overboard and cause them pain by accident.
Some people are into it and some simply aren’t. See what works for you two, and get cracking!
Neck kiss: A romantic notion or a gesture of lust?
Neck kissing is an act that is most definitely not done by friends.
It is a much more intimate affair, and when a person pleases you in that way, it undeniably means they’re into you physically.
Now let’s discover all the ways in which a neck kiss can get you to that raw place of serene fulfillment.
1. Neck kissing is deeply connected with lust
No matter what you’re doing and no matter where you are, as soon as you feel a person slowly getting close to your neck, then starting to touch you while gently kissing it from one side to the other, something takes over you and your whole body is in a universe of its own.
And you freaking love it. If there is a line between knowing when a guy is into you in a friendly manner as opposed to being sexually attracted to you, we can safely say that neck kissing is that line.
Neck kissing does not necessarily have to mean that a guy is into you in a relationship type of way.
It can also mean that he simply wants you as he is very physically attracted to you. Sexual tension is a powerful thing that is sometimes really hard to resist.
2. It can be a sweet, romantic gesture in long-term relationships
On the other hand, neck kissing can be most often seen among couples in long-term relationships.
It is a very intimate act that requires a certain closeness and trust that only people who have been together for a while possess.
When bae comes up from behind you, slowly and surprisingly putting their hands gently on your waist, all the while kissing your neck very tenderly, it means that their intentions are of a romantic nature.
They are using the element of surprise in order to do something they believe you will find very pleasing.
It is a very intimate feeling that long-term couples are familiar with, and it allows them to simply connect with each other, without any sexual intentions at that particular moment.
3. It can also lead to a steamy sexual encounter
Every once in a while, your partner can do other things with your neck that don’t involve kissing it directly.
It can happen while you two are making out at your place or when you’re just enjoying some quality time together.
Now you’re probably wondering what else there is that can be done with your neck that can be as thrilling and intoxicating as kissing it…
They can slowly but surely get closer to you from behind you, and breathe down the nape of your neck, while trying to arouse you and initiate steamy sexy lovemaking.
Now, this is not the most romantic gesture, but it certainly gets the job done. Not every move is supposed to be romantic, anyway.
Sometimes, all you need is a wild, hot, steamy session in bed with your partner, initiated by them doing everything from touching to kissing your neck until you’ve completely surrendered to them.
4. Sucking motions as a way to get you there
Sometimes, they may surprise you (hopefully in a good way) by the following: in between kissing you passionately on your neck, they perform sucking motions on the skin of your neck and then gently proceed to breathe all over it, then kiss it again.
This is a very clear indication that they are extremely sexually attracted to you and they’re doing everything in their power to show you how badly they want you.
By doing that, they are trying to get more intimate with you at that moment, and I don’t see a reason why you shouldn’t let them.
You may also return the favor at some point, which will make your partner gasp for air from excitement and desire. Give in to the night, and let your passion take over.
Let go, and enjoy the moment. You deserve some hot loving.
- It is important to note that there is one tiny (but kind of hot) consequence of letting your man suck on your neck.
Don’t worry, it’s nothing too worrisome. I’m talking about so-called hickeys!
Those are those little bruises that form on the skin of your neck after your partner sucks on it, leaving a mark of their passion.
If you have plans for later or simply don’t like having it so visible on your neck, just tell your partner to be mindful of that, and they’ll make sure not to leave a mark.
One can try, at least… There’s no telling how far lust can take you sometimes.
Although, when it comes to necks, there are really no guarantees. One touch is all it takes to let go of all reason and just let bae do whatever the fuck they want to your body. And sometimes, that is precisely what you need.
Any type of interaction with one’s neck is a sign that a person is interested in a certain type of relationship with you.
Be that a casual, playful one, or one more intimate and personal. It all depends on the type of neck caressing, as stated above.
What’s important to take from all this is to just have fun with it and explore all the magic behind neck kissing in order to see what works for you and your partner.
Not everyone is into the same things, but that’s okay! There are different stages in every relationship, so just move at a pace that you’re both comfortable with and let your lust take you as far as each is willing to go.
Now that you’re familiar with all the tips and tricks on neck kissing, all there is to do is put them to test and not overthink it.
It’s totally normal to feel nervous at first, but with a little bit of practice, you’re going to learn to love all that it has to offer, and you and your partner will enjoy the perks of it for a long, long time!