Virgo males are not easy to understand. This zodiac sign is the most rational of them all (Capricorn, move over, the king has arrived!) and thus, can appear very cold and reserved.
But they are sexy as hell, aren’t they?
If you are dating a Virgo guy or have a crush on one and are dying to get his attention, then this article is for you.
What are a Virgo man’s likes and dislikes in a woman? How do you tell that a Virgo man likes you? What makes a Virgo man fall in love?
I’ll give you the answer to these questions (and more) and help you to finally pull that cute Virgo guy you’ve been dreaming about.
11 Traits Virgo Man Likes And Dislikes In A Woman
First of all, let’s get one thing clear: this is not an article about what to and how to change for a guy to like you!
You are perfect the way you are.
My aim is to give you insight into the mind of the mysterious Virgo man so you can understand him better. You don’t have to embody each one of these qualities (and it’s not really possible) to get a Virgo man to like you.
Use it as a guide to understanding a Virgo man while remaining your true authentic self. That’s what always works!
Let’s see now what a Virgo man likes and dislikes in a woman.
6 Traits A Virgo Man LOVES In A Woman
1. Intelligence
The Virgo male is a man of intellect. He is analytical, logical, and goes in-depth. He possesses immense knowledge and enjoys participating in conversations, which will allow him to show everything he knows.
Small talk about the weather, news, and celebrities are not his cup of tea. In the presence of people who won’t shut their mouths (Gemini, is that you?), Virgo will often pull back and stay reserved.
He wants a woman who is smart and has an investigative nature, just like himself. A Virgo woman is always a good match because she is as intelligent as him, but he is also compatible with Scorpios, Libras, and Pisces.
2. Emotional and mental stability
Virgo is an earth sign. All earth signs have two things in common: stability and independence.
A Virgo man, more than any other earth sign, values the independence and stability that he has created in his life.
What a Virgo man likes in a woman are the same characteristics. Such a woman must be self-confident and focused on her life because he doesn’t want to be smothered by constant drama.
Capricorn and Taurus women, who are also earth signs, share his need for independence and stability and have great compatibility with Virgos.
A Sagittarius woman can be hectic sometimes, but she is fiercely independent and self-focused, and that’s a big turn-on for a Virgo man.
3. Being emotional
This one may come as a shock at first because Virgos don’t appear overly emotional or even emotional at all. They come across as cold at first glance, but deep down, Virgos are very emotional and vulnerable.
They do not show their emotions easily and often have trouble accepting being emotional. That’s why an affectionate and passionate woman is exactly what a Virgo needs.
He craves deep emotional connection but has a hard time achieving it. A woman who is in touch with her emotions will help a Virgo man open up. Once they create a deep bond, it will remain strong for a long time. Water signs, Pisces, Scorpio, and Cancer, can give a Virgo man the affection he craves.
4. Being supportive
Among the most carefully kept Virgo man secrets is this: he often deals with self-criticism and insecurity. That’s why it is crucial for him to be with a partner who will accept him for who he is and support him unconditionally.
This type of woman will be his life partner and help him achieve his goals and dreams (Virgos have big plans for the future).
The Virgo man is a perfectionist, much like a Leo man, and often beats himself up for not achieving enough. His ideal woman will remind him of all the amazing qualities he has and of all the amazing things he has achieved. She will be his biggest support.
5. Trustworthiness
Virgos love stability and security. When in a relationship, a Virgo man wants to feel safe and seen. He wants a woman he can rely on, a woman who is trustworthy. If you break his trust, a Virgo man is done with you.
His woman is his partner and biggest support. Such a woman will listen to him without being judgemental and harsh. She will keep his secrets and protect his privacy. Virgos value their privacy and don’t share much about themselves with the world.
His need for security and loyalty is unparalleled, except when dealing with Scorpios. Both of these zodiac signs look for loyal partners they can completely trust.
6. Hardworking
Virgos are probably, together with Capricorns, the most hardworking sign of the zodiac. They aren’t satisfied with small things and are always on a quest to make more out of their lives.
A Virgo man looks for a woman who will be diligent and devoted to her career. Being financially secure is Virgo’s top priority, and he is ready to work hard for it, so he wants a woman who shares similar values.
The Sagittarius, Leo, Scorpio, and Aries man share similar traits. Women of these zodiac sings make a good match with a Virgo man, alongside a Virgo woman, of course.
5 Traits Virgo Man Dislikes In A Woman
1. Clinginess
A Virgo man in love looks for an emotional and devoted woman, but this doesn’t mean he wants his woman to be clingy. As a matter of fact, that’s one of the worst personality traits a woman can have from Virgo’s point of view.
He needs enough space for himself and doesn’t want to be in touch with his partner 24/7. Only a woman who is confident enough can put up with Virgo’s need for independence.
If a woman suffocates him with her constant need for affection and attention, a Virgo man will run away. A Libra woman, even though in many aspects very compatible with a Virgo, can get too clingy for such a man.
Here’s a piece of advice: if you want to make a Virgo man miss you (this also applies to an Aquarius man), give him an opportunity to miss you. Give him freedom and space.
2. Being irrational
There’s no one more down-to-earth than a Virgo. He is highly rational and objective and tends to make thoroughly thought-out decisions. He relies on his intellect more than anything else.
Women who are on the opposite spectrum and tend to let their emotions take the lead are Virgo’s worst nightmares (it doesn’t mean they don’t stand a chance with him, though).
Aries women are fierce and passionate and always looking for something exciting, which can be very scary for a rational and stable Virgo man.
Cancer, Libra, and Pisces women are very sensitive and emotional, and dealing with them can sometimes put a Virgo man in an uncomfortable position (he’s not the best at comforting people).
3. Laziness
One of the biggest turn-offs for a Virgo man is a lazy woman who doesn’t have big visions and future plans. Virgo is always in work mode, always thinking and making plans.
He wants to be with a woman who is equally inspired to make a huge success. His soulmate will form a power couple with him. Together they will achieve great things.
If a woman lacks inspiration and motivation, a Virgo man will feel stuck. He doesn’t want to be a caregiver – he wants a partner who will walk with him on a path to success.
4. Being impatient
When a Virgo man sets his mind on something, he will not give up until he achieves his goal. He will invest his time and energy and stay focused and determined even when the odds are against him. One of his most prominent virtues is patience.
A woman who is impatient will drive a Virgo man crazy. She can be impatient in matters that only concern her (he will judge her, though), but if they are working on something together and she shows impatience…oh, God, I don’t wanna witness that.
I have a Virgo friend who is in a relationship with an Aries woman. She often jumps from one thing to another, and he is losing his mind because of her inability to stay focused and patient.
5. Being too spontaneous
Virgos are well organized, almost to the point where it becomes an obsession. They like order and love to follow the rules. Take a look at a Virgo’s closet or work desk: everything is where it’s supposed to be, clean and in perfect order.
They follow the same principle in every aspect of their lives. They love making plans in advance and always pay attention to detail.
A woman who loves to be wild and spontaneous will probably be incomprehensible, to say the least, to a Virgo man. Pisces, Gemini, and Aries women have the tendency to be too wild, and Virgo men can have a hard time dealing with them.
How Do You Tell If A Virgo Man Secretly Likes You?
If a Virgo man likes you, he will open up to you and show you his true self. That’s something he usually never does: Virgos love to stay reserved and keep things to themselves.
A Virgo man is not someone who will chase you and seduce you. He will not shower you with compliments, gifts, and sweet words. If you don’t pay attention to his signals, you can easily misinterpret his behavior.
He may come across as bored, for example, because he will often be silent in your presence. But the thing is: he feels safe with you, and he feels that you can understand him. He feels connected to you on a deeper level, and that’s why he enjoys moments of silence with you.
To Sum Up
Here’s all you need to know about what a Virgo man likes and dislikes in a woman.
Let me remind you again: you don’t need to change for anyone. If you don’t have all the qualities mentioned here, well, I’m sure you have plenty of other great personality traits.
This is just a general review. Keep in mind that each person is unique and, therefore, looks for a partner that fits them the best. The same rules don’t apply to all.
Use this as a guide to better understand Virgo men and also as inspiration to improve those aspects of your personality that you are not completely satisfied with.
Have fun, and let me know if this helped you!