Have you been dating a mysterious and complicated Virgo guy for a while and just can’t figure out his true intentions no matter how hard you try?
Well, that doesn’t surprise me at all because Virgo males aren’t easy to read. You really have to try hard to make them open up to you and reveal their deepest and most honest feelings.
However, you’ve come to the right place because, right now, I’m going to help you solve that dilemma once and for all. Scroll down, and you’ll discover the most obvious signs a Virgo man is serious about you.
15 Obvious Signs A Virgo Man Is Serious About You
The truth is, you can never know for sure whether your Virgo guy has serious intentions with you because they will play mind games and give you plenty of mixed signals. However, here are the most obvious signs a Virgo man is serious about you.
1. You’re his top priority
Even though a Virgo man takes his professional life very seriously, once he falls in love, his top priority becomes the woman he loves.
He wants her to know that he’s serious about her and that he’ll always treat her as his main priority, no matter what.
If your Virgo man always makes time for you when you need him, it’s a good sign that he wants to commit to you. If he’s able to drop everything and everyone else for you, it’s obvious that you mean more to him than any other person in his life.
2. He tried hard to gain your trust
When a Virgo man falls in love, the first thing he’ll try to do is to win over your trust. Just like for the Aries and Sagittarius guys, trust means everything to a Virgo man when it comes to his love life.
However, that will happen only if your Virgo guy is honestly in love with you. If he’s only playing you, he won’t mind whether you trust him or not.
If you ever start questioning his loyalty, he’ll be truly offended and do everything in his power to point out that you’re making a mistake. On the other hand, if he isn’t into you, he will become distant and start pushing you away.
3. He’s supportive of you and everything you do
If a Virgo man is genuinely interested in your life and everything you do, it’s a very good sign he wants to be with you.
If he respects you and supports you in making your own decisions and doing whatever the hell you want to do, it’s clear that he really wants you in his life. For good.
4. He showers you with attention and appreciation
He’s always the one who sends a good morning/good night text message first. He always texts you back immediately. He sends you takeout when you say you’re hungry but don’t have time to prepare a meal for yourself.
All that may seem like little things that aren’t important, but the truth is, those little things matter the most. It’s through the little things that we show our loved ones our appreciation every single day.
And the fact is, a man born under this zodiac sign knows this very well.
5. He wants to pamper you
A Virgo man isn’t exactly a hopeless romantic. However, once he falls head over heels for a woman, his main priority becomes spoiling and pampering her.
Besides doing nice things for you, he’ll also make romantic gestures, take you on romantic dinner dates, and do just about anything to show you how seriously and madly he’s in love with you.
6. He tries to remember every little detail about you
In other words, if your Virgo man really listens while you talk about yourself, it’s a good sign he’s falling for you hard.
He wants to get to know you on a deeper level… He wants to know your fears, dreams for the future, and past pains and hurts. And he knows he’ll find out all those things only if he listens to you carefully.
7. He’s willing to open up to you
Like Pisces or Cancer men, Virgo males are introverts and might have problems opening up to their partners. They’re very emotional, and they don’t like to show their vulnerable side to other people, and that’s why they hide it as much as possible.
The truth is, you will never genuinely get to know a Virgo man until he falls head over heels for you or at least until you manage to earn his trust fully.
He will share some details of his life with you because, after all, you’ll have to talk about something while on your dinner dates, right?
However, your Virgo man will start opening up to you about his deepest secrets and emotions only when he’s sure about the future of your relationship.
8. You have healthy and regular communication
The Virgo guy is hardworking, responsible, and industrious. He’s very dedicated to his work because his job is one of the most important priorities in his life.
Just like Scorpio and Capricorn guys, Virgo males are also born to make money. They’re well aware of their professional skills and want to use them in every possible way.
For that reason, their private life may sometimes suffer. They won’t have much free time to go out with their friends and date and seduce women.
Actually, most of their relationships end because their partners feel neglected.
So, if your Virgo man always has time for you, if he’s always there for you when you need him, if you two have regular, open, and honest communication, it’s a good sign this Mercury-ruled zodiac sign cares for you deeply.
9. He has set clear boundaries regarding your relationship
A Virgo man, being the perfectionist he is, likes to have clear boundaries with everyone in his life, but especially with those closest to him, those he cares about and loves the most.
And even though that may be awkward for you initially, he only does it to protect your relationship because he knows that it won’t be able to survive without strong and clear boundaries.
Also, he won’t be the only one setting those boundaries. He respects you, and he’ll ask you to agree on those limitations together and set ground rules for things you’re okay and not okay with.
10. He cares for your well-being
You’re sick, and your Virgo guy is the first person to come and see how you are. You have issues at work, and he always chimes in with great advice that really helps you deal with those issues.
It’s more than obvious: Your Virgo man loves you, and he wants you guys to get serious. You’re his love, his priority in every sense of the word, and seeing you suffer hurts him like hell.
If a man cares about your emotional and physical health, that’s the best proof that his feelings for you are honest.
11. You’re already a part of his future plans
A man born under this earth sign is a perfectionist. This means your Virgo man probably already has his entire future planned out.
And one of the most surefire signs a Virgo man is serious about you is when he includes you in those plans.
In other words, if you’ve earned a place in your Virgo guy’s future plans, it’s obvious that he thinks you deserve a place in his life forever.
12. He introduces you to his loved ones
One thing you need to know about Virgo males is that they don’t take every girl they start dating home to meet their loved ones.
Meaning, if your Virgo man has already done that, he has fallen head over heels for you. He really appreciates the opinion of his friends and family, so he wanted you to meet them as soon as possible and see how you get along.
The truth is that the future of your relationship depends on the relationship you have with his loved ones. If you ever put him in the position to pick sides, I’m afraid it won’t end well for you.
13. He loves and accepts you
And when I say this, I mean he accepts YOU entirely; he accepts and loves all of you, all your flaws, imperfections, and weaknesses.
To him, you’re perfect, and no matter what anyone else says, you’ll stay perfect in his eyes.
Virgo males are pretty self-aware, and they know that perfection doesn’t exist when it comes to human beings. They’re aware they have flaws, just like everyone else has. They don’t like to judge others, and that’s why they have so many friends.
However, they might have high standards when it comes to dating. In other words, if your Virgo man likes you for who you are from day one, it’s a more than obvious sign he cares for you deeply.
14. He never gives you a reason to doubt his fidelity
One of the most eminent personality traits of a Virgo man is loyalty. However, when it comes to their love life, they’ll stay loyal only to a woman they have strong feelings for.
If your Virgo guy has done nothing but prove his loyalty to you from the beginning, it’s a clear sign he’s falling for you hard. He wants to earn your trust and commit to you forever.
15. He’s asked to take your relationship to the next level
To be honest, this won’t happen very soon. A Virgo man is highly calculative, and he’ll never do anything before he thinks it through.
However, later on, he’ll decide to follow his heart, and his heart will take him directly to you. That is, to have the talk about taking your relationship to a more serious level.
So, if your Virgo guy has already asked you to define your relationship, it’s the most obvious sign his intentions with you are serious. A guy born under this zodiac sign will never engage in a serious relationship unless he is really 100% sure that it’s the real deal.
How Do You Know If A Virgo Man Really Loves You?
Trust me, when a Virgo man falls in love with you, you’ll know it. These guys are transparent in everything they do, including things happening in their love life.
When a Virgo man catches feelings for a woman, he becomes a hopeless romantic… A guy who’ll do anything to spoil his lady and make her feel like a true queen.
The first moment he starts thinking about a breakup or his feelings for you change, trust me, you’ll just know. His behavior towards you is a reflection of the feelings he has for you – remember this.
In fact, all of these signs a Virgo man is serious about you can also show you whether your Virgo guy loves you honestly or not. You just need to pay close attention to his behavior and actions.
How Do You Make A Virgo Man Obsessed With You?
Let me tell you honestly: this won’t be an easy job because it’s hard to read a Virgo man’s mind. However, there are a few qualities that Virgo males appreciate the most in women.
First of all: honesty and loyalty. Prove to him that you deserve his trust and don’t ever try to make him jealous or give him any reason to doubt you and your fidelity.
Another thing is intelligence. The best way to sweep a Virgo man off his feet is by showing him your intellectual capabilities.
And, above everything else, stay true to yourself. Show him that you’re aware of your qualities while being ready to celebrate your flaws at the same time. That’ll make him admire you. And, in the end, you need to silence your inner drama queen. And yes, it’s a MUST.
Now, when it comes to their compatibility, if you’re born under the Taurus, Scorpio, or Cancer zodiac sign, you have a higher chance of making a Virgo man obsessed with you because those are the best matches for a Virgo guy.
Those were the most obvious signs a Virgo man is serious about you, and I really hope that you’re happy and pleased with your results.
And don’t worry. Virgo males aren’t the types of guys that play mind games with a girl too much because they’re brutally honest peeps who aren’t able to look someone in the eye and lie to them day after day.
Also, I wanted to tell you that your guy is true boyfriend material. So, if you know that his intentions with you are serious, try to keep him in your life.