The beautiful thing about Libra ladies is that they aren’t complicated at all. The truth is, it’s actually pretty easy to understand when a Libra woman is done with you.
You just need to pay attention to her behavior, and her actions will tell you everything. She probably won’t say directly that she’s breaking up with you, but her body language and behavior will be pretty clear.
Libra women are those kinds of women who, when they’re in a relationship, love their partner with every fiber of their being and are completely committed to them. On the other hand, once they lose interest in someone, they become completely cold and forget about the love they once felt for them.
When A Libra Woman Is Done With You: 16 Obvious Signs
So, when a Libra woman is done with you, she starts manifesting the following signs:
1. She goes no contact without a reason
The truth is, when someone cuts off communication with you, there is always a reason. You can’t just stop talking to someone without any reason.
It’s either you’re angry at that person because they did something that hurt you, or you simply don’t want them to be part of your life anymore. When it comes to a Libra woman, it’s almost always the latter.
If you make a mistake, she’ll demand you explain and apologize for it. She won’t just go no contact and expect you to understand what you’ve done by yourself. That is simply not her.
She’ll only stop communicating with her partner if she wants to break up with him. I know it’s painful to hear this, but it’s the absolute truth, and the sooner you come to terms with it, the sooner you’ll be able to heal and leave it all behind.
2. She changes her appearance
When a Libra partner is about to change something in their love life, they change something about themselves first. That’s how they ‘announce’ that something else is about to change.
Whether it’s her hair color or her dressing style, she’ll always make those changes about herself. So, the first time you notice that she has done something new about her look, it’ll be an obvious sign that your relationship is slipping away.
Libra women are beautiful, and they’re known for their charm and taste for the finer things in life.
They always change little things about their looks, but this time, they’ll make a drastic change, something that will be very apparent, and that will also be your sign that her feelings have changed too.
3. Everything you say or do annoys her
It seems like no matter what you say or do, it’s never good enough for her. She becomes frustrated by everything you say, and she’s angry at you all the time – without any reason, of course.
You just don’t know how to talk and behave around her. It’s like you’re walking on eggshells all the time when she’s around.
Neither you nor her feel relaxed, and it’s making your relationship deeply unhealthy. It’s obvious that you’ve become a burden to her and that she’s slowly becoming ‘too much to handle’ for you.
If she continues to behave in this way, you’ll be the one who will break up with her. And who knows, maybe that was her goal from the very beginning… To make you end the relationship instead of her.
4. She admits her mistakes but doesn’t feel the need to apologize for them
Unlike Virgo women who somehow always find an excuse to avoid taking the blame for their mistakes, a Libra woman will admit her mistakes every time. Her ego also allows her to apologize for those mistakes.
However, once she starts refusing to apologize for them, you should know that she’s done with you. Her feelings for you have disappeared, and together with them, the respect she once had for you.
She doesn’t care whether you’ll be angry at her or not because she doesn’t care about you at all anymore. She would like you to disappear from her life, and she hopes this is a way to make you do so.
5. Spending time together is limited
To feel connected with her man, a Libra woman will always try to spend as much quality time with him as possible. Actually, she knows how important connection between partners is for a healthy relationship, and that’s why she’ll focus on building a deep connection with her SO.
She’ll plan most of their dates, find some fun activities they can do together, and look for interesting trips that will allow them to spend time alone away from everyone else.
Being so organized and planning many things ahead are her most interesting personality traits.
Now, here comes the important part… Once you notice that she’s avoiding you, that she doesn’t have time for you all of a sudden, it’ll be an obvious sign for you that she’s done with you.
6. She avoids any kind of physical contact
She doesn’t only stop communicating with you. She also avoids being intimate and starts refusing your touches and cuddles.
At first, she’ll use work as an excuse or that she is too tired for it, but later on, she’ll simply refuse and won’t offer any kind of explanation. That’ll be the most definite sign that her feelings for you have disappeared.
Intimacy in a relationship means so much to a Libra lady because she’s aware that it’s a way to strengthen and keep the bond between partners alive. And once she starts avoiding it, it’s clear that she no longer cares about that bond.
If you had a fight or small disagreement where you insisted that she was wrong even though she proved that she was not, it’s not strange if she starts ignoring you on social media.
She needs some time to herself and doesn’t want to get into a deeper fight with you. However, if she does it all of a sudden and without a proper reason, it’s probably because she’s preparing to go no contact with you.
At first, it’ll definitely drive you crazy. You’ll keep asking if it’s your fault and if you did something wrong.
But, after some time, once she blocks you or removes your pics from her social media, you’ll realize what is really going on… You’ll realize that she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore because she’s done with you.
8. You meet her dark side
The truth is, we all have two sides. The good one and the other, the not-so-beautiful one. And we decide which one we’ll introduce to others.
When a Libra woman has deep romantic feelings for a guy, she only introduces him to the charming, kind, and loving part of her personality. However, once she decides to leave him and her feelings for him disappear, that’s when he meets her dark side.
She’ll all of a sudden become vindictive, intolerant, and shallow. Sooner or later, you’ll break up with her because you’ll understand that she isn’t the woman you fell in love with.
9. She stops being affectionate
The thing about Libra lovers is that they are known for being very affectionate and romantic partners – after all, they’re ruled by the planet of love, Venus.
They enjoy doing little things for their SOs and proving their love to them through their actions. However, a Libra woman is only romantic when she’s seducing her crush and while she is in love with someone.
If she stops loving her partner, she’ll stop showing her partner hre romantic side, which will show that she feels completely indifferent toward her man.
In fact, the proof that Libra ladies can’t live without affection is that they’ll never manage to maintain a relationship with Taurus, Aquarius, and Capricorn men because they’re the least affectionate and emotional males of the horoscope.
10. She stops putting in the effort
If your Libra lady stops working on your relationship and shows no interest in putting effort into saving or fixing it, I think it’s more than clear that she actually wants to end it.
She probably doesn’t see the point in fixing it because she’s aware that she stopped loving you a long time ago. She wants to spare both of you from losing your sanity and your time, and as much as it hurts to hear it, she’s right.
You can’t keep fighting alone. A relationship is and must always be a two-way street.
After a while, you’ll only feel tired and disappointed. You may even lose faith in true love, which is something you should never allow. True love exists – you just need to find it.
11. She enjoys picking on you and your insecurities
This Venus-ruled woman is very kind, charming, and compassionate but mostly towards people she cares about. If she doesn’t care for you or her feelings for you change, she’ll become very rude and reveal another side of her personality.
If you’re a Scorpio man or an Aries man, you definitely won’t put up with this behavior for too long. As a matter of fact, no man should. It may be particularly painful for emotional guys like Cancer or Pisces because it may seriously harm their self-esteem.
You don’t deserve to be in a relationship with someone who enjoys showering you with insults and emphasizing your flaws and insecurities.
No matter how much you love her, that kind of disrespect should never be tolerated. You know what people say, there is a limit to everything.
12. She gives you the cold shoulder
The most obvious sign a Libra woman dislikes someone is when she gives them the cold shoulder. So, if she starts being unpleasant towards you, if she belittles you or offends you in any way, it’s clear that she is done with you.
You really don’t have a reason to stay in that relationship anymore because her feelings certainly won’t come back. That cold shoulder is her way of telling you to back off and get out of her life once and for all.
13. Your life doesn’t interest her at all anymore
When a Libra woman wants to end a relationship with you, not a single thing about you and your life will interest her anymore. You could be dead or alive – she wouldn’t care.
She won’t be there for you anymore when you’re going through hard times and need her the most. She won’t be there for you when you need a helping hand. She won’t be there when you want to share big and exciting news with her.
She won’t be there because she doesn’t care. All she cares about is moving on with her life and leaving you behind. And the sooner you understand that the sooner you’ll be able to do the same, move on with your life and forget all about her.
14. No matter what you do, you just can’t reconnect with her
You’re aware that you’ve lost your connection and that you can do absolutely nothing about it. You’ve probably tried everything to rekindle the connection, but unfortunately, nothing worked.
She completely cut you out of her life. You find out good and bad things that happen to her from other people, which makes you so desperate. I really get how you feel.
The truth is, you should stop trying. You can’t make someone love you. You can’t force someone to stay in your life.
If they want to go, you should open the door for them and wave goodbye. They’re only keeping you back from meeting your true soulmate, the person who will never leave you.
15. She cuts you off from her circle of friends
I’m sure you had some mutual friends. I said ‘had’ intentionally because I’m sure they are no longer your friends, right?
Somehow, she managed to turn them against you because she doesn’t want to have anything to do with you anymore. She knows that those mutual friends would result in you hanging out together at some point, and that is the last thing she wants.
That’s why she took you out of that circle of friends, and she most likely took over some of your friends too. You shouldn’t worry about that because it’s clear that those people weren’t true friends in the first place because they wouldn’t betray you in this way if they were.
16. She already behaves like a single lady
It’s no secret that air signs are a little afraid of commitment. However, that’s not the case with a Libra woman, especially when she falls genuinely in love with a man.
However, when that love is gone, she totally forgets about that commitment and starts celebrating her new freedom. She starts going out with her besties and because of her flirtatious nature, she may even start flirting with other guys.
In short, she behaves like a single girl even though she hasn’t officially broken up with her partner. Pretty soon, you’ll have had enough of it, and her actions will make you break up with her.
Libra Woman Horoscope Compatibility
When it comes to her love life and love compatibility, a Libra lady is most compatible with Sagittarius, Aquarius, Capricorn, and Gemini men. However, the perfect match for a Libran woman is a Leo man.
On the other hand, Scorpio, Aries, and Libra men are considered the worst matches for a Libra woman. Men born under these zodiac signs simply don’t have what a Libran lady looks for in a romantic partner.
How Does A Libra Woman Break Up?
The thing about Libra ladies is that they always go through a breakup in a very difficult way, whether they have initiated it or not. It’s hard for them to leave behind someone they spent a period of their lives with.
They definitely don’t have the guts to do it in person. A Libra woman will never call her partner to talk face to face and then break up with him.
Either she’ll do it via text, or she’ll let her behavior and actions speak for herself. It’s the wrong way to end a relationship, but the fact is that she isn’t brave enough to do it any other way.
How Do You Know If A Libra Woman Is Not Interested Anymore?
It shouldn’t be difficult to recognize a Libra woman whose feelings for her partner have stopped. She shows it loud and clear because she has no intention of stringing anyone along.
She’ll stop communicating and initiating any form of contact, especially physical contact. She’ll start going out more, and her relationship will be at the very bottom of her priority list.
The only confusing thing may be her not saying it directly to her SO. Or in other words, her biggest mistake will be that she won’t end her relationship directly. And it’s only because she doesn’t want to hurt them. Unfortunately, this way, she’ll only hurt him even more.
As you can see, a Libra woman really becomes a cold bitch when she starts losing interest in her partner. That’s probably one of her most negative traits.
The worst thing about when a Libra woman is done with you is that she can’t gather the courage to break things off with you properly. She can’t break up with you in person because either she’s afraid of your reaction or she doesn’t want to waste more of her time on you.
The bottom line is that if you notice most of these signs with your Libra girlfriend, you should ask her to talk or end your relationship instead of her pushing you to do it.
It’ll hurt, I know. However, living a lie and being fully aware of the truth will hurt you even more once it all comes to an end. And it’s only a matter of time before it’ll end because it’s clear that your relationship is doomed to fail.