What makes women so divine? Is there a way for us to release the divine feminine energy that is hiding within?
You know it’s there. You can feel its power. But, what you fail to realize is that you’re powerful, too. All you need to do is muster the courage to take back what’s always been yours.
If you want to know how to embrace your feminine energy and what it is in the first place, stay tuned because I have plenty of information to share with you.
What Is Feminine Energy?
Long story short, feminine energy is associated with traits such as tenderness, kindness, and compassion. An ideal woman is one who is guided by her emotions.
She is filled with love for the world and its people and doesn’t hesitate to show it. Her thoughts aren’t stained with hatred or (unhealthy) ambition.
Feminine Energy VS. Masculine Energy
Now, now, fret not! No one’s saying you should abandon all masculine traits. Embracing your feminine energy doesn’t mean you can’t be strong and determined, too!
You’re also told that you have to be feminine in order to attract a masculine man and vice versa. Well, sexual polarity’s got it all wrong!
We’re all individuals with different tastes, after all!
So, why not take the best of both worlds? Forget what society told you to be!
Think of both energies as yin and yang. The ideal PERSON is in tune with both their feminine and masculine side. They are kind and driven to succeed at the same time.
You CAN do both!
How To Radiate Feminine Energy: 23 Proven Ways
If you want to own your feminine power, follow these 23 tips:
1. In love with the idea of self-growth
Stop for a minute. Picture the best possible version of you in your head. What does she look like? What are her daily habits? What about her goals?
Write it all down – IN DETAIL. You can’t accomplish anything without a thorough plan. Still, make sure that you set realistic goals and know that you won’t change overnight.
But, if you keep the idea of growth planted in your head, you will definitely go places. Just make it your priority.
You are here to learn. You are here to transform. You are here to reach your feminine energy.
2. All that weight isn’t yours to carry
Women are taught to be selfless and self-sacrificial. But, I am here to tell you that this mindset will only destroy you.
You can’t neglect your own needs for the sake of others. Their lives aren’t any more important than your own.
Only when you learn self-love can you love others the right way.
What you want matters. YOU matter. Repeat these self-love affirmations to yourself because once you realize your own feminine power, no one will be able to stop you.
3. Your intuition is your best guide
My fellow overthinkers, I know what a pain it is to analyze every little thing. You believe you missed a crucial detail, so you keep going back to find it. But, you won’t.
Don’t worry, though! I am here to let you in on a little secret: The true answer always lies in how you feel.
Now, I know your thoughts affect your feelings, so you probably go through constant mood swings, but there is always that one quiet moment when you are free of all thoughts.
That’s exactly when you should come back to your problem because guess what? You will see it all with complete clarity.
4. Speak kindly to yourself
What do you tell yourself when you’re sad? Is it something like ”Why do bad things keep happening to me?” or more like ”I’m sad now, but I won’t be forever”?’
I’m sure you can recognize which one you should practice.
Embracing your imperfect self is crucial if you want to activate your feminine energy. You can’t do it if you constantly blame yourself or the world.
So, be gentle with yourself and never give up no matter how hopeless it all seems. The power is in your hands. All you need to do is learn to love yourself more.
5. Do whatever brings you joy
Want to play video games at 23? Go for it! It’s not childish.
Tempted to paint your room pink? That’s gorgeous! Pink isn’t only for little girls.
If it fulfills your soul, that’s the only thing that matters. You can’t get in touch with your feminine side if you keep thinking about what others will think of your hobbies.
Besides, trust me, if you look confident while doing it, others can only be attracted to and inspired by your confidence! So, make a choice to live for YOURSELF.
6. Dress up!
When I say dress up, I don’t necessarily mean ”buy a very expensive dress and put makeup on.” No. What I mean is – Create your own ideal of beauty and start practicing it.
It’s okay if you don’t have it yet. You can always experiment until you find what works best for you.
I used to be very sporty, and now I’m more lady-like. Still, I don’t think that’s the ”real me.” My style keeps changing, and I welcome the new me with open arms each time!
Find what you like, but once you do, don’t let it end there. Keep evolving. The goal is to feel sexy and confident in your own skin.
7. Make yourself a priority
When you dress up, don’t do it to get validation from men.
I know compliments and glances can be flattering, but reaching your divine feminine energy won’t be possible until you put yourself first.
Realize your worth and be proud of who you are and what you look like even when no one compliments you! Have self-confidence that no one ever needs to tell you a nice word again.
Being acknowledged is fulfilling, but not as fulfilling as loving yourself no matter what.
8. Know yourself
Women who embrace their feminine energy are known for their high emotional intelligence. They are able to see right through you because they aren’t afraid to know themselves.
And that is the key – being aware of who you are. Only then can you connect with others.
So, don’t be afraid to reach within and find your inner goddess. She is there. You just have to sit down with your negative feelings first. Try journaling or talking to someone.
Once you connect with every part of yourself, you will unlock doors to a world of divinity.
9. Be in the moment
Living in the past doesn’t allow you to make progress, and living for the future makes you forget to appreciate the present.
What are you thinking about as you’re reading this? Are you focused on my words, or does your mind keep wandering away?
If it does, that’s okay. You can’t always keep it silent.
But, what you can do is take a deep breath, say to yourself, ”I won’t be distracted by my thoughts. My life is passing me by. I deserve to live it to the fullest.”
10. Dance your soul away
Really, is there any better way to embrace your feminine energy than by dancing?
Don’t wait until you finish reading this. Get up right now and move your body in ways that feel natural to you.
You don’t have to be a great dancer. The point is to free yourself from all thoughts. You’ll be surprised what epiphanies you experience when you’re not even trying.
After all, what epiphany ever came when we were focused on finding it?
11. Practice self-care
Self-care means something different to each of us. For me, it’s getting in touch with my sensuality.
I take care of my skin only before going out when I should be doing it all the time.
If you’re the same, let’s join forces and fight the patriarchy that told us to look pretty solely for men.
We can start by buying creams, essential oils, and other kinds of products that will make US feel beautiful, even if there is no one looking.
P. S. Try not taking a selfie either. Just look at yourself in the mirror and let that be enough.
12. Express your emotions
You can’t embrace your feminine energy until you get in touch with your emotional side.
If you suppress parts of yourself in order to be accepted, you won’t ever reach your full potential. And you can do SO MUCH!
You can find your inner goddess only if you’re bold enough to be honest with yourself AND others.
Speak your mind. Tell people how you feel about them. Free your real self to find the self you were always meant to be.
13. Pursue your goals
Ambition may be a masculine trait, but it’s not about what we achieve but rather what we become when we achieve it.
To activate your feminine energy, it’s important to focus on your dreams because the whole process helps you transform into a high-value woman.
You gain self-confidence, experience, and wisdom – all essential feminine energy traits.
14. Turn rest mode on
You aren’t a machine. You can’t spend your days working. If you don’t take care of yourself and rest regularly, you can’t get in touch with your feminine side.
Why? Well, because when we’re busy, we don’t have time to think or feel. We can barely be acknowledged as human beings.
Ambition brings empowerment, but downtime awakens your feminine power and reminds you that your purpose is much greater.
So… remind yourself that you’re human.
15. Out of the city, into the woods
Even when you feel like the whole world is against you, and nothing ever goes right, there is always one thing that can get you back on your feet – Mother Earth.
Nothing has as strong a healing ability as being in the mountains and breathing the fresh air or wandering around the woods, excited about what you might find.
You recharge your batteries, and the world looks full of possibilities once more.
If you’re struggling with embracing your feminine energy, definitely get away for a bit and…just be.
16. Give up your couch potato role
Dreams are beautiful, but they aren’t enough. You can’t dream your ideal self into existence. You have to get up and hit the reset button on your life.
I know that getting out of your comfort zone is difficult, but staying there just isn’t good for your overall well-being.
No matter how hard you find it, gather the strength to take the first step. The beginning is always the hardest. But, once you do begin, you’ve already done half of the job.
And, the more you keep trying, the easier it will become.
17. Get away from the noise
I know. You’re young. You want excitement. You want to live your life to the fullest. And, I understand that and encourage it.
Still, I can’t emphasize enough how important a few moments of silence are.
If you’re an extrovert, you don’t have to give up your lifestyle. But, what you can do is take at least half an hour every day or every two days and just ponder your existence.
How can you reach your feminine power if you never stop for a moment… and just think?
18. Make connections
As we’ve said, women in touch with their feminine side have very high emotional intelligence. That’s why they’re very careful about who they let into their inner circle.
Let your intuition guide you to the right people. Not just people you will have fun with but rather those who will inspire you to become the best version of yourself.
Laugh together, but also help each other grow. Is there any connection more beautiful than that?
19. Love all women
A truly great woman is never judgy towards other women. She respects them all equally no matter what their preferences are.
Strive to become such a woman. You really have nothing to gain from hatred and negativity.
Instead of saying ”OMG! I can’t believe she’s wearing THAT!,’ say ”Aw, I love her outfit!” If you dislike something, just stay silent. Let only kind words come out of your mouth.
Support all women. Use your feminine power for good causes.
20. Find your inner artist
The best way to connect with yourself is to release whatever you’re holding inside. Express your thoughts and emotions any way you see fit.
Maybe you like writing poetry, or you’re more of a visual type who likes to paint. Whatever it is, use your creative energy to free your real self.
An easy way to do it, believe it or not, is wearing orange clothes. It is the color of your sacral chakra, and it’s connected to creativity. Should be pretty easy, huh?
21. Surround yourself with positive people
I know this one can be hard, especially when someone you love very much is a negative person. But, you need to put yourself first.
No matter how much you love someone, you shouldn’t let their negative energy stop you from evolving. You have to set boundaries to protect yourself.
Be around people who will encourage your growth and listen to your troubles with compassion but still be able to find a silver lining in everything.
22. Get yourself a furry best friend
If you want to be in tune with your feminine energy, you also need to activate your need to nurture and take care of something.
And what’s better to take care of than a cute cat or a dog? If you get yourself a pet, you are bound to get in touch with your feminine side.
Your role will be to help another living being, so you will cultivate feminine traits such as gentleness, kindness, and thoughtfulness.
23. It may be time for a trip
If you feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, the perfect solution for you would be a holiday.
It doesn’t have to be anything fancy and expensive. If you’re struggling financially, then you can just take a one-day trip to a nearby town.
It doesn’t matter where you decide to go. The goal is to clear your mind and make every problem seem manageable.
Top 5 Feminine Energy Traits
Here are five feminine energy traits you should strive for:
1. Gentleness
Isn’t the ideal woman always kind and caring? When you’re hurt, she takes care of you. When you’re sad, she chooses soothing words to help you deal with your pain.
No, she should never cross boundaries and let others take advantage of her gentle nature. But, just because people can be cruel is no excuse to act like them.
It’s precisely their existence that should inspire you to be better.
2. Intuition
People always talk about the battle between the heart and the mind, but they forget the thing that’s far more powerful than both of them combined – your gut feeling.
In reality, you always know the right choice. It’s just that you choose to be guided by your intellect or your emotions because you don’t believe in yourself.
So, next time you’re stuck between two choices, close your eyes, stretch out your hands, and let your intuition lead the way.
3. Empathy
Brutal honesty is overrated. That’s just an excuse for people to be cruel. A woman in touch with her feminine side will always choose to be good.
She won’t ever judge you for how you feel but instead offer you compassion and understanding.
Even if she doesn’t quite understand you, she will smile and tell you that it’s all going to be alright.
4. Open-mindedness
This trait is connected to empathy. In reality, you can’t empathize with another human being unless you’re open to the way they think.
You need to realize that we are all different, and that’s not bad. On the contrary… it’s what makes us so interesting.
So, instead of judging someone because they’re nothing like you, strive to learn more about their way of thinking. That’s the only way to grow.
5. Self-expression
A woman who embraces her feminine energy never has a cold attitude. That’s because she doesn’t hide her feelings but instead allows herself to be emotionally vulnerable.
She won’t hesitate to cry if she feels the need to, nor will she suppress her laughter because she’s emotionally STRONG.
If she has a firm opinion on something, she won’t stay silent. If she doesn’t like you, she won’t fake that she does. If she loves you, you will know.
What Is Dark Feminine Energy?
Dark feminine energy is all about the freedom of expression.
Women who embrace it aren’t afraid to show themselves in their full light. They demand to have their needs fulfilled. They are gentle, but you can never take their power away.
Just because they show you kindness doesn’t mean they’ll ever allow you to take advantage of them.
They are aware that their minds and bodies are solely their own. So, there is no shame.
A woman in possession of dark feminine energy is strong and empowered and doesn’t care about societal standards. If she wants to have sex, she won’t hesitate to do so.
Her freedom of sexual expression dismisses the mindset that shames women for seeking sexual pleasure. She’s the master of her own life.
In A Nutshell
Your feminine energy isn’t so out of reach. All it takes is a little self-control and a lot of patience! It’s hard at first, but what beginning has ever been easy?
Once you get a hold of your own feminine power, no force on this planet will be able to get in your way.
Okay, enough talk. Now put on a badass soundtrack and start your journey to empowerment!