Looking for clues and signs someone likes you? Don’t worry, I feel you and that is why I’m here today to help you and teach you everything you need to know about all those mysterious signs, the psychology behind it and more! So, let’s get started!
So, one of the most frustrating things that people experience in relationships is when they don’t know whether someone is attracted to them or not which is one of the reasons why you are here today, reading this article.
You see, when you just meet a guy or a girl, you can’t know whether he/she likes you or not so it comes to you naturally to try to find some ways to see how they feel about you. You soon find yourself overthinking about even the smallest of details because you see everything as a potential clue telling you that they like you or not.
This process of deciphering those tricky signs of whether someone likes you or not is, without a doubt, really frustrating. And if you’re going through this now or you have had this problem in any kind of relationship before, don’t worry because there is a solution to every problem.
To be a hundred percent sure if someone likes you, you will have to pay a little bit more attention to their actions and you will see many psychological signs revealing that they are into you probably more than you might think.
To help you with that, here is a list of the most common ones so that you know what to pay attention to next time you spend time with them. So, if you see that your guy/girl is exhibiting the following 14 signs, you can be sure that they are into you and they want to be more than just friends with you!
1. They touch you ‘accidentally’
When someone touches you accidentally it can mean more than just one thing. If that is a person you have just met and one you are trying to make some kind of a relationship with, it can mean that they are attracted to you. If they want to touch you, it is a subtle sign that they are interested in you and that they want you close. They just want to feel their own skin on yours and in that way, be way closer to you.
2. Their eyes become bigger
Have you ever met someone and you caught them looking at you with their eyes wide open and you could see that their pupils got dilated? If you had a situation like this, it means that the person liked you. Psychologists say that when we are attracted to someone we try to open our eyes more so we can see things better. That is our way to get to know a person better and we do that unconsciously. So, the next time you see a guy looking at you with his eyes wide open (and sometimes his mouth) it is a proven sign that he likes you.
3. They lean toward you
When you see a person leaning toward you, it is a sign that they like you. They want to be close to you and talk to you without things or people interfering between the two of you. So, if you go on a first date and you are not sure if the guy likes you, just pay attention to what he does. If he sits close to you without anything between the two of you, it is a sign that he likes you. On the other hand, if he puts some accessories between the two of you, like his phone or a glass of water, it is a sign that he is still not ready for any real physical attraction.
4. They act a little bit awkward in front of you
Have you ever had a situation where a boy who liked you acted pretty awkward when he was with you? It looked like he didn’t know what to say or what to do in your presence, right? Well, that is because he liked you and it was very hard for him to act normally in front of you. He wanted to represent himself in the best possible light but unfortunately it didn’t work out well. This situation will happen every time someone likes you but when they won’t admit it.
5. They mirror you
Even if this doesn’t look like a psychological sign that someone likes you, it can reveal more than you thought about the person who does it. If you see that someone actually mirrors your movements, it is a sign that they like you but maybe they are just scared to admit it. If you just met a man and he imitates every move that you make, it is his subconscious that is playing with him and he doesn’t even know it. But you know it and you can enjoy the fact that the handsome man sitting next to you wants you really bad.
6. They smile for no reason
If you are in a situation where the man you are on a date with for the first time smiles all the time, even if nothing is funny at all, it can be a psychological sign that he likes you. In this way, he is expressing his satisfaction at being close to you and he simply can’t stop smiling. If you add a couple of ‘accidental’ touches there, it is a proven sign that he wants to be with you. Now, it is up to you whether you will give him a chance or not.
7. They ask a lot of questions
If someone you just met asks a lot of questions, it means that they want to get to know you better and that they want to share some things with you. If you are on a first date and you are not quite sure whether the guy likes you or not, just pay attention to how he talks. If he is keeping quiet all the time, it means that he is not that interested in you but if he asks a lot of questions, it is a subtle sign that he likes you more than you can imagine. I just hope that you like him as much as he likes you!
8. They make strong eye contact
If you see someone looking at you and not breaking eye contact, it is a proven sign that they really like you. Many researchers have said that when we like someone, we will spend a lot of time looking at that person. So, if you are in a situation where someone stares at you without looking down, it means that they are really interested in you and even if the situation can be a little bit awkward, they won’t stop doing it. They are not ashamed if you will say that they are crazy for doing that because looking at you, being all that they have been dreaming of, is stronger than being ashamed.
9. They show up in places where you are
If someone shows up in places where you are all the time, you can be positive that that person likes you more than you think. They just want to be as close as they can to you and they will use every opportunity to be near you. They will probably try to be fun and easygoing and they will do anything in their power to make you like them. So, if you see a man showing up in places he didn’t visit before, you can bet it is because of you.
10. They make you smile
One of the most important psychological signs that someone likes you is when they try to make you smile. They will do anything to make you feel good when you are with them and that will be their top priority. So, if there is a boy in your life who is not so brave to admit that he likes you but does everything in his power to make you smile when you are with him, you can be sure that he wants to be more than a friend. He would love to spend the rest of his life with you but he isn’t confident enough to try something with you because he thinks that you might reject him.
11. They blush when they are near you
If you see someone blushing only in your presence and being all shy to even talk to you, it is a subtle sign that they like you. They like you more than you can imagine and their face color says it all but they are not brave enough to say something to you about it. If you see a man acting like this, don’t be too harsh on him and don’t play with his feelings because it is already quite hard for him to function near you. If you are not interested in him, try to talk to him, be polite and don’t offend him. On the other hand, if you like him, just go ahead and enjoy your love trip.
12. They are clumsy near you
You know those scenes from the movies when a boy is madly in love with a girl but when he is close to her he is being all clumsy? Well, if that happens to you as well with some boy, it is a proven sign that he has a thing for you. He likes you but is scared to admit it and it is really hard for him to see you with other guys flirting with you. He doesn’t know what to do but he is trying to be as close as he can to you. So, the most important thing you can do is not laugh at him when he does something funny and help him so he can see that you care about him as well.
13. They try to be friends first
When someone likes you, they will try to be friends with you first and try to get to know you better. After they find out what makes you feel good, they will try to develop some sort of a romantic relationship with you. That is the best way for a couple to make it work because they will give each other enough time to meet the other side so they can fall in love with them. So, if you see that your friend is not the same anymore and that he does things he never did before, that can be a sign that he really likes you as a woman and that he wants more than friendship.
14. They give you time
You see, when someone really likes you, they will give you enough time to decide whether you want to be with them or not. They don’t force you to make a decision overnight and they know that it takes time for good things to happen. Giving time is a sign of attraction, even if you think it is not a big deal. When a guy gives you time to decide what you really want, it means he gives you a part of himself and that he believes in your final call. And if they don’t get what they want, they won’t be mad. They will be hurt if they fall in love with you, they will be hurt but they will never show that to you. It is because they respect you and because your happiness comes first to them.
I started writing just as a hobby, but in the end, I decided that it is something that fulfills me. I find inspiration in life’s everyday problems and every article that I write tells something about my past. In this way, I want to tell women all around the world that even though we are miles away, our pain makes us close. My articles were written to comfort those who need it the most and to tell them that they are not alone. I am a full-time mom, and I like spending time with my son, good people, sunny days and beer.