49 sinais de traição a que deve estar atento

The fact is, many people cheat, but it’s also true that, unfortunately, most of them never get caught. And why is that? Because their partner is blinded by love and can’t see the revelador signs of their partner’s betrayal.

If you have any doubts at all, or if you’ve found some good signs of your partner’s infidelity, here is something that may help you find out the truth: 49 signs of a cheating partner.

Uma relação saudável é uma parceria entre duas pessoas que concordam em ser leais uma à outra no primeiro lugar. Se um deles decidir quebrar esse acordo, isso pode ter consequências terríveis para a sua relação.

Now, the time has come… Let’s reveal once and for all whether your partner cheats on you or not.

49 Sinais subtis de um parceiro traidor

Estes são os mais comuns sinais de um cônjuge traidor/partner, and if you’re wondering whether your SO is cheating on you, you should pay close attention to each and every single one of them. They’ll reveal the truth about your partner’s fidelity.

1. Têm um comportamento distante e retraído

The first thing that’s got you so worried about your relationships is your partner’s distant behaviornão é? You don’t spend quality time together anymore, and comunicação saudável e regular já não faz parte da vossa relação.

Well, you’re right, it’s awkward, and something is definitely going on. Withdrawing behavior is also a possible sign of a cheating partner because they’re slowly falling out of love but still aren’t sure how and quando acabar contigo.

2. A sua linguagem corporal é estranha

I always say this, but it’s genuinely true. There is so much you can find out about a person from the way their body reacts around you. A person may lie to you, but a sua linguagem corporal will almost always give them up. So, yes, that’s como a maioria dos casos é descoberta.

Tente falar com o seu parceiro sobre o seu comportamento ultimamente e preste muita atenção ao seu linguagem corporal quando se fala com eles. If they get all nervous, touch their hair, or are unable to make or maintain eye contact with you, it’s because they know you’ve caught them.

3. Quebrar a sua rotina

Have you noticed any sudden changes in your partner’s everyday routine? Do they do things they didn’t do before?

Maybe you haven’t made a grande coisa Não se preocupe com isso porque acha que é irrelevante, mas pode ser um sinal de infidelidade.

4. Apresentam também sinais de baixa autoestima

Sabe porque é que muitas pessoas traem os seus parceiros? Porque lutam com a sua autoestima e precisam dessa outra pessoa para aumentar o seu ego.

It’s like cheating fulfills their confidence. Maybe you’re somehow the reason they have self-esteem issues, and they’ve found someone else to help them feel better about themselves.

5. Passar tempo de qualidade juntos é há muito esquecido

Antes, tinham noites de encontro, passavam todo o vosso tempo livre juntos e planeavam sempre actividades super divertidas para os vossos encontros.

Now, has all of that changed, and you can’t even remember the last time you spent some quality time together?

They’re always busy, and even if you make plans, they bail on you last minute. Unfortunately, it’s obvious that your partner is spending their free time with another person.

6. Despedir-se de ti tornou-se a sua coisa favorita

It’s not that they cancel on you sometimes, but they do it all the time, and it seems like they don’t care about how that makes you feel at all… Well, unfortunately, they probably don’t.

They have more important things to do. I know it frustrates you and makes you sad at the same time, and you definitely shouldn’t put up with it for long.

7. They lie to you – ALL THE TIME

Começou a apanhá-los a mentir com frequência? It’s probably because everything they say to you is a lie, and they get caught up in a web of their own lies.

They can no longer remember what they’ve told you and what they told the other person. Sooner or later, they’ll understand that they need to pick a side and stop a amarrar-te ambos.

8. You know for sure they’re keeping secrets from you

You’ve also found out about some of their secrets and things they were carefully keeping from you. There’s a fine reason they didn’t want you to find out about those things, and I’m pretty sure they have more secrets.

However, even if they’re masters at cheating, they won’t be able to keep going about their affair behind your back for long. You’ll find out one way or another, and the truth will finally come into the light.

9. Ficam presos nas suas histórias ou desculpas

I’ve already mentioned this in the part about lying. They’re probably full of excuses every time you want to see them or plan something with them.

But, the truth is, they won’t be able to keep on offering you some lame excuses and sitting on two chairs at the same time.

10. A sua vida sexual tornou-se aborrecida

Did you have a wildly passionate sex life before, but lately, things have changed behind closed doors? Of course, there are many possible reasons for it, but one of them may be your partner’s infidelity.

They’re getting physical pleasure somewhere else and in someone else’s bed, and that’s why your bed doesn’t interest them too much anymore.

Pode, e deve, tentar apimentar as coisas na camaMas se todas as suas tentativas forem infrutíferas, deve considerar isso como um sinal de alerta.

11. Evitam a intimidade física

Intimidade física definitely isn’t the most important foundation of uma relação saudável, but it’s a very important part of it. Without it, the bond between partners would be very weak, and they would never be able to function as a happy, healthy couple.

Deve preocupar-se se, de repente, o seu parceiro começou a evitar ter intimidade consigo. They have a good reason for it, and that reason is probably the fact they’re being intimate with someone else.

12. They’re also emotionally detached

Como é que se comportam quando lhes dizemos que os amamos ou partilhamos os nossos sentimentos com eles? E qual é a resposta que dão quando lhes perguntamos se nos amam?

Se a pessoa evita falar sobre o assunto, tem todo o direito de suspeitar que os seus sentimentos em relação a si mudaram. You should give them time because they may have other issues, but it’s most likely they have stopped loving you.

13. Exigem demasiado espaço

I know this is difficult to understand and process. Before, you spent all of your free time together, and now, they’re asking you to give them space.

Talvez precisem mesmo de tempo e espaço para pensar nos seus próprios problemas e nas coisas que os incomodam, mas se o amassem sinceramente, nunca o afastariam de uma forma tão feia.

14. They’ve needed to work a lot of overtime lately

Penso que o facto de ficarem até tarde não tem nada a ver com o trabalho. Infelizmente, este é um possível sinal de que o seu parceiro a está a trair e a passar tempo com o amante enquanto lhe dá uma desculpa esfarrapada de trabalho.

Uma noite, surpreende-os e vai ao seu local de trabalho. If you don’t find them there, then it’s completely clear what is going on.

15. You can’t reach them for hours or even days sometimes

Is this normal? Has this ever happened before? If it’s a new thing, you should see it as a huge red flag that they don’t care about you enough.

They’re probably busy with someone else, and that’s why they can’t reply to your calls and texts.

16. O seu estilo de beijo muda

Como se sente quando o seu parceiro a beija agora? É igual ao que era no início da vossa relação ou sente que algo está diferente?

If they don’t want to kiss you in public and avoid passionate, beijos românticos, it’s a mau sinal they’re seeing (and kissing) someone else.

17. Existem bandeiras vermelhas em todo o seu redes sociais

Your significant other’s social media can also reveal a lot about how they think and feel about you. For example, if you had pics together and they’ve deleted them all of a sudden, it’s obvious they’re trying to hide you from someone.

Also, if they’ve asked you to stop sharing pics of you two together, it’s a possível sinal da sua infidelidade. Preste atenção às publicações, canções e citações que partilham e às fotografias que marcam.

18. You’ve found out they have profiles on some dating apps

If this really happened, if you’ve run onto your partner’s profile on a dating app, then it’s clear they’re at least thinking about cheating on you.

Pode até criar uma armadilha para eles e tentar apanhá-los dessa forma. Just make a fake profile and reach out to them. If they reply, chat with them and see whether they’re really able to cheat on you.

19. You’ve also found traces of infidelity on their cellphone

I’m usually against going through your partner’s phone, but if you’ve noticed too many of these possible signs of their infidelity, then you have the green light to check their cellphone.

If they’re really cheating on you, you’ll probably find some evidence on their phone.

Verificar as suas chamadas, mensagens, fotografias e redes sociais if you have access to them. IF and when you find proof they’re being unfaithful, you should immediately confront them about it.

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20. Ou apagam absolutamente tudo do telemóvel

Also, if you find their phone completely empty, and by that I mean if they’ve deleted their history, their texts, and everything else, it could also be a good sign they’re having an affair.

It means they’re being very careful, though. Maybe they’ve caught you snooping on their phone once already, and they don’t want to risk getting caught.

21. Ficam nervosos quando se começa a questioná-los sobre o seu paradeiro

It’s normal that you want to know about your partner’s whereabouts when you’re in uma relação séria. Of course, it shouldn’t mean that you need to know every step they take. However, it would be nice if you’re in touch regularly.

If you doubt your partner’s fidelity, you should pay attention to how and with whom they spend their time. If there are some suspicious movements or they go out a lot, and you don’t know where, you should simply ask them.

You probably won’t get an honest answer from their side, but it’s irrelevant because their reaction will say it all. If they get all nervous and anxious, they’re hiding something from you, and they’re probably afraid you’ve caught them in a lie.

22. Começam a sair regularmente

Have your partner’s frequent nights out really started to bother you? You should definitely talk about it with them, but also be careful about it because it’s a good sign they’re being unfaithful to you.

You can ask to go out with them one night and see what their response is. If they allow you to go with them, you probably don’t have anything to worry about.

However, if they refuse immediately and get nervous, then it’s a potential red flag that something bad is going on.

23. Além disso, começam a comprar e a usar roupas novas com frequência

De repente, o(a) seu(sua) namorado(a) preocupa-se mais com o seu aspeto físico? Está a comprar roupa nova, a fazer tratamentos de bem-estar ou de spa, a experimentar novos penteados, etc.?

Unfortunately, it’s not a proven fact, but almost every time a partner starts caring about their looks more than they care about you, they’re probably cheating on you. Querem estar bem para essa outra pessoa, o seu amante.

24. Também apresentam sinais de arrependimento

Já reparou que o seu SO mostra sinais subtis de arrependimento? You haven’t caught them doing anything, so why are they behaving that way?

Bem, há duas explicações possíveis.

Either they’ve cheated on you and regretted it instantly because they love you and know it could destroy your relationship, or they just feel sorry for you and for betraying you in that way after everything you’ve been through together.

25. Têm muitos passatempos novos

Isn’t it weird? How come someone can find so many new interests or hobbies all of a sudden? And how do they have so much free time to do all of it?

Talvez a razão pela qual eles têm tantos novos passatempos é que conheceram alguém novo e estão a tentar mostrar interesse pelos seus interesses. Of course, your partner may also be trying to find a hobby that suits them best, but that’s, unfortunately, less likely than the first option.

26. Existem despesas inexplicáveis nos extractos dos seus cartões de crédito

Unexplained expenses on their credit card statements may explain it all. Either they’re cheating on you, or they’ve become passionate gambling addicts all of a sudden. ?

Anyways, you should take a better look at those statements, and maybe you’ll be able to figure out a few things there. Além disso, peça ao seu parceiro para explicar, porque uma comunicação aberta é tudo para uma relação saudável.

27. They don’t want to have a shared bank account anymore

If you are in a long-term relationship, it’s normal to agree to have a shared bank account. And if your partner has decided they don’t want to share their finances with you all of a sudden and for no reason, it’s clear they’re planning to romper convosco.

Deve aceitar a decisão deles, mas também deve descobrir a verdadeira razão pela qual querem desvincular as suas contas bancárias.

28. Começam a sair às escondidas como adolescentes

If you’re married or live together, you’ve probably also noticed they’re sneaking out of the house late at night. I don’t need to say that it’s obvious they’re hiding something from you.

If they weren’t hiding something, they wouldn’t be sneaking behind your back. No matter how much you love them, you need to admit it’s very suspicious behavior.

29. Passam demasiado tempo com aquele amigo do sexo oposto

Já reparou que o seu parceiro se tornou demasiado próximo de um colega de trabalho ou de um amigo do sexo oposto? Passam demasiado tempo juntos e estão sempre a enviar mensagens de texto um ao outro?

It’s not definite, but it’s a very bom sinal o teu SO está a trair-te com essa pessoa.

Maybe they haven’t done anything yet, but I think it’s clear they like each other and that sooner or later they’ll be together. It’s still traição emocional, and in my opinion, it’s the worst tipo de batota.

30. Querem ir de férias com os amigos, não consigo

Did you always spend your vacations and holidays together? Has that also changed? I’m assuming it is because it’s actually a huge sign you’re dealing with a cheater.

They say they want to spend these vacays with their friends, but it’s probably just another one of their lies. They’ll most likely be spending those vacations with their lover while using their friends as just a front.

31. De pássaro madrugador, transformam-se em coruja nocturna

Este é um sinal muito interessante de um parceiro traidor e provavelmente um dos mais óbvios. If you have been dating an early bird who has transformed into a night owl all of a sudden, you’re probably dating a batoteiro.

Há uma razão que os mantém acordados à noite. E, infelizmente, essa razão é provavelmente outro ser humano.

32. Fazem um grande alarido de tudo

And why do you think that is so? Of course, it’s only because they want to initiate fights on purpose.

Eles querem enlouquecê-lo fazendo um grande coisa de tudo. With time, it’ll make your relationship toxic, and you won’t have any other choice but to break up with them.

33. They’re either overly jealous or not jealous at all

Algo que todos os especialistas em relações lhe dirão é que uma dose normal de ciúmes pode, na verdade, beneficiar a sua relação. It’s a sign a person cares for their partner and is afraid of losing them.

However, if your SO has become overly jealous lately, or if they don’t show jealousy at all, it’s a sign something is off between you.

They’re aware of what they’ve done and know you would leave them if you find out, and that fear of losing you makes them jealous of everyone around you.

On the flip side, the reason they don’t show they’re jealous at all may be because they don’t care about you anymore and have another person in their life.

34. De repente, chamar nomes é uma coisa normal

Has your partner ever insulted you or called you names before? No? But they’re doing it now, right?

Infelizmente, esse abuso verbal é também um dos 49 sinais de um parceiro de traição. Their feelings have probably shifted onto another person, and that’s why they don’t care about how their behavior will affect you anymore.

Also, it may be their way of trying to make you break up with them. And whether they do it because they’re cheating on you or not, you shouldn’t put up with their toxic behavior.

Don’t ever allow anyone to abuse you in any way, regardless of the feelings you have for that person.

35. Nunca foram tão carinhosos e atenciosos

É claro que não há nada de mau no facto de um parceiro ser carinhoso com o seu companheiro.

No entanto, se notar a maioria destes sinais e se o seu parceiro se tornou mais atento de repente, deve encará-lo como um red flag that they’re arrepender-se de algo.

Infelizmente, mesmo um comportamento afetuoso repentino pode ser um sinal de marido traidor/esposa.

36. Outra pessoa avisou-o da sua infidelidade

Has another person ever tried to warn you about your significant other’s infidelity? Maybe you didn’t believe them back then because you didn’t notice the signs of your partner’s betrayal, but now you’ve actually started to think about what that person told you.

Seria uma boa ideia voltar a falar sobre o assunto com essa pessoa. Try to find out what they know, and maybe they’ll lead you to the evidence of your partner’s infidelity.

37. Quando os acusas de serem infiéis, eles ficam calados

Já alguma vez o confrontou com as suas dúvidas? Qual foi a reação deles quando lhes disse que achava que eles estavam a ser infiéis?

If they didn’t say a thing, if they didn’t even try to defend themself or deny your accusations, it’s probably because they didn’t have the guts to admit the truth but also didn’t want to lie to you.

Por outras palavras, o seu silêncio só significa uma coisa: o seu parceiro está a traí-lo.

38. Ou então, acusam-no da mesma coisa

Por outro lado, se o seu parceiro tentou transferir a culpa para si and accuse you of being unfaithful, it may also be a sign they’re indeed cheating on you.

Essa transferência de culpa é simplesmente a sua forma de se tentarem defender. It’s also a form of manipulation – they want to make you feel bad and make you think that you’re the one to blame for all the problems and issues in your relationship.

39. Tudo o que fazes ou dizes está errado

Have you gotten to the point where you don’t know how to behave anymore because it seems like everything you say or do bothers your partner?

I’m sorry to break it out to you, but it’s a mau sinal há algo de estranho na vossa relação. I agree that it doesn’t have to mean they’re cheating on you, but they definitely don’t care about you the way they did before.

40. Criticam-no a si e à sua relação a toda a hora

Alguma vez foram demasiado críticos como estão a ser agora? Tiveram tendência para julgar cada passo que davam no início da vossa relação?

I’m sure they didn’t, and if they have started doing it now, it’s obvious something has changed when it comes to their feelings about you.

Provavelmente, querem livrar-se de si e da sua relação e seguir com a vida deles, e querem obrigá-lo a acabar com ela, criticando-o constantemente.

41. They don’t respect or ask for your opinion anymore

It’s probably because they have another person whose opinion they care about more. They know you won’t be part of their life anymore pretty soon, and that’s why they don’t care about your opinion.

They’ll probably make some decisions that might shock you, but you shouldn’t allow them to disturb your peace of mind.

42. Recusa-se a ir consigo a um terapeuta familiar

You’re aware that your relationship is going in the wrong direction, and you want to move it back in the right direction. You suggest aconselhamento de casaismas o seu parceiro recusa imediatamente.

Unfortunately, many people don’t believe that therapy can help them or their relationships. However, you need to be persistent, and if your partner keeps refusing, it’s a sign of how much (little) they care for you and your relationship.

43. You feel like you don’t recognize them at all anymore

If you’ve been dating for a long time, you probably thought you knew your partner. However, judging by their behavior lately, you get the feeling that you don’t know them at all.

When a partner hides something from their other half, it’s normal for their behavior to change. You just can’t hide something from a person you’ve spent so much time with for so long. It’s simply impossible.

44. It’s obvious they don’t care for you like they used to

You’re aware that your relationship has changed a lot lately. In the beginning, they tried really hard to prove they cared for you, but now, all of that has disappeared.

You’re no longer their priority, and you feel like they don’t care for you at all anymore. I know it makes you sad, but you should also be aware that it may be because of so many other reasons. It doesn’t have to mean they’re definitely cheating on you.

45. Também traíram os seus ex-parceiros

This is also a warning sign your partner may be cheating on you. When a person cheats once, there’s a good chance they’ll do it again.

Seria bom se pudesse descobrir algo mais sobre a sua relação passada com a infidelidade.

If they’re repeating some of those patterns again, then things are pretty clear… They’re cheating on you just like they did their exes.

46. They’ve suggested taking a relationship break

They don’t want an actual breakup but a relationship break. Meaning that they need time to figure out what is happening in their heart and mind and to choose a side.

It’s up to you whether you’ll accept that relationship break or not. Mas o meu conselho é que, sempre que uma pessoa sentir a necessidade de escolher entre si e outra pessoa, deve deixá-la escolher essa outra pessoa.

If they loved you, they wouldn’t feel the need to choose in the first place!

47. A verdade é que já nenhum dos dois é feliz na vossa relação

Maybe you’re trying to suppress it deep down, or you’re ignoring it, but the truth is, you aren’t happy with your partner anymore. And it’s clear you don’t make them happy either.

It may be because you’ve noticed these possible signs of their infidelity. Unfortunately, that isn’t important anymore.

A única coisa importante é que já não se fazem felizes um ao outro e, seja qual for a razão por detrás disso, só devem pensar em resolvê-la ou em terminar a vossa relação.

48. They use the good old ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ excuse

I swear this is the most wrong, lamest way to break up with someone. It’s like you’re trying to comfort them by blaming yourself even though it’s obvious that you’re the one to blame.

However, it’s possible that your partner regrets the way they betrayed you, and they’re aware of how much they hurt you.

Esta desculpa para acabar com a relação revela definitivamente que a pessoa se sente mal por algo que lhe fez e que também se sente mal por acabar com a vossa relação.

49. Deep down, you know for sure they’re cheating on you

If your gut is telling you that something wrong is going on in your relationship, it’s a bad sign that your partner is really doing something bad behind your back.

Unfortunately, many people decide to ignore their inner voice and gut feeling because they think it can’t be true.

However, the fact is, if you don’t have a reason to doubt them, your gut feeling wouldn’t be so loud, and it wouldn’t be so desperately trying to warn you about your SO’s betrayal.

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O que fazer se suspeitar que o seu parceiro o está a trair?

O próximo passo lógico seria apanhar o batoteiro. You can’t just break up with someone because your doubts aren’t backed up with legit proof.

Of course, these signs of infidelity can help you figure out whether your partner is cheating on you. However, even if you’ve recognized most of these signs, you still need to find real shreds of evidence.

Se descobrir que a sua cara-metade lhe está a ser infiel, a última coisa que deve fazer é ficar calado e não fazer nada.

You need to confront them, listen to what they have to say in their defense, and decide whether you’ll forgive them or seguir em frente dessa relação.

Deve estar ciente de uma coisa: seguir em frente com uma relação depois de um caso emocional é tudo menos fácil. No entanto, acabar com alguém que amamos sinceramente e deixá-lo no passado é definitivamente ainda mais difícil.

De qualquer forma, a decisão é tua e deves ter muito cuidado ao falar sobre o assunto!

Uma nota final

Have you recognized most of these 49 signs of a cheating partner in your relationship? If you have, then, unfortunately, I have bad news for you… Your significant other is most likely being unfaithful to you.

This isn’t the end of the world for you, and it most definitely doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship. Se ama o seu parceiro e acha que o pode perdoar, faça-o e tente corrigir e salvar a vossa relação.

There definitely isn’t a reasonable explanation for their betrayal, but you should give them a chance to tell you what made them do it. Se quiser seguir em frente com a vossa relação, têm de a ultrapassar e deixá-la para trás.

Focus on your future and work on your relationship so something like this never happens again. And if you just can’t forgive your partner, then focus on yourself… Heal and move on by yourself.