Lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer: más de 80 frases que debe evitar

Las palabras duras no rompen huesos, pero sí corazones.

Sadly, every spouse often forgets about this and says hurtful things they don’t really mean just to leave the other partner feeling heartbroken.

La verdad es que todos matrimonios luchapero si quieres ser the world’s best husbandhay algunas frases que nunca deberías decirle a tu mujer.

Entonces, ¿qué es exactamente lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer? Bueno, según los expertos en relaciones, hay muchas frases que entran en esta lista.

Lo que los maridos no deben decir a sus mujeres

Ningún marido debe faltar al respeto a su mujer ni disminuir su valor en modo alguno. Remember: no insult is acceptable. You’re not allowed to belittle her by telling her that she’s stupid, unattractive, fat, or uninteresting.

Además, como buen marido, you should avoid saying things that will make her question your love for her. Don’t ever let her think you’re no más enamoradocon ella.

It’s perfectly normal if you two disagree about something. However, there is no need for ser mezquino. Don’t try to put her down – it won’t lift you up!

Lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer: la lista definitiva

I don’t care how angry you get: you simply mustn’t say any of these things unless you want to destruir su matrimonio!

1. I’ve never loved you

Translation: I hate you and I’m saying this to hurt your feelings. ¿Quién quiere estar en un matrimonio sin amor?

2. Me arrepiento del día en que me casé contigo

¡Ay! Esta duele, and it’s probably the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.

3. Quería a mi ex-mujer más que a ti

Don’t compare your partner to anyone¡y mucho menos con la persona con la que estuviste casada antes!

4. Todos mis buenos amigos y familiares tenían razón cuando me dijeron que no me casara contigo.

You know this is her weak spot, so don’t use it even if you’re fighting. You should protect her from your loved ones who clearly don’t like her.

5. Ojalá me hubiera casado con mi novia del instituto

Again, with the exes. Don’t mention them EVER!

6. ¿Por qué tengo que decirte que te quiero todo el rato, si ya te lo dije una vez?

Women need to hear these three magical words, even though you’re probably showing your love with action. You need to tell her you’re todavía enamorado ¡con ella! Sobre todo si su lenguaje del amor son palabras de afecto.

7. It’s no surprise your mother-in-law doesn’t love you

No importa lo enfadado que estés, don’t bring your mother to the table. Créeme, tarde o temprano te saldrá el tiro por la culata.

8. Desearía poder borrar todos nuestros años de matrimonio

Once again, you’re telling her desearías no haberte casado nunca ella, y probablemente la odio.

9. You’re completely worthless

It’s your job to aumentar su autoestimapara no arruinarlo aún más. Dale validación ¡si ella lo pide!

10. Me resulta más interesante desplazarme por las redes sociales que pasar tiempo contigo

Los matrimonios caen en la rutina. Sin embargo trabajar para animar las cosas en lugar de culpar a tu mujer por ello.

11. You’re a terrible cook

She is doing her best. Besides, she didn’t become your personal chef when she said “I do”. If you don’t like her cooking, make your own meals.

12. Será mejor que adelgaces

Pídele que te acompañe al gimnasio o algo así de sutil en lugar de insultarla de esta manera.

13. You’re a bad mother and I wish I never had children with you

Well, maybe she’d be better at it if she had some help from you.

14. I don’t know what got into my head when I married you

This is a common line people say to each other when they’re fighting, but trust me, it’s the worst thing a husband can say to his wife.

15. It’s no wonder you have self-esteem issues. I mean, just look at yourself

Pase lo que pase, don’t kick her so low and insult her physical appearance. And, don’t mira a otras mujeres ¡en su presencia!

16. Look at my good friend. Don’t you see how his wife treats him? Why can’t you be the same?

¿Recuerdas que te dije que no compararas a tu mujer con tus ex parejas? Pues bien, don’t you dare compare her with other “better” wives either!

17. I’m loaded with the stress of work. I can’t deal with your problems right now

Deberías siempre encuentra tiempo para ella. Even though her problems might seem foolish to you, they’re obviously bothering her – otherwise, she wouldn’t bring them up.

18. You don’t work. All you do is take care of the house and the kids. That’s not a real job

Esto es probablemente lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer. Créeme: está haciendo mucho más de lo que se ve. Don’t underestimate the effort she is giving to your family.

19. Todo lo malo en nuestro matrimonio es culpa tuya

Noticia de última hora: things going downhill is never one partner’s fault. You’re both to blame for the state of your marriage so don’t darle la vuelta a todo! It’s impossible that you’re el que no hace nada malo.

20. Echo de menos mi vida de soltero

This translates to: “Ojalá estuviera soltera para poder acostarme con todo el que quiera.”

21. That woman is more beautiful than you. Why can’t you look like her?

You chose your wife, and it’s disrespectful to say that some other woman is prettier than her – even if we’re talking about a supermodel.

22. Ojalá me hubiera casado con mi ex novia

Well, you haven’t.

23. No eras nadie hasta que me conociste

Again with the belittling! Trust me – lo estaba haciendo bien sin ti.

24. I can’t sleep with you anymore

You’ll just ruin her self-esteem with this one.

25. You’re not my best friend

Por supuesto, debes tener tus amigos varones. Pero, ella quiere pensar en sí misma como tu mejor amiga.

26. It’s not such a big deal. Don’t you see that you’re overreacting?

Si le dolióes un gran problema y deberías tratarlo como tal.

27. Aren’t you being too emotional?

No, she’s not – she’s just expressing her feelings.

28. When I saw you for the first time, I didn’t like you

Todas las mujeres quieren creer en cuentos de hadas. En vez de esto, dile que te ha dejado con la boca abierta.

29. Terminé casándome contigo sólo porque eras conveniente...

If you’re looking for the worst thing a husband can say to his wife, you’ve probably found it.

30. I don’t want to visit the marriage counselor. I think we’re doing just fine

No, you’re not; su el matrimonio está roto. Otherwise, she wouldn’t propose marriage counseling in the first place.

31. Our sex life is awful and it’s your fault

Guess what: you’re both responsible for intimidad física en su matrimonio. If you’re not satisfied with it, trae algo de chispa a tu dormitorio.

32. I don’t want to take you out on a date night. We’re married; what’s the point of date nights anyhow?

Sólo porque te casaste con ella doesn’t mean that you should stop seduciéndola y ser romántico.

33. Me conformé con menos cuando me casé contigo

What makes you think you’re better than her? Trust me: you’re not. In fact, maybe she settled for less when she married you… she just never told you.

34. Yo era nunca estuve enamorado de ti. Sólo te pedí que te casaras conmigo porque mi reloj biológico estaba corriendo

Esta duele como el infierno. Significa que toda su vida contigo es una mentira.

35. Me engañaste para que me casara contigo

Ah, y tú eras tan ingenuo. What makes you think it wasn’t the other way around?

36. It’s no wonder your ex-husband left you

Don’t tackle her painful past. And, if you do, don’t forget one thing: She replaced him… she might as well replace you!

37. I don’t think we have a happy marriage and I’m not willing to do anything about improving it

En infeliz con su matrimonio is one thing. Telling your significant other you’re not planning on doing anything to guardarlo just means you’re a jerk.

38. It’s not something you need to know. Let me have my own secrets!

You don’t have to share every little thing with your wife, especially if it doesn’t concern your marriage. However, this is not the way to say it!

39. Quiero ocultar nuestro matrimonio en las redes sociales. Por qué debería publicar fotos contigo?

Traducción: Quiero que mi redes sociales seguidores que piensen que soy soltero, así puedo ser infiel sin muchos problemas.

40. I wanted a divorce last year, but I stayed because I didn’t know where else to go

Well, if you hadn’t brought it up then, what’s the point of mentioning it now?

41. You’re the worst part of my life. If it weren’t for you, I’d be much happier

Adivina: she’s your choice.

42. I don’t want to hang out with other married couples. I want to go clubbing on my own all the time

Traducción: I hate the fact that we’re a pareja casada. Quiero volver a ser soltera.

43. That’s your problem. Learn to deal with it instead of asking me for help all the time

You two are a team, and it’s about time you start acting that way.

44. I didn’t get you anything for our anniversary. Don’t be mad… who keeps track of those dates anymore?

I don’t care how long you two have been together: tu mujer siempre espera algo para una cita importante. It doesn’t have to be an expensive gift; it’s the thought that counts.

I’m not talking about tu aniversario here only. It’s the same about her birthday, Christmas, or Valentine’s day.

45. You don’t need time for self-care. You’re always with the kids. It’s not like you have a real job.

That’s exactly why she needs extra time for self-care; so she doesn’t go insane.

46. I don’t see the need to consult with you. I’ll do what I want anyhow

What’s the point of having a significant other? In that case, you should have just stayed single.

47. I don’t care about your feelings

Traducción: I’m a marido egoístay sólo me importa mi propio bienestar.

48. Supéralo; ¡ya ocurrió el año pasado!

If it still bothers her, it means you haven’t resolved it in a healthy way.

49. I can’t stand looking at you.

You’re just bringing her insecurities to the surface. As angry as you are right now, please don’t ever tell her this.

50. I’m in love with someone else

You don’t have to do anything about it – asuntos emocionales duelen lo mismo que las físicas. If you tell her you’re enamorado de otra persona, you’ll break her heart.

51. I slept with another woman, but it didn’t mean anything so you shouldn’t make a fuss about it

As if being unfaithful weren’t enough, you have the audacity to act like it’s not a gran cosa.

52. I’m better than you in everything

Socavar su valor won’t make you feel better about yourself, and it won’t turn you into a marido dominante.

53. It’s no wonder the kids love me more than they love you

Don’t ever play this card. The kids probably “love” you more because pretendes ser el poli bueno alrededor de la casa.

54. If I hadn’t married you, you’d die alone. I mean, who else would have wanted you?

You’re implying that you did her a favor when you married her. What woman wouldn’t be crushed after hearing this?

55. Don’t take it so personally

It doesn’t matter what you did; since it was directed to you, she’ll take it personally.

56. You’re better with the kids than I am

Traducción: I’m giving you a compliment so I could avoid my responsibilities as a father.

57. I remember how you were when we first met. Why can’t you look like that again?

Te diré por qué: Porque probablemente se pasa el día cocinando, limpiando y cuidando de los niños.

Besides, you see her when she wakes up, when she is sick, or when she is dead tired. You can’t expect her to look the same as the woman you were seeing a few times a week on date nights can you?

58. ¿Cuándo dejarás de regañarme?

It’s not like she enjoys it. But, I guess she has no other choice because you’re clearly not making any changes in your behavior.

59. ¿De verdad vas a salir con esa ropa?

Traducción: Estás horrible.

60. ¿Qué has dicho?

Traducción: I wasn’t paying attention, and I deliberately wasn’t listening because I was scrolling through redes sociales o viendo la televisión. Básicamente, todo es más interesante que tú.

61. I can’t take out the trash right now

Vamos, it’s probably the only thing you do around the house. Don’t expect her to take over that chore as well.

62. I’ll do it in a minute

Todos sabemos you won’t. You’re just saying it to get her off your neck or in hopes she’ll do it instead. Well, guess what: she knows you’re lying, and that’s why this sentence upsets her so much.

63. ¿Has terminado?

Esto es sin competencia el lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer en el dormitorio. First of all, you’re pressuring her to finish. Secondly, if you ponerla de humor, she’d probably get there sooner.

64. I know I promised, but I just didn’t find the time

Traducción: Lo olvidé. O, I didn’t think keeping my promise to you was important enough.

65. Can’t you just calm down?

Esta es universal, pero también se aplica a tu mujer. Recuerda: lo peor que puede decirle un marido a su mujer en pleno ataque de nervios es que se calme. Lo haría si pudiera.

66. I don’t think we have to talk about it

Si quiere hablar de ello, significa que le importa. Escúchala, aunque sólo sea eso.

67. I won’t apologize

Hombres emocionalmente maduros diga they’re sorry cuando meten la pata. It’s about time you join the club.

68. I’m sorry you felt that way

¡Incorrecto! Usted debería lamentarlo por hacer algo mal ¡en primer lugar!

69. ¿Es agradable no tener que preocuparse por las finanzas?

Déjame darte una respuesta en lugar de ella: ¿Es agradable no tener que pagar un chef personal, una señora de la limpieza, una secretaria y una niñera?

70. I’m sick and tired of hearing the same things over and over again

Bien, you wouldn’t be hearing them if you paid attention for the primera vez.

71. You’re slowly becoming just like your mother

I bet she adores her mother, but don’t compare the two. Unless you want to start a huge fight, that is.

72. ¿De verdad te vas a comer todo eso?

Sí, lo hará. Y, no hay absolutamente ningún propósito de señalarlo aparte de ofenderla.

73. Su hijo/a hizo algo

Oh, now it’s her son or daughter just because they did something you don’t approve of. But, when they make you proud, they’re daddy’s children, aren’t they?

74. ¿Por qué la casa tiene este aspecto? 75. ¿Qué has estado haciendo todo el día?

If you don’t like what you see, start cleaning and tidying it up; it’s as simple as that.

75. Quiero un matrimonio abierto

Así que, básicamente desea que la licencia ser infiel? Look, it’s one thing if you two had an relación abierta desde el principio.

In that case, it’s clear that you’re both up to it. But, coming with this kind of suggestion out of the blue is a big, fat no.

76. When I need your opinion, I’ll ask for it

You’re just being rude and no la mujer quiere un marido irrespetuoso. Agree to disagree, but don’t ever say something like this.

77. Quiero a todos los miembros de mi familia más que a ti

First of all, you shouldn’t compare these types of love. Secondly, this implies that she is not your family. Thirdly, nunca podrás elige a tu familia antes que a ella.

78. Sólo me casé contigo porque estabas embarazada

¿Ha oído hablar alguna vez de la coparentalidad? Era tu responsabilidad cuidar de tu hijo nonato, pero nadie te obligaba a casarte con su madre. It was your choice, and it’s unnecessary to bring it up now.

79. Can’t you be better in bed?

Esto es probablemente lo peor que un marido puede decirle a su mujer. Créeme: hay muchas otras formas más educadas de expresar tu descontento en el dormitorio.

80. You’re not the first woman to go through childbirth. Toughen up a little

Repite conmigo: Sin útero – sin opinión

81. You wouldn’t get it

Traducción: you’re too stupid to understand it. I’m smarter than you just because I am a man.

82. Estar cerca de ti solía ser divertido

You can’t expect her to be the same careless young girl she was when you met her. Now, she has tons of problems bothering her, which hacerla muy negativa. Just make sure you’re not one of them!

83. Quiero divorciarme

Nobody wants to hear this. But, if you’re wondering si debes divorciartetienes que decirlo en voz alta.

Sin embargo, please don’t say it just to hurt her feelings. These words have a lot of meaning, and don’t pronounce this sentence if you’re not completely sure tu matrimonio ha terminado.

What’s the worst thing you can do to your wife?

Ser abusivo, egoísta, irrespetuoso e infiel son probablemente las peores cosas que puedes hacerle a tu mujer. Sin embargo, no quererla lo suficiente ¡le romperá el corazón más que cualquier otra cosa!