Finding out that something is off in your relationship is not the easiest thing to handle.

After you have spent so many years with your partner, you think there is nothing that can shake your relationship but then, all of a sudden, you see him distancing himself from you.

You are trying to get close to him and seduce him but every time you try something he cuts you off, saying that he wants to watch a movie or that he is tired.

You catch yourself worrying about why your guy doesn’t want any physical contact with you and wondering if he is still attracted to you.

You can’t live normally because this is something that is bothering you and you don’t know how to solve your problem.

Well, if you have experienced something like this, the best thing you can do is be honest about your feelings.

Ask your partner what is happening and why he is acting so distant. Even if the answer is a bad one, at least you will know it.

But when we are talking about the real reasons some men can become distant, here is a list of the most common ones.

He has someone else

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This is one of the most common reasons why your man doesn’t want to sleep with you.

Less sex than usual can lead you to the fact that your man has someone on the side.

All the love and affection he should give to you he is giving to someone else and you feel so bad about it.

You ask yourself why he is not attracted to you anymore and why you are not enough for him.

You can’t believe that after all that you have gone through he has found someone else and that your love story doesn’t mean anything to him.

Even if you will feel like crap at that moment, you should react to what is happening to you.

You should talk openly to your partner because that is the only way you can solve the problem.

And if you can’t find any middle ground at least you will know how to cope with all the emotions that are inside you.

He might not be able to get over problems from the past

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If you and your partner were faced with some problems in the past and you decided to move on, maybe he lost interest in sleeping with you because it still hurts him emotionally.

If he is not connected with you on an emotional level, he won’t be able to do that on a physical either.

Again, the best way to find the root of the problem is with a calm conversation.

You shouldn’t overreact immediately because he might be suffering more than you thought.

Instead, try to have a calm and normal conversation like two adults and be open about your problems.

That is the only way you can get to where you want to go. Maybe in some cases, you won’t be able to continue the relationship but at least you will know what the main problem is.

You are not at the same emotional level as him

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Maybe your man thinks that you are not interested because your behavior doesn’t show that he is the most important person in your life.

If you are always working and if you are busy with your friends, it is normal that he will think that you don’t want him like before.

He might be having a war inside his head but never actually telling you anything about that.

So, when you try to get close to him, he will immediately pull back because he will think that you only do so when you need something.

That can be a valid reason for not sleeping with you but it is just because both of you are thinking of something that is not the truth.

Communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship and if you are more open about everything that you are going through, you won’t have any problems like this.

He has problems at work and is stressed out

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Trust me, when a guy has problems at work, being intimate with you will be the last thing on his mind.

He will think about solving the problem all the time and he won’t be able to focus on you.

That’s why he won’t be interested in sleeping with you at all. Guys behave like this when they have some problems that they have to solve.

Not only will they become physically distant but they will also pull back emotionally.

A guy will never admit to his partner that he has a problem because he thinks that will make him vulnerable but in fact, only open communication is the way to solve anything that is bothering him.

If you notice that he doesn’t talk to you that much and that he prefers spending time alone, you should ask him if you can help.

Maybe he just needs a little push to open up to you and to work things out.

He has medical issues

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Your man may pull away from you if he has some medical problem he doesn’t want to talk about.

It is known that a partner often hides all their problems from their loved one because they don’t want to make them worry.

If you see that your man is acting distant and that you don’t recognize him anymore, you should do something about it.

Changing the routine in your relationship or spending more time with him might work and he might revert to the old version of himself.

The most important thing is that you are his biggest support in case he has a medical issue. Everything is much easier when it is done as a couple.

He is not attracted to you anymore

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One reason why your man is not sleeping with you can be because he is not attracted to you anymore.

People change over time and he might be going through some phase in his life where he doesn’t know what he wants.

If he is not attracted to you because your body changed because of pregnancy, then he is a real douchebag who doesn’t deserve you.

Any guy should make a monument to the woman who gave him kids and if a man doesn’t know to cherish that, then he doesn’t deserve you.

If you are worried because of him pulling away and if he tells you that he doesn’t want you anymore, there is no need to waste your time on a man like that.

Leave him while you still can because he doesn’t deserve your presence, not even for a minute.

6 Sad Reasons Why He Doesn't Want To Sleep With You