“What are you up to?” “How are you?” “I’m thinking about you.” Read these three sentences carefully because they are a great example of how not to text a girl you like.
Winning a girl is a true art in itself, which means you need to master the art of texting her the right way! Did you know that different text messages and texting patterns evoke different reactions?
That means even one inappropriate emoji or a sexy message could make her feel insulted and give her the wrong impression of you.
For example, let’s say that she’s feeling off, and you keep sending her tons of happy emojis in the hope of cheering her up and making her feel better.
GUESS WHAT? Doing this will only annoy her, and she could stop texting you for some time.
You would end up worrying about what you have done wrong and how you can fix the situation.
To keep this and other potential mistakes from happening, read the following paragraphs CAREFULLY that will teach you how to text her the right way and make her want you badly!
How often should you text a girl?
Do you think that texting her every day, or better yet, every single minute, will catch her attention and make her think of you 24/7? Think again.
Or do you think that texting her once a week or month will make her want to text you because she will fight harder to catch your attention? Think again, again.
When it comes to texting a girl you like, FREQUENCY plays an important role in how she will perceive you.
If you text her too much, you’ll definitely scare her off. If you text her too little, she will think that you have more important things to do, and she’s not on your list of priorities (not even at the bottom of it).
In other words, texting her too much will make her think that you have nothing else going on in your life, which is not attractive at all.
Texting her too little will make her believe that you’re playing games with her, and after some time, she’ll lose interest and forget about you completely.
Your best bet is to find a balance between these two texting extremes.
Exchanging a few text messages per day is okay (I’m sure you’ll remember this because it even rhymes).
Remember that you don’t need to text her every single day. You can tell her that you’re busy at the moment and you’ll get back to her when you can.
This will let her know that you have other important and exciting things to deal with instead of only texting with her, and that’s really HOT.
She will appreciate you being honest with her, and you will also create anticipation because she won’t know when exactly you will get back to her.
While you’re ‘virtually absent,’ she will think about what exactly you’re doing at the moment. The more she thinks about you, the more she’ll miss you, and that’s the goal you want to reach.
They say that people fall in love with each other’s absence and not presence. She might not fall in love with you (especially if you just started texting), but she’ll definitely think about you a lot and miss you like crazy.
What should you text a girl you like?
Another important thing you need to pay attention to is the CONTENT of your text messages. Understand that women experience texting differently than men.
I don’t mean to be rude now, but Lord knows that only one hot pic is enough to make a girl attractive to a guy.
With women, things are not that simple. Why? Because the female species pays more attention to details and to feel attracted to you, they need to connect with you.
If you only send her pics of yourself, this will not make her feel connected to you. Therefore, she will not be attracted to you. It’s simple math, really.
Here are some most important TEXTING RULES to remember:
• No unsolicited pictures
The first rule is pretty much self-explanatory.
• Have a sense of humor
The second rule is (if you ask me) probably the most essential rule for catching her attention and making her want you.
Basically, if you know how to make a girl laugh via texting or in person, there’s nothing you should be worried about.
By making her laugh, you will make her addicted to texting with you because she’ll want more and more.
Every time she’s about to open a text message from you, she’ll be so excited about its contents. But make sure not to overdo it when it comes to being humorous.
• Be interesting
Also, make sure to keep things INTERESTING! There are so many ways to catch and hold her attention during a conversation, and some of them are sending her special thinking of you messages or good night paragraphs.
Let’s say that you send her something like this: “Whatever I do, I can’t get you out of my mind, but I suppose you belong there.”
Letting her know that you’re thinking of her will make her feel super special, and you will help her create that connection she needs to establish to feel attracted to you.
• No creepiness
Creepiness is a broad term, and it encompasses a lot of things.
For example, bombarding her with tons of text messages even though she’s not texting you back, sending her aggressive text messages, sending tons of emojis in one text message (if you ask me, that’s the creepiest thing a guy could do, and it’s a huge turn off).
In three words: Don’t be creepy. Before doing something, think about how she might perceive it, and you’ll be just fine.
• Be romantic
Instead of being creepy, your girl would appreciate it if you tried to be more romantic. I understand that not every guy is a natural romantic, but luckily that’s no longer a problem.
Well, it would be if we weren’t living in modern times like these.
Today, we have a wide array of virtual text examples that only need to be copy-pasted and sent as a text message. Becoming a romantic soul is only one click away.
If you’re wondering which romantic messages are every girl’s favorite, it’s love notes for her. Just imagine sending her the following romantic love note: “Close your eyes, clear your mind, and listen closely as the stars climb the night sky to hang above your restful sleep. Good night my dear!”
If you send her something like this, she will know that you’re a unicorn man who knows how to express his feelings creatively and make a woman feel appreciated.
She will see that you’ve made an effort to find a special message for her to make her day.
• Make her feel special
Making a girl want you is all about making her feel special. Remember that women notice every single detail in the virtual world and the real world as well.
Constantly sending plain texts without emojis will make her think that you’re not making an effort and you don’t care about making your texts look interesting.
Always talking about yourself will make her think that you’re an egocentric person and that you don’t care about her at all.
How do you make her feel special?
One of the easiest and most popular ways to make a girl feel special is by surprising her with good morning texts for her, good night texts for her, and other texts that will let her know you’re thinking about her.
Yup. The essence of making her feel special is letting her know she’s on your mind. Do that, and you’ll make her attracted to you in no time!
If you’re having fun texting her, then you know you’re doing it right!
If you’re not sure whether you’re being annoying or ultra-fun while texting, the easiest way to find out is to ask yourself: Am I enjoying it?
If you’re having fun while texting her, she will be having fun too. Think of texting as a game. If you don’t enjoy playing it, the opposite player won’t enjoy it either.
When it comes to the art of texting with a girl, the most important thing to remember is being moderate, interesting, and romantic.
If you can find a way to combine all these three aspects without appearing too creepy, then you know you’re doing it right.
Joking aside, you know you’re doing it right if she still texts you back. So, as long as she regularly replies to your messages, there’s nothing you should be worried about.