Acting like you don’t care is not attractive. Not calling me for days is not attractive. Texting me only when you are drunk and alone doesn’t make me want you more.

Playing hot and cold, not making time for me, going in and out of my life so my only occupation in life is waiting for you is not attractive. So please put a stop to it.

If you want to be truly attractive, make an effort. Make all the necessary efforts. Show me you care. That’s what sexy is all about.

Be brutally honest about how you feel about me. Don’t hide your feelings and pretend like they don’t exist.

Tell me you couldn’t wait for another second to be with me, and knock at my door in the middle of the day. Bring my favorite chocolate bar with you.

Send me a cute text during your busiest day just to let me know you are thinking about me. Call me on your lunch break just to hear my voice for a second.

Do whatever—just show me you care.

I am tired of guys who think that the way to my heart or my bed is by making me decipher their mixed signals.

I don’t want more lame ass excuses, poor investments, nights spent crying and thinking that someone must have put some bad spell on me because I can’t catch a break when it comes to love.

I am tired of those who act as if they are the only ones who matter and that only their stories are worth telling. The ones who think it’s ok to drop out of the blue into my life when they find it most convenient.

I need someone who will be there for me at all times. Through boring and fun. Through good, bad, sweet and ugly. Someone who accepts me the way I accept him—with all the flaws and virtues.

I need someone who will make plans for us. It can be whatever—tickets to see a movie, going on a road trip, enjoying a concert, a quiet Netflix and chill night at home, a meal he himself prepared or anything really. The important thing is that it shows effort.

I need someone who is genuine and kind-hearted. Someone who is worried when I am coming down with the flu. Someone who loves nothing more than making me laugh so hard that my stomach hurts.

I need someone who will forget that he brought his phone with him because he is too busy looking into my eyes, because he is too busy talking to me.

I need someone who will go above and beyond when he does something wrong. Someone who is genuinely sorry for hurting my feelings in any way. Someone who feels for me as I do for him.

I need someone to be happy with now at this very moment. I don’t want somebody who keeps me waiting to feed me with false promises of our future together.

I need someone who doesn’t fear relationships. Someone who is sure about his feelings. Someone whose heart beats louder when he is with me. Someone who knows that I am not perfect, but I am even more special to him because of it.

I need more than empty words. I need actions. I need a man who will do what he says he will do. Someone I can trust entirely and feel safe with.

That’s the man I can be with. That’s the man that will captivate my heart forever because there is nothing sexier than a man who makes an effort.

And for that man, I will do whatever it takes. I will appreciate his efforts and put in my own. I won’t hold back. Everything he gives will be reciprocated. He will be all that I think of. He will be the only one that I want.