15 Maneras De Volver Locos A Los Narcisistas Y Jugar Con Ellos

When you’re dealing with someone que tiene NPD...asumes que no hay nada que puedas hacer para herirles emocionalmente. Incluso cuando lo intentas, siempre encuentran la manera de que te salga el tiro por la culata.

But I’m here to end your misery. Once you learn what drives a narcissist insane, you can give them a taste of their own medicine and reverse the roles once and for all!

¡Estas 15 tácticas te ayudarán a volver loco a tu narcisista!

1. El tratamiento silencioso

If you’re looking for formas de herir a alguien que muestra un comportamiento narcisista, the best way to do so is by ignoring them. Yes, that’s right, I’m telling you to give them the tratamiento silencioso.

Desde que tienes uso de razón, has dado tu madre narcisistapadre o pareja exactamente lo que querían de ti. Lloraste, les rogaste que cambiaran o discutiste con ellos hasta que perdiste todas tus fuerzas.

And what did you accomplish with this? That’s right, one big, fat nothing. So, why wouldn’t you change tactics? Why wouldn’t you try ignoring them and behaving like they don’t exist?

Trust me, this is what will trigger their narcissistic rage in the blink of an eye. And that’s when you’ll have them right where you want them.

2. Perder el control

¿Qué tienen en común todas las personas con NPD? Entre otras cosas, uno de sus objetivos finales es tener el control sobre sus víctimas.

Los narcisistas, sociópatas y psicópatas emocionales will get possessive because they’re scared of losing control over you. You have to be aware that you’re dealing with fanáticos del control. Todo tiene que ser a su manera o de ninguna manera en absoluto.

That’s why you must show them that they can’t rule over you. You’re the only one in charge of your own life. How do you do that? Well, you can start by disobeying them about some seemingly little things.

Sin embargo, lo más importante es demostrarles que ya no tienen influencia sobre ti. Al menos, no tanta como solían tener.

3. Aceptar las críticas

Here’s every narcissist’s biggest secret: they have incredibly baja autoestima. ¿Quién lo diría, verdad?

Bueno, en realidad ocultan su verdadero yo porque odian la persona que son. Las personas con trastorno narcisista de la personalidad tienen una percepción muy frágil de su autoestima. That’s why being criticized is one of their biggest fears.

Invierten mucho tiempo y energía en construir un rostro aparentemente perfecto que muestran al mundo. Por eso, en el momento en que les criticas por la cosa más insignificante, les causas una herida narcisista.

You don’t even have to do it on purpose. You can jokingly say you don’t like their new shirt or that they could have cleaned the house a bit better. On a conscious level, they know that you’re joking or that you mean well. However, their fragile ego can’t stand admitting and accepting something like this.

4. No ser el centro de atención

¿Qué necesita un narcisista? Validación y admiración. ¿Qué vuelve loco a un narcisista? No tener nada de eso.

It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about your padres narcisistas, romantic partner, or friend – they’re all the same when it comes to this. A estas personas les gusta ser el centro de atención. De hecho, necesitan atención como una persona normal necesita aire para respirar.

So, what happens when someone else becomes your center of attention? A narcissist goes completely crazy. But you know what the funniest thing about this is? They can’t take that you’re your own center of attention either.

The moment that happens, a narcissist feels like they’re losing the ground they walk on.

5. Ser llamado la atención por sus acciones

How great would it be if we could all do whatever the hell we wanted without anyone pointing out our mistakes? Well, that’s exactly what every narc expects of their victim.

Tienes que ser consciente de una cosa: estas personas luchan contra la falta de empatía. Si usted, por ejemplo, romper una relación narcisista, your ex will never feel guilty for breaking your heart. Not only that – they’ll also be surprised if you gather the courage to call them out on their actions.

And if you really refuse to give them a second chance and explain that your behavior is just a reaction to their actions, they’ll be stunned.

We’re talking about someone who thinks they’re smarter than the rest of the world. So, they’ll go crazy once you tell them straight that you know exactly what they’re doing and that you don’t plan on putting up with it.

6. Other people’s happiness

We’ve already established that a lack of empathy is one of the most common rasgos narcisistas. This doesn’t only mean that they can’t sympathize with someone else’s pain.

This lack of empathy also means that they don’t have the ability to be happy for other people. They just can’t stand someone else’s happiness and will do everything in their power to destroy it.

En el fondo, todos los narcisistas están celosos. En el fondo, saben que no pueden sentir la felicidad verdadera y pura, y odian a todos los que son capaces de sentirla.

Basically, if you want to drive a narcissist crazy, it’s enough to show them that you’re genuinely happy. Once they realize that all of the juegos mentales...gaslighting, y... abuso emocional they put you through didn’t kill your spirit, they will be devastated.

7. Reflejar a un narcisista

Cómo apagar a un narcisista? It’s enough to treat them the same way they treat everyone else. Just give them a taste of their own medicine. Invierte las tornas y haz que se pongan en tu lugar.

This kind of behavior is called mirroring a narcissist. Don’t worry, you won’t become just like them for real. You’re a normal person, and you’re only pretending to be like this to play with a narc.

But I’m warning you: narcissistic mirroring is anything but easy. It includes numerous manipulation tactics, such as bombardeo amoroso (seguido de fantasma), el gaslighting, el tratamiento silencioso, etc.

Let’s get one thing straight: I would never advise doing any of these things to some other random person. However, sometimes, this is the only way to herir emocionalmente a un narcisista.

8. Romper su hechizo

What drives a narcissist insane? Well, the fact that their victim managed to break their spell. It’s the realization that you got to the bottom of their intentions. It’s that you got them all figured out.

Basically, they get upset the moment you realize that you’re a victim of abuso narcisista. Comprenderlo es el primer paso para escapando de ellos, y lo saben muy bien.

They don’t want you to take off your rose-tinted glasses. They’ll do everything in their power to prevent you from seeing properly.

But when you finally get rid of their magic, they don’t know what to do. You’re no longer enchanted, and they don’t have as much influence over you as they used to have.

9. The victim’s independence

¿Recuerdas que hablamos de que un narcisista pierde el control? Tienes que saber que estas personas esperan que sus parejas, amigos y familiares dependan emocionalmente de ellos.

Sin embargo, ¿qué ocurre cuando su víctima deja de ser emocionalmente dependiente on them? Well, that’s another thing a narc can’t stand. Tu mundo ha dejado de girar a su alrededor, lo que destruye de inmediato su sentimiento de autoestima.

Nevertheless, I’m not only talking about emotional independence. I’m talking about any kind of independence, including financial, social, and so on.

They will go insane if they see that you’re capable of making your own decisions without their involvement. It looks like you don’t need them anymore, which means practically nothing is holding you back from leaving.

10. Que alguien sea mejor que ellos

Todas las personas que padecen un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad tienen graves problemas de autoestima. Intentan ocultarlo, pero se comparan constantemente con todas las personas de su entorno, incluidos sus amigos, familiares, parejas sentimentales, compañeros de trabajo e incluso personas que simplemente pasan por su lado.

In their twisted sense of reality, they have to be better than everyone else. On the contrary, they’re completely worthless.

To them, people’s entire existence on this planet is nothing but a big competition. Entonces, ¿qué vuelve loco a un narcisista? La horrible comprensión de que alguien es mejor que ellos.

It’s enough for you to praise their coworker and tell them that they have a good sense of humor or to tell them that you like their best friend’s new car. Normal people wouldn’t even notice these remarks. But a narc will think about them for days!

11. Tratamiento ordinario

One of the first red flags to pay attention to when figuring out if someone is a narcissist is this person’s sense of self-importance.

That’s the irony of their personalities: they actually lucha con grandes inseguridades, but at the same time, they think that they’re more important than the rest of the world.

Estas personas esperan un trato VIP dondequiera que vayan. Quieren sentirse como la realeza, siempre bajo los focos. But what if that doesn’t happen? What if you invite them to a party? You don’t ignore them, nor do you welcome them as a special guest.

Trust me, that would crush them more than anything! It means that they’ve lost the ability to get any reaction from you. And that was the only superpower they had. If that doesn’t destroy them, nothing will!

12. Vergüenza pública

If you know a thing or two about narcissism, you know that people with NPD are usually the most prominent members of society. It doesn’t matter what kind of abuso narcisista you’re going through – your abuser will always do their best to hide it from the world.

After all, why do you think gaslighting is so important to them? They’re terrified that you’ll speak out about their actions. They want to prevent it so badly that they’re ready to persuade you that you’re imagining things.

So, what drives a narcissist insane? Destroying their public image! They can’t stand being embarrassed in front of other people.

Criticizing and humiliating them when you’re with company will do the trick. But you know what will destroy them completely? Showing the world their true colors! Lifting the mask they show everyone and revealing who they really are will crush them more than anything!

13. 13. No salirse con la suya

It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about little things or huge decisions. A narcissist has to have everything go their way. Have you forgotten? After all, we’re talking about the most intelligent and capable people in the whole wide world!

Todo el mundo, especialmente sus víctimas, debe escucharles y seguir su ejemplo. Eso es otra cosa que les hace sentirse superiores y les ayuda con su rocosa confianza en sí mismos. Por lo tanto, lo que les vuelve locos es que las cosas no salgan como ellos quieren.

For example, you’re in a relación narcisista. Tu pareja romántica planeaba insultarte, y entonces empezó a gaslighting usted. They were sure that things would go smoothly, as always. They would manage to convince you that you’re overreacting and imagining things.

But this time, you reacted differently. You stick to your story, and you don’t allow them to brainwash you with their manipulation tactics. Not getting the outcome they were expecting leaves them confused. However, you have to be careful about this one because it also triggers narcissistic rage!

14. Que les llamen la atención por sus inseguridades

La diferencia entre una persona normal y alguien con narcisismo es cómo percibe estas inseguridades. Las personas normales saben que nadie es perfecto. Saben que las inseguridades son perfectamente normales; hacen todo lo posible por superarlas y a veces incluso bromean sobre ellas.

On the other hand, every narc pretends to be flawless. They deceive the world into thinking that they love their true selves even though that couldn’t be further from the truth.

If you look closely, you’ll get to the bottom of sus inseguridades. You’ll find out what they hate about themselves the most. And once you find that out, it’s time to tackle these insecurities. But make sure to pretend that you’re doing it by accident.

You’ll get an even better effect if you do it in public.

15. Sin contacto

Finally, if you’re wondering what drives a narcissist insane, the answer is: no tener contacto¡! Esto incluye no hablar con ellos, bloquear su número, ignoring their text messages, not visiting places you know you might run into them, not mentioning their name to your mutual friends…

Significa cortar con ellos por completo y vivir tu vida como si nunca hubieran formado parte de ella. Pero hay algo que debes tener en cuenta.

Cuando normalmente ir sin contacto with someone, you’re doing it to get them back. You want them to feel your absence so they can appreciate your presence.

Nevertheless, this shouldn’t be your primary goal when dealing with a narc. Trust me – you don’t want this person back, and you don’t want them obsesionado contigo.

You’re going no contact for two reasons. First of all, you’re doing it to drive your narc crazy. But at the same time, you should be doing it to help yourself heal.