50 dolorosi segni che vostro marito non è più innamorato di voi

Che cosa fareste se riconosceste alcuni dei segni più evidenti di un'azione di disturbo? your husband isn’t in love with you anymore? Especially if you’ve been with him for a long time… if you two have kids, and if you were 100% sure you’d grow old with him?

What would you give to save your marriage? While we’re talking about this, I have to be honest with you… Non esistono soluzioni facili quando si tratta di aggiustare un matrimonioma ci sono sicuramente quelli che funzionano. And, that’s the most important thing, right?

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And now, we (probably) have a marriage to save, so let’s get down to business.

50 Clear Signs Your Husband Isn’t In Love With You

Vi presento i più comuni segnali di allarme che indicano che il vostro il marito non è innamorato di te più. Quindi, leggete attentamente perché questa può essere la vostra ultima possibilità di salvare il vostro matrimonio!

1. You’ve been doubting it for a very long time now

Okay, let’s lay all our cards on the table and be completely honest.

You’re here searching for these signs, and that’s quite a buon segno che qualcosa non va. Il fatto è che se foste sicuri della vostra husband’s love, you wouldn’t be here right now.

And, you aren’t here because your husband’s behavior towards you changed two or three days ago… you’re here because you noticed it a while ago.

Hai notato tutti quei piccole cose that were clearly showing that something has changed, and you ignored them. Or, you tried hard to ignore them because you were afraid that your greatest nightmare could become reality and you couldn’t allow it…

However, now is time to confront your fears and find out the real truth about your significant other’s feelings. So, these are the signs you should look out for.

2. Assenza di comunicazione

If your husband has stopped communicating with you and you feel that something’s amiss, it’s a sign that he is slowly falling out of amore con te.

So che alcuni di voi diranno che mancanza di comunicazione doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, and I completely agree with that. However, a female’s gut is something you should never neglect because in 99.99% of cases, it’s correct.

If you notice that the two of you just keep quiet in the house while you’re doing your thing and he’s doing his, that’s just a signal of the beginning of marital problems.

If this is happening for the first time, I’m advising you not to make a huge drama about it immediately. Ask him to talk, and tell him openly that you don’t feel good in a relationship without open and comunicazione sana.

As a possible solution, ask him if he’s willing to work on it with you.

Se dice che ci proverà, dovete rispettarlo e dargli la possibilità di dimostrarlo. D'altra parte, se continua a mostrare una chiara mancanza di interesse, sapete quale sarà il vostro prossimo passo.

3. Tutti gli sforzi sono unilaterali

Da un po' di tempo a questa parte, lei è l'unica che si sta impegnando nella vostra relazione. Lui ha smesso da tempo di lavorare sul vostro matrimonio e di fare cose belle per voi.

Questo è un segno di mancanza di rispetto – something no woman should put up with.

Non dovete essere voi a caricarvi sulle spalle tutte le responsabilità di una relazione. A matrimonio unilaterale è un'infelice matrimonio, e non potrà mai durare tutta la vita!

Bisogna pensare al proprio benessere. Lo scopo di ogni relazione è avere qualcuno che si prenda cura di voi, che vi ami e che faccia il possibile per voi.

But, if that’s not what you’re getting, you better think twice if he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. If someone doesn’t appreciate and reciprocate your efforts, that person doesn’t even deserve to have a place in your life.

4. Vi dà per scontati

Questo è uno dei segni più evidenti your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.

Da solo dandovi per scontati, he thinks that no matter what you do, you’ll always be there and put up with his crap. He thinks that you love him and that you’ll forgive him for trascurandovi sempre, mentre lui dedica tutte le sue attenzioni ad altre donne.

Remember, that’s not the way a man in love would behave in front of his partner, so make sure that you talk to him about the possible problem.

Se continua a essere scortese e a darti ancora più per scontata, sai cosa devi fare.

The truth is, he won’t learn his lesson until you leave him and show him what it feels like to live without you.

5. Il rispetto è scomparso

La mancanza di rispetto è uno dei segnali più forti che indicano un matrimonio infelice.

Respect is the second name of love. If someone doesn’t respect you, they don’t love you either. It’s as simple as that.

Questo non è cosa amore vero è davvero – don’t ever forget that. No matter how much you love him, show him that you will never put up with being disrespected. Show him that you can be perfectly fine on your own, and that you don’t need him to complete you.

Give him a wake-up call, and if he refuses to pick up the phone, he can leave because you’ll feel much better on your own than with a toxic guy who doesn’t even give a damn about you.

6. Tutto l'affetto è scomparso

Ricorda quando si trovava effettivamente in un matrimonio felice?… that fase di luna di miele in cui il vostro partner vi riempiva di attenzioni e affetto ogni singolo giorno?

Quelle mattine coccole, testi d'amore dolci, sorprese romantiche… all those piccole cose che faceva ogni giorno per farti sentire la donna più felice del mondo.

I know it hurts even to think about those things… everything has changed, and you simply don’t feel ready to face your new reality.

Ma dovete. Andate a fondo del suo comportamento freddo e poi decidete quale sarà il vostro prossimo passo.

There are two possible outcomes; either he’ll admit why he ha smesso di essere affettuoso and you’ll try to understand him, or you’ll realize he doesn’t love you anymore and you’ll leave his lame ass.

7. You can’t even remember the last time he said ‘I love you’

Can you? But, hey… don’t count those times when he had to answer your ‘do you love me?’.

He probably answered affirmatively only because he didn’t want you to start a fight or start doubting his feelings.

Now, can you remember when the last time he expressed his love to you spontaneously was?… the last time he hugged you and told you those three simple words, ‘Ti amo‘?

No? Well, it’s probably because he doesn’t feel that way anymore, and he can’t keep looking into your eyes and lying to you.

8. I complimenti sono storia antica

Did he stop complimenting you? I’m assuming you’ve immediately started thinking that it’s your fault, right? Maybe you gained weight or got a few wrinkles on your face.

Well, it’s not your fault even if those things are true. Fare i complimenti alla persona amata è un segno chiaro of showing affection, and your husband obviously feels that he shouldn’t be affectionate with you.

9. I litigi sono diventati una parte regolare del vostro matrimonio

If you can no longer have any normal conversation with him and he says that you are at fault for all the problems between you two, it’s obvious that he has no problem in making you feel bad.

La verità è che ogni matrimonio passa attraverso macchie ruvide. And, that’s why you should check if this is something that will be present in your life for only a short time or if it will continue longer before you confront him about it.

Whatever you do, don’t let your happiness slip through your fingers. Instead, try to salvare la vostra relazione chiedendogli i motivi per cui si sente e si comporta in quel modo.

If he still cares, he’ll be happy that you asked, and you’ll find a way to deal with it together.

10. È diventato il maestro della tecnica dello scaricabarile.

Litigi continui e spostamento della colpa are the most serious red flags that he doesn’t love you anymore.

Blame-shifting is a common tactic that people who don’t have the guts to break something off on their own use to get you to leave first.

That’s how they can blame everything on you later on when you leave.

They’ll say it’s not them, it’s you – you were the one who left, while no one actually knows what he did to you to get you to that point.

11. He’s irritated when you speak

Whatever you say, it’s stupid to him. If you talk about your company and the great things that you’ve achieved at work and he still thinks it’s stupid, then it’s obvious that your man doesn’t respect you.

Just imagine how he would feel if you did the same thing to him? He’d probably leave you the second you told him that he was boring. You don’t deserve someone who will disrespect you like this.

You deserve a loving and caring man who’ll be your support. So, don’t let him belittle you just so he can feel okay.

Dovrebbe sapere che la chiave di una grande relazione è in realtà una buona comunicazione e che voi due dovreste essere aperti su tutto.

Ditegli che se non è più innamorato di voi, può andare avanti e avere una vita fantastica, ma questa volta senza di voi.

12. Le continue critiche vi fanno impazzire

It’s one thing when someone criticizes you to help you become better and stronger. That’s called critica costruttiva. Non c'è nulla di meschino o dannoso in questo.

Actually, you’ll have no problems discerning whether someone is criticizing you for your own good or just to hurt you.

If your husband is constantly up your business about things you cannot change, like your looks or your personality, and if he doesn’t let go even after telling him he’s hurting and insulting you, then his “benevolent” words are actually designed to undermine you.

13. Sta cercando di distruggere la vostra autostima

It’s like he wants to make you believe that you’re indegno di amore. Or, more precisely, his love. He’s doing it just so he can be ‘clean’ once he ends things with you.

However, you should never allow anyone to even think about damaging or hurting your self-esteem. Believe me, that’s the most valuable part of yourself. If your man tries to make you feel insecure, you should end things between you ASAP.

Although it’s easy to say to someone, “lasciarlo,” it’s not that easy to actually do it.

Even though you’re already brokenhearted and angry with disappointment, some warm feelings are still present.

Quindi, per favore, se questo accade, tagliate il cavo il prima possibile e cercate di mantenere il vostro autostima.

14. Un improvviso aumento delle aspettative irrealistiche

Hai sempre avuto Aspettative sane dell'altro e del vostro matrimonio. Ma ora anche questo è cambiato.

Suo marito ha improvvisamente iniziato a impostare dei veri e propri aspettative irrealistiche, and he even gets mad when you tell him they’re unreachable.

He does it only because he doesn’t feel the same about you anymore, probably has someone else, and wants to make you leave him. He obviously doesn’t have the guts to be fair and put things in the right way.

15. È diventato freddo e distante

Se il vostro uomo non è disponibile and cold when he is with you, even if you try to talk to him and solve the problem, there’s definitely something serious happening there.

If this continues to happen for a long time, he definitely doesn’t feel anything for you anymore. And it gets probably even more serious than you thought.

Not only does he not love you anymore, but he’s also probably already over you.

He’s just using you and he doesn’t even want to make some effort per voi o per il vostro matrimonio. Forse era in amore con te prima, ma qualcosa è decisamente cambiato.

D'altra parte, forse non ti ha mai amato veramente, ma ti ha fatto credere di amarlo.

It was something that he needed at that time, but he has changed his opinion now. If that’s the case, you need to know that a guy who doesn’t know what he wants is not someone you need to be mixed up with.

16. Trascorrere del tempo con voi è in fondo alla sua lista di priorità.

Il fatto è che quando si ama qualcuno, si vuole passare tutto il tempo possibile con quella persona. And, if you see your husband doesn’t want to trascorrere il tempo con voi come faceva un tempo, chiedetegliene pure il motivo.

If your man doesn’t spend enough time with you or your kids, this is a huge red flag that something is off.

He’d rather trascorrere il tempo con il suo migliori amici e i colleghi di lavoro che con voi, e dovrebbe essere il contrario. Voi e la vostra famiglia dovreste sempre essere la sua priorità principale.

When your husband stops spending time with you, it is a clear indication that he doesn’t find you interesting anymore or that the two of you don’t have any good topics to talk about. Or, maybe he found someone he’s more eager to spend his time with.

Now, what you can do is to talk to him openly. Tell him that it’s okay if he lost interest, but that he should have let you know about that change.

17. He isn’t willing to compromise

Ok, ci sono alcuni le cose su cui non dovremmo mai scendere a compromessi Il vero problema nasce quando il coniuge si rifiuta di scendere a compromessi.

It’s an even bigger issue if he was willing to make compromises before, but now, all of a sudden, he strongly opposes it.

Through his unwillingness to compromise, he only shows you that he doesn’t give a damn about you or your marriage.

Ora, la domanda è: sei sicura di voler compromettere la tua tranquillità e la tua felicità per stare con un uomo del genere?

18. Richieste di (molto) spazio

Ok, tutti hanno bisogno di spazio. Tutti hanno bisogno di un'ora o due durante la giornata per se stessi.

But when this “tempo da soli” becomes more frequent than it used to be, if your man is gone for hours or even days, then it’s an alarming sign that he’s trying to escape your marriage.

Even when you manage to have some time with him, he’ll be completely disconnected. I mean, he’ll be present physically, but he’ll be emotionally elsewhere.

Alla fine, si perderà la voglia di trascorrere il tempo con lui, perché trascorrere il tempo with someone who obviously doesn’t want to be by your side only makes things worse.

Costringerlo a trascorrere del tempo di qualità non farà altro che rendere ancora più strana la situazione di imbarazzo che c'è tra voi.

19. He’s bored with you

It’s normal that in un relazione a lungo termine there will be times when you’ll be bored with your spouse, and you just need to do some interesting things with him.

But if you see that your husband is bored only when he is with you and not when he’s doing his own thing, that’s a sign that something is terribly wrong.

Forse c'è un'altra donna nella sua vita and he is only thinking about her. Maybe he’s coming up with ways to meet her as soon as possible, and everything you say is boring to him.

Or perhaps there are problems he’s going through, but if he doesn’t talk to you and if you annoy him every time you say something, that’s not a good sign.

Sadly, based on what you’re reading, it seems that your relationship doesn’t have that much time left. If this behavior continues over a long period, it is a bad sign that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.

20. Mancanza di intimità

If he doesn’t want to be intimate with you, it means one of two things: either he has someone else to do that with or that he doesn’t find you attractive anymore.

Qualunque sia la ragione, la situazione non è sicuramente buona per a relazione sana. E il fatto è che mancanza di intimità is one of the most obvious signs that your husband doesn’t love you.

So che cose del genere fanno male, ma se lo ami ancora, puoi cercare di riconquistarlo.

You can use some women’s tricks and invite him to bed, and thereby try to rendere più vivace la vostra relazione fisica. But if he doesn’t react very well to your tactic, it is time to say the addio definitivo.

21. Oppure, al contrario, l'intimità è l'unico ambito del vostro matrimonio che funziona davvero.

Sì, anche questo può essere uno dei segni che qualcosa non va nella vostra vita sentimentale.

If he doesn’t want to have sex with you, it can be a segno sottile che ha l'amore ritrovato in un altro luogo.

On the other hand, if he wants to have more sex than usual, or showing some new moves, that’s also a reason for concern because he had to have learned them somewhere.

La vita sessuale e l'intimità fisica dovrebbero essere una parte importante di ogni persona. relazione sanaTuttavia, non deve mai diventare l'unica cosa importante.

If your husband wants sex without intimacy, it’s a clear sign that he’s using you. He doesn’t love you, nor does he care for your feelings… he only cares about fulfilling his own physical needs.

22. Vi comportate più come due coinquilini che come un partner romantico.

It’s important for him to understand that you need to be intimate with him, and that if he doesn’t give you what you need, you’ll become distant. Actually, you’ll start allontanarsi.

Tell him that living like two complete strangers with someone you love is not what works for you and that you aren’t planning to play by his rules. If he doesn’t want to listen to you, pack your bags and leave.

Don’t cry over spilled milk. Andare avanti con la tua vita. Là fuori c'è qualcuno di speciale che vi aspetta.

23. Il vostro legame emotivo è danneggiato

Secondo il famoso psicologo John Gottman, la disconnessione emotiva è la causa principale della maggior parte dei litigi e dei problemi in una relazione.

To be honest, this doesn’t have to be only his guilt. That’s why you should work on improving your connessione emotiva. Suggerisce di farsi aiutare da a consulente matrimoniale.

If your man refuses to do anything about it, then he doesn’t care about salvare il vostro matrimonioe questo significa che è giunto il momento di scaricarlo.

If you’re giving him all your love and affection and he shows complete disinterest in making you happy, un uomo come quello non è degno di essere nella vostra vita.

24. Guarda il vostro matrimonio con occhi itterici

The moment your husband drops out from trying to solve problems, you know it’s over. When he no longer sees the point in fighting for your marriage, it’s already dead.

Tutti gli uomini sono risolutori naturali di problemi. Quando vedono un problema, cercano il più possibile di trovare una soluzione.

Lo fanno quotidianamente nella loro vita di tutti i giorni, il che naturalmente include anche voi.

If he reaches the point where he’s sick and tired, and he has no strength to fight for your happiness, he’s probably thinking he doesn’t want to anymore, because… what’s the point?

He probably doesn’t even love you anymore, he just hasn’t admitted that to himself yet.

25. He doesn’t even care about things you ask him to do

Whenever you ask him to help you with something, he either keeps quiet or tells you that he doesn’t want to do it… he doesn’t help you with chores, kids, or anything else that you used to do together before.

Questo è un segno evidente that he doesn’t care about you at all anymore. And, you shouldn’t put up with such behavior because you know it’s definitely not something you deserve.

The bottom line is, you can break every relationship down to the basics – you’re holding hands or you’re not, meaning he’s there for you or he’s not. It’s that simple.

26. Non gli manchi mai

When partners don’t see each other for a while, the first time their eyes meet when they reunite can pretty much go hand in hand with the first time you noticed each other and fell in love.

Questo è amore. You are equally happy to see your partner, whether you’ve been apart for two days or two months.

Se vostro marito si comporta in modo indifferente quando tornate a casa da un viaggio di un paio di giorni, allora la vostra relazione rischia seriamente di andare in pezzi.

Sometimes the signs are even more obvious that your husband was way happier when you weren’t around.

When you come back home, he is transparently unhappy that you’re back. If that’s not a good enough sign that he doesn’t love you, I don’t know what is.

27. È diventato egoista

He was never selfish because you were always his top priority. Now, things have changed, and it feels like he’s concerned excessively about himself.

If his priorities have changed, it’s an obvious sign that his feelings have changed, too.

You really don’t deserve someone who will only pay attention to you when he’s in the mood; one who will ignore you every time you need him. Basically, the point is that it wouldn’t be much of a waste to kick that egoista, egocentrico dalla vostra vita.

28. E troppo riservato

Rimane sveglio fino a tardi, messaggia per ore con qualcuno, inizia a nascondere il telefono from you… and every time you ask him about those things, he simply changes the subject of conversation.

You think that you should doubt him, but it’s impossible not to because of all those obvious signs around him. He is hiding something, and that’s probably the reason why he has changed his behavior towards you…

29. Ci sono alcune evidenti tracce di infedeltà

Ci sono uomini inclini al tradimento che non cambiano mai.

Il fatto è che le donne possono percepire quando il loro gli uomini tradiscono on them. So if you think something isn’t right, it probably isn’t.

Lo si vede dal suo cambiamento di comportamento, dalla sua indifferenza, dal suo mancanza di comunicazionee, alla fine, la sua mancanza di amore.

Cercate di andare a fondo della questione e se dovesse risultare che he’s being unfaithful, leave him as soon as possible. Don’t let him make a fool out of you; you don’t deserve tha.

30. You keep discovering his ‘white lies’

And, they’re everywhere. In addition to the way he behaves, he makes up some lame excuses and lies to you as well, which will be obvious from the start.

Every time you confront him about it, he gets nervous and accuses you of not trusting him. Yep, that’s the favorite tecnica di manipolazione della maggior parte degli uomini. L'arte di scaricarsi le colpe.

31. È diventato eccessivamente protettivo nei confronti del suo telefono

Why? It’s obvious… he’s hiding something from you.

Quando si ama veramente qualcunoNon ci sono segreti, password o cose nascoste tra di voi. When you truly love someone, you don’t do things that make them doubt your fidelity.

32. Allo stesso tempo, ha smesso di essere protettivo nei suoi confronti.

Era sempre gentile, dolce e protettivo nei tuoi confronti, ma con il passare del tempo quella bella sensazione è lentamente svanita.

That is most definitely a sign that he doesn’t love you anymore. Love cannot disappear with time. It can only grow stronger or change forms; it can never vanish.

33. He isn’t jealous when another man approaches you

La gelosia è davvero fraintesa da molti coppie sposate. Small doses of jealousy are actually healthy for your marriage because it’s a segno inequivocabile di amore vero.

That’s why you should actually be worried when your partner stops being jealous.

If another man approaches you or if someone sends you a text and your husband shows complete indifference, it’s a bad sign he doesn’t love you anymore.

34. Peggio ancora, flirta con altre donne davanti a voi.

If your guy has never shown interest in other women, but he does now, it’s time to face the fact that he has changed and that he wants different things now.

If he didn’t have the need to flirt with other women until now, it’s an obvious sign that something has changed.

E ha tutto il diritto di disinnamorarsi. Tuttavia, dovrebbe essere abbastanza corretto da chiudere la storia con te prima di commettere uno stupido errore.

35. È diventato violento

This doesn’t have to mean that he is physically abusing you… he might do it emotionally or verbally.

Tuttavia, ciascuno di questi tipi di abuso has the same meaning; the person who’s abusing you doesn’t give a single damn about you.

You need to show him that he can lose you in a second, and that he’ll never be able to win you back after how he has belittled you.

A man like this doesn’t deserve to have a woman like you in his life, so make sure to let him know that you can live without him. Trust me, your happiness will hurt him more than you think.

In the end, I just want you to know that you shouldn’t think it’s all your fault. I am highlighting this since many women believe they were at fault for being abused, which is way too wrong.

36. Bisogna sempre muoversi con cautela intorno a lui

He objects to your behavior and he always has something to say, some negative comment to deliver – in a way, subtly telling you to stop what you’re doing.

He’s a ticking time bomb, and to make things clear, he can’t put up with you anymore.

If you haven’t changed, if you’re acting precisely the same as at the beginning, then it’s not your fault.

It is he who’s making you change and walk around on eggshells not to accidentally say something wrong that’ll trigger his anger.

37. Vuole che tu cambi all'improvviso

Why? He fell in love with you, the real you… why does he have the need to change you right now?

A mio parere, questa è solo una delle sue aspettative irrealistiche. Si sta lentamente disinnamorando di te e pensa che questo possa farlo innamorare di nuovo di te oppure vuole semplicemente farti chiedere il divorzio.

38. Parla male di lei davanti agli altri

A man that talks bad about you behind your back doesn’t love you and that’s a surefire fact.

Le ragioni possono essere molteplici, ma il fatto è che questo atto è imperdonabile. Voi due dovreste essere quelli che si affiancano l'uno all'altro nelle situazioni peggiori e che si difendono a vicenda da tutto e da tutti.

39. Cerca persino di mettere i vostri cari contro di voi.

If he does this, it’s probably because he already knows that divorce is inevitable, and he tries to keep as many of your close friends and loved ones as possible.

Many people divorce; that’s nothing new. However, showing this level of disrespect and hate is definitely something that can’t be seen every day.

40. He doesn’t even try to apologize for his wrongdoings

Se si cerca di salvare il vostro matrimonio, it’s completely normal that you show your husband his mistakes and expect him to repent of them.

Tuttavia, sembra che that apology you’ll never get. The worst thing is that he doesn’t even try to fix them, but he keeps repeating them… I’m sorry, but things are official now; your man fell out of love with you.

41. Continua a non mantenere le sue promesse

He’s probably aware of the consequences of his actions, but he doesn’t care about it at all.

A salvare il vostro matrimonioparli prima con suo marito. Sedetevi come due adulti e cercate di risolvere le cose in modo civile.

Then, if you can’t reach a consensus, try therapy. Maybe you need someone to help you communicate with each other in order to solve your problems.

If that doesn’t work either, then it’s done and dusted: go your separate ways.

42. Le serate con gli amici stanno finendo nel dimenticatoio

Be honest now… when was the last time you two had a romantic and serata divertente? And, I don’t mean double dates you had with your friends or going out with the rest of your family members.

I mean when did you two enjoy a night out completely alone… I bet it was so long ago that you can’t even remember the exact date.

So che con il tempo la maggior parte coppie sposate cadere nella noia. Tuttavia, c'è sempre una causa di queste situazioni di stallo e l'unico modo per salvare il vostro matrimonio da questa situazione di stallo è proprio scoprire la vera causa.

43. Inizia a tagliarvi fuori dai suoi piani

Feels awful, right? The person who promised you’ll be the greatest and most important part of their life forever is now excluding you from their plans for the future.

I only hope that the pain you’re currently feeling deep in your heart will make you realize the real truth… he doesn’t love you anymore, and he is looking for a way to leave you or make you leave him.

44. Scuse, scuse e ancora scuse

If he uses some lame excuse every time you try to talk about your marital problems, it’s a huge red flag that he’s either hiding something or he has stopped loving and caring for you.

Ora arriva un pezzo di importante consigli sulle relazioni for you: stop believing in his stupid excuses and don’t let him make a fool out of you!

E sappiate che la vera verità non si nasconde dietro le sue parole, ma dietro le sue azioni.

45. Tratta tutti gli altri molto meglio di te.

And, what do you think? Why is that? Well, obviously it’s because he doesn’t care for you like he used to. And, that leads us to the next logical conclusion; he doesn’t care nor love you anymore.

Inoltre, dovete sapere che il momento in cui smettete di essere in cima alla sua lista di priorità è il momento in cui qualcun altro ha preso quel posto.

46. Non c'è mai quando si ha più bisogno di lui.

When you agree on marrying someone, you promise that you’ll always be there by their side… in the good and in the bad.

If your man has broken this vow, it’s a segno evidente he doesn’t love you anymore.

Dovrebbe essere il vostro migliore amico, il vostro partner nel crimine, il vostro più grande sostegno e, soprattutto, la vostra roccia. Nel momento in cui smette di essere una di queste cose, è certo che il suo amore per voi sta lentamente svanendo.

47. Il tuo istinto ti dice che i suoi sentimenti sono cambiati.

Quando vostro marito si disinnamora, lo sentite semplicemente nel profondo di voi stesse. E, anche se cercate di reprimerlo o di seppellire quel sentimento nel profondo, continua a venire in superficie e non avete altra scelta che accettarlo e affrontarlo.

A woman’s sentimento interiore is a very serious thing, even though, UNFORTUNATELY, most of us aren’t aware of it, and that’s why it should never be ignored.

I strongly believe that God gifted us with that 7th sense to protect us from being hurt by men who don’t deserve us. So, stop trying to silence your gut and, for once in your life, listen to what it has to say.

48. In the end, he admits that ‘something’ has changed

Yes, in the end, your man won’t be able to keep lying to you, and he’ll finally gather the courage to spill the beans. He’ll finally be man enough to admit that his feelings for you have changed.

Tuttavia, fino ad allora, dovreste davvero attenzione a tutti questi segni rivelatori above that your husband isn’t in amore con te più.

I can’t promise that it’ll help you avoid heartbreak because that’s truly unavoidable in a situation like this. But, it’ll surely reduce the effects and help you recover faster.

49. Or, suggests ‘taking a break’

Some married couples agree on taking a break from each other when they’re going through a rough patch. Of course, in most cases, they never get back together, and that ‘break’ becomes a divorce.

You can’t press the pause button on your marriage. It’ll only create greater distance and complicate things between you even more.

If your man suggests taking a break right after you confront him about your doubts, it’s just a segno chiaro he’s a coward. He’s a weak man who doesn’t have the guts to stand in front of you after so much time spent together and admit the truth while looking you in the eyes.

50. Anche voi vi state lentamente disinnamorando

This is completely normal, and you should definitely not blame yourself for it. You can’t spend your life loving someone who clearly isn’t and never will be ready to reciprocate it to you in the right way.

Ora, tutto ciò che dovete fare è seguire il vostro cuore.

Tuttavia, dovete sapere che rimanere con un uomo del genere vi farà più male che lasciarlo. Rimanere con lui non guarisci il tuo cuore spezzato. By leaving him, on the other hand, there’s a chance for you to heal much faster than you thought.

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Quali sono i segni di un matrimonio senza amore?

Mancanza di rispetto, disconnessione emotiva, mancanza di intimità, defensiveness, lack of understanding, distancing from one another, constant fighting or not fighting at all… Sono tutte cose importanti segni di un matrimonio senza amore.

I know many women who are aware of the fact that their man doesn’t love them anymore, even after years of marriage, but still, they all keep living with them like everything’s completely okay.

However, that’s not okay and it should never be.

After facing the signs indicating a lack of love in a marriage, either try to engage your husband and get him to talk about what’s bothering him or, if that plan fails, leave for good and save yourself the trouble of trying to save what cannot be saved.

Il bilancio

What do you do if you recognize these signs your husband isn’t in love with you anymore? Well, first off, it’s important to realize that people change.

Se all'inizio della relazione l'uomo con cui vivete poteva essere affascinante e dolce, nel corso degli anni può trasformarsi in una persona completamente diversa.

Just know that it is better if you find out that your husband doesn’t love you now, instead of being in a matrimonio senza amore per il resto della vita.

When you realize that your marriage isn’t what it is supposed to be, it will be much easier to lasciarsi andare di tutto questo and find your happiness elsewhere… without a man who couldn’t keep his promise of loving you unconditionally, unselfishly, and most importantly, eternally.