How can you decode his mysterious signs he wants you bad? There is really no bulletproof sign to confirm it. Maybe he’s just being nice and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. But, yet again, maybe he really wants you bad but doesn’t know how to tell you. Who knows? If you don’t risk it, you’ll never know. You can as easily end up with a broken heart and be a victim of a manipulator, but then again, you could have the relationship of your life.
I know you want an answer right away. Of course, you do. It’s so much easier to see things clearly and be safe. It’s so much easier to fall in love with a guarantee that you’re not going to hurt. But, sadly relationships don’t work that way. And when you think about it, you’re going to get a lot of mixed messages your whole life. You’re not going to know what he thinks and why he acts the way he does. So, trying to crack the code and decipher the signs he wants you bad is not that big of a deal.
But you have to be careful to read the signs for what they are. Don’t fool yourself into thinking something that is not true. Sometimes people fall in love so hard that they don’t see what is really happening.
Sometimes love blinds us and prevents us from seeing clearly. Sometimes he’s just being nice and doesn’t want a relationship with you, but since you’re head over heels in love with him, you won’t admit it.
So, try to be objective. Try to separate your feelings from your mind. That’s not an easy game to play because you can’t fight your heart. You can try to ignore it and maybe you even succeed, but it will be really hard to judge the situation by only using the realistic and logical side of you. But, try it, you’re only going to help yourself. Who knows? Maybe your logic saves you from future heartbreak and a lot of tears. If that happens, wouldn’t you be grateful to yourself?
The best thing you could do is to pretend that the situation you’re in is not concerning you. Try to look at things with someone else’s eyes, try to be a third party, completely unbiased. Maybe then you’ll manage to bring a decision that will work in your favor.
Before doing anything else, do try objectivity. I know it is so much easier said than done, and it takes a lot of guts and courage to accept the truth no matter what it is. But, if it were so easy, women from all over the world wouldn’t be obsessed with trying to read the signs he wants you bad.
Even if you read all the signs and you’re positive that he wants you, there is no bulletproof guarantee that he’ll want you forever. People change as the years go by and a lot of things you can’t influence can happen whether you like it or not. So no one can say for sure that if he wants you bad now, he’ll want you bad forever.
But, let’s leave the future and stick to the present. If you have these problems and you can’t figure out what the heck he wants from you, if you want to protect yourself from the potential heartbreak, read these signs to be sure he wants you bad.
What do signs he wants you bad really mean and how to interpret them?
1. He laughs at everything you say
You can be funny, but no one is that funny you have to laugh at every little thing that is being said. But, this guy is subtly showing you signs he wants you bad. And the thing is, he really genuinely thinks that everything you say is that funny. He thinks you’re hilarious.
If a guy laughs with all his heart at everything you say, he is really into you. I mean you may be funny, but in the best case scenario, your jokes are okay. You probably have moments when you shine, but it’s not all the time. It’s definitely a sign he likes you.
2. He wants to know everything about you
He wants to know what your interests are, what you like and don’t like. That’s why he listens to you carefully. I mean, he is not a creep that is stalking you. He is genuinely in love with you and wants to know what makes you happy. He’ll ask you a lot of questions to get the chance to get to know you better.
A guy who is not interested in you wouldn’t go through all that trouble just to know things about you. He would try to find out the just the basics, so he has enough material to work with because he probably just wants to get into your pants.
3. He texts you
This means he wants your attention. He wants to get in touch with you. Maybe he is feeling lonely and wants to be in your presence. Now, it’s so hard to see if he’s texting you because he just wants a one-time thing or he is texting you because he really misses you and wants to be with you badly. Don’t worry, there is a solution to this problem, too. You can easily figure out what his intentions are from the way he texts you.
Try to test this in a real situation. Try to ignore him to get his attention and if there is really something going on, you’ll end this on a positive note. So, don’t text him back for a few hours and see how he behaves. If he remains silent, he is probably not that interested in you and his intentions are the ones you want to avoid, but if he texts you again, worried that you’re not answering back, then you can be sure that he really cares for you and it’s an obvious sign he wants you bad.
4. He gets emotional around you
Maybe just his friends and family have seen this emotional side of him. He feels safe enough around them to let them know how he really feels, but the thing is, he’s doing this in front of you, too. Yeah, guys have feelings, too and despite what the media wants you to believe, some of them even want to talk about those feelings. After all, they are human like we are.
Showing you how he feels means that he really feels something for you. He trusts you enough to let you into his vulnerable and delicate zone. As I’ve said, only his friends and family have seen that side of him before and now you are honored to join the club.
5. He contacts you on social media
Just another one out of a lot of clear signs he wants you bad. If he’s overly interested in what you’ve been up to and a bit too active on your accounts, then you should know that there is something more than ‘just interested’ hiding behind his intentions.
If he’s commenting and hitting ‘like’ on your every post, he’s sending you subtle signals that he is emotionally attached to you. Maybe he is too shy to admit it or he’s scared of rejection, so he is playing it cool and soooo slow it kind of drives you crazy. Why won’t he say it already? I know, but he’s just touching base to see if there is something there—to see if there is any chance to be with you.
6. He wants to see you badly
When a guy wants you badly, he wants to see you on a daily basis. He wants to spend a lot of time with you, actually, all of his free time because you are currently the one thing that gives his life a purpose. He worships the ground you walk on and he just can’t get enough of you. And even when you meet, he is asking when you are going to meet again. Of course, this can go both ways. He may just want to meet you because he has some other plans other than the fact he wants you bad.
The only thing you can do to prove he truly wants you bad is to make him fight for you and make an effort to meet you. Don’t say yes right away. Let him work hard to get you. But, be aware, if you string him along, he’ll be under the impression you don’t like him and will lose interest and just stop trying.
7. You met his friends and family
A guy will never do this unless he is one hundred percent sure that you are the right girl for him. You’ve probably even met his mom already. You know, guys won’t put up with questions from their family and friends about you for nothing. Like who you are? Does he like you? Are you in a relationship? So, if he has taken this step, it means that he really likes you.
8. He drunk dials you
Okay, there are two sides to this scenario, as there are always. Maybe he drunk dials you because he thinks he might get lucky, but on the other hand, maybe he drunk dials you because his real emotions come to light and he is too drunk to give a fuck what everybody will think—including you about why he’s calling you.
It’s probably that he never had the courage to confront you and say he wants you to your face. So, now, after a few drinks, he got incredibly brave and decided to go through with it already and see what happens. It’s kind of cute, isn’t it?
Unfortunately, we don’t act the same, so there is no proven way to read through why he called you in the middle of the night drunk as hell. But, if you get a text containing an apology in the morning, his feelings are genuine and true. If you get squat, then he probably just wanted to have sex with you.
9. He’s never late
Although this would be more surprising if we were talking about a girl, it’s as equally important. It shows that he cares about you and respects your time. He really gives a shit and he doesn’t want you to think less of him.
I can see you imagining someone you’re supposed to meet and they are always late, lying on a couch watching a TV show and then suddenly he looks at the clock and realizes he is late meeting you. It gives a wrong vibe like he doesn’t want to meet you. If you were important to him, he would even be 10 minutes early and not remember you at the last minute, like you were something to get over with, something he has to do.
10. He is honest with you
A guy that shows signs he wants you badly will be honest with you. He is not one of those guys who play mind games with you to get what they want in a dishonest way. No, he really cares too much to jeopardize his potential relationship with you by trying to manipulate you.
He will be honest with you and he’ll never be ashamed of his past. We all have one and we all have skeletons in our closets. The one who says he’s an open book and has nothing to hide—lies. But, if you see that there is something he is not telling you, something significant, then you should be careful. Who knows what he’s hiding and what his intentions are?
11. He can’t stop looking at you
It’s possible that you catch him staring or you see him glancing at you, trying to catch your attention. And if you catch him looking at you, he’ll lock his eyes on yours and won’t look away for a while. It’s a definite sign he wants you bad.
You have to be careful though because there is always the other side of the story. He may look at you every now and then, but if he looks away when you return the glance, he is not interested in you and probably sees you just as a friend.
12. He gets jealous
Especially if he didn’t let you know he wants you. He will be scared of losing you although he hasn’t yet made a move. He doesn’t know if you like him back and when he sees you talking to other guys, he’ll feel neglected and scared that you might like the other one instead of him.
But then again, there is a thin line between a cute jealousy and a possessive one. Never let anyone try to take control over your life and nag about things which are not his business. If you’re meeting your guy friend for a drink, he has no business meddling or asking questions about him.
13. He is nervous around you
The fact he’s nervous means that he is hiding something. He’s nervous because he likes you and doesn’t know how to show it to you. He wants to impress you and prove himself worthy of your love. That’s when things go so cutely wrong. You can see that he’s trying to prove himself but the fact he’s nervous messes it all up and everything goes wrong.
Also, he never acts like that when he is with his friends. It’s like he is a different person in their presence. He’s loose and funny, but when you walk into the picture, it’s like he loses himself completely. That is a definite and undeniable sign he wants you bad and can’t hide it.
But, the bottom line is that when someone has the hots for you and is truly, madly, deeply in love with you, you’ll be able to see it and feel it. You’ll just know. These signs can help you in making a definite decision, but at the bottom of your heart, you’ll know for sure if he is the real man for you.