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20 Clear Signs She Is Developing Feelings For You

20 Clear Signs She Is Developing Feelings For You

You are one step closer to telling her, “I love you,” because you like her a lot.

But how do you know if the feelings are mutual?

It can be pretty awkward to talk to your crush and not be sure of their feelings for you.

Worse yet, you might misunderstand their body language and signals, so you end up hearing the dreaded words “You are my best bro,” “I only see you as a friend,” or “I like you, but not that much.”

That drives you crazy, doesn’t it?

However, there are plenty of signs that a woman likes you; you just need to know what to look for. Read on to learn more about the top 20 signs she is developing feelings for you.

20 Clear Signs She Is Developing Feelings For You

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How can you tell if your crush likes you back?

There are numerous ways to find out, but these are the 20 most common signs she is developing feelings for you.

Keep on reading and find out everything you want to know!

1. She speaks positive body language/Her body language is positive

Let’s put it this way:

You are talking to your crush and listening intently so you do not miss anything important. Obviously, you want to find out if she likes you.

But I think you have left something out. Do you also pay attention to her second language – body language?

I am not sure if you’ll be pleased or disappointed to learn that more than 60% of the information in a conversation with someone can be gleaned from their body language signs.

When the mouth is silent, body language speaks.

Her movements and gestures can tell you more than her words. For example, if she makes frequent eye contact with you or smiles at you, it shows that she is comfortable in your presence. These are surefire body language signs she is developing feelings for you.

So the next time you see each other, pay attention not only to her words but also to her body language.

2. She texts you first

I can tell you from personal experience that the last thing a woman would do is text a man she doesn’t like.

I’ll share some details from my life with you so it will be easier for you to know if she is into you. For example, I exchanged messages every day with someone I liked, and our conversations were always pleasant, funny, and honest.

I never had a problem texting him first because I liked him. And he replied to me shortly after. We talked every day, and I could always ask him anything I wanted to know.

So if she texts every once in a while, it’s a sign that she likes you.

But do not make her wait. Let your conversation flow naturally. Do not think about who sent the last text message. You can just message her whenever you want.

3. She laughs her head off at your jokes

couple sitting in cafe having coffee

You’ll probably agree that not all jokes are funny, right?

But every time you send her something funny on Facebook or any other social network, she responds with “LOL” or “hahahaha,” accompanied by a lot of emojis.

And when you go out with her and make a funny joke, she laughs her head off.

Has this happened to you too?

If so, she likes you. Don’t worry, when she laughs at your every joke; it’s not a pity laugh. Instead, she finds you amusing and interesting and enjoys spending time with you, whether virtually or in person.

4. She puts off everything to see you

How many important things have you put off just to text her or see her?

Other things do not seem to exist when you have strong feelings for someone. Every day you just wait for her to text or call; you can’t stop thinking about her, and everything else becomes less important.

Isn’t that sweet and weird at the same time? Yeah, but it’s called love, my friend.

Here is how to find out that you are her top priority.

• If her sister or her mother calls her while she’s with you, and she puts off those obligations and does not rush home, you know she adores you.

• If she does not go out with her friends on Saturday night like she usually does but stays home to text with you.

• When she sends you more messages than usual during the day.

• When you are the first person she sends good morning texts to and the last person she talks to before bed.

5. She always happens to be where you are

You decided to go bowling with your friends, and then you happen to meet her there. The next day, you are in a coffee shop with your brother, but you also notice her sitting at another table with friends.

Isn’t that too coincidental?

Don’t you get the impression that she has turned into a “little stalker” and is following you everywhere?

Unless the universe has decided that the two of you will always meet in some way, there is only one explanation: she is doing it on purpose because that girl likes you.

6. She is shy around you

young couple talking

Have you ever noticed that she blushes when you compliment her, that she smiles shyly, or that she gets a little nervous when she’s with you?

This is quite normal and yet another telltale sign that she is developing feelings for you. When we are around someone we like, we all get a little nervous, don’t we?

Shyness is perfectly normal. It mixes with feelings of happiness, excitement, and satisfaction when you are with the person you like.

If you often catch her staring at you, smiling in a shy manner, and confirming what you say, do not interpret it as a sign of disinterest.

On the contrary, that shy girl likes you a lot.

7. She tells her best friend about you

Women’s Rule Number One: If my best friend does not know about you, you are not on my list of interesting people.

Unlike the male population, female friends share all the interesting details of their lives and stories.

Although women are good at keeping secrets, it’s hard not to tell your best friend about someone you like and text every day.

If your crush’s best friend greets you often, it’s a clear sign that she’s been talking about you. This is another indication that she is developing feelings for you.

8. She’s your number one fan on social media

Not only does she follow you, but she likes your Instagram stories, comments on your selfies, and uses your jokes.

It’s normal to have each other as friends on social media when you are talking on a daily basis, but when it happens that she likes all your photos and your DMs are full of her reactions to your stories, you know she has feelings for you.

The more she likes you, the more DMs and reactions you will get.

9. She tries hard to impress you

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When a woman falls in love, she will go to any length to impress you and prove herself to you.

She dresses up, thinks about her appearance, and strives to present the best version of herself in front of you.

Not only that, but she’s certainly more than meets the eye. If she wants to impress you, she will also challenge you to clever tasks to show you how smart she is.

These are all subtle ways she shows you that she likes you. After all, it’s in human nature to want to impress those we care about.

10. She shares her secrets with you

Women never reveal their secrets or problems to anyone they do not trust.

If she frequently talks to you about problems and things that are bothering her, know you have gained her complete trust.

She sees you as someone to lean on, and she trusts you completely.

Is there anything more beautiful than trust between partners? No, I don’t think so. It is undeniably a sign that she likes you and sees herself with no one else but you.

11. She always speaks well of you

Another giveaway that she is really into you is when she speaks highly of you in front of her friends.

If you are the right person for her, she will always have nice words for you. If she often praises you or makes a nice comment, these are certainly the most obvious signs she is developing feelings for you.

When you love someone and feel comfortable in their company, you will always talk about that person, even if you are not together at the moment.

12. It is all about the little things

woman sitting on sofa typing on phone

If she has ever tried to win your attention with small gestures, gifts, kind words, or asking about your well-being, you are undoubtedly the one for her.

We all love to make our loved ones happy with small gestures. And if she has recently made you happy with a small gesture, gift, or kind message, then you know you are the person she cares about.

“It’s the little things that count.”

13. She teases you endlessly

Teasing is a good sign that she is interested in you. It’s usually accompanied by laughter, jokes, and physical contact.

If she is often playful in your company, likes to touch your neck, play with your hair, laugh with you, and crack jokes at your expense, then feel free to tease her. Why? Because all of these are surefire signs that there is more than friendship between the two of you.

14. She touches you

You laugh, she laughs and touches your leg… a coincidence? I think not!

Hardly any woman would break the physical barrier if she didn’t like you.

But if she is developing romantic feelings for you, it is very likely that she will grab your cheeks, grasp your hand, run her fingers through your hair, allow you to enter her personal space, etc.

If she touches you a lot or teases you, it means she really likes you.

15. She insists on spending time alone with you

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Has she ever asked you to take her home, or perhaps suggested that you go to the movies just the two of you?

If she often insists on hanging out and spending time with you, that’s a good sign that she’s developing feelings for you and wants to get to know you better.

16. She flirts with you

The more she flirts with you, the more she likes you.

If a woman is not flirting with you, it is a sure thing that she is not attracted to you.

However, if you notice her smiling at you a lot, biting her lip, playing with her curls, or making eye contact, you know that this is a sign of attraction and that she’s flirting because… she likes you.

17. She uses terms of endearment

Terms of endearment are ways of referring to people you care about; your boyfriend, girlfriend, family, and friends.

These terms are also used for people you don’t know very well but like.

Honey, babe, sweetie, boo…

If she is sending you cute texts and includes one of these terms, know that she is really into you.

18. She’s a bit jealous of other girls

sad woman sitting on sofa looking away

When in love, we are all a little jealous because we are afraid someone else will snatch our potential partner away.

Does she act overly protective when you are in the company of other girls?

If so, you can be sure she likes you and wants you for herself.

19. She trusts you

Has she ever shed a tear in front of you and confided in you when something was troubling her?

Women never show emotions and feelings in front of someone they do not trust and feel comfortable with.

If she has ever been upset or sad and shared that with you, it means she trusts you and sees you as a person she can count on.

20. She admits she is wrong

Women find it very hard to apologize when they do something wrong because it’s difficult to swallow their pride. Been there, done that.

However, when she says sorry and admits that she is wrong, then it is a clear sign she cares about you and your feelings.

How Do You Tell If A Girl Is Confused About Her Feelings For You?

young couple at cafe having coffee

So you are head over heels in love with her, but her behavior is sometimes up and down, and you cannot tell exactly how she feels about you.

Maybe there is more to her feelings and personal life than meets the eye.

Does she like you or not? It could be both.

However, here are some ways to tell if she has confused feelings for you:

• She still has feelings for another guy.

• She changes her mind like her clothes.

• She avoids answering personal questions.

• You are not the only one she flirts with.

• She turns serious questions into jokes.

• She never has time for you.

How Do You Know If A Girl Is Hiding Her Feelings?

Women are sometimes hard to read, and their behavior might be confusing to a man.

But how do you know if she’s hiding her feelings? While we have already listed the signs that indicate she’s developing feelings for you, here are some important body language hints that mean she secretly likes you:

She makes eye contact.

• She touches her hair and face.

• She touches you.

• She laughs and smiles a lot.

• She adjusts her clothes.

• She turns her body towards you while you’re talking.

How Do You Know If A Girl Is Playing Mind Games?

man and woman looking at each other

Do women play mind games? Yes, and they do it much more often than men.

But that does not necessarily mean they manipulate men – quite the opposite. A woman usually uses tactics and games when she feels something for a man and wants to get his attention and eventually win him over.

You have probably noticed that she sometimes plays with your feelings, but it is still important to know what the most popular women’s games are:

• She avoids eye contact with you.

• She makes you wait for her messages.

• The first time you ask her out, she won’t go.

• She is playing the “I am not interested in you” game.

• The “do whatever you want” trap.

• She flirts with others to make you jealous.

If you want to know more about mind games that women often use, CLICK HERE.

Wrapping It Up

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I’m no relationship expert, but I do know that men frequently struggle to read women and determine their true feelings.

Dating and romantic relationships are very complex because human behavior is complicated in itself.

There are many subtle ways to notice if she likes you.

However, body language signs play the biggest role here.

You can conclude a lot from them. If she often makes eye contact with you, plays with her hair while talking to you, or winks at you, know that these are obvious signs she is developing feelings and a romantic interest for you.

Noticing several of the signs from this list is helpful when you’re trying to figure out whether she is into you.

The more signs you notice, the clearer the picture will become.